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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsGood riddance to 2014
Frankly, I can't wait to get rid of this year. I've had so many close family and friends die -- including my friend of over 30 years and my Father (Вічная Пам'ять Тобї Тато!), my brother tried to have my Mother sign over $40k of my account to him (at first she did and then she changed it) and then he got mad at me and isn't speaking to me. That was only up to March. After that, month after month, one thing or another for me or my husband -- skin cancer, cataracts, myotonia (muscular dystrophy lite), autoimmune issues . . . And then all the deaths of friends and family. Then there are expenses (mostly medical) of over $50k!
Yes, I know I have it better than others and I am grateful for what I do have, it's just that once I got over one thing, another thing went south. It's hell.
So I pray for happiness and joy for all my DU family and in a very selfish move, for my husband and me.
Thanks for letting me get it out.
Paula.
nirvana555
(448 posts)aint_no_life_nowhere
(21,925 posts)It's been one struggle after another. Just today I received a notice from Express Scripts. It seems that neither medicare nor tricare will pay a penny of a $70,000 bill consisting of 14 doses of a special anti-biotic that my 95 year old mom's doctor ordered for her to take. I can't understand how an anti-biotic IV would cost $70K nor why my mom's doctor of internal medicine would order a medication like that. And finally, why did my dad risk his life in WWII as a B-17 pilot, getting shot down over Germany, getting shot by German soldiers when he parachuted to the ground, spending more than a year in a German POW camp where his leg bones didn't get treated or knit together, and then flying planes in Vietnam years later, only to have his wife be denied medical coverage by the federal government. If we're not insured for this life-saving anti-biotic then we're not really insured and medicare and tricare are a complete joke.
And like you, it's not just one crisis. It's been one after another seemingly on a weekly basis, most of it relating to doctors and their complete ineffectiveness and incompetence and health care coverage. As each new week starts, I've cringed while asking myself what new catastrophe will it be this week?
rug
(82,333 posts)I'm sorry for your loss.
Paula Sims
(877 posts)And yes, it's Ukrainian. I've had family killed in the uprisings in March, and yes, I have my own feelings about what's going on there, but in the words of the Stephanie Miller Show, I'm going to keep them in my thought-bubble. . .
Paula