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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI took my dog Louise to the vet's for the last time today
It was hard. I held her the whole time. I balled, so did both of my parents, and our vet of 9 years. Everyone loved Louise more than most people. She knew it was time. She told me last night. I saw it, we all did. She was only hanging on for us, because of how big her heart was. She was the smartest dog I've ever met. One time my mom told her to go back and say good morning to dad. She left the kitchen den area- the only place in the house she was allowed to go, which she faithfully observed gate free since she was a pup and went back into my parents room (where she never goes) and let out a "roo roo rooroorough", turned around and walked right back out. She understood words like sun and shade, knew everyone's name, and understood human emotion remarkably well. When her sister died I was about to move to austin. Mom was a wreck and Louise was incredibly dispondent. She wouldn't get up or go outside or wag or tail. Two days before I moved I talked with her at night. I told her I knew it was hard but that she had to be strong and happy for mom because I was not going to be there. That she had to percovere for the other loved ones in her life. The next morning she was fine again, back to her old active loving self. I've been randomly crying ever since I knew we were going to yesterday and I don't know how I will fair at work (bartender) tomorrow. I put her tag up on my roommate's and My shrine wall next to a painting of his grandfather that survived a fire. I know the first thing I will hear when I pass on is her signature "welcome home" bark, though bark does not seem to do what she did justice. It sounded much more like she was trying to talk and was obviously elated.
CaliforniaPeggy
(149,699 posts)Louise was really a remarkable dog........how lucky you two were to have each other!
This has got to be a very tough time for you, but you must know you have done the right thing. They rely on us to take care of them when they no longer can........
To end their suffering is such a gift.
Take care of yourself.....and eventually your memories of her will sustain you.
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)Take care.
Jenoch
(7,720 posts)Louise sounds like a great dog. The hardest thing I ever had to do was to take our family cat to be put down when I was 30 years old. Somehow I ended up taking care of him after I got out of college. I was 9 years old when we got him. He was almost like a little brother to me, which sounds ridiculous, but 21 years will have an impact.
Dragonbreathp9d
(2,542 posts)Couldn't imagine 21
Jenoch
(7,720 posts)His wife had a year old cat when they got married and it lived to be 18. When his youngest son was about ten years old he asked for a cat (they already had a dog). My brother, who was about 45 at the time told him "play with the neighbor's cat, I'm too old to get another cat."
tofuandbeer
(1,314 posts)I was there myself, twice.
My first 2 dogs.
They went everywhere with us. It was so hard to let them go after 15+ years.
I still miss them, but have since rescued a new Shepherd mix who is awesome as well.
Thanks for sharing, Dragon! Our thoughts are with you.
roguevalley
(40,656 posts)epitome of love and grace. Your dog sounds wonderful. They never leave us. They are always around. I still hear my boy's toe nails on the wood floor some nights. When my sister had to do this with her boy, Hootch, a huge mastiff/lab/shar pei I was dozing on the couch at my house. At the exact moment he left us (I checked the time with her) I felt a really hard punch in the chest. I opened my eyes and saw a huge black nose, then the happiest laughing eyes on a brown dog's face looking at me. When I blinked, he was gone.
Hootch came to me to say good bye because he knew I would see him and tell my sister. Your baby is with you always and will let you know. They give nothing but good. They are nothing but love. It is no accident that dog is God backwards.
I hug you tight.
BlancheSplanchnik
(20,219 posts)cui bono
(19,926 posts)It's hard now but in time you'll I'm sure you will beam with joy when you think of her.
No Vested Interest
(5,167 posts)she meant so much to you.
Always remember the good times with Louise.
She was indeed very special.
KT2000
(20,587 posts)but she was lucky to have you there.
I'm so sorry - peace to you.
Tikki
(14,559 posts)Yikki
Kablooie
(18,641 posts)We had to say goodbye to our dog of 14 a few months ago too.
