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CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 02:15 PM Oct 2019

I'm going to become a silver fox!

I've got lots of grey hair that I want to brighten up and my hairdresser is going to try a "silver wash."

This is the effect I want (that's a model, not me btw)



I'm thrilled because I like my grey and wish I could just get grey all over!

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I'm going to become a silver fox! (Original Post) CTyankee Oct 2019 OP
It pleases my eye. WheelWalker Oct 2019 #1
Pretty color! redwitch Oct 2019 #2
Very attractive! Ohiogal Oct 2019 #3
I prefer gray to orange Cartoonist Oct 2019 #4
Brownish orange? hlthe2b Oct 2019 #6
Kind of a copper hue Cartoonist Oct 2019 #10
Yes, there is... TruckFump Oct 2019 #14
Attractive.. I've always been enthralled by women who look so good with gray hair. hlthe2b Oct 2019 #5
Let us know how it turns out. dixiegrrrrl Oct 2019 #7
My hairdresser said there are two ways: the silver wash and something that sounded more like CTyankee Oct 2019 #9
Colors will do it. True Blue American Oct 2019 #18
Dark sienna brown .....dark brown hues...will work, perhaps dixiegrrrrl Oct 2019 #64
Maybe you're part Apaloosa pony. Their colors commonly reverse as they age: tblue37 Oct 2019 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Oct 2019 #31
I have always thought of Northern & Western Europeans as Appaloosas. They start out so tblue37 Oct 2019 #32
This message was self-deleted by its author Chin music Oct 2019 #33
Are you Italian-American, too? nt tblue37 Oct 2019 #36
Some hair never turns completely. True Blue American Oct 2019 #8
Nothing looks so harsh True Blue American Oct 2019 #11
AMEN!!!!! TruckFump Oct 2019 #13
That is the one True Blue American Oct 2019 #15
With grey roots LakeArenal Oct 2019 #34
And in 2 weeks they have a half inch skunk stripe TexasBushwhacker Oct 2019 #62
I'm going to turn 65 in June. I started turning gray when I was 24 & I've been dying my hair catbyte Oct 2019 #58
My neigbor of 20 some years True Blue American Oct 2019 #59
Highlights help the transition to gray. blogslut Oct 2019 #63
I love my gray hair! TruckFump Oct 2019 #12
:) True Blue American Oct 2019 #16
Lovely. Aristus Oct 2019 #17
I am surprised how many men marry women older than them. Works well, too. True Blue American Oct 2019 #19
Mrs. Aristus is eight years older. Aristus Oct 2019 #20
See?:) True Blue American Oct 2019 #39
I just ordered some kick ass boots to complete the "look." CTyankee Oct 2019 #21
I'm sure he does... Aristus Oct 2019 #22
OMG, TexasTowelie Oct 2019 #52
Oh, you kid! True Blue American Oct 2019 #40
Beautiful! MuseRider Oct 2019 #23
I have that base of brown hair. Hoping the silver wash will help it along... CTyankee Oct 2019 #24
I hope so too! MuseRider Oct 2019 #25
You name it True Blue American Oct 2019 #41
I love my silvery hair. Polly Hennessey Oct 2019 #26
That's lovely. I hope you get similar results. Let us know. nt tblue37 Oct 2019 #27
thanks. will do. CTyankee Oct 2019 #29
Envious! madamesilverspurs Oct 2019 #30
I dyed my hair purple back in 2008. LakeArenal Oct 2019 #35
I had purple once. True Blue American Oct 2019 #44
I loved it. But it got pretty over done. LakeArenal Oct 2019 #46
Purple and orange 2naSalit Oct 2019 #51
My wife had beautiful deep blue hair Codeine Oct 2019 #60
😉 LakeArenal Oct 2019 #61
Platinum hair color is hot right now dlk Oct 2019 #37
Yep. Where have I been that I missed it til now? CTyankee Oct 2019 #38
Every day is a new beginning... dlk Oct 2019 #42
Silver Threads True Blue American Oct 2019 #43
Given the nonstop insanity of Trump & co., following hair color trends can easily be forgotten dlk Oct 2019 #48
Really? Cuz that's sorta what mine looks like LakeArenal Oct 2019 #47
if I didn't dye my hair MED BROWN .... this would be me. trueblue2007 Oct 2019 #45
If you color your own hair, I like the Schwarzkopf brand dlk Oct 2019 #49
Are You going to import coke the way Zachary Swan did? Wolf Frankula Oct 2019 #50
This sixty year-old was a ninety-day wonder a while back: Aristus Oct 2019 #53
Wow. Who is she? CTyankee Oct 2019 #54
I forgot her name. But she signed a modeling contract at age sixty. Aristus Oct 2019 #56
I tell all my friends that I married a younger man... CTyankee Oct 2019 #57
Very pretty lillypaddle Oct 2019 #55
Witch Hair !!! Iggo Oct 2019 #65
No. I call it Miranda Priestly hair... CTyankee Oct 2019 #66

hlthe2b

(102,292 posts)
5. Attractive.. I've always been enthralled by women who look so good with gray hair.
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 02:40 PM
Oct 2019

