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NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:39 AM Nov 2013

Holy shit, is everybody ready?

There's only a day or so (depending on travel plans) until Thanksgiving. Are you ready for the big sit down with the family?

Are you ready to pile into the car, plane, train, Greyhound... for the trip to wherever the meal is being served?

Are you doing all the work and serving dozens of family members?

Ready or not, here it comes. After this week's festivities we'll remember why we only see these people once a year for a meal.

Good luck surviving your holidaze. Be sure to check back in with stories from the front lines.

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Holy shit, is everybody ready? (Original Post) NightWatcher Nov 2013 OP
My husband and I are ready, my dear NightWatcher! CaliforniaPeggy Nov 2013 #1
Enjoy your birthday and the rest of PeggyPalooza NightWatcher Nov 2013 #4
Yes. Incitatus Nov 2013 #2
Crap, is it time to wipe off the plastic plates already? rug Nov 2013 #3
Don't forget your sporks pinboy3niner Nov 2013 #7
Thanks! I have enough time to wash the toothpicks too. rug Nov 2013 #9
I have no family any more, so... TreasonousBastard Nov 2013 #5
Happy Thanksgivinukkah! elleng Nov 2013 #11
I wasn't thinking of it until I heard a Jewish chef... TreasonousBastard Nov 2013 #12
A bunch of recipes here! elleng Nov 2013 #13
"Pecan-cornflake topping"... TreasonousBastard Nov 2013 #14
Tastes like...CORNFLAKE-BREADED CHICKEN! pinboy3niner Nov 2013 #16
What did the big white whale drink some bad drano? Boom Sound 416 Nov 2013 #17
I'll be doing the same for Thanksgiving pinboy3niner Nov 2013 #34
Just me and my wife, our little dog and cats, and our Tofurky. onehandle Nov 2013 #6
Loaded on craft beers...there's the plan NightWatcher Nov 2013 #8
I heard THAT! Callmecrazy Nov 2013 #39
Guess so, Watcher. elleng Nov 2013 #10
I'm ready for the annual family fightfest. Vashta Nerada Nov 2013 #15
I'd love to be a fly on the wall... Callmecrazy Nov 2013 #41
No travel. Cooking for 7. Nobody driving long distance. mnhtnbb Nov 2013 #18
working at the hospital magical thyme Nov 2013 #19
Snow removal professional here... Earth_First Nov 2013 #20
I'm doing quite a bit of the work. Xyzse Nov 2013 #21
There's only six of us sharp_stick Nov 2013 #22
We are Jewish so we got the two for one thing going this year. mucifer Nov 2013 #23
I'm off to BJ's this afternoon. In_The_Wind Nov 2013 #24
Be careful. I drove by Costco and it was insanely crowded NightWatcher Nov 2013 #40
Only two of us, and dog PasadenaTrudy Nov 2013 #25
Maybe this will get you in the mood... lame54 Nov 2013 #26
i made the corn bread for the stuffing last night fizzgig Nov 2013 #27
I'm always ready. LWolf Nov 2013 #28
Me and my Dad. Iggo Nov 2013 #29
All we have is the turkey. blueamy66 Nov 2013 #30
Thanks to Alton Brown Ryano42 Nov 2013 #31
I'm spending it with the cats. Wait Wut Nov 2013 #32
You can come to our house. Blue_In_AK Nov 2013 #36
Awwww!!! Wait Wut Nov 2013 #37
Completely understandable. Blue_In_AK Nov 2013 #38
I am ready! bigwillq Nov 2013 #33
I'm just cooking for a fraction of my family, Blue_In_AK Nov 2013 #35
I'm traveling to the Gulf Coast... Callmecrazy Nov 2013 #42
I am driving about 15 miles to my son's house RebelOne Nov 2013 #43

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,683 posts)
1. My husband and I are ready, my dear NightWatcher!
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:44 AM
Nov 2013

All we have to do? Show up!

My daughter and her boyfriend are cooking, and they put on a real show!

I will take pictures and eat, and talk, and drink and have a great time...

Incitatus

(5,317 posts)
2. Yes.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:44 AM
Nov 2013

All I have to do is a little traveling, no cooking involved. We do not discuss politics at family events. It will be a good day.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
5. I have no family any more, so...
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:53 AM
Nov 2013

I'm helping at the free and open Thanksgiving dinner at the local Unitarian church. We've been doing this since long before I showed up here and we've had up to a hundred people showing up. Usually more like 50, but it's a welcome place for those who have no other. And some who do, but prefer it here for their own reasons.

For the rare Jewish Thanksgiving this year, I'll be making kugel and sweet potato latkes in addition to my usual pumpkin soup.

TreasonousBastard

(43,049 posts)
12. I wasn't thinking of it until I heard a Jewish chef...
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 01:26 AM
Nov 2013

talking on NPR this morning and realized there's a lot of Jewish comfort food that fits right in with our traditional stuff.

