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ohiosmith

(24,262 posts)
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 10:29 PM Feb 2013

If you could relive any year of your life,....what would it be?

1966! Nineteen year old from Columbus, Ohio, living in the Hollywood Hills with a constant supply of drugs, musicians and aspiring actresses. Never wanted for music, dope or uninhibited noncommittal sex. The only downside was the monthly trips to the Free Clinic for penicillin injections.


Oh! Props to graywarrior for the inspiration!

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If you could relive any year of your life,....what would it be? (Original Post) ohiosmith Feb 2013 OP
1972 In_The_Wind Feb 2013 #1
Cool! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #2
1984 Boomerproud Feb 2013 #3
Cool BP! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #5
Outstanding. Boomerproud Feb 2013 #46
69 graywarrior Feb 2013 #4
My hero! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #6
I was clueless graywarrior Feb 2013 #7
Bullshit! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #9
. graywarrior Feb 2013 #11
Fucking A! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #12
That's all we ever said back then. graywarrior Feb 2013 #13
Said that,....and,...."you call this a clean lid? Fuck you,...it's not worth a nickel!" ohiosmith Feb 2013 #16
And "Is he a freak or a narc?" graywarrior Feb 2013 #23
If he's a narc,...he has to tell us! It's the law! Aske him! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #25
I thought everyone was a narc graywarrior Feb 2013 #27
Paranoia was one of the coolest parts of getting high! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #28
Cruising around high as a kite scared to death the "pigs" would pull us over. graywarrior Feb 2013 #29
Don't freak me out! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #30
Just don't get caught with Zig Zags graywarrior Feb 2013 #31
Oh fuck! Paraphernalia paranoia! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #33
Head shops! graywarrior Feb 2013 #34
This side-thread is epic. Bertha Venation Feb 2013 #54
Let's roll it and smoke it! graywarrior Feb 2013 #57
Here kitty, kitty, kitty! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #58
Hahahahahaha! graywarrior Feb 2013 #59
And,....just one paper! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #61
I forgot about that. graywarrior Feb 2013 #62
Dug that too! If I had to pick a fav, it would be blowing a joint through a hole in an apple! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #67
Or using Vodka instead of water in the water pipe graywarrior Feb 2013 #70
Dig it! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #68
That just got me high graywarrior Feb 2013 #71
Far out! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #72
Right on, man! graywarrior Feb 2013 #73
I mean like,....it totally blew my mind! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #74
It was heavy, man. graywarrior Feb 2013 #75
Righteously! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #76
psycho delic ! graywarrior Feb 2013 #77
Trippy! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #79
I need a hit graywarrior Feb 2013 #81
No one does! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #83
Then sock it to me, baby graywarrior Feb 2013 #84
Sock it to you? ohiosmith Feb 2013 #85
They were all high graywarrior Feb 2013 #86
So were we! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #88
I was never not high. Ever. graywarrior Feb 2013 #89
GET A ROOM YOU TWO!! madinmaryland Feb 2013 #93
Only if there's drugs.....hahaha graywarrior Feb 2013 #95
I'm out of weed but have some banana peels we can smoke! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #99
I got catnip. graywarrior Feb 2013 #101
Far out! I think I know that dude! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #102
He used to be a narc! graywarrior Feb 2013 #103
Yea! He looks more mellow! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #106
I know a vacant house where we can all crash! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #98
Can the band practice there? graywarrior Feb 2013 #107
Right on! We have an extension cord wired into the light post out front! Tell them to bring some ohiosmith Feb 2013 #109
I always loved the "who was supposed to get toilet paper" arguments between band members graywarrior Feb 2013 #110
Bless both of you! Paulie Feb 2013 #112
The drummer! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #113
It was pipi_k Feb 2013 #8
Don't be sad PK! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #10
It's OK... pipi_k Feb 2013 #20
This question Loryn Feb 2013 #52
1973 was a very good year to me. I would go back in a heartbeat. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2013 #14
So would I. In_The_Wind Feb 2013 #15
I could live that year in a continuous loop and be forever happy. Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2013 #18
I understand. In_The_Wind Feb 2013 #22
Cool TA! ohiosmith Feb 2013 #17
;>) Tuesday Afternoon Feb 2013 #19
1973 pretty much sucked for me Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #108
1966 femmocrat Feb 2013 #21
I graduated from high school that year. In_The_Wind Feb 2013 #24
Any year from 1973 to 1979 when I lived in Austin, Tx. texanwitch Feb 2013 #26
Cool! Got pics of the house? ohiosmith Feb 2013 #60
1999... a la izquierda Feb 2013 #32
Wouldn't we all? ohiosmith Feb 2013 #100
1998. Neoma Feb 2013 #35
1966 was a good one, Blue_In_AK Feb 2013 #36
1998 LostinRed Feb 2013 #37
1964 BlueJazz Feb 2013 #38
1992... The year I ran into MrG again, 3 years after we broke up. ScreamingMeemie Feb 2013 #39
1978 Mojorabbit Feb 2013 #40
2008 Jamaal510 Feb 2013 #41
2001 bigwillq Feb 2013 #42
1965, with 1967 a close second...when time travel's perfected, I'm going back! VOX Feb 2013 #43
Ah...1965. Had a Mustang and was an aspiring artist. mia Feb 2013 #91
1980 UncleYoder Feb 2013 #44
I think it was about 2002, tavalon Feb 2013 #45
1984 Myrina Feb 2013 #47
Dunno that I'd re-do any particular year. davsand Feb 2013 #48
1967 TrogL Feb 2013 #49
1983. Denninmi Feb 2013 #50
1991 TM99 Feb 2013 #51
Any year between 1993 and 1999. Bertha Venation Feb 2013 #53
It would have to be 1995. Tommy_Carcetti Feb 2013 #55
I've had good ones, bad ones, great ones and terrible ones. But, Moondog Feb 2013 #56
1971 era veteran Feb 2013 #63
1967. GoCubsGo Feb 2013 #64
If this is optional, I'd say "none of them". MadrasT Feb 2013 #65
1984-85 geardaddy Feb 2013 #66
1974--the year nothing went wrong! lastlib Feb 2013 #69
1998 tabbycat31 Feb 2013 #78
2005 robertkdem1965_h89 Feb 2013 #80
2076 -- that TriCentennial Celebration was GREAT!!!! Oops... MiddleFingerMom Feb 2013 #82
The summmer of 1951 - just before I turned five. Six, seven and eight were great too. mia Feb 2013 #87
June 1 1967 to August 17 1967 triguy46 Feb 2013 #90
I can just see you as a clueless 19-yr-old, wondering why none of the nurses at the Free Clinic... MiddleFingerMom Feb 2013 #92
2008. The election of the first African-American President. Will 2016 be another first?? madinmaryland Feb 2013 #94
I'd settle for a single day; a single moment... January 6, 1973, 10:00AM Xipe Totec Feb 2013 #96
1973 shanti Feb 2013 #97
This message was self-deleted by its author applegrove Feb 2013 #104
Oh, God, NONE of them! Not if I have to make the same mistakes again. But there was ONE day... Honeycombe8 Feb 2013 #105
1969 Art_from_Ark Feb 2013 #111
1968 or 1975 slackmaster Feb 2013 #114

