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catbyte

(34,393 posts)
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 04:54 PM Mar 2020

I'm really beginning to appreciate my INTP personality type. I feel like I've been training for this

quarantine my whole life. I think being an only child helped. I grew up in a neighborhood full of kids and I remember being so relieved when I could go home to my own room in the evening while other kids had to sleep 2 to 3 to a room. I'm happy as a clam being by myself. I have my cats and skype, text, phone, and email friends and loved ones. I putter around the house doing little projects, watch Netflix, Hulu, read, listen to audiobooks, needlepoint. I feel a little guilty.

How are those of you who are extroverts holding up? Seriously, I'm concerned about you. How are you guys handling it? Hang in there, everyone.

https://www.verywellmind.com/intp-introverted-intuitive-thinking-perceiving-2795989

https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/home.htm

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I'm really beginning to appreciate my INTP personality type. I feel like I've been training for this (Original Post) catbyte Mar 2020 OP
Good - I thought I was the only one. onlyadream Mar 2020 #1
I identify with you. Love being in my own house doing what I want to do. northoftheborder Mar 2020 #2
So, you are Luke Skywalker? Cool. 33taw Mar 2020 #3
INTP here, have a sense of what you speak of. A long interest in economic history and empedocles Mar 2020 #4
Got an extrovert in the house and its not going too well. Afromania Mar 2020 #5
I'm an INFJ.....I feel ya. AJT Mar 2020 #6
INFP here... Starseer Mar 2020 #7
I'm an INFP smirkymonkey Mar 2020 #17
Other notable INTP's are: Thos. Jefferson, Abraham Lincoln, Jane Austen, Immanual Kant, empedocles Mar 2020 #8
I'm an INTP, too, and staying home by myself doesn't bother me. The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2020 #9
My only problem... skypilot Mar 2020 #10
This! There are a lot of small venues around Phoenix61 Mar 2020 #13
A couple weeks ago... skypilot Mar 2020 #16
INFP here. I haven't left my property for 19 days and I'm in heaven! Coventina Mar 2020 #11
INTJ here, and I'm doing great. I'm getting lots of stuff done. Everything is quiet, even the Nay Mar 2020 #12
I'm getting down on my do list for a change - feels good. empedocles Mar 2020 #19
I'm also INTP. Buckeye_Democrat Mar 2020 #14
Me too. tanyev Mar 2020 #15
+1 2naSalit Apr 2020 #40
Me too, although I'm an INFP LiberalLoner Mar 2020 #18
I think I have it too, don't know why, elleng Mar 2020 #20
this is a breeze for me Skittles Mar 2020 #21
Hubby and I are not social at all. Not much has changed except.. LAS14 Mar 2020 #22
I forgot mine but recalled it after going thru the choices appalachiablue Apr 2020 #37
INTJ here. My life isn't different then it was before the shelter in place order Kaleva Mar 2020 #23
Not an extrovert, but just rescued/adopted three cats. Wanted two but my wife wiggs Mar 2020 #24
INTJ here and I'm doing fairly well. yardwork Mar 2020 #25
ENTJ brokephibroke Mar 2020 #26
INFP here rustysgurl Mar 2020 #27
this pandemic is a great personality test AlexSFCA Mar 2020 #28
Your description of your life sounds wonderful! DarthDem Mar 2020 #29
INTP also, but stuck with an ESTJ who JenniferJuniper Mar 2020 #30
I never thought of myself as INTP, but by reading Haggis for Breakfast Mar 2020 #31
from another INTP: Yep, no worries here. catrose Mar 2020 #32
ISFP happybird Mar 2020 #33
I love it too. Cracklin Charlie Mar 2020 #34
I've worked from home for the past 20+ years anyway Bayard Apr 2020 #35
Extrovert here! I'm on the phone more... Phentex Apr 2020 #36
Another INTJ here. Doc_Technical Apr 2020 #38
Yup. The Rest of My Family? jayfish Apr 2020 #39
Like you, I am an only child and I strongly relate to what you've written. Different Drummer Apr 2020 #41

onlyadream

(2,166 posts)
1. Good - I thought I was the only one.
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 04:56 PM
Mar 2020

This whole thing makes me feel less like shut in since I HAVE to be a shut in,lol.

Cheers to us introverts!

empedocles

(15,751 posts)
4. INTP here, have a sense of what you speak of. A long interest in economic history and
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 05:00 PM
Mar 2020

T-bills, helps with the equanimity also.

[Still the shock of change, still needs integration here].

Afromania

(2,768 posts)
5. Got an extrovert in the house and its not going too well.
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 05:01 PM
Mar 2020

Me on the other hand haven't merely been adopted the isolation. I was born in it, molded by it. I didn't smell the freshness of outside air until I was already a man, by then it was nothing to me but stank.

AJT

(5,240 posts)
6. I'm an INFJ.....I feel ya.
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 05:02 PM
Mar 2020

Being alone and reading, or whatever is fine with me. I'm not sure how well I'd do if I was locked up with kids... mine are all grown.

