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charlie and algernon

(13,447 posts)
Mon Mar 17, 2014, 04:26 PM Mar 2014

At 11 years old, my cat just now figured out The Most Important Cat Rule.

Your Human MUST be accompanied when they use the bathroom.

Esther is 11 years old and I've had her for over 5 of those years and she's never felt it necessary to accompany me to the bathroom. About a month ago, she must've finally gotten that particular memo and now must push open the bathroom door whenever I'm taking a shower. Then starting yesterday, I got the privilege of having her sit next to me while I was on the toilet.

I wish I had known that memo was in her mailbox, I might have hidden it and kept my last bastion of privacy.

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At 11 years old, my cat just now figured out The Most Important Cat Rule. (Original Post) charlie and algernon Mar 2014 OP
Oh my, Esther is late to the party. TexasTowelie Mar 2014 #1
Maybe that was the issue charlie and algernon Mar 2014 #2
you want I should kick some bathroom-peeping feline ass, charlie and algernon? Skittles Mar 2014 #3
This should be interesting... TexasTowelie Mar 2014 #4
You can try, but she's got some mass to her charlie and algernon Mar 2014 #5
I think they get the Cat Rule Book at shelters and rescues. The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2014 #6
My dog used to like to poke her nose in shenmue Mar 2014 #7
My cat, unfortunately, LWolf Mar 2014 #8
Your cat wears long pants and shoes? The Velveteen Ocelot Mar 2014 #9
She wears anything she wants, lol. LWolf Mar 2014 #13
My parents had a similar problem mythology Mar 2014 #10
my dog follows me into the bathroom all the time. She sits next to me with her back to me TeamPooka Mar 2014 #11
My cat climbs on my shoulders while i'm on the throne. NutmegYankee Mar 2014 #12
Now that my furbaby, Toby, is an only child, if avebury Mar 2014 #14
Esther is an only cat too charlie and algernon Mar 2014 #19
I adopted a Bombay from a shelter about 13 yrs ago. pink-o Mar 2014 #15
Yep: dogs have owners, cats have STAFF! Lizzie Poppet Mar 2014 #16
Had to look up bombay cats. They are beautiful! charlie and algernon Mar 2014 #18
we have Bombays NJCher Mar 2014 #20
Ahhhh, that is a familiar look! pink-o Mar 2014 #22
I'd get another Bombay in a heartbeat NJCher Mar 2014 #27
My cat doesn't tolerate closed doors. If the door is closed he will scratch at it until it's open. LisaL Mar 2014 #17
A slow learner...at least 4 of my six always join me... joeybee12 Mar 2014 #21
I think I'd have to draw the line there charlie and algernon Mar 2014 #23
Hah! joeybee12 Mar 2014 #24
Both of our cats Marthe48 Mar 2014 #25
Sorry to tell you, but she PumpkinAle Mar 2014 #26

charlie and algernon

(13,447 posts)
2. Maybe that was the issue
Mon Mar 17, 2014, 04:41 PM
Mar 2014

I think she was a stray before she made it to the shelter, so she never got the Official Cat Rule Book when she was a kitten. Or perhaps her book lost a few pages during her life on the street.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,829 posts)
6. I think they get the Cat Rule Book at shelters and rescues.
Mon Mar 17, 2014, 05:26 PM
Mar 2014

My two shelter cats are relentless bathroom pests. One of them sticks his paw under the door and claws at it, or just sits by the door and whines; the other rattles the doorknob and howls if the door is latched; if it is not latched he just throws his shoulder against it until it flies open. The third cat was a farm cat, and she didn't demand bathroom access until she had lived here for a few weeks. The others must have given her a copy of the Cat Rule Book.

Sometimes all three of them come in at once. They drink from the sink, sit in the laundry hamper, or - usually - they just sit and stare at me.

shenmue

(38,506 posts)
7. My dog used to like to poke her nose in
Mon Mar 17, 2014, 07:27 PM
Mar 2014

and say "Hi" when someone went into the bathroom. She'd walk in with the biggest smile, and not seem to understand why I would shoo her out.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
8. My cat, unfortunately,
Tue Mar 18, 2014, 09:36 AM
Mar 2014

considers time on the throne to be perfect; a captive available for attacking. When wearing long pants and shoes, she jumps up on the tank and bats the hair on the head around. When legs or feet are bare, she strikes them like a snake. Repeatedly.

LWolf

(46,179 posts)
13. She wears anything she wants, lol.
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 08:27 AM
Mar 2014

And, just like a cat, takes advantage of my tired brain whenever she can.

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
10. My parents had a similar problem
Tue Mar 18, 2014, 06:36 PM
Mar 2014

Except it was that one cat, due to having special diet needs, had to be fed in the bathroom. Which one of the other cats and one of the dogs figured out. So any time the bathroom door was shutting, they would try to push their way in, assuming there was food to be had.

