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raccoon

(31,111 posts)
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 12:19 PM Jan 2015

Anyone else hate to shop at the mall?

I went there last week, looking for a coat. I didn’t find one.

They have some good stuff, don’t get me wrong. But it’s…too much. Sensory overload. Too many choices (of course, many of them may not be available in the right size, etc.) It’s kind of too much of everything.

I don't usually like to go to stores and just look for clothes. I usually have an idea of what I want, and want to go straight to it.

I usually shop for clothes at a particular store that isn’t in the mall. But some of the stores in the mall have better clothes.

OK, I guess the sensible thing to do is check out the stores little by little, find out which stores have brands I like, and that way I can go directly to the store and look for brand so-and-so….

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Anyone else hate to shop at the mall? (Original Post) raccoon Jan 2015 OP
I refuse to shop at malls! PasadenaTrudy Jan 2015 #1
I haven't been to a mall in three years or longer and then I went to a store that had an outside Arkansas Granny Jan 2015 #2
I don't like clothes shopping but... Little Star Jan 2015 #3
I second that! Sometimes I've ordered online but not much. For the reasons you mentioned. nt raccoon Jan 2015 #10
I made the mistake of going to a mall to pick up a few small things right before Christmas. hedgehog Jan 2015 #4
i have to go to the mall soon fizzgig Jan 2015 #5
Now there is the gift-card-for-cash-kiosk option to check out- marzipanni Jan 2015 #16
good to know fizzgig Jan 2015 #29
Noisy crowded and overwhelming, indeed. dixiegrrrrl Jan 2015 #6
I do. femmocrat Jan 2015 #7
I hate it. Phentex Jan 2015 #8
Outlet Malls are the answer. Baitball Blogger Jan 2015 #9
Me! I haven't been to a mall since 2008 and then only went to Sears csziggy Jan 2015 #11
I like the candy store shenmue Jan 2015 #12
I live in such a small town... handmade34 Jan 2015 #13
Careful! Good thing this isn't GD. A while back, I took flak over there for retread Jan 2015 #14
I like going to the Mall every so often. I enjoy it. Usually browse stuff at.. BlueJazz Jan 2015 #15
I have to admit that I like the food court.... Little Star Jan 2015 #18
i hate the mall orleans Jan 2015 #17
I can't even remember cwydro Jan 2015 #19
I thought it was just me...... Populist_Prole Jan 2015 #20
+1 davidpdx Jan 2015 #22
52, but young at mind and body for my age Populist_Prole Jan 2015 #25
Ah well I think for me it set in much earlier davidpdx Jan 2015 #26
I hate to shop period davidpdx Jan 2015 #21
I didn't use to like to shop at malls, but now I do on principle to keep people employed. I try NewDeal_Dem Jan 2015 #23
What is a Mall? easychoice Jan 2015 #24
Shopping anywhere sucks pipi_k Jan 2015 #27
I hate to shop, end of story Skittles Jan 2015 #28

PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
1. I refuse to shop at malls!
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 12:55 PM
Jan 2015

I'm highly sensitive too, and get overstimulated by too many people, sights, and sounds. Plus the air in malls is weird, lol. I buy pretty much everything online - - clothes, electronics, shoes...all but groceries. I grocery shop on off hours best I can. I DID go to the mall in Dec. with my boyfriend to get him shoes. I had to have a drink when we got home

Arkansas Granny

(31,519 posts)
2. I haven't been to a mall in three years or longer and then I went to a store that had an outside
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 12:56 PM
Jan 2015

entrance so I didn't have to go into the mall itself, just the one store I wanted to visit.

Little Star

(17,055 posts)
3. I don't like clothes shopping but...
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 01:07 PM
Jan 2015

when I have to I like the mall so I can feel the material & try things on.

I hate returning things ordered thru the mail. Pain in the butt!

hedgehog

(36,286 posts)
4. I made the mistake of going to a mall to pick up a few small things right before Christmas.
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 01:09 PM
Jan 2015

The mall itself was blasting Christmas music with the same few songs over and over. It was terrible!

fizzgig

(24,146 posts)
5. i have to go to the mall soon
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 01:25 PM
Jan 2015

ours is half abandoned and a bit creepy. the only reason i'm going is because i got a gift card and the only location here is in the mall.

dixiegrrrrl

(60,010 posts)
6. Noisy crowded and overwhelming, indeed.
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 01:28 PM
Jan 2015

Have to admit, have not had to do the mall thing for a long time now, but did hate it.
Hell, I hate shopping.

