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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI as sitting here waiting for all that my dear friend at the nursing home as passed.
She went on hospice and the time is coming fast.
I did visit her today but she was sleeping.
Her family is there now.
I will miss her.
I am glad she know nothing of government shut down.
It is hard making friends in a nursing home, but worth it.
She was a vet in WW2.
Her family didn't want her to go in but there were no boys in her family.
She felt like she had to go.
She landed in Europe in 1944, a month after D day.
She told me only a few women were there at that time.
She knew German so she was needed to speak to German POW's.
My friend had so many stories to tell of her days in the Army.
I am glad she does't know about what is going on in Washington.
I miss her already.
Her name was Sally Joe, named after a uncle killed in WWI.
Sally Joe was life long democrat, voted for FDR as her first vote.
Have a good journey Sally Joe.
Thank you for being my friend.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,681 posts)Sounds to me as though she was a really cool woman...
She knows you love her, and she will always be part of you...
texanwitch
(18,705 posts)I forgot the purple heart she won for being wounded.
She was really important work talking to the pow's and reading documents that were found.
Women vets in WW2 did there part also.
She said the pow's would tell her stuff they wouldn't tell another man.
She was pretty also, that didn't hurt.
Sally Joe was tough, had to learn to protect herself.
She packed a 45 with her at all times.
She had stories about Paris when the American troops went in.
Sally Joe went everywheres across Europe.
What a woman.
GreenPartyVoter
(72,381 posts)texanwitch
(18,705 posts)Sally Joe and I became great friends.
I would take her out and we would drive around the hill country for a day.
She was a blast to be around.
GreenPartyVoter
(72,381 posts)texanwitch
(18,705 posts)Germans and Czechs settled the Texas hill country.
She could speak both German and Czech.
Her father was German descent, her mother of Czech descent.
Sally Joe wanted to serve her country and she did.
She stayed in the army for almost 10 years.
She was stationed in Germany after the war doing important work.
Sally Joe met her husband in the Army and they were married.
She had 5 kids and lots grandchildren, and greatgrand children.
Sally Joe as a proud Democrat.
She reminds me of Anne Richards.
GreenPartyVoter
(72,381 posts)texanwitch
(18,705 posts)I would tell her are you sure Anne Richards and you are not related.
snacker
(3,619 posts)Thank you for sharing Sally Joe's story with us.
Bertha Venation
(21,484 posts)I'm sorry that you are losing your friend.
MiddleFingerMom
(25,163 posts)texanwitch
(18,705 posts)Sally Joe has cancer so she was ready to go.
It is hard to let go sometimes.
She did her duty well.
Sally Joe would be as mad as hell about what is happening in Washington.
go west young man
(4,856 posts)who lived an equally amazing life.
No Vested Interest
(5,167 posts)Voice for Peace
(13,141 posts)love_katz
(2,584 posts)Wishing Sally Joe a peaceful passage, and joyous reunions when she crosses the Rainbow bridge.
plantwomyn
(876 posts)as long as you remember her and tell others about her that will remember her, take heart that she will not be gone from this Earth.
Mnemosyne
(21,363 posts)Greybnk48
(10,171 posts)I'm sorry you're losing your friend. Take care.
Tumbulu
(6,292 posts)And thanks for sharing a bit about her life.
orleans
(34,072 posts)she'll remember you as you remember her.
you'll see her again. she'll probably be there to greet you.
i'm sorry the two of you are parting for now.
bluesbassman
(19,379 posts)Glad she was your friend texanwitch.
icymist
(15,888 posts)Thank you for sharing Sally Joe's story with us. What a fascinating life! Blessed Be.
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)nurse in Korea and Viet Nam. As you mentioned, she had some wonderful stories.
May Sally Joe go in peace and you be comforted that she had a life well-lived.
KurtNYC
(14,549 posts)I was greatly helped in recent grievings by Elizabeth Kubler Roth's last book "On Grief and Grieving"
Grief is a biological process, as uncontrollable as puberty. Be good to yourself.
texanwitch
(18,705 posts)Sally Joe passed in her sleep early the next morning.
She had her military funeral she wanted so much.
I have one of the shells, I will treasure it.
She was one of a kind.
She was just turned 95.