The vet came to our house so she didn't have to go to the vet that she hated so much.
Boy it's hard. I didn't realize how much I'd miss her until she was gone.
I still find myself looking for her around the house.
We might have to look for another dog soon but it's difficult since you know the new one won't have the same personality.
bearssoapbox
(1,408 posts)It sounds like Louise, you and your family were lucky and fortunate to have found each other.
Take care.
littlewolf
(3,813 posts)your memories of her will help you. I know mine have helped me.
marzipanni
(6,011 posts)It's so hard to let go of our animals, yet we couldn't let them suffer. Louise lived a good life, and made your lives better, as you did for her.
Skittles
(153,193 posts)Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you...
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.
by Isla Paschal Richardson
DesertDiamond
(1,616 posts)pet, it's unbearably heartbreaking. I hope you will always know, though, that you did exactly the right thing for Louise. I once held on too long and didn't do what I really should have done, and I will always regret that I didn't give my sweet kitty that pleasant end to his suffering. I send you love and hugs, and to your family too.
Omaha Steve
(99,708 posts)She lost her buddy a couple weeks ago.
https://theanimalrescuesite.greatergood.com/store/ars/item/35843/?adId=130053&placementId=360643&origin=ctg_ths_home_from_grg_sitenav
raccoon
(31,119 posts)I think that's the last thing we can do for our four-footed companions.
Phentex
(16,334 posts)I know that pain.
shenmue
(38,506 posts)hamsterjill
(15,224 posts)Thank you for loving Louise and allowing her to be the dog she was meant to be.
I wish you peace and comfort.
And I agree! When I pass, I fully expect to be welcomed over the bridge by many that have gone before me.
Rowdyboy
(22,057 posts)Wish you peace as you grieve for one you love.
benld74
(9,909 posts)please check out rainbow bridge(www.rainbowbridge.com) created for loss of such friends. One can memoralize them with fees given to local shelters for future friends.
alsame
(7,784 posts)tribute to Louise is just beautiful
RIP over the Rainbow Bridge, Louise. You were such a good girl
magical thyme
(14,881 posts)Worried senior
(1,328 posts)an amazing dog.
You will miss her greatly but in the future you'll be able to look back and remember her and her actions.
I am so sorry for you and your family, we've been through this several times and it never gets easier.
Liberal_in_LA
(44,397 posts)840high
(17,196 posts)samplegirl
(11,500 posts)nothing can replace the love of a faithful pet. My cat is 13 and I kiss him everyday before I leave to go to work.
I am not looking forward to the day you have had to face. I have said this many times..................the more I know people the more I love my cat!
Truly heartfelt sadness for your loss.
livetohike
(22,163 posts)May all of the good times you had and all of the little things about her life stay in your heart forever .
Throd
(7,208 posts)angstlessk
(11,862 posts)I cried for days after I lost my poochie
rurallib
(62,448 posts)RebelOne
(30,947 posts)In 2010, I had to take my wonderful Rottweiler, Legend, on her final trip to the vet. She was just a couple of months short of 13 years old. She had bone and liver cancer. But because of the bone cancer, she could not even walk any longer. It was a heartbreaking final trip to the vet.
Tom_Foolery
(4,691 posts)clandestiny
(47 posts)UTUSN
(70,740 posts)& was schooled about how it has saved hairless/discusting animals. It made me freak because maybe I might have saved one of my baby dogs
sellitman
(11,607 posts)I had to do the "right thing" with my last dog. It was so hard. Now my best friend , a 12 year old Black Lab is having his issues. This one is even more special. I'm in dread
Stay strong and be Grateful for having their love. It's quite a gift.
BarbaRosa
(2,685 posts)I've had to do that several times, it never gets any less painful. Peace
KurtNYC
(14,549 posts)I know that kind of grief all too well.
Take care of yourself at this difficult time, she'd want you to.
Feral Child
(2,086 posts)It's very hard.