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SalmonChantedEvening

(31,952 posts)
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 06:40 PM Dec 2012

A Thank You card to Sagetea.

For making me see beyond a foolish, selfish anger in me, and for reminding me that we all leave marks we never know about, everywhere we go. We also leave marks we do not intend, but that cause pain anyway. I've done that, and I wish I could make it go away, that it never had happened. I'm a lazy pratt, I don't have the energy for doing things to anger intentionally. I do enough of that accidentally as it is. So I flipped. I let me get the better of me, something that never ends well. Then a certain Mr. Pitt did what friends do. He showed me what was going on here, the threads of No, Stop, You Putz, we love your silly ass. Overwhelmed. Still. I will be forever. Then, he showed me your No Words Do It Justice letter. Niagara Falls, Frankie Angel. With all my heart, thank you. It broke me, which is the only way I get better. You made it stop. You fixed things, with an outpouring of love and grief so powerful, that only a great fool, or an even greater idiot would not be moved by it. You fixed me. You may have even fixed DU. Hey, it's Christmastime, anything can happen.

DU, you have a new voice. Treat her better than you treat me. My love and thanks.

Robert John Gatenby

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A Thank You card to Sagetea. (Original Post) SalmonChantedEvening Dec 2012 OP
Welcome back! Suich Dec 2012 #1
It's beautiful. In_The_Wind Dec 2012 #2
What a beautiful post, my dear Bob... CaliforniaPeggy Dec 2012 #3
Hear, hear. nt awoke_in_2003 Dec 2012 #41
I concur with the lovely Mizz Peggy. blm Dec 2012 #74
I concur with the lovely (i assume) blm and the lovely Miss Peggy. DonRedwood Dec 2012 #81
Thank you sir for a lovely, heartfelt post. GoneOffShore Dec 2012 #4
So I can get up early Sunday am, then? dixiegrrrrl Dec 2012 #5
Yes'm. See you then. :) SalmonChantedEvening Dec 2012 #8
Sagetea, please accept my thanks as well. Lady Freedom Returns Dec 2012 #6
so glad it helped you to see the love almost all of DU has for you Kali Dec 2012 #7
See You Sunday MerryBlooms Dec 2012 #9
Glad to hear this. Archae Dec 2012 #10
we all have our moments fizzgig Dec 2012 #11
Welcome home ... meegbear Dec 2012 #12
I just met the sweetest little old lady. Wait Wut Dec 2012 #13
Just beautiful. Arugula Latte Dec 2012 #14
I'm happy! I was already missing you. dmr Dec 2012 #15
Yeah, no kidding, dmr! GREAT NEWS! And a rawther GREAT RELIEF, TOO, SCE!!!!! calimary Dec 2012 #19
needs a cat picture to prove it is really you rurallib Dec 2012 #16
K. :) SalmonChantedEvening Dec 2012 #18
Catfish Hunter? nt 12AngryBorneoWildmen Dec 2012 #44
Mudcat Grant. :) SalmonChantedEvening Dec 2012 #45
As an old Twins fan from way back, I thank you rurallib Dec 2012 #58
Ah, the Mudcat! hifiguy Dec 2012 #82
You're a good man, Charlie Brown. WilliamPitt Dec 2012 #17
YES. GalleryGod Dec 2012 #29
GG? Is that you? Patiod Dec 2012 #68
I'm so glad you are back!!! meti57b Dec 2012 #20
Yes. Sagetea you are a true treasure to have in DU lunatica Dec 2012 #21
Welcome back...nt SidDithers Dec 2012 #22
I am grateful or this happy ending. Thank you for paying attention Mira Dec 2012 #23
Welcome back! Sometimes taking a step back for a couple days and getting some fresh madinmaryland Dec 2012 #24
what a beautiful post! thank you for staying on DU... secondwind Dec 2012 #25
Dammit! Now what am I gonna do with these three ghosts I hired? tclambert Dec 2012 #26
