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fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 07:53 PM Apr 2014

week three of no cigs and today was a rough one

battery in the pen died (yeah, need a backup), so had to make do with some nicotine gum. it took a bit to kick in, but it got me through a visit with the buddy who smokes inside.

i feel like i post too much about it here, but i don't get much support irl and you guys have been awesome. told a co-worker yesterday how far i'd made it and his only response was to tell me he'd only be impressed if i weren't using the pen. i have a few people cheering me on, but nothing like you guys.

i'm really proud of myself for doing something i didn't think i could do.

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week three of no cigs and today was a rough one (Original Post) fizzgig Apr 2014 OP
post all you like, fizzgig Skittles Apr 2014 #1
this one was bad fizzgig Apr 2014 #7
keep reading this Skittles Apr 2014 #14
i keep that tab open fizzgig Apr 2014 #20
YES! Skittles Apr 2014 #26
I'm impressed! newcriminal Apr 2014 #2
have you banned your hubby from smoking inside? Skittles Apr 2014 #3
He has his own smoking room, we don't go into unless necessary. newcriminal Apr 2014 #8
the vapor pen has done wonders for me fizzgig Apr 2014 #9
I bought him one, bought him the gum, lozenges, and even nicotine water once. newcriminal Apr 2014 #11
i understand about not being ready fizzgig Apr 2014 #15
Hang in there. The longer you go without smoking, the easier it gets. Arkansas Granny Apr 2014 #4
vaping has been so helpful fizzgig Apr 2014 #10
It only gets better and better. applegrove Apr 2014 #5
i just have to take it one day at a time fizzgig Apr 2014 #12
Yeah but after a few months...it is way easier. Just get through those early days. I've applegrove Apr 2014 #17
I'm seven weeks in... Callmecrazy Apr 2014 #6
good job! fizzgig Apr 2014 #13
Just keep telling yourself Mr.Bill Apr 2014 #16
thank you fizzgig Apr 2014 #22
I'm impressed with you. Good job! n/t seaglass Apr 2014 #18
thank you fizzgig Apr 2014 #23
There is no way in hell I could let anyone smoke in my home. dixiegrrrrl Apr 2014 #19
we didn't really smoke inside for years fizzgig Apr 2014 #24
as Lennon once sang rurallib Apr 2014 #21
i quit once before fizzgig Apr 2014 #25
what's the pen? n/t orleans Apr 2014 #27
vapor pen fizzgig Apr 2014 #30
never give up, fizzer grasswire Apr 2014 #28
i'm going to keep bulldozing through it fizzgig Apr 2014 #31
Post all you like! You got this! LadyHawkAZ Apr 2014 #29
i feel like this keeps me accountable fizzgig Apr 2014 #32
Post all you like. I'm 2 1/2 weeks in myself. Boom Sound 416 Apr 2014 #33

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
1. post all you like, fizzgig
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 07:57 PM
Apr 2014

you're doing the right thing - instead of smoking, you're using a nicotine replacement and venting - WELL DONE - you know, those cravings seem like they last a long time but they really don't......and you are going to notice fewer and fewer cravings as you handle these crises without that health-compromising crutch.......WELL DONE!!!

N.O.P.E. <--------- NOT ONE PUFF EVER!!!

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
7. this one was bad
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 08:06 PM
Apr 2014

things are rough right now and i was near tears getting through it, but i did it. i could have easily bummed a smoke, but i'll take the discomfort over throwing away the effort i've put into this.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
9. the vapor pen has done wonders for me
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 08:07 PM
Apr 2014

i quit on a whim and have been able to make it through.

good luck with your husband.

 

newcriminal

(2,190 posts)
11. I bought him one, bought him the gum, lozenges, and even nicotine water once.
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 08:12 PM
Apr 2014

He's just not ready yet.

You however sound like you're ready. Good for you. It can't be easy.

I have lost 70 lbs since August. I knew I needed to for a long time, just wasn't ready until then. He will get there some day.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
15. i understand about not being ready
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 08:15 PM
Apr 2014

when i had my physical last year the doc didn't bust on me because she understood that.

Arkansas Granny

(31,518 posts)
4. Hang in there. The longer you go without smoking, the easier it gets.
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 08:02 PM
Apr 2014

You're doing good if you've made it for 3 weeks. The craving will start to lessen.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
10. vaping has been so helpful
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 08:12 PM
Apr 2014

but i'm so grateful to my mom for sending me all that gum. it really saved my butt today.

applegrove

(118,696 posts)
17. Yeah but after a few months...it is way easier. Just get through those early days. I've
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 08:30 PM
Apr 2014

been quit almost 6 years and I never crave a smoke. Even when I walk by somebody smoking. One of the best things I ever did getting rid of the 'mokes.

Callmecrazy

(3,065 posts)
6. I'm seven weeks in...
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 08:04 PM
Apr 2014

Using both pen and patch.
I made the decision that a cigarette will never again touch my lips. When you actually say those words out loud it's very reaffirming.

Mr.Bill

(24,303 posts)
16. Just keep telling yourself
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 08:16 PM
Apr 2014

you are one cigarette away from being a smoker again. As every day goes by you will be tempted less and less. But it's a long process. I quit 12 years ago and I still think of it occasionally.

Best of luck to you.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
22. thank you
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 09:45 PM
Apr 2014

i'm really not interested in being a smoker again. i'm feeling better than i have in a long time but i don't expect the thoughts to ever fully go away

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
19. There is no way in hell I could let anyone smoke in my home.
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 08:59 PM
Apr 2014

In the early days of quitting it would have been too tempting
in the later days of quitting it simply stank to high heaven.
I found I was not comfortable around smoking areas, and there were a couple of people who could not deal with my no smoking in the home, they stopped coming around.

coffee...I had to quit coffee for awhile....went to tea..too much association with a cig.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
24. we didn't really smoke inside for years
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 09:53 PM
Apr 2014

not allowed under our leases, although we did cheat on especially cold nights during the winter. it's the smell on my clothes rather than the smoke itself that bothers me when i leave somewhere there's smoking inside.

it doesn't bother me to be around smoking and i vape in the smoking area at work.

i can see coffee being a trigger, but it will be pried out of my cold, dead hands. i like that vaping allows me to keep that morning routine of caffeine and nicotine. i'll dial back the level at some point, but want to feel stable with the no cig thing first.

rurallib

(62,423 posts)
21. as Lennon once sang
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 09:19 PM
Apr 2014

Whatever gets you through the night
It's alright, It's alright!

Focus forward and keep going.
Believe me you will never forgive yourself if you have even one puff.

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
25. i quit once before
Fri Apr 4, 2014, 09:55 PM
Apr 2014

but really wasn't vested in it. this time i am and don't want to let myself down.

grasswire

(50,130 posts)
28. never give up, fizzer
Sat Apr 5, 2014, 02:03 AM
Apr 2014

You're doing just great. I'm so impressed! The hardest part is over, hopefully!

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
31. i'm going to keep bulldozing through it
Sat Apr 5, 2014, 08:33 PM
Apr 2014

it's a bit easier each day and i'm noticing a small decrease in how frequently i use the pen.

 

Boom Sound 416

(4,185 posts)
33. Post all you like. I'm 2 1/2 weeks in myself.
Sat Apr 5, 2014, 09:10 PM
Apr 2014

Had some hard days too, but getting thru and feeling good overall.

Stick with it! Rooting for you!

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