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Dragonbreathp9d

(2,542 posts)
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 01:03 AM Apr 2014

I took my dog Louise to the vet's for the last time today

It was hard. I held her the whole time. I balled, so did both of my parents, and our vet of 9 years. Everyone loved Louise more than most people. She knew it was time. She told me last night. I saw it, we all did. She was only hanging on for us, because of how big her heart was. She was the smartest dog I've ever met. One time my mom told her to go back and say good morning to dad. She left the kitchen den area- the only place in the house she was allowed to go, which she faithfully observed gate free since she was a pup and went back into my parents room (where she never goes) and let out a "roo roo rooroorough", turned around and walked right back out. She understood words like sun and shade, knew everyone's name, and understood human emotion remarkably well. When her sister died I was about to move to austin. Mom was a wreck and Louise was incredibly dispondent. She wouldn't get up or go outside or wag or tail. Two days before I moved I talked with her at night. I told her I knew it was hard but that she had to be strong and happy for mom because I was not going to be there. That she had to percovere for the other loved ones in her life. The next morning she was fine again, back to her old active loving self. I've been randomly crying ever since I knew we were going to yesterday and I don't know how I will fair at work (bartender) tomorrow. I put her tag up on my roommate's and My shrine wall next to a painting of his grandfather that survived a fire. I know the first thing I will hear when I pass on is her signature "welcome home" bark, though bark does not seem to do what she did justice. It sounded much more like she was trying to talk and was obviously elated.

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I took my dog Louise to the vet's for the last time today (Original Post) Dragonbreathp9d Apr 2014 OP
Oh, my dear Dragonbreathp9d... CaliforniaPeggy Apr 2014 #1
So sorry. She sounds like an incredible sweet buddy. You, and she, are fortunate. Hoyt Apr 2014 #2
I'm sorry for your loss. Jenoch Apr 2014 #3
Louise was 14 Dragonbreathp9d Apr 2014 #4
My older brother also grew up with that cat. Jenoch Apr 2014 #31
A wonderful companion. tofuandbeer Apr 2014 #5
I personally believe that dogs are here to help us live. They are the roguevalley Apr 2014 #6
that was incredibly beautiful. BlancheSplanchnik Apr 2014 #40
I'm so sorry... cui bono Apr 2014 #7
You have described Louise so beautifully - it's no wonder No Vested Interest Apr 2014 #8
That is so hard - KT2000 Apr 2014 #9
I am so very sorry… Tikki Apr 2014 #10
Sorry to hear that. Kablooie Apr 2014 #11
I'm so sorry for your loss. bearssoapbox Apr 2014 #12
i am very sorry for your loss. it is very hard to go to the bridge. littlewolf Apr 2014 #13
I can see from what you wrote how dear she was to you. marzipanni Apr 2014 #14
so sorry Dragonbreathp9d Skittles Apr 2014 #15
One of the hardest days of anyone's life is having to do what you did; even though it's best for the DesertDiamond Apr 2014 #16
I'm getting one of these for my oldest daughter Omaha Steve Apr 2014 #17
Sorry for your loss. That's good you were with her at the end. BTDT. raccoon Apr 2014 #18
So sorry... Phentex Apr 2014 #19
Very sorry shenmue Apr 2014 #20
I'm so very sorry for your loss. hamsterjill Apr 2014 #21
My baby is 14 too so I know our time is coming....Just please don' t let it be soon Rowdyboy Apr 2014 #22
SO sorry on the loss of your friend benld74 Apr 2014 #23
I'm so sorry. Your alsame Apr 2014 #24
godspeed and rip Louise magical thyme Apr 2014 #25
She sounds like she was Worried senior Apr 2014 #26
.. Liberal_in_LA Apr 2014 #27
My heart goes out to you. 840high Apr 2014 #28
I am just so sad for you.... samplegirl Apr 2014 #29
My sympathy to you and your family on the loss of Louise. She sounds like a wonderful dog. livetohike Apr 2014 #30
Sorry to hear that. Unfortunately I will be doing the same thing sometime this year. Throd Apr 2014 #32
I know exactly how it feels to lose a loved one angstlessk Apr 2014 #33
**sniff** rurallib Apr 2014 #34
I feel your pain and I am so sorry for your loss. RebelOne Apr 2014 #35
I'm so sorry for the loss of your family member... Tom_Foolery Apr 2014 #36
So sorry for your loss. Many blessings to you both until you meet again. clandestiny Apr 2014 #37
I can't read this. Worse, I got some mange thing from a country hardware store UTUSN Apr 2014 #38
I grieve with you. sellitman Apr 2014 #39
I'm so sorry. BarbaRosa Apr 2014 #41
My heart goes out to you. KurtNYC Apr 2014 #42
I'm sorry. Feral Child Apr 2014 #43