Unfortunately, that doesn't seem to be in my genes... If you have the right complexion "coloring" it can be extremely flattering.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
7. Let us know how it turns out.
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 02:44 PM
Oct 2019

And especially how they do it, please.

As an aside...I have about a 1 inch wide streak of hair on my forehead which started turning grey around age 35. Weird, huh? rest of my hair was basically light brown.
Weirder is, as I have gotten older and greyer, that patch now has been getting darker and darker brown.
wish I knew what the secret is.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
9. My hairdresser said there are two ways: the silver wash and something that sounded more like
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 02:52 PM
Oct 2019

a dye. We both chose the former to see how we liked it but with less permanent results. If I like the wash we'll do that ever so often. It's $50 a shot but I might be able to transition to a product I can buy on line and just wash into my hair like a regular shampoo.

This is exciting. I'm investing in a few new clothes that the grey hair will look sensational with. Like deep purples and silver whites, black, and vivid blue.

I'll keep away from orange, yellow and brown.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
64. Dark sienna brown .....dark brown hues...will work, perhaps
Sun Oct 27, 2019, 05:31 PM
Oct 2019


I'm like you, the deep jewel tone palette works best for me.

Now I'm thinking of a trip to the beauty parlor....

tblue37

(65,403 posts)
28. Maybe you're part Apaloosa pony. Their colors commonly reverse as they age:
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 04:21 PM
Oct 2019

Appaloosa foal:




Appaloosa adult:

Response to tblue37 (Reply #28)

tblue37

(65,403 posts)
32. I have always thought of Northern & Western Europeans as Appaloosas. They start out so
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 04:36 PM
Oct 2019

blond, but then as adults they are often brunette.

I am half Sicilian and half Anglo, but my siblings and I kept our childhood hair color as adults.

But one of my kids started off as a cornsilk blond, and then his hair turned medium brown by his mid teens. (My kids' dad is half French, half Swedish.)

Response to tblue37 (Reply #32)

True Blue American

(17,986 posts)
15. That is the one
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 03:26 PM
Oct 2019

Thing that kills me. Coal black hair and loads of make up.

I am lucky that I have curl but it is dry. I use a light squirt of oil. Really makes it shine.

catbyte

(34,402 posts)
58. I'm going to turn 65 in June. I started turning gray when I was 24 & I've been dying my hair
Sun Oct 27, 2019, 12:26 PM
Oct 2019

ever since. I'm tempted to let myself just go gray, but don't know how to do it without looking ridiculous or shaving my head. Needless to say, I'm 100% gray. I'm over 1/2 Native American so my hair is dark brown but thin and fine. I'm getting so tired of dying my hair every 4-6 weeks and my grays are dye-resistant so I have to leave the dye on twice as long as recommended and even then it always comes out a little lighter than the rest of my hair. My mom had gorgeous silver hair and I've noticed that my roots look a lot like hers was.

Does anybody have any suggestions?

True Blue American

(17,986 posts)
59. My neigbor of 20 some years
Sun Oct 27, 2019, 01:20 PM
Oct 2019

Had died her hair for years. Went natural,s Snow White. Saw her at the grocery ,took a minute to recognize her. It is beautiful.

blogslut

(38,002 posts)
63. Highlights help the transition to gray.
Sun Oct 27, 2019, 02:27 PM
Oct 2019

The streaks of blond blend better with the gray and the line of demarcation between new growth and old growth is less visible.

TruckFump

(5,812 posts)
12. I love my gray hair!
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 03:16 PM
Oct 2019

I have very dark brown hair and with a "halo" of gray only at the front. I get compliments all the time about my hair ever since I stopped tinting my hair to cover the gray. I love not having "roots" to deal with and not having the tint turn that ugly color of red-brown when it grew out while the roots after being colored were dark.

I love it and I think you will, too!

Aristus

(66,386 posts)
17. Lovely.
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 03:29 PM
Oct 2019

I never understood middle-aged men who start eyeing young ladies in their twenties. There's such a 'ew' factor there. I've always been more attracted to women my own age or older. Especially women who embrace their maturity instead of moving Heaven and Earth to look twenty again (usually with less-than-convincing results...)

