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we had to put Bella down today..
mdmc and bella during better times
hedgehog
(36,286 posts)mdmc
(29,069 posts)she got to go surrounded by love ones, and without pain.. I has made me think of how sad it is that humans can't always pass away like this.
She was an old kitty that led an awesome life up until about a week ago. Surrounded by love and comfort..
Thanks again for the reply my friend. Peace and low stress..
Kali
(55,014 posts)so true
sorry for your loss
mdmc
(29,069 posts)she told me I couldn't be her health care proxy
pacalo
(24,721 posts)I'm sorry you lost your Bella. I remember the heartbreak well when I lost my Dalmatian.
thanks for posing in my OP.. Pet owners take care of their own.. :~)
pacalo
(24,721 posts)HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)I got him as a kitten shortly before putting down his 16 year old predecessor (it was inevitable). People who don't like pets spare themselves from going through the separation, but they are missing so much. Pets are family members.
mdmc
(29,069 posts)Hate to feel pain , but am a pet lover. In my heart I know the pets are worth the heartbreak..
Thanks for the reply hopehoops
GoCubsGo
(32,086 posts)Such a pretty kitty! Hugs to you and your family. I like to think that Bella is whooping it up with Vito in the afterlife.
mdmc
(29,069 posts)Thanks for the reply gocubsgo.
peace and low stress!
fizzgig
(24,146 posts)i'm sorry for the loss of your friend. it hurts us to do it, but we do it because we love them.
and, yes, it is a shame we as humans don't have the same option.
mdmc
(29,069 posts)I feel a little silly being so bummed out when others are hurting so much.
Thanks for the reply
EFerrari
(163,986 posts)It's hard to say goodbye to our best friends.
mdmc
(29,069 posts)tabbycat31
(6,336 posts)beautiful kitty
davsand
(13,421 posts)There is an awful lot of personality and unconditional love in those furry little bodies. They gift us with so much, it is only right that we let them go without pain and suffering when their time comes. Evil as Tillie(you bitch) was, I still miss that cat--and she passed from this world almost 15 years ago. Nothing ever replaces them, but it does seem that the next one helps fill that void a bit while bringing new joys to us.
ChaucerDCat and I both send our love to you.
Laura
OhioChick
(23,218 posts)Tikki
(14,557 posts)We know you will miss Bella.
Thanks for sharing her picture...she was a very pretty kitty.
The Tikkis
MerryBlooms
(11,770 posts)pink-o
(4,056 posts)She was a lap sitting lover till the very end. We knew it was over when she stopped purring every time we pet her, but she died at home, peacefully fading from this plane of existence.
And yes, they are family members: I've had dogs and cats who've been more caring than some of my human relatives! So anyone who trivializes such a painful loss with comments like: "It's just an animal" is not worth engaging with on any level!
Hugs to you, MDMC. Glad Bella is beyond suffering, just like my Dark Matter. Hope they're playing together in a field filled with catnip.
TuxedoKat
(3,818 posts)for the loss of Bella. She was a gorgeous cat. (((HUGS)))