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
1. 1972
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 10:36 PM
Feb 2013

That was the year I started college. Oh and stood up the donald for a second date.

It was wonderful time, so young, so full of life.

Not that it matters, but since you brought it up . . .no std of any kind.

Yep, it was a very good year. [img][/img]

Boomerproud

(7,952 posts)
3. 1984
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 10:52 PM
Feb 2013

I was young, visited England, had a steady job, just an unstressful year.

I'm from Columbus, too, btw, Ohiosmith.

graywarrior

(59,440 posts)
62. I forgot about that.
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 03:57 PM
Feb 2013

Rolling with 2 papers was a pain in the ass. We usually opted for toilet paper rolls and aluminum foil. My fave was hash in a water pipe.

ohiosmith

(24,262 posts)
67. Dug that too! If I had to pick a fav, it would be blowing a joint through a hole in an apple!
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 06:04 PM
Feb 2013

Granny Smith's were the best!

ohiosmith

(24,262 posts)
109. Right on! We have an extension cord wired into the light post out front! Tell them to bring some
Fri Feb 8, 2013, 12:16 AM
Feb 2013

food! Oh,...and toilet paper! The Shell station locks the washroom doors now!

Paulie

(8,462 posts)
112. Bless both of you!
Fri Feb 8, 2013, 08:18 AM
Feb 2013


Wow what a way to wake up in the morning! I don't think I need coffee with all the

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
8. It was
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 10:58 PM
Feb 2013

1968. I was 16 and it was the last year before the end of my innocence.

Literally and figuratively.

