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Two star members are ignoring me. (Original Post) murielm99 May 2013 OP
It is their loss. hrmjustin May 2013 #1
I've got 8 ignoring me. Aristus May 2013 #2
Taking a look.... Lady Freedom Returns May 2013 #3
I'm up to seven. Why? nolabear May 2013 #4
15, wow. Sweet NightWatcher May 2013 #5
21 are ignoring me. Arctic Dave May 2013 #6
I also have two ignoring me mokawanis May 2013 #7
You are too much for some minds so they Newest Reality May 2013 #8
Send me $5 and we'll make it three. Ptah May 2013 #9
Meh, I'm up to 16 now, and I know what I did... TreasonousBastard May 2013 #10
Thanks, everyone! murielm99 May 2013 #11
I've lost another one! Ron Obvious May 2013 #12
Only two? alphafemale May 2013 #13
are they Netron Star members ? olddots May 2013 #14
I though Skinner had established a special cadre of DUers and called them Baitball Blogger May 2013 #41
Be aware dipsydoodle May 2013 #15
Interesting. On-ignore would discard me for jury service for them. Festivito May 2013 #20
Wouldn't worry about it anyway. dipsydoodle May 2013 #21
I'm up to 5.... and I never post anything controversial. femmocrat May 2013 #16
8 or 9 last I checked... Earth_First May 2013 #17
You aren't trying hard enough ... In_The_Wind May 2013 #18
They are missing some of the most beautiful posts on DU! femmocrat May 2013 #23
You may have missed one or two of my truly evil moments this winter. In_The_Wind May 2013 #28
I can not see why anyone would have you on ignore. Lady Freedom Returns May 2013 #57
Maybe I have too much In_The_Wind May 2013 #58
Congratulations! You said something worthy! Honeycombe8 May 2013 #19
Probably had a strong opinion. Iggo May 2013 #22
You did something right...you exercised your voice! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #24
I have one that's only blocking mail, too. GoCubsGo May 2013 #25
The extra blocked mail showed up on so many Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #29
I usually mentally ignore certain people, too. GoCubsGo May 2013 #59
I think we all develop a system that works best for us! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #60
Your so sweet why would anyone ignore you! hrmjustin May 2013 #27
Good Morning! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #30
Much better. The plavix is doing wonders and the fact they cleaned out her stents and put in a new hrmjustin May 2013 #31
Excellent news re: mom! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #38
You only have a few more than I do ... In_The_Wind May 2013 #33
What beautiful sentiments! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #35
My computer time is down from 16 hours a day to 2 or 3. In_The_Wind May 2013 #37
Excellent! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #40
I need a better balance of time. In_The_Wind May 2013 #43
All play.... Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #46
We are rearranging the whole place. In_The_Wind May 2013 #48
Yuck! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #52
Now, I have 1/2 an hour to finish breakfast and take my morning meds. In_The_Wind May 2013 #61
Too little time perhaps.... Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #62
Oh, someone thinks so In_The_Wind May 2013 #64
Ridiculous! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #65
Maybe we should just make Ignore lists public OmahaBlueDog May 2013 #26
Usually it's those that demand everyone agrees with them 100% of the time, Dash87 May 2013 #32
People who put others on Ignore are like toddlers having a hissy fit. LancetChick May 2013 #34
I have no one ignoring me here yet. Loryn May 2013 #36
WOW...there must have been some really nasty souls on that forum! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #42
That's why I like it here so much. Loryn May 2013 #47
Fantastic! Sekhmets Daughter May 2013 #49
ATA Tuesday Afternoon May 2013 #39
Amateur! Orrex May 2013 #44
calling BS on that one, Orrex. SomeOne around here may have triple digits but, it ain't you ... Tuesday Afternoon May 2013 #45
Au contraire! Orrex May 2013 #50
I did - Tuesday Afternoon May 2013 #51
Oh. Whoops! Orrex May 2013 #53
I don't think so ... you know the place to go ... ATA Tuesday Afternoon May 2013 #54
That's it exactly. Orrex May 2013 #55
good lord ... I rarely see the need for this smilie, however this time I must make exception: Tuesday Afternoon May 2013 #56
You mean people did not know it was a joke? hrmjustin May 2013 #63
Maybe they were afraid of pintobean May 2013 #68
Don't feel bad. Blue_In_AK May 2013 #66
I finally made it to 3 - wahoo! nadine_mn May 2013 #67
Don't worry about it. mysuzuki2 May 2013 #69
 