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,699 posts)
1. Oh, my dear Dragonbreathp9d...
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 01:11 AM
Apr 2014

Louise was really a remarkable dog........how lucky you two were to have each other!

This has got to be a very tough time for you, but you must know you have done the right thing. They rely on us to take care of them when they no longer can........

To end their suffering is such a gift.

Take care of yourself.....and eventually your memories of her will sustain you.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
3. I'm sorry for your loss.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 01:42 AM
Apr 2014

Louise sounds like a great dog. The hardest thing I ever had to do was to take our family cat to be put down when I was 30 years old. Somehow I ended up taking care of him after I got out of college. I was 9 years old when we got him. He was almost like a little brother to me, which sounds ridiculous, but 21 years will have an impact.

 

Jenoch

(7,720 posts)
31. My older brother also grew up with that cat.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 04:47 PM
Apr 2014

His wife had a year old cat when they got married and it lived to be 18. When his youngest son was about ten years old he asked for a cat (they already had a dog). My brother, who was about 45 at the time told him "play with the neighbor's cat, I'm too old to get another cat."

tofuandbeer

(1,314 posts)
5. A wonderful companion.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 01:45 AM
Apr 2014

I was there myself, twice.
My first 2 dogs.
They went everywhere with us. It was so hard to let them go after 15+ years.
I still miss them, but have since rescued a new Shepherd mix who is awesome as well.
Thanks for sharing, Dragon! Our thoughts are with you.

roguevalley

(40,656 posts)
6. I personally believe that dogs are here to help us live. They are the
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 01:46 AM
Apr 2014

epitome of love and grace. Your dog sounds wonderful. They never leave us. They are always around. I still hear my boy's toe nails on the wood floor some nights. When my sister had to do this with her boy, Hootch, a huge mastiff/lab/shar pei I was dozing on the couch at my house. At the exact moment he left us (I checked the time with her) I felt a really hard punch in the chest. I opened my eyes and saw a huge black nose, then the happiest laughing eyes on a brown dog's face looking at me. When I blinked, he was gone.

Hootch came to me to say good bye because he knew I would see him and tell my sister. Your baby is with you always and will let you know. They give nothing but good. They are nothing but love. It is no accident that dog is God backwards.

I hug you tight.

No Vested Interest

(5,167 posts)
8. You have described Louise so beautifully - it's no wonder
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 01:51 AM
Apr 2014

she meant so much to you.
Always remember the good times with Louise.
She was indeed very special.

Kablooie

(18,641 posts)
11. Sorry to hear that.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 02:13 AM
Apr 2014

We had to say goodbye to our dog of 14 a few months ago too.
The vet came to our house so she didn't have to go to the vet that she hated so much.
Boy it's hard. I didn't realize how much I'd miss her until she was gone.
I still find myself looking for her around the house.
We might have to look for another dog soon but it's difficult since you know the new one won't have the same personality.

bearssoapbox

(1,408 posts)
12. I'm so sorry for your loss.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 02:21 AM
Apr 2014

It sounds like Louise, you and your family were lucky and fortunate to have found each other.

Take care.

littlewolf

(3,813 posts)
13. i am very sorry for your loss. it is very hard to go to the bridge.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 02:22 AM
Apr 2014

your memories of her will help you. I know mine have helped me.

marzipanni

(6,011 posts)
14. I can see from what you wrote how dear she was to you.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 02:30 AM
Apr 2014

It's so hard to let go of our animals, yet we couldn't let them suffer. Louise lived a good life, and made your lives better, as you did for her.