Thinking about it makes me sad, and so that's all I can write.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
20. It's OK...
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 11:13 PM
Feb 2013

Sometimes I can listen to music from that year and go back there mentally. It's way cool, even if it's not real and just for a little while.

Loryn

(944 posts)
52. This question
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 12:02 PM
Feb 2013

took me to a sad place as well. Reading everyone else's happy memories, made me realize that I did have some great years too.


In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
22. I understand.
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 11:19 PM
Feb 2013

I have a few years that I could life happily over and over.

My first year in college was a hard partying time. I wonder how I made the dean's list.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
108. 1973 pretty much sucked for me
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 11:51 PM
Feb 2013

Lots of bad things happened to me and mine that year. The only compensation was that Christmas that year was fantastic.

texanwitch

(18,705 posts)
26. Any year from 1973 to 1979 when I lived in Austin, Tx.
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 11:26 PM
Feb 2013

Late teens and early 20's.

I would go back in a second, nothing but good times.

I would buy the haunted house we were renting, that was great old house.

a la izquierda

(11,795 posts)
32. 1999...
Wed Feb 6, 2013, 11:56 PM
Feb 2013

Graduated college, but that was the only good thing for most of that year. There are multiple things I'd do over.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
36. 1966 was a good one,
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 12:33 AM
Feb 2013

but I think I liked 1967 better. I think maybe 1971 was my all-time favorite though.

ScreamingMeemie

(68,918 posts)
39. 1992... The year I ran into MrG again, 3 years after we broke up.
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 12:44 AM
Feb 2013

What I would give to have that year back.

Mojorabbit

(16,020 posts)
40. 1978
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 01:01 AM
Feb 2013

Had been out of college for a couple of years and working hard. Had saved some cash and moved to Key West to be a beach bum for a while. Time of my life.

Jamaal510

(10,893 posts)
41. 2008
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 01:02 AM
Feb 2013

It not only was the year America got it's first black president and the first time I could ever vote, but it was also my last year in high school. There were many opportunities that I now regret passing up. I regret not keeping contact with any of my high school friends, I regret not being more aggressive in pursuing girls, and I regret not trying harder to get a driver's license. Now that I'm in college, I don't know anyone anymore; I have literally nobody to hang out with in my spare time. Also because I made the mistake of waiting for the girls to come to me, I didn't get a prom date, and I had to look for someone online once I graduated high school. Shyness can really be a person's worst enemy in their adolescent years.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
42. 2001
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 01:25 AM
Feb 2013

My senior year of college. Had so much fun in the early part of the year and then in the summer I met my boy .
Good times!

VOX

(22,976 posts)
43. 1965, with 1967 a close second...when time travel's perfected, I'm going back!
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 06:30 AM
Feb 2013

1965 -- A great one, last of the old, and the new was new...Ford Mustangs, Pontiac GTOs, drive-ins, British Invasion and some of the best music of all time, learning to play guitar and harmonica, first serious girlfriend, longboard surfing, astronomy and star-gazing, long summer nights cruising Sunset Strip in my parents' black Lincoln Continental (w/black leather interior -- a fine date ride!)...a perfect year to be a kid. Whenever I can't sleep, I just cast back to '65, and all's right with the world.

1967 -- Art school! Away from home and parents! Playing in a band (and a good one at that), discovering blues and roots music, photography, sweet times with three terrific girlfriends, crazy summer job assembling baby strollers, meeting my art-prof mentor who became my best friend (a friendship that lasted until his death three years ago), going to see Antonioni's "Blow-Up" three times, being a regular at the Ash Grove, a folk/blues club that featured the likes of Lightning Hopkins, Bukka White, Son House, Furry Lewis, Taj Mahal and Ry Cooder, the real stuff...Monterey Pop, the beautiful early trajectory of the hippie movement before it got co-opted; tooling around in my girlfriend's red Sunbeam Alpine (Maxwell Smart's car)... another fine, vintage year, one that calls the heart frequently.

mia

(8,360 posts)
91. Ah...1965. Had a Mustang and was an aspiring artist.
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 10:26 PM
Feb 2013

Then I got married and missed some of those experiences you described. All was right with the world, nevertheless.

