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It was hot today as I cut my lawn, 92 and humid, and I'm sweating like a pig pushing my mower I notice about 25-30 feet away in the shade near the house next door is this cat just laying ( lazing ) there, looking at nothing in particular but occasionally at me as I mowed back and forth. It definitely wasn't the next door neighbor's cat and not wild as it didn't bolt soon as it saw me. I shut the mower down, took a short break and drank some water and when I came back out, the cat was still there.
Before I fired it up to mow near the area it was in ( and would no doubt scare it away ) I figured I'd try to make friendly contact. I trod slowly toward it crouching as I went and as I got near, it rolled over on it's back, stretched out with its front paws clawing at the grass in a sort of "scratch my belly" gesture. I noticed it had no collar or tags of any sort on it, and looked ( to me anyway ) too well nourished to be a stray. Every time I pet it though it meowed loudly. Not purred, meowed, loudly, in a slightly distressing sounding ( to me ) tone. I'm thinking, "what am I doing wrong?" and "what's wrong with him/her?" Yet still allowed itself to be petted and continued to roll about on the grass like it wanted to be petted. I left it be and it just lazed/relaxed their until eventually my mower got close enough to scare it to move further away: not a bolt in terror, more of a "I don't like it here, I'm moving away a bit".
What do think the behavior means? Do you think it's a very trusting ( or stupid ) wild/stray, or just a domesticated cat without a collar?
Just curious. Always have been about human and animal nature, though I'm not a pet owner ( not since leaving home at 21 or so )
Hoyt
(54,770 posts)Maybe, you are a cat whisper.
begin_within
(21,551 posts)You made a new friend.
HeiressofBickworth
(2,682 posts)it could have some internal problem (worms, etc.) that cause its discomfort. Or, on the other hand, it could be a female who is pregnant and your hand on her belly may cause her discomfort. Otherwise, it's just a "talker" and you stimulated the "talking" by petting. But definitely comfortable around people, so probably not feral.
I have 4 cats now, 3 in the past, each one with a different level of accepting touch. Our old girl now (18) likes to be petted, but not picked up and not held. And she'll nip a hand that tries it.
Populist_Prole
(5,364 posts)Seems it was more of what a poster called a "talker' since it also meowed loudly when I petted and gently scratched its head and along its back.
I guess my main goal was to show any would-be stray that the area around my house was safe and that all humans weren't evil beasts. If it was a domestic cat that got more familiar with its surroundings, so much the better too.