Starseer

(72 posts)
7. INFP here...
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 05:10 PM
Mar 2020

I, too, have wondered how my extroverted friends are doing! The ones I have good contact with (a couple of ENFPs) have confessed to me that they are finding refuge in online gaming of all types and becoming immersed in social media to an even larger extent than before. It's been really hard on them but I'm trying to be more extroverted and make sure I talk with them often. I might be turning into a bit of an ambivert.

Preparing my college classes to go online after this week. Been quite a challenge, but I think I have a decent hold on what I'd like to do for the few weeks we have until the end of the term. Trying to reassure my students (particularly the extroverts among the graduating degree recipients) that I will do my best to take care of them academically -- just need them to work with me, give me a few hours of their time each week. Then they can go do whatever they need/want to do in order to maintain their sanity.

BTW, if you're an Enneagram person, too, I'm a 4. Pretty balanced 5 and 3 wings. A little unusual for an academic, but I find that it does give me quite a different perspective than many in my field. =)

Hope you and yours are well!

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
17. I'm an INFP
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 06:35 PM
Mar 2020

And an Enneagram type 4 w/ 5 and 9 coming in at 2nd and 3rd place respectively.

This isn't hard for me at all. I am actually kind of enjoying it and if I need social interaction I call, email or text (kind of hate texting -last resort) people, but I am WFH during the day and there is plenty to keep me engaged at other times.

BTW, Welcome to DU!

empedocles

(15,751 posts)
8. Other notable INTP's are: Thos. Jefferson, Abraham Lincoln, Jane Austen, Immanual Kant,
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 05:10 PM
Mar 2020

Hannah Arendt, Franz Kafka.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,719 posts)
9. I'm an INTP, too, and staying home by myself doesn't bother me.
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 05:27 PM
Mar 2020

What does bother me is that I can't do some of the things I was doing and really enjoyed - I belonged to a small vocal ensemble and I miss those rehearsals and performances. I was taking an art class, and while I can paint at home I valued the instuctors' guidance. I'm a Master Gardener, and although I can still work in the garden, all the conferences and workshops have been canceled. I can still take voice lessons via a Skype-type connection, and I think my foreign language class will continue via Zoom in a couple of weeks. But these are problems of privilege and I could cope anyhow.

Right now I'm suffering from gloom and ennui just because of the sheer magnitude of the disaster. The cats are keeping me company, but they are elderly and sleep a lot, even for cats. I'm hoping to get my sh*t together before long and work on some long-neglected projects. Right now I'm very glad not to be an extrovert because I'm not lonely - just kind of sad, and occasionally angry.

skypilot

(8,854 posts)
10. My only problem...
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 05:28 PM
Mar 2020

...is that I would love to go out to a bar for a drink. I am pretty introverted but I do like to be around people for a bit even if I'm not interacting with them. And I don't really care much for drinking at home alone.

Phoenix61

(17,006 posts)
13. This! There are a lot of small venues around
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 06:08 PM
Mar 2020

here and the spring music scene was just starting to kick off. Miss popping into all of them for a beer and hanging with friends.

skypilot

(8,854 posts)
16. A couple weeks ago...
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 06:28 PM
Mar 2020

...I saw some news footage of 6th Street in Austin TX. Everything shut down, 6th Street like a ghost town. Broke my heart.

Coventina

(27,120 posts)
11. INFP here. I haven't left my property for 19 days and I'm in heaven!
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 05:50 PM
Mar 2020

I couldn't be happier except for a mild case of flu. (Diagnosed via phone call from my doctor).

I've been out the front door only to get my mail.

I've been enjoying the backyard with my dog when I need some fresh air and sunshine.

Nay

(12,051 posts)
12. INTJ here, and I'm doing great. I'm getting lots of stuff done. Everything is quiet, even the
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 05:56 PM
Mar 2020

streets. I and Mr Nay are both older with moderate health conditions, so we don't need to go out and get this stupid virus.

I do miss my water aerobics classes, though -- so good for the arthritis!

Buckeye_Democrat

(14,854 posts)
14. I'm also INTP.
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 06:12 PM
Mar 2020

It hasn’t been a struggle for me either.

I’ve been very happy to watch a variety of online science videos during my isolation, for example.

tanyev

(42,559 posts)
15. Me too.
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 06:22 PM
Mar 2020

If it weren’t for the fact that every trip to the grocery store feels like a life and death spin of the roulette wheel, I could do this for quite some time.

LiberalLoner

(9,762 posts)
18. Me too, although I'm an INFP
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 06:44 PM
Mar 2020

But I’m more than happy to just stay at home and be alone. For like, years at a time.

elleng

(130,933 posts)
20. I think I have it too, don't know why,
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 08:30 PM
Mar 2020

mother died when I was young, moved to another town, had to make/create friendships from whole cloth.

Not feeling guilty at all; enjoying spring + return of ospreys to southern MD.