 

UncleYoder

(233 posts)
44. 1980
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 08:16 AM
Feb 2013

And when my cousin asks me if his eyes are supposed to look like that, (one dialated and the other constricted) I would drive him to the nearest doctor and maybe prevent the stroke that took him one month later. RIP Bud.

tavalon

(27,985 posts)
45. I think it was about 2002,
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 08:17 AM
Feb 2013

I was single, loving it, and living on the coolest barge in the coolest neighborhood ever. The neat thing was that I knew at the time that it was magnificent.

Strangely enough, while the last two months have been some of the hardest for me, ever, I'm starting to see a glimmer: I'm single again, beginning to love it and living on that same barge in that same neighborhood.

Myrina

(12,296 posts)
47. 1984
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 11:19 AM
Feb 2013

... graduated high school, moved away to college and came home at midterms.

I wish my parents would have told me to STAY THE FUCK THERE, or that I'd taken my HS German teacher's advice seriously and gone into the Military/Language School to become a translator.

My life would have a completely different trajectory & I could be living in Prague, married to the retired European hockey player of my choice ...

davsand

(13,421 posts)
48. Dunno that I'd re-do any particular year.
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 11:24 AM
Feb 2013

Specific DAYS or weeks, however, I'd re-live for sure...


The day I met my husband.

The day we got married and the following honeymoon.

The day our daughter was born.


I've heard it said that the average human can only stand a finite amount of pure and unadulterated joy. I doubt that's true, but every one of those days will live in my memory as being perfect. I figure that at this rate I've got a few more of those coming before I max out. No need to go back in time--I've got good stuff coming yet!!

I can only wonder what joy lies ahead!!!!



Laura

Denninmi

(6,581 posts)
50. 1983.
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 11:40 AM
Feb 2013

I so would have gone to the prom with the girl that asked me. I would NOT have flunked a calculus class my first term at MSU. I would have changed a LOT of things, actually.

 

TM99

(8,352 posts)
51. 1991
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 11:56 AM
Feb 2013

Had just finished my first graduate degree. Lived in New Paltz, NY in a little house on the river with a smart & beautiful woman who adored me as much as I adored her (was a fool not to have married her but was young & way too ambitious to settle down then!). Started supervision with Dr. D. - a student of Dr. Wilhelm Reich. Completed the full Kalachakra Tantra initiation with H.H. the Dalai Lama in NYC.

I have had other great years and other horrible ones. That one does stand out in particular though, and when I find myself in a bad space, I try to focus on what about those things made me so deeply happy.

So, I go for a walk in nature like I did by that river. I smile knowing that I am now someone's first supervisor impacting them as Dr. D did me. I show my partner just a little bit more love that day so she knows that I adore her and am grateful to have such a love now in my life. I go someplace quiet and meditate.

Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
53. Any year between 1993 and 1999.
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 12:06 PM
Feb 2013

During those seven years, I sang with the South Coast Chorale. Those were the best years of my single life. I miss those times, and am having a hard time converting them into warm nostalgia rather than pining to sing with that group again.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,182 posts)
55. It would have to be 1995.
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 12:29 PM
Feb 2013

Started as a sophomore year in a private high school that I hated. I planned my escape and was able to get back to the public high school where my old friends were.

And that summer was awesome, just awesome. It was the last summer before my parents made me get a summer job, so I just had fun. Spent most of the time at the pool, where I met the first love of my life and the girl I would eventually take to prom. And the family vacation was awesome too--spent most of the nights at the pool with the cute girl who lived next door to the place were were staying and her cute friends.

Cal Ripken broke the consecutive games record, I heard "Starla" by the Smashing Pumpkins for the very first time, I learned how to drive, and when I started back at my public school, I earned Straight A's for the very first time in my life. And I took a civics class with an incredible teacher who set me on my career course and helped give me a proper world perspective.

Just an awesome year.

Moondog

(4,833 posts)
56. I've had good ones, bad ones, great ones and terrible ones. But,
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 12:57 PM
Feb 2013

on balance, I think that great American philosopher Satchel Paige had it right when he said "Don't look back. Something might be gaining on you."

I try not to think about what was. Good or bad, I cannot change it nor can I relive it; for that reason I find that dwelling upon the past can be rather depressing. So I try and look forward. I don't always succeed, but I do try to take that approach.

era veteran

(4,069 posts)
63. 1971
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 04:58 PM
Feb 2013

Out Now, Virginity, Recreational Combustibles, Music, Hair, University; it was before the Army fucked me up.

