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Phoenix61

(17,006 posts)
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 03:55 AM Jan 2020

My buddy Spot

Spot kitty has been my buddy for almost twenty years. He got his name Spot because as a kitten he looked like a black spot on the floor. He grew to be a fierce 16 pounds of feline majesty. He has really slowed down the past few months. I have him on CBD oil and it’s helping but... he’s not eating much and is losing weight. Sometimes being the grownup and doing the right thing really sucks.

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My buddy Spot (Original Post) Phoenix61 Jan 2020 OP
I'm really sorry because it is hard KT2000 Jan 2020 #1
Sounds like Spot has had a great life ! alittlelark Jan 2020 #2
I'm laying in bed reading this with my girl curled up next to me. Fla Dem Jan 2020 #3
It is so hard to face. murielm99 Jan 2020 #4
I have had many cats (and 2 dogs) over a 76 year span. pazzyanne Jan 2020 #5
... Duppers Jan 2020 #6
Watching my 19 year old Little Girl closely today. Midnight Writer Jan 2020 #7
I'm so sorry. nt Phoenix61 Jan 2020 #8
So hard to make the call. This morning she got up in the windowsill to lay in the sun. Midnight Writer Jan 2020 #9

KT2000

(20,584 posts)
1. I'm really sorry because it is hard
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 04:12 AM
Jan 2020

I guess doing the right thing is in a small way paying them back for all the love and healing they gave us. Peace to you at this difficult time.

alittlelark

(18,890 posts)
2. Sounds like Spot has had a great life !
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 04:15 AM
Jan 2020

It is very difficult to watch them decline, and in my experience it is almost always in the winter. If they make it to Spring they bounce back.

I had Spot Kitty as well, she was mostly white with a few big spots - a very sweet girl. My 20 yr old Ricki is an orange tabby that has noticeably slowed this winter as well.

Fur babies make life so joyful - but we know there will be loss and pain. It's all worth it for the love and companionship they give us.

Give Spot big hugs and treats - btw, the CBD oil is always a good thing !

Best to you and Spot from Ricki and me.

Fla Dem

(23,691 posts)
3. I'm laying in bed reading this with my girl curled up next to me.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 04:24 AM
Jan 2020

She’ll be 14 in Feb and I can’t imagine my life without her. Whatever path you and Spot choose, I know it will be the best for her. Peace to you both.

murielm99

(30,745 posts)
4. It is so hard to face.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 04:48 AM
Jan 2020

We had to help our beloved Claudia kitty across the bridge at sixteen. Our dog Kinsey left us just before Thanksgiving at fourteen and a half. We miss them. I don't know if I want any more pets.

Remember all the good times you had together.

pazzyanne

(6,556 posts)
5. I have had many cats (and 2 dogs) over a 76 year span.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 06:47 AM
Jan 2020

Each one of them has left paw prints on my heart. For each of my fur babies, I have made the pledge to do the compassionate thing when the time comes to make the ultimate decision. It is hard, but it is also the most loving act when life becomes too painful for our cuddle buddies. Blessing being sent to you and to Spot. ~ Halle (8 yrs), Teddy (8 yrs), Feisty (20 months), Rebel (6 months), and me.

*All of mine are rescues. Halle and Teddy came to me as week old kittens, Feisty showed up on my doorstep as a 4-5 week old sick kitten that is now a healthy active cat, and Rebel was born to a feral mom cat (Baby Girl) late in the summer. He was very small and not very healthy, so he came into my house where his diet was more controlled and he's on L-lysine for immune system support. He has recovered and has added lots of kitten energy to the household.

Midnight Writer

(21,768 posts)
7. Watching my 19 year old Little Girl closely today.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 04:38 PM
Jan 2020

Would not eat yesterday, moping and sleeping and very inactive.

Dread what is to come. Can't sleep.

Midnight Writer

(21,768 posts)
9. So hard to make the call. This morning she got up in the windowsill to lay in the sun.
Sun Jan 26, 2020, 04:44 PM
Jan 2020

Difficult to determine "quality of life".

I've been through this many times, with many loving pets, but it is never easy.

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