As it should.

Do play with at least one.




elleng

(131,077 posts)
13. A bunch of recipes here!
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 01:33 AM
Nov 2013
http://www.buzzfeed.com/christinebyrne/thanksgivukkah

Going to daughter's in NJ, her NEW house, she's VERY pregnant, and her in-laws, she says, like 'very traditional,' so that's what we're having. MAYBE I'll try to play with some of these recipes with younger daughter, after I return home, if she and her guy will have me, or I can do it at the cottage.



Something about this strikes my fancy, don't know why, don't even drink bourbon!

A mash-up of noodle kugel and sweet potato pie, this dish is a soufflé-like casserole with a pretty serious bourbon kick. And don’t skimp on the pecan-cornflake topping; it adds crowd-pleasing crunch to a dish that most non-Jews tend to roll their eyes at. Recipe and step-by-step photos here. http://www.buzzfeed.com/christinebyrne/sweet-potato-kugel

pinboy3niner

(53,339 posts)
34. I'll be doing the same for Thanksgiving
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:57 PM
Nov 2013

The last of my family, my older brother, lives right up the road. He and his girlfriend probably will go to Hometown Buffet for their Thanksgiving dinner. Instead of joining them, I'll probably head over to our local food bank to help with their holiday meal for people who are homeless or struggling. If there's enough left at the end, the volunteers usually get fed, too.

Not that I won't also be dining in style around, if not on, the holiday. The supermarket holiday sales are a great time to pick up a couple of standing rib roasts at a good price. I'll cut them into thick steaks and freeze them for roasting or grilling--with Yorkshire pudding, mashed potatoes, veggies, biscuits, and a nice wine. (Oh, who am I kidding? A cheap cabernet will do. )

The fat can also be rendered for more drippings for Yorkshire pudding, and makes delicious beef rinds. And if I come up short on drippings for the pudding, I add some drippings from hickory-smoked bacon to make up the difference.

I tend to be on the skinny side, so no one begrudges me for eating well when I can.

onehandle

(51,122 posts)
6. Just me and my wife, our little dog and cats, and our Tofurky.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:53 AM
Nov 2013

But the night before, we're going to a Thanksgiving Eve feast at a local pub/restaurant for seasonal craft beers and holiday eats.

NightWatcher

(39,343 posts)
8. Loaded on craft beers...there's the plan
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:57 AM
Nov 2013

Now if the homegrown craft reefer market would just takeoff in popularity....

elleng

(131,077 posts)
10. Guess so, Watcher.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 01:13 AM
Nov 2013

Driving to NJ to be with daughter, son in law, and his family, in daughter's NEW house (just moved in last week!) and she's expecting baby in few weeks. Hope weather's OK for the solo drive (tomorrow.) I'll help her cook and whatever, and considering her condition, I expect we'll do it without too much exertion. Hope I'm right about that!

Good luck to all!

 

Vashta Nerada

(3,922 posts)
15. I'm ready for the annual family fightfest.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 01:47 AM
Nov 2013

My brother-in-law will be bitchy and whiny and he'll start fighting with my parents and my sister. My sister-in-law will get so drunk she'll piss her pants and fight with my brother. And I get to share a bedroom with the cat. I'd say I have it good, considering.

mnhtnbb

(31,401 posts)
18. No travel. Cooking for 7. Nobody driving long distance.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 09:22 AM
Nov 2013

Expect it to be a harmonious group.

One son, and his SO. The SO of our other son (who is in Berlin until next July
on a Fulbright). An older couple who are friends of ours.

Not a Republican in the group.

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
19. working at the hospital
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 10:38 AM
Nov 2013

I work 2nd shift. Hopefully the overstuffers won't hit the ED until after I've gone home, or at least until after the 3rd shift tech arrives.

I am way behind on my online training, so have to get them finished. Also I have to do something with my performance review. I'm not sure what I'm supposed to to with it and I forget how to find it online and the last time I was supposed to do something with it, after I tried to do whatever I was supposed to do they sent out an email apologizing for the email saying we were supposed to do something because they sent it by accident. And since according to their memo last summer, all their employees got a raise, except we the per diems *didn't* get a raise, I don't know why I'm supposed to give a flying fuck about the review.

I will be bringing my own food with me. I'm not sure what just yet...I'll put it together on Wednesday. When I worked Thanksgiving 2 years ago, they offered a slab of boiled ham out of a can, a pile of mashed potatoes made from a box, and canned green beans. And then had the gall to charge $5.00 for it. I won't make that mistake twice.

Earth_First

(14,910 posts)
20. Snow removal professional here...
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 10:45 AM
Nov 2013

Locked, stocked and ready.

In a holding pattern awaiting the white stuff!