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
21. I just ordered some kick ass boots to complete the "look."
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 03:47 PM
Oct 2019

My husband likes this transition (I married a "younger" man, he's 79 and I'm 80) and I'm having fun with it...

MuseRider

(34,111 posts)
23. Beautiful!
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 03:55 PM
Oct 2019

I have wanted grey hair since I was little, I have always loved it. I had dirty blonde hair all my life and now I am 65 and it is now dark brown. Maybe 6 strands of grey in the back. So I decided to make it grey.

After 3 years of trying my hair started to get really thin, I knew it was time to stop. It first turned kelly green, then the next time blue. My hairdresser is an expert at this stuff, I chose her for that reason. I think she was afraid I would sue her or something. She could never ever get it grey. The best we could do was an ashy platinum. So I am back to a base of dark brown hair with a little ashy blonde on top. I am ok with it but it is nothing close to what I wanted. My grandmother is the only person in my family to make it out of their 40's, 50's and 60's, she was 91, but she dyed her hair all her life so I have no clue. My mother died at my age and she barely had grey and my father died in his early 50's and his had a little but I guess I will not get it unless I outlive them all....I have now except for my grandmother.

SO hooray for you, it is a beautiful color!

True Blue American

(17,986 posts)
41. You name it
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 05:54 PM
Oct 2019

I have been there, but finally had a hairdresser who gave me Champagne Blond. Loved it but the day I retired was the day I went natural.

Just had it cut yesterday. Once a month, 15, 20 minutes, out the door!

Polly Hennessey

(6,799 posts)
26. I love my silvery hair.
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 04:12 PM
Oct 2019

So glad I let it grow out. My hair dresser uses the silver highlight wash. Fabulous.

madamesilverspurs

(15,805 posts)
30. Envious!
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 04:27 PM
Oct 2019

Tried a while back and wound up with Bozo orange! Seems one or more of my meds had something to do with that unfortunate outcome. At least it was at a time when I was mostly homebound. Sheesh. Hope yours turns out exactly as you want it!


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LakeArenal

(28,820 posts)
35. I dyed my hair purple back in 2008.
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 04:43 PM
Oct 2019

People thought I was nuts.

My standard reply was, It’s just hair. Never permanent. So.... chill.

Anyway mine is more like Chris Mathews.
Trying to be white. My dad had beautiful white hair.

I went silver last month and I love it.

2naSalit

(86,646 posts)
51. Purple and orange
Sat Oct 26, 2019, 01:08 AM
Oct 2019

are amazingly common in my town. Really, I see women of all ages, and young girls, with purple, kool-aid green, orange and lemon yellow when I go to the grocery or whatever. It's pretty normal... unless they all tried to color their hair with unanticipated results.

 

Codeine

(25,586 posts)
60. My wife had beautiful deep blue hair
Sun Oct 27, 2019, 01:23 PM
Oct 2019

for a long time, and my daughter currently has a coral-pink color going on. Back before nature stole my hair I often dyed it maroon or black.

It all grows out (or in my case falls out) so enjoy it and have fun!

dlk

(11,569 posts)
48. Given the nonstop insanity of Trump & co., following hair color trends can easily be forgotten
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 09:39 PM
Oct 2019

LakeArenal

(28,820 posts)
47. Really? Cuz that's sorta what mine looks like
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 07:08 PM
Oct 2019

Blonde trying to be white but stuck in kinda yellow.

dlk

(11,569 posts)
49. If you color your own hair, I like the Schwarzkopf brand
Fri Oct 25, 2019, 09:52 PM
Oct 2019

They do the best blondes. They also do other colors well. They have a toll free number you can call with questions and for recommendations.

Wolf Frankula

(3,601 posts)
50. Are You going to import coke the way Zachary Swan did?
Sat Oct 26, 2019, 12:57 AM
Oct 2019

The Silver Fox in Richard Sabbag's Snowblind.

Wolf

Aristus

(66,386 posts)
56. I forgot her name. But she signed a modeling contract at age sixty.
Sun Oct 27, 2019, 12:09 PM
Oct 2019

She has also posed for photos in a bikini. She has definitely taken care of herself. Her current amour is a younger, very lucky man...

Iggo

(47,558 posts)
65. Witch Hair !!!
Sun Oct 27, 2019, 07:30 PM
Oct 2019

I remember when my niece was about 7 or 8 or 9 or 10 and her grandma had this beautiful long-ish silver hair and my niece proclaimed, "I can't wait 'til I get witch hair!"

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