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tblue

(16,350 posts)
Tue Dec 16, 2014, 12:23 AM Dec 2014

How come retailers who EFF up never say, "I am sorry"?

HOW COME THEY NEVER SAY THIS:

"I'm so sorry. We really messed up. Here, let me __________________"?

It would buy them a lot of mileage but they could not care less.

Walgreens sucks. Amazon sucks. These big companies are happy to take your money but they assume no responsiblity when a customer feels ill-treated and needs competent, compassionate, professional service?

Oy. Forgive my

Just very disappointed in the lack of common courtesy and basic customer service protocol. I've worked in customer service. I know how to treat a customer.

(If any of you work in such a capacity, I hope you're a fine exception to the rule and you're not offended because you're not one of these people who doesn't care about customers. I am not talking about you if you are.)

Peace.


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How come retailers who EFF up never say, "I am sorry"? (Original Post) tblue Dec 2014 OP
Where else are you going to take your business? NewDeal_Dem Dec 2014 #1
because then they get sued out the wazzoo Skittles Dec 2014 #2
A study of malpractices suits showed that the patients wanted apologies csziggy Dec 2014 #3
it's a problem because lawyers often advise clients NOT to apologize Skittles Dec 2014 #4
There is a movement to change the laws to allow apologies csziggy Dec 2014 #5

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
3. A study of malpractices suits showed that the patients wanted apologies
Tue Dec 16, 2014, 04:44 AM
Dec 2014

More than they wanted money. This was years ago and I don't have a link, but my memory of the article was that they found if the doctor and the facility apologized and paid for any required follow up care the people who had planned to sue dropped them. And in the long run they were happier about the results than the people who sued and got big bucks.

Aha - here is the study: http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2628492/
And the article I think I saw: http://www.nytimes.com/2008/05/18/us/18apology.html?pagewanted=all

Businesses need to learn this. When they screw up, admit to it, try to fix the problem and if it's not possible to fix, refund the money and make any damages good. And be nice about it.

Skittles

(153,164 posts)
4. it's a problem because lawyers often advise clients NOT to apologize
Tue Dec 16, 2014, 05:02 AM
Dec 2014

because the apology is seen as an admission of guilt

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
5. There is a movement to change the laws to allow apologies
Tue Dec 16, 2014, 01:27 PM
Dec 2014

Does Sorry Work?
The Impact of Apology Laws on Medical Malpractice
Benjamin Ho
Cornell University
http://irving.vassar.edu/faculty/bh/Ho-Liu-Apologies-and-Malpractice-nov15.pdf

This paper studies the effect of allowing apologies reduces settlements - and it seems to. I tried to paste an excerpt but the formatting is completely screwed up.

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