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
22. There's only six of us
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 10:49 AM
Nov 2013

this year but I'm ready to go. Got the turkey with a dry brine in the fridge and the rest of the ingredients are set.

I have my menu orders from the family way in advance so it's usually a pretty smooth day.

Not only that my MIL shows up with a case of wine and she brought me a big bottle of Makers Mark.

mucifer

(23,560 posts)
23. We are Jewish so we got the two for one thing going this year.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 10:50 AM
Nov 2013

I'm just hoping my brother doesn't start talking about Israel and Iran.

He's smarter than me and is better at arguing and I don't even try anymore.



PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
25. Only two of us, and dog
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 11:06 AM
Nov 2013

We are picking up our already prepared food from a good restaurant here in L.A. No relatives, and best of all no kids on Thxgvng!!

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
27. i made the corn bread for the stuffing last night
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:06 PM
Nov 2013

going to dad's today or tomorrow to get the turkey rubbed down, sister is getting the pie crusts together today and i'll go back after work tomorrow to help bang out the rest of the prep and then just stay the night.

it's just my dad, sister, husband and i this year.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
28. I'm always ready.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:18 PM
Nov 2013

There's almost nothing for me to do.

Tomorrow I'll make a salad. Thursday morning the salad and I will travel about 20 miles to my son's house, where he, my DIL, and my grandson will have done all the work. At some point, they'll ask me to make the gravy.

We'll have 6 people, since my other son and his family is 1200 miles away and not traveling for the holiday. No big fuss. My mom will make stuffing at her house and bring it...her specialty. My dil's father will bring a selection of pies. Son and family will supply everything else.

This year, I've been put on a very restricted diet to deal with some health issues. It's working. I told my son not to worry; I can put a little turkey on top of the salad I'm bringing, and I'll be fine.

He and his family are concerned about that. They don't want me to be "left out" of all the goodies, even though it's not bothering me. Sunday night he called me with a list of questions about what is on, and not. Based on the questions, I believe he's trying to concoct some sort of fat-free, sugar-free stevia-sweetened dessert. Whatever it is, I'll eat it and tell him it's wonderful, because he is.

I see these people all of the time. I love them. We enjoy each other's company. We don't talk politics at family gatherings.

 

blueamy66

(6,795 posts)
30. All we have is the turkey.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:44 PM
Nov 2013

Going out tonight or tomorrow to shop.

The list is complete. I cannot wait!

Bring on the football games!!

Ryano42

(1,577 posts)
31. Thanks to Alton Brown
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:45 PM
Nov 2013

Ready to rock the bird!

Brining the turkey and his "reverse cooking" technique makes it easy (no opening the oven or basting...no FIRES from oil!) and when the digital temp probe goes off it's time to hear the ooh's and ahh's from my brother's family!

http://www.foodnetwork.com/recipes/alton-brown/good-eats-roast-turkey-recipe/index.html

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
32. I'm spending it with the cats.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:53 PM
Nov 2013

The husband is playing up north Thur. and Fri. My son and DIL moved to MO in October.

I'm making dinner on Saturday, but it will be weird and a little depressing. Not looking forward to the holiday thing this year.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
36. You can come to our house.
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 04:15 PM
Nov 2013

I'm making a big dinner for just four of us. Hop on a plane and head to Alaska.

Wait Wut

(8,492 posts)
37. Awwww!!!
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 04:16 PM
Nov 2013

Thanks.

I'll be okay. And, no offense, but if I could afford a flight, I'd be headed to KCMO and then offta Chicago to see my big brother and sister.

You made my day, though.

 

bigwillq

(72,790 posts)
33. I am ready!
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 12:55 PM
Nov 2013

Not traveling.
Working Wed-Thurs-Fri.
Ready to eat mom's yummy turkey dinner and see some family and friends.

Thanksgiving is one of my fave holidays!

Enjoy!

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
35. I'm just cooking for a fraction of my family,
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 04:14 PM
Nov 2013

but I wish it was for all of them. My youngest and her boyfriend will be here, but my older girls and their families are in Denver and Australia with their husbands' families.

Callmecrazy

(3,065 posts)
42. I'm traveling to the Gulf Coast...
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 05:08 PM
Nov 2013

2 hours to see the folks and some cousins.
We're flipping the script on turkey day this year by doing not turkey but lobsters that we caught during the mini season down in the keys. Got (no lie) about 100 of them left and we're gonna have us a lobster bake on the beach at my folks resort on Casey Key. I actually love getting together with my extended family. We have a great time. As long as I keep my mouth shut and don't bring up politics or religion.

Here's a link to my folks resort:
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http://gulfsurf.com/index.html


RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
43. I am driving about 15 miles to my son's house
Tue Nov 26, 2013, 07:53 PM
Nov 2013

in Canton, GA. He and his wife will be doing all the cooking.

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