Are You Socially Awkward, or Just "Spiritually Finnish?"
Back in my youth, I was in a Summer Student Exchange program where I lived with a Finnish family for 6 weeks .... I found this phenomenon of Finnish introversion to be basically true! I still keep in touch with the girl whose family I lived with.
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If you find it awkward to make small talk, you may be jingfen (精芬 or spiritually Finnish. Thats the newly coined Chinese buzzword for a burgeoning identity taking hold among millennials.
The term jingfen is inspired by a comic from Finland called Finnish Nightmares, starring a cartoon figure named Matti who prefers minimal contact and avoids social situations. His creator Karoliina Korhonen describes Matti as a stereotypical Finn who appreciates peace, quiet and personal space. Matti tries his best to do unto others as he wishes to be done unto him: to give space, be polite and not bother with unnecessary chit chat.
I can't copy the cartoon, but there is more at the link....
https://getpocket.com/explore/item/are-you-socially-awkward-or-just-spiritually-finnish?utm_source=pocket-newtab