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Floyd R. Turbo

(26,549 posts)
Fri Sep 27, 2019, 08:41 AM Sep 2019

Fifth-grade teachers ban dating to reduce 'broken hearts.' Mom says that's 'my job'

Teachers at an Indiana elementary school raised some eyebrows (and possibly broke some hearts) when they sent a letter to parents of fifth-grade students that included an interesting new rule: No dating allowed.

Fifth graders at Riverside Elementary School in Jeffersonville, Indiana, were given Tuesday and Wednesday "to make sure that relationships have ended," according to a note sent home Wednesday to parents and guardians of students.

The note from the three fifth-grade teachers at Riverside Elementary said that while students are at the age in which "they become interested and develop crushes," it is also the age that "hearts can get broken quickly."

"At this age, children are dating and breaking up within days of each other. This leads to many broken hearts, which carry over into the classroom," the teachers wrote. "To combat students having broken hearts, we have implemented a zero dating policy. We are still encouraging our fifth graders to have many friends and to develop strong friendship.

https://www.usatoday.com/story/life/parenting/2019/09/26/indiana-elementary-school-jeffersonville-riverside-no-dating-fifth-grade-students/3776434002/

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Fifth-grade teachers ban dating to reduce 'broken hearts.' Mom says that's 'my job' (Original Post) Floyd R. Turbo Sep 2019 OP
What does a date between 10 and 11 year olds look like? Arkansas Granny Sep 2019 #1
At my granddaughters pre-K lil friendships involve some handholding and hugs empedocles Sep 2019 #3
This is a whole new world. When I was in 5th grade, I thought boys still had cooties. catbyte Sep 2019 #2
They did. Especially between their toes! Floyd R. Turbo Sep 2019 #4
I still think about my 4th grade crush exboyfil Sep 2019 #5
"Dating" in 5th grade? whathehell Sep 2019 #6
Exactly! GemDigger Sep 2019 #10
It's like some of these interior states are in another country. dewsgirl Sep 2019 #7
Dating in fifth grade? The Velveteen Ocelot Sep 2019 #8
They can't "date" at school so do the teachers think blueinredohio Sep 2019 #9
Damn. My parents took dating so seriously they never met anyone I dated but my wife. I was 27. hunter Sep 2019 #11

exboyfil

(17,863 posts)
5. I still think about my 4th grade crush
Fri Sep 27, 2019, 08:52 AM
Sep 2019

She put me straight by introducing me to her older boyfriend.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,735 posts)
8. Dating in fifth grade?
Fri Sep 27, 2019, 10:07 AM
Sep 2019

I guess times have changed. When I was in fifth grade the consensus was that boys were icky and had cooties. The concept of actually liking one was beyond my comprehension.

blueinredohio

(6,797 posts)
9. They can't "date" at school so do the teachers think
Fri Sep 27, 2019, 10:16 AM
Sep 2019

any normal parent would let their 10 year old date? My 9year old granddaughter comes home and says "Susie" is going with "Johnny". I ask her where they're going. She thinks liking each other means you're going together.

hunter

(38,317 posts)
11. Damn. My parents took dating so seriously they never met anyone I dated but my wife. I was 27.
Fri Sep 27, 2019, 12:31 PM
Sep 2019

By then I figured it was safe.

In elementary, middle, or even high school it would have been THE END OF THE WORLD.


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