If you gotta go to a mall, you can at least look up what stores have what, or look for a specific item, online before you go.
Often just order it online.

femmocrat

(28,394 posts)
7. I do.
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 01:57 PM
Jan 2015

I hadn't been in the mall for over 6 months, but did venture in for some Christmas shopping. I stick to stores with doors near the handicapped parking places. I'm in and out. One of the benefits of retirement is not needing anything!

Phentex

(16,334 posts)
8. I hate it.
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 02:40 PM
Jan 2015

Same reasons. There's just too much. And the less often you go, the more confusing it is when you go back.

Baitball Blogger

(46,739 posts)
9. Outlet Malls are the answer.
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 04:14 PM
Jan 2015

Especially the outdoor ones. Get a map of the place and know what you want to find. Park and go straight to that store. There's very little money spent on lights and distracting show windows in an outlet mall.

Prices are very good, too.

csziggy

(34,136 posts)
11. Me! I haven't been to a mall since 2008 and then only went to Sears
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 05:09 PM
Jan 2015

For their appliance sale. I was buying appliances for my new house and wanted the 20% off - plus I got a $500 rebate on two of them. I'd done most of my shopping and price comparison online and even had a competitor's bid that got me additional money off the appliances.

I just never liked malls and hate going in them. Since most of the department stores require you enter through the cosmetics and perfume sections, until Zyrtec was developed I could not even enter those stores or go close to their entrances.

Do online shopping - and if the stores don't offer that, then skip them.

Here many of the department stores have moved out of the malls and have stand alone stores - Kohls and Bealls are two that I see.

retread

(3,762 posts)
14. Careful! Good thing this isn't GD. A while back, I took flak over there for
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 06:20 PM
Jan 2015

denigrating malls. (At least I think that's what prompted the attack?)

 

BlueJazz

(25,348 posts)
15. I like going to the Mall every so often. I enjoy it. Usually browse stuff at..
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 06:33 PM
Jan 2015

...clothing stores and see what style is "in". (which I usually don't care for...SteamPunk being the exception.)
Look at the latest electronics and sometimes even eat at a mall shop.

Little Star

(17,055 posts)
18. I have to admit that I like the food court....
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 06:44 PM
Jan 2015

everyone can order from the place they want. Our malls have really good food courts with plenty of places to chose from.

Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
20. I thought it was just me......
Mon Jan 5, 2015, 07:22 PM
Jan 2015

Getting all cantankerous already at too young an age. Same reasons others said: Traffic, parking, crowds, noise, visuals. To much of too much.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
22. +1
Tue Jan 6, 2015, 02:31 AM
Jan 2015

How old are you? I'm just curious because it sounds like you are much younger than I am (almost 44). I feel the same exact way though. And it does kind of make you feel like that cranky old guy doesn't it? lol

Populist_Prole

(5,364 posts)
25. 52, but young at mind and body for my age
Tue Jan 6, 2015, 03:46 AM
Jan 2015

I still have my wild side,but it's getting to where I just can't stand tumult for no reason.

davidpdx

(22,000 posts)
21. I hate to shop period
Tue Jan 6, 2015, 02:30 AM
Jan 2015

and for clothes **** no! Shopping for clothes drive me nuts. I usually do all of mine when I go home every couple of years and then haul my clothes back with me to Korea (because Koreans are so tiny and skinny nothing here fits me). Even Costco, which I LOVE to go to I race through that place with my shopping cart like I'm in the Indy 500. Get in, get out, get gone!

 

NewDeal_Dem

(1,049 posts)
23. I didn't use to like to shop at malls, but now I do on principle to keep people employed. I try
Tue Jan 6, 2015, 02:42 AM
Jan 2015

not to buy online.

pipi_k

(21,020 posts)
27. Shopping anywhere sucks
Tue Jan 6, 2015, 11:32 AM
Jan 2015

so that's why I do it online.

Last time I was in a mall was 25 years ago.


although the best mall-type place that isn't really a mall is Thornes Market in Northampton MA.

Old brick building, three floors, wooden floors, very cozy with lots of really neat little stores and a parking garage right next door to the rear entrance.


It's a must-see for anyone visiting in the area.


http://www.thornesmarketplace.com/history.htm

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