TeamPooka

(24,250 posts)
11. my dog follows me into the bathroom all the time. She sits next to me with her back to me
Tue Mar 18, 2014, 06:50 PM
Mar 2014

so I can scratch or rub it for her.
She's knows a captive audience when she sees one.

avebury

(10,952 posts)
14. Now that my furbaby, Toby, is an only child, if
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 08:35 AM
Mar 2014

I leave the room he is in it does not take long for him to come looking for me.

charlie and algernon

(13,447 posts)
19. Esther is an only cat too
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 10:17 AM
Mar 2014

Occasionally, if I'm downstairs after getting home and she's upstairs in my room, she'll start to call out and cry. She must get annoyed when she can hear that I'm home but I have yet to make my way upstairs to give her attention.

pink-o

(4,056 posts)
15. I adopted a Bombay from a shelter about 13 yrs ago.
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 08:44 AM
Mar 2014

I had no idea that they were known as "barnacles" and "Lap Fungus"--I figured all cats were aloof until they wanted food. But I learned very quickly: this cat would curl up on my lap before I'd even finished sitting! So yes--even in the bathroom she'd make a place for herself, stretching out along my femur. Maybe the purring helped me out, who knows!

That might be the "rule of cats" but every guardian knows the first rule of HUMANS is that the cat is the master. We are mere minions. And that means if they wanna follow us into the bathroom or anywhere else, we allow it. We really have no choice: They were once worshipped in ancient Egypt and we shall NEVER forget it!

 

Lizzie Poppet

(10,164 posts)
16. Yep: dogs have owners, cats have STAFF!
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 09:33 AM
Mar 2014

I shut the bathroom door when I'm using the toilet...and my Spookie will stick her paw under the door. If I poke my toe at it (small bathroom...), she'll bat at my toe.

charlie and algernon

(13,447 posts)
18. Had to look up bombay cats. They are beautiful!
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 10:13 AM
Mar 2014

The wiki page on their personality seems very apt to what you were describing, lol

Most Bombay cats are not independent. Older Bombays are some what more independent than younger ones. They seek attention from their owners and people around them often and dislike being left alone for extended periods of time. Although they like to be around people generally, Bombay Cats also tend to have a certain person whom they pay special attention to in their lives.

NJCher

(35,716 posts)
20. we have Bombays
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 12:17 PM
Mar 2014

You are so right. I laughed at your remark about them being lap cats before you can sit down. They are quite aggressive about getting their love fix from their chosen human every day.

At night mine has to cuddle up to me at least twice and purr her little head off. The other one is upstairs, aggressively rubbing her face against her chosen human's chin.

That chin has a beard, so additional bonus points to Bombay for whisker scratching.

As far as the bath goes, I totally shut the door but that doesn't stop them. One has a way of scratching the door panel repeatedly. Then when I open the door, strolls in as if I were the interloper.

Here are my two Bombays:

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Cher

pink-o

(4,056 posts)
22. Ahhhh, that is a familiar look!
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 05:28 PM
Mar 2014

What you can't see from the pic is exactly how soft and lush their fur is. Good thing they love affection, cuz you can't stop stroking that gorgeous coat!

I was not a cat person until my Bombay came into my life. I had her for 5 years then gave her to my dad after my mom died. It was the perfect pairing: she got a permanent lap and all this human attention, and he got a sweet cuddly kitty to help him thru the grief. Kitty died 2 years ago, having lived a good, long life with LOTS of love. Dad is still here, but doesn't want another cat. She was one-of-a-kind!

NJCher

(35,716 posts)
27. I'd get another Bombay in a heartbeat
Fri Mar 21, 2014, 10:13 AM
Mar 2014

Glad she had such a happy life with both you and your dad.

I never even knew about Bombays--it was just by chance that we got the two sisters; one of the most fortuitous things to ever happen to us.



Cher

LisaL

(44,974 posts)
17. My cat doesn't tolerate closed doors. If the door is closed he will scratch at it until it's open.
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 09:50 AM
Mar 2014

Because he should be allowed everywhere.

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
21. A slow learner...at least 4 of my six always join me...
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 12:27 PM
Mar 2014

And Blue, now 10 months old, still jumps up and peers into the toilet when I stand and go...

charlie and algernon

(13,447 posts)
23. I think I'd have to draw the line there
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 06:50 PM
Mar 2014

I'd hate to get distracted and end up with a, um, "pissed off" cat.

 

joeybee12

(56,177 posts)
24. Hah!
Wed Mar 19, 2014, 06:54 PM
Mar 2014

All my other cats learned the hard way what happens from too much curosity! Blue, however, has been pissed off twice and still hasn't leanred!

Marthe48

(17,015 posts)
25. Both of our cats
Thu Mar 20, 2014, 11:07 AM
Mar 2014

want to come into the bathroom with me. Our Manx girl likes to drink out of the tap in the tub, so morning and evening, she runs in with me, I obediently turn on the tap. She likes to let it run, haha. After she gets her drink, which always gets her head soaked, she runs out of the bathroom and our boy cat, who hates running water, licks all the water off her head. So entertaining!

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