Christmas in London, of course! SalmonChantedEvening Dec 2012 #31
Accolades to the Thankers and to the Thankees... ReRe Dec 2012 #27
Happy Sundays! 840high Dec 2012 #28
So glad you are back. Lilma Dec 2012 #30
Yes, thank you, Sagetea. Curmudgeoness Dec 2012 #32
Welcome back MrScorpio Dec 2012 #33
I will be reminded of this heartfelt and moving yankeepants Dec 2012 #34
Definitely Good News! Good ending, good lessons, good grief! You're a good man, Charlie Brown! AnotherMother4Peace Dec 2012 #35
Welcome back, sir! A-Long-Little-Doggie Dec 2012 #36
I, too, send thanks to Sagetea. Cracklin Charlie Dec 2012 #38
I was so sad to think I'd never get to see Sunday Lolz Cats again.... Its my favorite glowing Dec 2012 #37
Welcome back! KamaAina Dec 2012 #39
Welcome back SalmonChantedEvening!! & Here's a new kitty gif! + some LOL ralps Dec 2012 #40
I am glad you are staying... awoke_in_2003 Dec 2012 #42
Now there's a card I'm happy to sign! Some time ago I initiated an SCE appreciation thread. 11 Bravo Dec 2012 #43
Thank you for honoring us all with this adaptation in your feelings, Robert, Merry Christmas! patrice Dec 2012 #46
Love wins, Baby. Love wins. nolabear Dec 2012 #47
Kermit arms Sweet Freedom Dec 2012 #48
Woohoo! obxhead Dec 2012 #49
Whew! You had me scared for a while. SO-ooo glad you're back. snappyturtle Dec 2012 #50
So glad you're back and day after tomorrow I'll get to see some cute Kitty gifs. Auntie Bush Dec 2012 #51
YEE HAW!!! Skittles Dec 2012 #52
So glad you're staying. The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2012 #53
I had never read LOL Cats. When I finally did, I thought to myself "What a sweet, gentle spirit patricia92243 Dec 2012 #54
Her post was so honest and loving that I knew it would "fix" you. Bless her. And for you rhett o rick Dec 2012 #55
Love you, SCE, and am grateful to Sagetea. Lifelong Protester Dec 2012 #56
I'm so glad to hear it! nt Hun Joro Dec 2012 #57
i was FB msging u like crazy too! NMDemDist2 Dec 2012 #59
I missed all the drama u4ic Dec 2012 #60
LOL Cats on Sunday mornin' DakotaLady Dec 2012 #61
I missed the drama, also... luv_mykatz Dec 2012 #62
...and there was much rejoicing! FloridaJudy Dec 2012 #63
Thank you both! 2naSalit Dec 2012 #64
OK, group hug... kiva Dec 2012 #65
Nothing like a beautiful letter to lift my spirits in the morning. bunnies Dec 2012 #66
SCE, Sagetea. Thank you for conducting a master class sarge43 Dec 2012 #67
I'm so glad that you will stay SCE.... prairierose Dec 2012 #69
Oh, I am so relieved. murielm99 Dec 2012 #70
Wow just Wow, sagetea Dec 2012 #71
Tea sounds lovely. SalmonChantedEvening Dec 2012 #80
Acting like naughty children LiveNudePolitics Dec 2012 #72
SO good to know you're staying. WinstonSmith4740 Dec 2012 #73
Missy and Mu knew you'd stay. Ikonoklast Dec 2012 #75
What a relief libodem Dec 2012 #76
Awwwwwwww! hedgehog Dec 2012 #77
Thanks for hanging around, Robert. It means the world to us. kaiden Dec 2012 #78
HUGE K & R !!! - Thank You !!! WillyT Dec 2012 #79
Critters voteearlyvoteoften Dec 2012 #83
Now I'm getting all weepy before I go to work. OnyxCollie Dec 2012 #84
The people on DU, including SCE and sagetea... derby378 Dec 2012 #85
in honor of LolCats OutofMindOUTBody Dec 2012 #86

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,641 posts)
3. What a beautiful post, my dear Bob...
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 06:47 PM
Dec 2012

Maybe I'm just a sentimental old fool, (more than likely, actually) but your words brought the sting of tears to these old eyes.....

