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Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 04:03 PM Sep 2014

I don't know if this sounds silly or poignant.

I guess it could be both.

I am in college, so I do a lot of reading. I have gone to school year round since May of 2012. All of the reading I have done in that time has been from text books. It can be illuminating at times, and I've certainly learned a lot, but it has been reading done as work, not pleasure. I have probably read over 25,000 pages of text in the last 2.5 years, but nothing I've actually chosen to read for the fun of it. When I read like that it's labor. When I read for fun it refreshes me instead of tiring me.

My mom got me a book called A Brief History of Time by Stephen Hawking a few years back for Christmas. I love popular science books, and Hawking's book is a classic in the genre. My wife thinks it's nerdy, but that's one of the genres I like to read for fun. I am on page 37. I have been on page 37 since a few days after I got the book. That represents the last time I have read a book for fun. I just simply have not had the time most of the time, and, when I have, the last thing I've felt like doing is reading.

I was thinking about this today and it was almost heartbreaking. I've been working so hard between my job and school the last 2.5 years that I have not had much fun at all in that time. I have not even been able to indulge in the simple pleasure of reading what I want to read.

I'll be done with school on December 15th of this year. I do not ordinarily wish away time, but that date cannot come soon enough for me.

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Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
4. Okay, one vote for silly and one for poignant.
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 05:24 PM
Sep 2014

It must be possible to be both at the same time.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
3. Thanks, Peggy.
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 05:20 PM
Sep 2014

I was thinking about taking last summer off of school for a break. It would have pushed my graduation back to May of next year. My wife told me that that time will go by whether I am in school or not.

In the future it will pay off. Right now it feels like drudgery.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,625 posts)
5. I know it does feel like that...But Jen is right.
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 05:25 PM
Sep 2014

Soon, very soon, you will be DONE. Forever.

Hang in there!

You can do it, and you WILL do it.

tecelote

(5,122 posts)
8. It will be over soon and you will be on to...?
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 06:55 PM
Sep 2014

Don't quit now but plan to do something you love when you graduate.

Don't take time off now, without a degree.

But, it sounds like you should go for a long break after you graduate. Discovering what you want to do in life is just as important as your degree.

Your too close to graduation to quit. Graduate and then explore your options with a degree.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
10. I'm definitely not going to quit at this point.
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 07:02 PM
Sep 2014

I've worked too hard for too long to stop just before the finish line.

I am going to have a bachelor's degree in business administration when I graduate. I am going to be 42 in a few days so I am not a traditional student embarking on my working career. I already have a full time job and I'm probably going to check into advancement there before I try to go elsewhere. But graduating school will feel like taking some time off after having worked 50-55 hours a week and taking three classes a semester for the past 2.5 years.

 

Cal33

(7,018 posts)
15. 50 to 55 hours a week sounds like more than a full-time job, and 3 classes a semester for
Mon Sep 29, 2014, 06:09 PM
Sep 2014

2.5 years. Wow, you have my fullest admiration!

My hat off to you, Sir, and all the best wishes from the bottom of my heart!

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
9. Just keep hanging on. Your ordeal will be over before long. And you will be glad you finished
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 06:57 PM
Sep 2014

what you started tough as it is.

Lars39

(26,109 posts)
11. You have been making an enormous effort to change your life's direction.
Sun Sep 28, 2014, 07:06 PM
Sep 2014

That set aside book represents a hell of a lot more than interrupted fun. It represents a shit ton of ambition and goals that you have set and met.
Not everyone could have accomplished what you are very close to having finished. You tackled a different part of your life that will ultimately yield you more time for pleasure reading, etc.
Just a wee bit more to do and the patience to see it to the end.

DebJ

(7,699 posts)
12. I know what you mean! Six months after I was out of college (at age 53, so you are a 'baby', LOL)
Mon Sep 29, 2014, 09:57 AM
Sep 2014

I went on a binge reading spree. I read every one of the Game of Thrones books in the month of June 2009.

Since then, I've only had time to read maybe three books.

But I still relish the memory of that June.

I was an education/social studies major, and that is an unbelievable amount of reading, so I know what you mean.

CrispyQ

(36,470 posts)
13. Sixteen years ago I decided I wanted to be a software developer.
Mon Sep 29, 2014, 10:53 AM
Sep 2014

All I read for 15 years was tech books. Any spare time was spent tinkering with programs. Last summer (2013) I picked up a 700 page fiction book & devoured it in two days. Shortly after that, I started writing & now I have seven chapters toward a novel & I'm having a blast. I'm not taking on any new tech clients & have a goal to finish my first draft by end of the year.

Come Dec 15, pick up a book, any book that sounds like fun, maybe even Hawking's, & read! Your brain will thank you for it.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
14. Don't beat yourself up now!
Mon Sep 29, 2014, 05:45 PM
Sep 2014

I always hated reading text books! Anyone who doesn't hate would be just too weird for me.

You may be sick to death of the academics you've been living in since 2012, but it's practically OVER! When it's over you won't know what to do with the huge load off your shoulders for a few days. When I was in college the worst part for me was having to wait to wrote or research my next subject. I've never liked having to wait to do anything in its own good time. My favorite thing is to finish. Finish anything I'm working on or delayed by. When I knew that three months from now there was a paper due it made me nuts! I really felt the pressure for the strangest reasons. I was never afraid of the subject or the grade or even the process, but I sure hated having to wait to implement it.

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