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All this kerfuffle about JLo's supposed nip slip at the Oscar's makes me wonder ... Why nipples - women's nipples - are such a big deal?
I'm not talking about breasts - heck even I appreciate a nice set. But we see on tv everyday lots and lots of breasts. Sometimes we see skimpy tops or that just barely cover the nipple. The nipple - depending on the size of the breast - makes up just a small part of the actual breast..so why is it sooooo taboo?
And it's only women's nipples - we see men's nipples all the time. Some men are fit and athletic, showing off exercise equipment with oiled down chests and some men (in the same commercial at times as the "before" pic) not so fit with big man boobs and breasts larger than many female models' bosoms and again their nipples are prominent.
So it's not the actual nipple that is so taboo? It's that it's attached to a female breast of any size even when we can see 90% of the actual breast?
I don't get it...I really don't
La Lioness Priyanka
(53,866 posts)av8rdave
(10,573 posts)When I saw my first pair (that I can remember), I was quite surprised to find that I didn't go blind OR crosseyed.
AsahinaKimi
(20,776 posts)Last edited Mon Feb 27, 2012, 07:59 PM - Edit history (1)
I don't think this applies to Europe, South America or Asia. Maybe we can thank the Puritans for this kind of thinking. People in this country are wound up too tight..
Arugula Latte
(50,566 posts)The religiously insane have had way too much power in this country ever since.
How come we got the grumpy boat of bandy-legged Puritans? How come we didn't get the Italian party boat with the cappuccino makes and the gelato machine? That was the sexy boat, man.~Greg Proops
Art_from_Ark
(27,247 posts)It used to be that late-night Japanese TV was quite unabashed when it came to showing women's bare upper torsos, but that has apparently, like the beer vending machines, gone by the wayside.
Doc Holliday
(719 posts)how we as a society can be both wound up too tight, yet be not too tightly wrapped....at the same time.
Only in America.
arcane1
(38,613 posts)WhoIsNumberNone
(7,875 posts)And we don't want the boys getting overstimulated, do we? But how much boobie can we see before it's too much? I think the nipple was just a convenient & non-subjective line of demarcation between decent and indecent.
baldguy
(36,649 posts)backwoodsbob
(6,001 posts)the brass ones are a tighter fit
Gold Metal Flake
(13,805 posts)trof
(54,256 posts)and sat totally nude with a dozen or more total strangers in the sauna...and the steam room...and the pool, nipples haven't been such a big deal for me.
It was the town's health club, located in the hotel where I was staying.
Clothing 'optional', but if you wore a bathing suit you'd stick out like a sore thumb.
Everyone from seniors to toddlers wore nothing but a smile.
Europeans generally have a much healthier attitude about nudity than we do.
It was considered 'polite' to wrap in a towel if you went in the cozy bar for a cold beer.
Yup, a beerstube in a health club.
csziggy
(34,136 posts)People so obnoxiously convinced that they knew the only way into heaven, they were thrown out of nearly every country in Europe.
jakeXT
(10,575 posts)hedgehog
(36,286 posts)alien women dressed in costumes with cut-outs on the underside of the breasts!
RedCloud
(9,230 posts)Our first food outside the body!
sakabatou
(42,152 posts)And you've read it in her voice as well.
rug
(82,333 posts)cliffordu
(30,994 posts)Well played
trof
(54,256 posts)dug
2 ? ?[duhg]
noun
the mamma or the nipple of a female mammal.
marzipanni
(6,011 posts)She had dugs, 4 pairs of rather large ones, as she apparently had recently whelped a litter of pups. My friends and I thought she'd look funny wearing four strapless bras.
pipi_k
(21,020 posts)when they show breast surgery stuff on TV and they're showing the whole breast, they always block out the nipple.
Weird.
dimbear
(6,271 posts)Just like your dog is ashamed when you give it a bath.
Some things aren't meant to be seen.
Kali
(55,008 posts)I really need to take a break from meta and stick around the lounge more.
UnrepentantLiberal
(11,700 posts)Some things are meant to be seen!
Doc Holliday
(719 posts)and I don't think I want to. While I've never been a "bottle baby", I like a perky set of nips as much as the next man. Most hetero males of my generation remember the cover to Carly Simon's No Secrets, even if we didn't buy the album.
It's one of those things that I don't wish to analyze too closely for fear that it'll lose whatever minimal mystique it holds for me.
HopeHoops
(47,675 posts)snooper2
(30,151 posts)I usually ask them to hold the nipples ...
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UnrepentantLiberal
(11,700 posts)when he told the girl at the counter that he wanted two breasts. It seemed like she thought he was being a smart ass.
UnrepentantLiberal
(11,700 posts)There are women who sit in Central Park and read books topless. When we were marching on the Brooklyn Bridge there was a woman who was topless. I have her picture, and the only reason I didn't post it with the other pictures of the march is because I didn't want the thread locked for showing -gasp- naughty bits.
Topless women are no problem on European television, but violence is frowned on. We have channels that wallow in violence 24/7, but breasts? You'll freak out the children! We're a very strange country.
Kali
(55,008 posts)I have a light switch in a narrow bathroom doorway that is just the right height...OWWWW