I'm so glad Sagetea found the words to touch you, to break you and then mend.....

Welcome home, sweetie!

Love ya bunches!



dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
5. So I can get up early Sunday am, then?
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 06:53 PM
Dec 2012

Mr. Dixie and I can cackle together over coffee on Sunday, yes?
I told him maybe no more Lolcat Sunday and he had a frown.
I had to add several more rrrrrr s to my name, but now it sounds like I can take them out?

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
6. Sagetea, please accept my thanks as well.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 06:54 PM
Dec 2012

You have, by sharing your own story, started to make many here think. For that I thank you.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
13. I just met the sweetest little old lady.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 07:22 PM
Dec 2012

Every single day, I get more than my share of grumpy ass people walking in my door at work. But, I also get a handful of truly sweet, funny, kind, grateful folks.

Because of her kind and gentle manner, I knocked $10 off the cost of her bill. More than 50%. I love making people smile, when I have the opportunity.

You're one of those people I would go out of my way for. I would work late on a Friday to get something done for you. It doesn't sound like much, but it's all I have. You've given us so much more than pics on a screen. You've brightened our days when darkness was unrelenting.

You have no idea how glad I am that you've decided to stay. It sounds so selfish, but we need you.

calimary

(81,323 posts)
19. Yeah, no kidding, dmr! GREAT NEWS! And a rawther GREAT RELIEF, TOO, SCE!!!!!
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 07:43 PM
Dec 2012

And many great thanks also to Sagetea and of course to the aforementioned individual referred to as "a certain Mr. Pitt."

So I can still chuckle ever time I see that hilarious screen name pop up here? SalmonChantedEvening is one of my all-time favorite screen names! I HATED the thought of your leavning. Just HATED it.

 

hifiguy

(33,688 posts)
82. Ah, the Mudcat!
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 03:36 PM
Dec 2012

Won 20+ games in '65. Led the Twins to the World Series with Zoilo Versailles that year. Then we met the Dodgers of Drysdale and the literally peerless Sandy Koufax.

Welcome home, Bob!!!



Mira

(22,380 posts)
23. I am grateful or this happy ending. Thank you for paying attention
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 07:50 PM
Dec 2012

to the huge outpouring of support and love.

ReRe

(10,597 posts)
27. Accolades to the Thankers and to the Thankees...
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 07:59 PM
Dec 2012
K&R

... let the mighty rivers of love and understanding flow, here on DU, and throughout the world.

Lilma

(132 posts)
30. So glad you are back.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:04 PM
Dec 2012

You made me post more than Obama's election!

Have fun with us and keep posting pictures and comics. I love to laugh on Sunday morning or Mondays if I'm not able to get on Sundays. Ill be looking for you.

Curmudgeoness

(18,219 posts)
32. Yes, thank you, Sagetea.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:08 PM
Dec 2012

Your OP was heartbreaking and so full of emotion....I know it was hard for you to open up like that, but I am so glad that you did.

Welcome back, SCE. I hope you know how much you mean to so many of us.

yankeepants

(1,979 posts)
34. I will be reminded of this heartfelt and moving
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:19 PM
Dec 2012

DU chapter each Sunday morning.

It will make Lolcats that much better.

Thank you Sagetea and all the DUers and SCE for working this all out so beautifully.

I still love it here.

Yankeepants

AnotherMother4Peace

(4,247 posts)
35. Definitely Good News! Good ending, good lessons, good grief! You're a good man, Charlie Brown!
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:24 PM
Dec 2012

"...we all leave marks we never know about" - ain't that the truth & something I try to keep in mind when interacting with others. I know I sure appreciate when people give me a break, or a kind word, or helping hand, or understanding, or a do-over-card, or all of the above.