Arctic Dave

(13,812 posts)
6. 21 are ignoring me.
Sun May 5, 2013, 12:14 AM
May 2013

Not nearly enough.

Will you please put me on ignore, I'm trying to get an even two dozen. It's the OCD in me.

Newest Reality

(12,712 posts)
8. You are too much for some minds so they
Sun May 5, 2013, 12:19 AM
May 2013

had to turn you off, or you said something that they couldn't handle and so they retreat into ignorance as bliss.

I've got 4! Wear 'em like badges.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
10. Meh, I'm up to 16 now, and I know what I did...
Sun May 5, 2013, 12:35 AM
May 2013

and don't care.

But why are 21 blocking mail from me? 5 people who don't ignore me, but block mail? I rarely send mail, and the few I send are always friendly, so what are they afraid of?

 

Ron Obvious

(6,261 posts)
12. I've lost another one!
Sun May 5, 2013, 06:10 AM
May 2013

Last edited Sun May 5, 2013, 07:04 AM - Edit history (1)

Fucking hell, at this rate I'll wind up loveable or something!

Olive Garden, Pitt Bulls, Circumcision, Guns AND Gun control now! Down AND up with feminists baring breasts while I'm at it.

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
14. are they Netron Star members ?
Sun May 5, 2013, 07:27 AM
May 2013

Dwarf Star members ? Pulsar members ? OR THE MOST DANGEROUS Black Hole members ? they really suck ( oh ah eh )

dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
15. Be aware
Sun May 5, 2013, 07:50 AM
May 2013

If someone ignoring you gets PPRd they still show as ignoring you forever ...............until admin make a change to that.

Festivito

(13,452 posts)
20. Interesting. On-ignore would discard me for jury service for them.
Sun May 5, 2013, 09:02 AM
May 2013

Then they are dropped from DU, but the ignore count remains. Okay.

I've been steady at 5 for about a year.

Only ignored one DUer who, later, was dismissed from DU.

dipsydoodle

(42,239 posts)
21. Wouldn't worry about it anyway.
Sun May 5, 2013, 09:30 AM
May 2013

There was a note in Ask Admin awhile back that when they can get round to it ignores etc are going to cease to displayed in any shape or form. As such those you may have on ignore will only have their own smug selfsatisfaction.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
18. You aren't trying hard enough ...
Sun May 5, 2013, 08:37 AM
May 2013


Number of Star members ignoring me: 11
Number of Star members blocking mail from me (including members ignoring me): 12



femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
23. They are missing some of the most beautiful posts on DU!
Sun May 5, 2013, 10:07 AM
May 2013

Maybe they have dial-up? I love the visuals in your posts. I always wonder where you find them because I never see them anywhere else.

Thanks for all your posts, I_T_W!

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
28. You may have missed one or two of my truly evil moments this winter.
Sun May 5, 2013, 11:05 AM
May 2013


I simply google a word or two, look at images



sometimes (most times) I can find the right thing when I really try. femmocrat

Lady Freedom Returns

(14,120 posts)
57. I can not see why anyone would have you on ignore.
Sun May 5, 2013, 01:40 PM
May 2013

Me, I know why a Majority of my 19 have me on ignore, they made sure to tell me. Made it where I did not want to open my DU-mail for a while .

But you never did what I did (that I know of) to have people even consider ignoring you. Guess there are some out there that just don't like nice people.

