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femmedem

(8,208 posts)
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 11:00 PM Feb 2020

Before Christmas I posted about getting a robotic cat for my mother

Earlier this week she fell and broke her hip. Her stay in the hospital is so much better because she has her cat with her.

If it weren't a violation of her privacy, I would share a photo of her cradling it in her arms.

She's doing pretty well. I was worried that the anesthesia would accelerate her Alzheimer's or that she would get delirium, but she hasn't declined at all. Maybe the cat is making her hospital stay less traumatic?

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Before Christmas I posted about getting a robotic cat for my mother (Original Post) femmedem Feb 2020 OP
So nice to hear,... magicarpet Feb 2020 #1
So nice that her love for kitties (real or otherwise) is bringing her comfort. hlthe2b Feb 2020 #2
Thanks, hlthe2b. n/t femmedem Feb 2020 #17
Sorry about her fall... wcmagumba Feb 2020 #3
I'm sorry to hear that your mom is doing poorly. femmedem Feb 2020 #16
I hope your mom recovers quickly! JudyM Feb 2020 #4
Yes, the cat purrs in response to some touch. femmedem Feb 2020 #14
Thank you for posting a positive story and best wishes. CaptYossarian Feb 2020 #5
Thank you for this. PoindexterOglethorpe Feb 2020 #6
Sometimes I joke that I will need four or five robotic cats to feel at home femmedem Feb 2020 #15
I definitely remember your post. Dem2theMax Feb 2020 #7
Thanks. Flying out and spending time with her femmedem Feb 2020 #18
I think losing her foster kitten that my dad rescued off the streeaccelerated her parkinsonss pansypoo53219 Feb 2020 #8
Painting Fritz was a great idea. femmedem Feb 2020 #19
It was a great idea and I'm sure it's helping her!❤ Karadeniz Feb 2020 #9
I love that not only do we discuss politics Grammy23 Feb 2020 #10
I'm glad we have places on DU where we step away from politics, too. femmedem Feb 2020 #22
Heat warming Joinfortmill Feb 2020 #11
When I was a ward clerk at a long-term care/rehab. center.. Laffy Kat Feb 2020 #12
I'm so glad you posted this because the robotic cats are about $100 femmedem Feb 2020 #20
I would say that is definitely the case Warpy Feb 2020 #13
I agree, hospitals should at least offer them as an option. femmedem Feb 2020 #21

hlthe2b

(102,415 posts)
2. So nice that her love for kitties (real or otherwise) is bringing her comfort.
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 11:05 PM
Feb 2020

Best wishes to you both.

wcmagumba

(2,892 posts)
3. Sorry about her fall...
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 11:07 PM
Feb 2020

but good to hear about the kitty...my mom is in pretty bad shape in a nursing facility and I have been thinking of getting her one of these...take care of yourself and family...peace...

femmedem

(8,208 posts)
16. I'm sorry to hear that your mom is doing poorly.
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 05:32 AM
Feb 2020

If you can afford one and if dementia is part of her health problems, I am almost sure it would bring her comfort.

JudyM

(29,293 posts)
4. I hope your mom recovers quickly!
Sat Feb 8, 2020, 11:27 PM
Feb 2020

I read about robotic cats after you posted in December ... fascinating. The cat “purrs,” right? Real cat purring seems to demonstrate a self-healing mechanism for them.

femmedem

(8,208 posts)
14. Yes, the cat purrs in response to some touch.
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 05:25 AM
Feb 2020

The vibration feels real when you touch its torso. I think that"s a big part of its appeal.
Thanks, JudyM.

PoindexterOglethorpe

(25,908 posts)
6. Thank you for this.
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 12:01 AM
Feb 2020

I am myself a cat person, and while I would hope I'd have a real feline with me, especially in my old age, a robotic one is a fabulous way to go.

femmedem

(8,208 posts)
15. Sometimes I joke that I will need four or five robotic cats to feel at home
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 05:27 AM
Feb 2020

When the day comes that I can no longer take care of the real ones.

Dem2theMax

(9,655 posts)
7. I definitely remember your post.
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 12:03 AM
Feb 2020

I'm so sorry that your mom broke her hip. I hope she will heal quickly. And I would bet that cat does have something to do with keeping her calmer. She has something familiar with her and it is also something for her to focus on.

Hang in there. And don't forget to take care of you while you are taking care of her.

femmedem

(8,208 posts)
18. Thanks. Flying out and spending time with her
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 05:44 AM
Feb 2020

has been much less stressful than staying home and worrying. I was almost shocked, in a good way, by how chipper and lucid she is.

It was harder on Mr. Femmedem because our car died on his way back from the airport.

pansypoo53219

(21,004 posts)
8. I think losing her foster kitten that my dad rescued off the streeaccelerated her parkinsonss
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 12:05 AM
Feb 2020

but fritz got a younger family. + i painted fritz for her.

Grammy23

(5,815 posts)
10. I love that not only do we discuss politics
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 12:53 AM
Feb 2020

and the latest outrage by Tangerine Mussolini, but we can share our stories and offer kindness and support to each other. The robotic cat is such a great idea for those suffering with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia. It has been recommended to get doll babies for Alzheimer’s patients and for some it works better than a drug to calm them, stop grabbing behavior and give them purpose. They can hold the baby, rock it, give it a bottle and cuddle with it. It sounds like the robotic kitty could serve a similar purpose with no allergy issues, no upkeep, no litter box!

Thanks for sharing this idea. This is good, practical information for those involved in elder care.

Laffy Kat

(16,388 posts)
12. When I was a ward clerk at a long-term care/rehab. center..
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 12:59 AM
Feb 2020

I noticed how many women residents had plush animals and/or dolls. They got quite attached to them and were obviously comforted by having them near. I get it. I thought it was wonderful. Whatever it takes.

femmedem

(8,208 posts)
20. I'm so glad you posted this because the robotic cats are about $100
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 05:52 AM
Feb 2020

so it's good to know that plush animals or dolls can have the same effect.

Warpy

(111,374 posts)
13. I would say that is definitely the case
Sun Feb 9, 2020, 01:42 AM
Feb 2020

The cat might be a robot with limited movements and behaviors, but it is something familiar to her and that helps a hell of a lot to keep elderly people grounded in reality in the hospital and other unfamiliar places.

Hell, I think hospitals ought to issue them, robodogs as well as robocats.

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