A-Long-Little-Doggie

(1,011 posts)
36. Welcome back, sir!
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:34 PM
Dec 2012

I am so happy you reconsidered! Now I don't have to keep checking those LONG threads to see if you changed your mind.

And thanks to Sagetea for saying the magic words.

Cracklin Charlie

(12,904 posts)
38. I, too, send thanks to Sagetea.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:39 PM
Dec 2012

Also to SCE, because I am not sure I could make it through two Sundays without LOLs.

Welcome back.

 

glowing

(12,233 posts)
37. I was so sad to think I'd never get to see Sunday Lolz Cats again.... Its my favorite
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:36 PM
Dec 2012

thing to see... Usually, I'm working and its not like I like work.. And Sunday is a double shift split... Literally, I'm up for 24 hrs. your cute little pics of tiny babies lift my spirit and heart and make things seem ok in the world even if I'm stuck doing a horrible stint at work...

Thank you for coming back!!!!

ralps

(77,738 posts)
40. Welcome back SalmonChantedEvening!! & Here's a new kitty gif! + some LOL
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:44 PM
Dec 2012

kittehs! I hope you have a very MmmmrrreeeCmrrrmifmufs!! feel free to add these to your next LOL kitteh thread!




11 Bravo

(23,926 posts)
43. Now there's a card I'm happy to sign! Some time ago I initiated an SCE appreciation thread.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 08:51 PM
Dec 2012

You knew nothing about it, and seemed genuinely overwhelmed at the outpouring of affection you received then. Today, that affection has been absolutely DWARFED by a deluge of love and admiration. Do not be surprised by any of this, my friend. You are a DU treasure, and always will be.
Welcome back!

NOW, get your ass back to work and give me two song parodies and an LOL cats thread! (Cuz tough guys like us can't get too mushy.)

 

obxhead

(8,434 posts)
49. Woohoo!
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:25 PM
Dec 2012

A ray of sunshine is bestowed upon DU!

Keep the kitties coming please It's the first thing I look for Sunday morning (ok, second... the coffee does come first)

Auntie Bush

(17,528 posts)
51. So glad you're back and day after tomorrow I'll get to see some cute Kitty gifs.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 09:47 PM
Dec 2012

From your new admirer. So nice I'll get a chance to know you.

patricia92243

(12,597 posts)
54. I had never read LOL Cats. When I finally did, I thought to myself "What a sweet, gentle spirit
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 10:23 PM
Dec 2012

this fellow displays." Plus LOL Cats is cute and just plain ol' fun to read and have a good laugh.

I will read it faithfully every Sunday now - I promise!

 

rhett o rick

(55,981 posts)
55. Her post was so honest and loving that I knew it would "fix" you. Bless her. And for you
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 10:29 PM
Dec 2012

I am not welcoming you back. I dont consider you ever left.

Stay cool.

Lifelong Protester

(8,421 posts)
56. Love you, SCE, and am grateful to Sagetea.
Fri Dec 7, 2012, 10:42 PM
Dec 2012

We all need to keep on keepin' on, and never mind the turkeys (sorry, turkeys) get us down.

I hope you are back for sure!! It is going to snow and I plan to be snowed in on Sunday, looking at LOLcats!!!

DakotaLady

(246 posts)
61. LOL Cats on Sunday mornin'
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 12:53 AM
Dec 2012

I'm a newbie here after lurking for a long while.

I Can Has Cheezburger has been bookmarked and a must go-to for just about as long.

So looking forward to Sunday morning here on DU with the LOL Cats.

This show of support here is like nothing I have ever seen before ... you are a star.

luv_mykatz

(441 posts)
62. I missed the drama, also...
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 01:13 AM
Dec 2012

But I would've been totally heartbroken if you had left, Salmon.

I only have a dim awareness about what happened...but I'd rather let, er...sleeping cats...er...to continue sleeping.