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
58. Maybe I have too much
Sun May 5, 2013, 01:59 PM
May 2013
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1018&pid=381566

fun, or too many problems because I married into money, that was stolen in a ponzie, or because I refuse to become someone different than who I am, or because I hold a grudge when someone deliberately tries to make me the brunt of problems I inherited (in real life, not whining about DU). I can continue, cause I'm far from perfect.


Honeycombe8

(37,648 posts)
19. Congratulations! You said something worthy!
Sun May 5, 2013, 08:59 AM
May 2013

That's the only way to get ignored is if you say something that contributes to a discussion.

If you want not to be ignored by anyone, don't ever say anything worthwhile, don't ever contribute to the discussion, don't ever disagree with anyone, and agree with everyone! It's just like in the real world.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
24. You did something right...you exercised your voice!
Sun May 5, 2013, 10:14 AM
May 2013

You are as entitled to your thoughts and opinions as anyone else. Some people just can't deal with that concept.

I have 15 people ignoring me and a 16th blocking mail...I never send nasty mail, what's that all about? Whoever they are, I much prefer being ignored to having to deal with whatever crap they'd throw my way if they weren't ignoring me!

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
25. I have one that's only blocking mail, too.
Sun May 5, 2013, 10:53 AM
May 2013

I don't understand that one, either. I rarely send mail, period, and when I do, it's almost always in response to someone else, and never even about politics.

Last I looked, I only had two ignoring me. No idea why. I went from zero to about 20 on my ignore list recently. They're all serial Obama bashers, and they get really tiresome after a while. It's the same old shit every time something happens, regardless of whether or not the facts are all in. I can't tell them apart from the freepers half the time. Weeding that crap out of threads has made the GD a whole lot more readable.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
29. The extra blocked mail showed up on so many
Sun May 5, 2013, 11:11 AM
May 2013

transparency pages all on the same day, I am inclined to believe someone went through and blocked mail from a boatload of DUers.

There is a rumor going around, I can't verify it nor do I want to, that you can track someone by blocking their mail... Seems a pretty silly pastime to me, but what do I know?

I don't use ignore....eventually I learn the names of those who always make me crazy and just skip over their nonsense. I think most people have something worthwhile to say, even if just rarely!

GoCubsGo

(32,086 posts)
59. I usually mentally ignore certain people, too.
Sun May 5, 2013, 02:18 PM
May 2013

But, but when they're everywhere, and they also hijack threads on a constant basis, "ignore" just makes it go away. I'll probably empty my ignore list soon--maybe today. And, I'm sure it will be refilled when the next "outrage" hits.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
30. Good Morning!
Sun May 5, 2013, 11:19 AM
May 2013

I am not always so sweet!

I picked up my first 5 ignores all at once with my first hidden post! I was so enraged by the terrible 'psychological' advice being handed out on a thread that any sense of courtesy or decorum vaporized and I went off rather like a junkyard dog!

There was a time I knew exactly which posts earned me the rest of the ignores. I no longer remember any but those first 5.

How's your mom doing?

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
31. Much better. The plavix is doing wonders and the fact they cleaned out her stents and put in a new
Sun May 5, 2013, 11:28 AM
May 2013

one has made her feel better. The legs have to get done soon but she is doing better.

My 14 ignores come from a few Meta wars I fought and one I lost big time. It has been going from 12-15 for the past few months. Someone takes me off and than someone ignores me. I want to know why I have someone ignoring mail from me but not ignoring me. Just plain Weird!

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
38. Excellent news re: mom!
Sun May 5, 2013, 12:36 PM
May 2013

I think ignores should be worn like military service ribbons! The mail ignores that exceed regular ignores are weird, I agree!

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
52. Yuck!
Sun May 5, 2013, 01:03 PM
May 2013

I am in the process of cleaning out overstuffed closets! I had to make room for a case of my favorite bourbon...I can't buy it locally and saved $200. buying the case online! I just have too much 'stuff' .... I'm sure you know just what I mean!