GoCubsGo

(32,083 posts)
64. 1967.
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 05:01 PM
Feb 2013

I fell down and broke my arm that year. That event was the beginning of weight and eating issues that have fucked up my life ever since. If that hadn't happened, I dare say that my life would be much, much different.

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
65. If this is optional, I'd say "none of them".
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 05:51 PM
Feb 2013

I don't have any happy times to go back to... none that lasted longer than fleeting moments.

If it is mandatory to choose one... 1990, so I could make some different choices than the ones I made that year.

Either that or 1969, when I was 4 and didn't fully realize how crappy my life was yet.

2013 is just fine with me!

geardaddy

(24,931 posts)
66. 1984-85
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 05:55 PM
Feb 2013

Sophomore year in Beijing. 19 years old. Lots of cool things to see and it was before the PRC went all "western."

Plus the hash was killer.

lastlib

(23,234 posts)
69. 1974--the year nothing went wrong!
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 06:38 PM
Feb 2013

(at least for me.)

Still in high school kickin' a--!! The drugs were good, the friends were good--everything was good!

Nixon resigned. Dems swept Congress in a major post-Watergate tide! Those were good days!

tabbycat31

(6,336 posts)
78. 1998
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 07:50 PM
Feb 2013

Senior year in HS/Freshman year in college. I was 18 and stupid. I would have done so many things differently:

Told my mom where she could shove it when she told me only to apply to small (<2000 kids) colleges
Gone to a different college
Been more concerned about my future instead of spending my summer toiling away as a CVS cashier (I should have interned for a campaign then)
Not been so concerned with letting my life revolve around following bands and costing me my GPA
I would have never dated (and lost my virginity) to my first boyfriend. Shortly after I lost my virginity to him, I found out that he was seeing two other girls at the same time. I've referred to him as a polygamist ever since.
I would have not been that apathetic college student and voted in the midterms that year
I would have realized that politics was my future and to get involved on a campaign and intern
I would not have been so concerned with a $6 an hour job and actually enjoyed being young.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
82. 2076 -- that TriCentennial Celebration was GREAT!!!! Oops...
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 08:09 PM
Feb 2013

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mia

(8,360 posts)
87. The summmer of 1951 - just before I turned five. Six, seven and eight were great too.
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 09:15 PM
Feb 2013

My mother had a baby in May and forgot all about me. I got to run wild with the neighborhood kids. Life began that summer. To this day my parents never dreamed of all the thrilling times I had. Loved sipping honeysuckle while waiting for the train to go by and flatten the coins we'd put on the railroad tracks.... so much more.

triguy46

(6,028 posts)
90. June 1 1967 to August 17 1967
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 10:09 PM
Feb 2013

Would like to experience first love again. Its not that I'm not in love, been married 36 years. But would like to experience that first love again and see if it is as I remember it or if it was just a dream.

MiddleFingerMom

(25,163 posts)
92. I can just see you as a clueless 19-yr-old, wondering why none of the nurses at the Free Clinic...
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 10:39 PM
Feb 2013

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Response to ohiosmith (Original post)

Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
105. Oh, God, NONE of them! Not if I have to make the same mistakes again. But there was ONE day...
Thu Feb 7, 2013, 11:31 PM
Feb 2013

about 10 or 12 years ago. I had paid off my house, had a good job that was going well, I had a dog I adored and he was still healthy. I was walking him one fall morning, a beautiful cool sunny morning. I was so happy, and my dog Buddy was happy, too. I thought to myself....geez, it just doesn't get any better than this. This is what life is all about, these sorts of moments.

I want my precious dog back, that beautiful day, my job going well, my Mom before she passed away. I would like that day again.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
111. 1969
Fri Feb 8, 2013, 08:04 AM
Feb 2013

I was an innocent little kid.
My wonderful grandparents were alive, and I spent many happy Sundays at their house.
I was popular in school.
The exciting Space Race culminated in the Moon Landing.

So many things seemed to be magical or mystical, particularly the municipal pool and its jukebox, my little transistor radio that could connect me to faraway places, the new history books that I got as a birthday present, the Golden Book encyclopedias that were so fascinating, the Scholastic books that I got at school (especially Runaway Slave: the Story of Harriet Tubman, and The Search for Planet X), the wonderful cartoons on Saturday mornings and the wonderful kid shows on at night, the annual summer visit by the neighbors' granddaughters, my nascent stamp collection...

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