And a HUGE thanks to Sagetea, for whatever you did to heal/fix the situation.

Thank you, Salmon, for being willing to consider the words of Sagetea.

I could not bear to have SalmonChantedEvenings LOL Cats disappear from our Sundays.

Sir, you are very much loved and needed.

sarge43

(28,941 posts)
67. SCE, Sagetea. Thank you for conducting a master class
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 10:03 AM
Dec 2012

in graciousness, civility and courage. Keep on posting.

prairierose

(2,145 posts)
69. I'm so glad that you will stay SCE....
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 12:15 PM
Dec 2012

I was depressed thinking that Sunday mornings would not be as much fun without you. Now I know that you will make me smile tomorrow morning. Take care.

Don't let the rats get you down. Was that an insult to rats?

murielm99

(30,745 posts)
70. Oh, I am so relieved.
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 12:28 PM
Dec 2012

Thank you, Sagetea, and thank you SCE. I will be glad to see and interact with both of you here.

Sage tea is known for its healing properties. I can see why it is good to have some on hand.

sagetea

(1,369 posts)
71. Wow just Wow,
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 12:36 PM
Dec 2012

I am sitting here,curled up on my couch listening to the wind blow outside, trying to bring words through my very choked up throat, (because I have to speak my words aloud as I type!)trying to put into words what I would like to say. How do I respond to something so beautiful? IRL,I would probably invite you over for tea!

I was taught once that in speaking, to always make sure you have timing, content,and context.
Through all the political, professional,and personal things we go through, on a day to day basis, to have you, knowing that you do this to bring so many of us the pleasure of laughter is the greatest gift, and your thanking me? I brought forth one sad time in my life, thanking you for being there at the same time every week, and from outpouring of sincerity, I was not the only one mourning the loss of something sweet.
I am looking foreword to being here every Sunday morning with this wonderful little village. Something happened I think perhaps our hearts grew three sizes and for one moment, we saw what humanity can accomplish. And I'm sure that my little brother Dan,would have been very happy about the outcome!

So if you are ever in North eastern Nevada, come over for a cup of tea and a dip in our hotsprings!
In Light,
Kelly L. Ryan

SalmonChantedEvening

(31,952 posts)
80. Tea sounds lovely.
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 03:05 PM
Dec 2012

May the gods and fates find it in their favor.

Off to do teh fotobukkit. Then I fall over and snore.

And yes, I am. Thanking you. Again. *hugarama*
Until the morning.

LiveNudePolitics

(285 posts)
72. Acting like naughty children
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 12:38 PM
Dec 2012

This whole kerfuffle, and numerous other flame wars I have noticed in other places on DU brought back some childhood memories.
I'm forty(almost) and I remember as a child, the discipline that worked most on me and my huge brood of siblings was being ignored. Parental Screaming, and corporal punishments just seemed to escalate our bad behaviors. In my adult life, I don't entertain or respond to childish behavior or tantrums, I just don't feed into their sick little deal. I do the same here, if I see something I disagree with, I comment and move on, or just move on. Like the OP stated, I don't have that kind of energy to engage in a battle of posts.
On matters of my posts having objectors in in the comment threads, I say, if someone is offended by an OP, comment once, and then they can just go read something else. I think there is a lot of growing up to do in the ranks, I thought that people of like or similar minds came hear to converse, share information and maybe have some fun. You can watch inflammatory drama on reality tv, for Pete's sake. Perhaps there should be a forum or group for bratty comments and jokes of poor taste.

Just know, that where ever a cute animal photo is shared, there will always be someone who was happy to view it. Thanks for LOL Cats. Ignore those too immature to see past their own deal to enjoy your efforts.

derby378

(30,252 posts)
85. The people on DU, including SCE and sagetea...
Sat Dec 8, 2012, 05:37 PM
Dec 2012

...are a huge reason why I still consider DU to be one of my online homes. You guys rock.

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