In_The_Wind

(72,300 posts)
61. Now, I have 1/2 an hour to finish breakfast and take my morning meds.
Sun May 5, 2013, 02:25 PM
May 2013
too many men, too little time did I really say that ...

OmahaBlueDog

(10,000 posts)
26. Maybe we should just make Ignore lists public
Sun May 5, 2013, 10:57 AM
May 2013

...or get a message like Orrex' old sig line "This DU Member has you on Ignore."

14 Star members have me on Ignore, and I have 15 members on Ignore, so my suggestion is to pick up the pace a little.

Dash87

(3,220 posts)
32. Usually it's those that demand everyone agrees with them 100% of the time,
Sun May 5, 2013, 11:34 AM
May 2013

and then they get all sarcastic and angry when you disagree with them.

LancetChick

(272 posts)
34. People who put others on Ignore are like toddlers having a hissy fit.
Sun May 5, 2013, 11:55 AM
May 2013

I think it's more to send a message to the poster saying "Take THAT!" than it is to actually avoid that person's posts. Putting people on "ignore" so reeks of childishness, it's astonishing to me that so many people do it. And declining to receive mail from someone who has not exhibited stalking tendencies is so arrogant... as if you're actually expecting mail from that person. It's all just letting that person know that someone has stuck a finger in his eye while you get to remain anonymous. I agree with the poster above who suggested that our ignore lists be published. Let's see who the foot-stomping sullen among us are.

Loryn

(944 posts)
36. I have no one ignoring me here yet.
Sun May 5, 2013, 12:25 PM
May 2013

I'm still relatively new, but I can tell you that on another forum I had whole threads posted in celebration of my wretchedness.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
49. Fantastic!
Sun May 5, 2013, 12:58 PM
May 2013

Yeah, for the most part we're pretty much a friendly crew. A few 'characters in search of an author', but interesting nonetheless!

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
51. I did -
Sun May 5, 2013, 01:00 PM
May 2013

This member's Transparency page is not displayed because they have had fewer than five posts hidden by Jury in the last 90 days.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
53. Oh. Whoops!
Sun May 5, 2013, 01:06 PM
May 2013

100 ignoring my posts, 103 ignoring posts & mail.


Is there a way for me to make my Transparency page visible by default? It's not as though I have anything to hide...

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
54. I don't think so ... you know the place to go ... ATA
Sun May 5, 2013, 01:09 PM
May 2013




on edit: also I am shocked and aghast and slightly appalled that we have this many DUers ,,, so reviled by your sigline.

Is this to what you attribute the high number?

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
55. That's it exactly.
Sun May 5, 2013, 01:14 PM
May 2013

This one was apparently responsible for about 97 of them:
[font color=red]This DU Member has placed you on Ignore[/font]
(For those joining the convesation late, I'm not actually Ignoring you--that was simply my sigline.)


I'd ask about Transparency in ATA, but I've been a bit of a nuisance over there the past few days, and I'd like to give them a break.

Tuesday Afternoon

(56,912 posts)
56. good lord ... I rarely see the need for this smilie, however this time I must make exception:
Sun May 5, 2013, 01:16 PM
May 2013


and

~sigh~

that is all.

except for you <---- from me

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
66. Don't feel bad.
Sun May 5, 2013, 10:52 PM
May 2013

I have six ignoring me, and I'm probably one of the more laid-back people on this site. I figure it's their loss.

nadine_mn

(3,702 posts)
67. I finally made it to 3 - wahoo!
Mon May 6, 2013, 01:47 AM
May 2013

I know who one is - how dare I voice an opinion contrary to hers!

But I so rarely post, I am surprised someone took the time to ignore me.




Its ok, those who are ignoring are missing out

mysuzuki2

(3,521 posts)
69. Don't worry about it.
Mon May 6, 2013, 11:03 AM
May 2013

There are some very easily offended people on DU . Some days you could post "puppies are cute" and you would piss someone off.

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