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undeterred

(34,658 posts)
2. I assume that means they hated the Glenn Close character...
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:26 PM
Feb 2012

I think the part was well played and the story is not that far fetched.

Yavin4

(35,441 posts)
13. Back in the 80s, There Was A Huge Backlash Against Women Working
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 05:20 PM
Feb 2012

Movies like "Fatal Attraction" and "Baby Boom" sent subtle messages that career oriented women were unhappy and unstable, and the work at home wife was happier and more content.

siligut

(12,272 posts)
3. Great example of a Borderline Personality Disorder.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:28 PM
Feb 2012

To the extreme for sure, but persons with BPD can be extreme.

siligut

(12,272 posts)
6. Major abandonment issues.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 03:12 PM
Feb 2012

And yes, invalidation is a huge problem for people with BPD. Also, she used sex to get attention, another red flag when combined with other symptoms. They lie, manipulate and all the while believe they are the victim, it is a painful disorder and it makes other people miserable too.

zbdent

(35,392 posts)
4. saw it in the theater with the future Mrs. ZBDent ...
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 02:29 PM
Feb 2012

and I couldn't move from the seat for 10 minutes after the movie ended ...

libodem

(19,288 posts)
9. I still haven't ever seen it
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 03:35 PM
Feb 2012

Do you recommend it.? I wrote a term paper on BPD in nursing school years ago. They fit the old profile of socialpaths.

pokerfan

(27,677 posts)
14. From the 'I didn't know that' files
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 08:39 PM
Feb 2012

According to wiki:

The film's female lead has been discussed by psychiatrists and film experts, and has been used as a film illustration for the condition borderline personality disorder.<9> The character displays the behaviors of impulsivity, emotional lability, fear of abandonment, idealization/devaluation and self-mutilation consistent with the diagnosis, although generally aggression to the self rather than others is a more usual feature in borderline personality disorder.<10>

As referenced in Orit Kamirs' Every Breath You Take: Stalking Narratives and the Law, "Glenn Close's character Alex is quite deliberately made to be an erotomaniac. Gelder reports that Glenn Close 'consulted three separate shrinks for an inner profile of her character, who is meant to be suffering from a form of obsessive condition known as de Clérambault's syndrome' (Gelder 1990, 93 - 94)".<11>

^ Robinson, David J. (1999). The Field Guide to Personality Disorders. Rapid Psychler Press. pp. 113. ISBN 0-9680324-6-X.
^ Wedding D, Boyd MA, Niemiec RM (2005). Movies and Mental Illness: Using Films to Understand Psychopathology. Cambridge, MA: Hogrefe. p. 59. ISBN 0-88937-292-6.
^ Kamir, Orit (2001). Every Breath You Take: Stalking Narratives and the Law. University of Michigan Press. pp. 256. ISBN 978-0472110896.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fatal_Attraction


Probably a host of defense mechanisms (projection, denial, distortion, passive aggression, etc.) at work as well. We all have them. She truly saw herself as the victim. Of course, the Dan character was not blameless either as it takes two to cheat. Another psychological thriller I especially liked was Single White Female.

undeterred

(34,658 posts)
15. I think the Dan character that Michael Douglas really displays the way men rationalize affairs...
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 09:27 PM
Feb 2012

especially in a situation where the man is in a happy marriage with a lovely wife and child. The only real reason he cheats on her is that the opportunity presents itself. He's not the least bit unhappy or lonely.

The woman he picks is attractive but it seems to take him by surprise when she asks him "what are you doing here" and expects him to spend time with her the day after sex. When she starts calling his office and his home he's kind of horrified that he can't contain it. But it really isn't that shocking. The whole thing starts from a "date" and the expectations are kind of ambiguous. Well he knows what his are, but he doesn't imagine that hers might be different.

Then when he finally has to tell his wife about it, he says the usual "it only happened once" and "it didn't mean anything". But it means the whole world to his wife.

LeftinOH

(5,354 posts)
12. Play Misty for Me was just as good, with better scenery (and you didn't have to
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 04:47 PM
Feb 2012

see Michael Douglas' nekkid arse, either).

undeterred

(34,658 posts)
18. Never had boiled rabbit.
Tue Feb 7, 2012, 10:56 PM
Feb 2012

Its the only movie where Glenn Close is scary. Kind of funny because in "Jagged Edge" she's scared the whole movie and she does that really well too.

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