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(and this is true of other forums too) but rarely show up for discussions in the Host forum

The same thing often happens in MIRT.

I've never understood it. If you don't want to help, then why sign up?

I mean obviously having a good number allows for overlap on schedules and life, but some NEVER seem to ever participate.

and I am guilty of encouraging people to basically do just that!
(have told numerous people to sign up to see that the host forum wasn't some secret gossip/power chamber)

the next morning i looked and like FIVE for video. i was so bummed. i never get alerts and then when there were tons, it was the window of not going in.

i tried gd. too many. too much time. and i would wait for consensus and people didnt show. i could not wait hours for hide or not.

but it just isn't where I hang out at all. besides I can always just butt in like I usually do.

somewhere along the way people started talking about only listening to those in that forum.

so i do not speak up, unless ours pretty much. confused....