Skittles

(153,164 posts)
21. this is a breeze for me
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 09:16 PM
Mar 2020

I have always been socially distant - no family in the same state, live alone, work alone, sleep during the day, stay up (and work) all night, etc.....easy

LAS14

(13,783 posts)
22. Hubby and I are not social at all. Not much has changed except..
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 09:42 PM
Mar 2020

... being very careful when getting groceries. I wish I could remember what my Meyers-Briggs type was.

appalachiablue

(41,140 posts)
37. I forgot mine but recalled it after going thru the choices
Wed Apr 1, 2020, 08:39 PM
Apr 2020

on the left side in this link from the OP above. There's only so many characteristics to pick from which helps.

https://www.verywellmind.com/intp-introverted-intuitive-thinking-perceiving-2795989

wiggs

(7,814 posts)
24. Not an extrovert, but just rescued/adopted three cats. Wanted two but my wife
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 10:35 PM
Mar 2020

couldn't part with any so here we are.

Doing fine...cooking, gardening, working, surprisingly not enough time to read or watch favored shows. Behind on reading list and watch list.

Gorgeous sunset in socal tonight.

yardwork

(61,622 posts)
25. INTJ here and I'm doing fairly well.
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 10:54 PM
Mar 2020

I'm working from home, keeping busy. My biggest annoyance is with la-de-da coworkers who spend a lot of time talking and sharing and exclaiming and dreaming up ways to connect via zoom - let's have a funny hat day! - when all I want to do is get my work done and then work in the yard.

Typical INTJ. We're no fun. Lol.

rustysgurl

(1,040 posts)
27. INFP here
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 11:01 PM
Mar 2020

Doing well. I have my mini dachshund, my Kindle, my computer, a DISH subscription, flowers coming up in my backyard and a wonderful husband who makes sure (because of my health issues) that I'm not going ANYWHERE. My kids are all ok and loving me from afar (some further than others, but with a flight back from Brazil on Sunday that little issue will be fixed).

I have friends who are uber-social who are losing their minds.

AlexSFCA

(6,137 posts)
28. this pandemic is a great personality test
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 11:01 PM
Mar 2020

I’d be fine by myself but taking care of kids is not the same as watching netflix all day. I really miss physical activity, I absolutely cannot effectively work out at home, I need power of people in the gym to motivate me.

Haggis for Breakfast

(6,831 posts)
31. I never thought of myself as INTP, but by reading
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 11:25 PM
Mar 2020

all of the posts here, I realize that I am, but not at my choosing.

I've been plagued for forty years with Migraines. Debilitating. So, over the years, I have sought out quiet, cool, often dim-lit rooms just to avoid all the excess noise, light, and smells (and I have ZERO tolerance for the heat). Fortunately, I am a self-starter, a voracious reader and enjoy solitary hobbies/crafts.

I just never realized that I had re-ordered my life this way. But it was a medical necessity.

catrose

(5,067 posts)
32. from another INTP: Yep, no worries here.
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 11:29 PM
Mar 2020

But I don't feel guilty. I've spent my life stewing in social anxiety.

happybird

(4,608 posts)
33. ISFP
Tue Mar 31, 2020, 11:41 PM
Mar 2020

I’ve just been rolling with it: happy to spend time at home reading, messing around on the internet, and hanging with the cats, and enjoying feeling helpful and useful when I go to work. I’ve also enjoyed going on supply runs for my parents. I’m just taking it a day at a time and waiting to see what will happen next.

Bayard

(22,075 posts)
35. I've worked from home for the past 20+ years anyway
Wed Apr 1, 2020, 01:28 AM
Apr 2020

So that aspect is no biggie for me, except business is pretty weird right now. I've always liked my own company, and that of my animals. Mr. Bayard is heading back to work this Thur, out of state, so that's quite worrisome. He's gone for a month at a time, and his company could care less about the health and safety of their employees.

Been doing major work in the gardens, and a friend and I were talking about making a greenhouse shopping trip. Then said, love our gardens, but not ready to die for them.

Just taking my self-isolation to the next level.

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
36. Extrovert here! I'm on the phone more...
Wed Apr 1, 2020, 09:38 AM
Apr 2020

catching up with family and friends and there's no more excuses (from them, poor things).

I'm at home with two introverts but I'm willing to watch Netflix with them more than I used to be. I've talked them into game nights again and I've noticed they linger at the dinner table a little longer.

But I miss my school kids! That's where I got my heart filled up.

Doc_Technical

(3,526 posts)
38. Another INTJ here.
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 01:07 PM
Apr 2020

I'm retired so as long as I have electricity, I'm good.
I have a few hundred LP records, recorded television
programs and movies, and books.

Different Drummer

(7,617 posts)
41. Like you, I am an only child and I strongly relate to what you've written.
Thu Apr 2, 2020, 08:16 PM
Apr 2020

Although I can interact with other people, I prefer to do so at a distance (in online forums like this one, for example). I've developed a lot of online friendships among people with whom I have more in common than I do with many people I know in real life. Among my activities, I play bridge online and spend time reading my Kindle books.

BTW, since you mentioned Myers-Briggs, I'm INFJ.

https://www.verywellmind.com/infj-introverted-intuitive-feeling-judging-2795978

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