Skittles

(153,193 posts)
15. so sorry Dragonbreathp9d
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 02:58 AM
Apr 2014

Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you...
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.

by Isla Paschal Richardson

DesertDiamond

(1,616 posts)
16. One of the hardest days of anyone's life is having to do what you did; even though it's best for the
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 03:09 AM
Apr 2014

pet, it's unbearably heartbreaking. I hope you will always know, though, that you did exactly the right thing for Louise. I once held on too long and didn't do what I really should have done, and I will always regret that I didn't give my sweet kitty that pleasant end to his suffering. I send you love and hugs, and to your family too.

raccoon

(31,119 posts)
18. Sorry for your loss. That's good you were with her at the end. BTDT.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 07:55 AM
Apr 2014

I think that's the last thing we can do for our four-footed companions.





hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
21. I'm so very sorry for your loss.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 11:01 AM
Apr 2014

Thank you for loving Louise and allowing her to be the dog she was meant to be.

I wish you peace and comfort.

And I agree! When I pass, I fully expect to be welcomed over the bridge by many that have gone before me.

Rowdyboy

(22,057 posts)
22. My baby is 14 too so I know our time is coming....Just please don' t let it be soon
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 11:04 AM
Apr 2014

Wish you peace as you grieve for one you love.

benld74

(9,909 posts)
23. SO sorry on the loss of your friend
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 11:55 AM
Apr 2014

please check out rainbow bridge(www.rainbowbridge.com) created for loss of such friends. One can memoralize them with fees given to local shelters for future friends.

alsame

(7,784 posts)
24. I'm so sorry. Your
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 12:06 PM
Apr 2014

tribute to Louise is just beautiful

RIP over the Rainbow Bridge, Louise. You were such a good girl

 

magical thyme

(14,881 posts)
25. godspeed and rip Louise
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 12:55 PM
Apr 2014
I'm so sorry for your loss, Dragonbreat. While Louise is not physically here with you, I do believe her spirit still is and will be for as long as you need her. In the meantime, you have given her the greatest gift you could...you've taken on her suffering so she won't have to any more.



Worried senior

(1,328 posts)
26. She sounds like she was
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 01:43 PM
Apr 2014

an amazing dog.

You will miss her greatly but in the future you'll be able to look back and remember her and her actions.

I am so sorry for you and your family, we've been through this several times and it never gets easier.

samplegirl

(11,500 posts)
29. I am just so sad for you....
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 03:50 PM
Apr 2014

nothing can replace the love of a faithful pet. My cat is 13 and I kiss him everyday before I leave to go to work.
I am not looking forward to the day you have had to face. I have said this many times..................the more I know people the more I love my cat!
Truly heartfelt sadness for your loss.

livetohike

(22,163 posts)
30. My sympathy to you and your family on the loss of Louise. She sounds like a wonderful dog.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 04:14 PM
Apr 2014

May all of the good times you had and all of the little things about her life stay in your heart forever .

RebelOne

(30,947 posts)
35. I feel your pain and I am so sorry for your loss.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 09:43 PM
Apr 2014

In 2010, I had to take my wonderful Rottweiler, Legend, on her final trip to the vet. She was just a couple of months short of 13 years old. She had bone and liver cancer. But because of the bone cancer, she could not even walk any longer. It was a heartbreaking final trip to the vet.

UTUSN

(70,740 posts)
38. I can't read this. Worse, I got some mange thing from a country hardware store
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 10:27 PM
Apr 2014

& was schooled about how it has saved hairless/discusting animals. It made me freak because maybe I might have saved one of my baby dogs

sellitman

(11,607 posts)
39. I grieve with you.
Thu Apr 3, 2014, 10:52 PM
Apr 2014

I had to do the "right thing" with my last dog. It was so hard. Now my best friend , a 12 year old Black Lab is having his issues. This one is even more special. I'm in dread

Stay strong and be Grateful for having their love. It's quite a gift.

KurtNYC

(14,549 posts)
42. My heart goes out to you.
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 03:27 PM
Apr 2014

I know that kind of grief all too well.

Take care of yourself at this difficult time, she'd want you to.

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