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tavernier

(12,396 posts)
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 12:02 AM Feb 2015

Just a serious word on hearts.

I've been given three hearts. I used to buy and give many (under a different name) because I had the means, and I was a frequent poster.

I left during the gwb era because at the advice of my family, i was too emotionally drained to follow politics.

I returned last year, stronger and in a better place, but because I've since retired, I have to watch my expenditures.

I can't buy and give hearts anymore, but the ones I received meant the world to me.

The first, I assume, was a pity heart, since I had none and I'm no longer in the loop being so long gone. But I hope the other two were given for posts that may have touched someone at some point.

I've never posted out of spite or malice, but rather out of a sincere desire to learn something that I might not understand. I can't achieve wisdom unless I present questions and receive answers that clarify.

I've never stated an opinion that I haven't given much time and thought composing. If that warranted a heart, I am truly grateful.

Thank you. 💖

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Just a serious word on hearts. (Original Post) tavernier Feb 2015 OP
What a nice post marym625 Feb 2015 #1
Thank you! tavernier Feb 2015 #5
Your thoughtful, well-written post inspired me to give you a rec and a heart... CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2015 #2
Thanks love! tavernier Feb 2015 #3
I know you weren't! But I was inspired by your post... CaliforniaPeggy Feb 2015 #6
Same here! Raine1967 Feb 2015 #10
Same here, Peggy dear! calimary Feb 2015 #12
I bought some, it's how I renew my membership. sheshe2 Feb 2015 #4
For me? tavernier Feb 2015 #7
For you... sheshe2 Feb 2015 #8
Beee-Yoooo-Teeeee-Fuuuull!!! calimary Feb 2015 #13
I love you calimary. sheshe2 Feb 2015 #15
Back atcha, my friend! calimary Feb 2015 #16
There were no KMOD Feb 2015 #9
Didn't mean to sound rude tavernier Feb 2015 #11
Oh gosh no, KMOD Feb 2015 #14
That is what I do: murielm99 Feb 2015 #17
Kind and thoughtful as well. tavernier Feb 2015 #18
It could have been me that gave you your first heart. zeemike Feb 2015 #19
That's so sweet tavernier. lovemydog Feb 2015 #20
Lovely post MissDeeds Feb 2015 #21
I feel for you! SeattleVet Feb 2015 #22

tavernier

(12,396 posts)
3. Thanks love!
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 12:25 AM
Feb 2015

I truly wasn't trolling for hearts, lol! My life is overflowing with good fortune and blessings! But I appreciate your kindness and wish the same good fortune to you many times over!! xxx

sheshe2

(83,870 posts)
4. I bought some, it's how I renew my membership.
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 12:27 AM
Feb 2015

I so wanted to buy more, yet could not. If I had a heart to give~ I would.

Here...



Thank you for your Op, tavernier

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
9. There were no
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 12:41 AM
Feb 2015

pity hearts. All were given with love.

Yes there are several popular DUers who are loaded with hearts, but there are more of us who sought out the regular DU contributors and purposely showed our appreciation by giving them hearts. Everybody matters here, imo, and that is what makes this such a special place.

This was my first experience with this, and I found it so very sweet.

tavernier

(12,396 posts)
11. Didn't mean to sound rude
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 12:49 AM
Feb 2015

But in the past I would search around for someone without a heart and add one.

I gave out "friendly hearts", not pitty. Sorry. Bad choice of words on my part.

 

KMOD

(7,906 posts)
14. Oh gosh no,
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 12:53 AM
Feb 2015

you are not rude at all. I'm sorry my post came across that way.

You are very sweet, and I liked your post very much.

murielm99

(30,755 posts)
17. That is what I do:
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 01:06 AM
Feb 2015

I give hearts to people who don't have any. Then, I give to people I have had positive, thoughtful interactions with.

tavernier

(12,396 posts)
18. Kind and thoughtful as well.
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 01:18 AM
Feb 2015

Have you been in a Meg Ryan\Tom Hanks movie lately?

I KID!!!

You sound like a a good guy!

zeemike

(18,998 posts)
19. It could have been me that gave you your first heart.
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 01:39 AM
Feb 2015

Because I have a tradition that the last heart I give is one to someone who has none that I don't know and I make a point of giving it no matter what i think of their posts...but don't think for a minute that it is out of pity because it is not...it is for the reward I get from expressing unconditional love...I do it for me not them.

lovemydog

(11,833 posts)
20. That's so sweet tavernier.
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 01:54 AM
Feb 2015

I'm glad you're in a better place. It doesn't matter much how often we post. Your thoughtfulness shines through Hope you enjoy a wonderful week.

 

MissDeeds

(7,499 posts)
21. Lovely post
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 02:00 AM
Feb 2015

Hugs and best wishes to you, tavernier. The hearts I received mean the world to me too.

K&R

SeattleVet

(5,478 posts)
22. I feel for you!
Mon Feb 16, 2015, 02:15 AM
Feb 2015

I was laid off 2.5 years ago (my last workday was the day before my 58th birthday). I'm now 'retired', but not yet drawing any benefits.

I don't post here nearly as often as I used to (mainly because the whole 'feeling' or 'tone' of the place has changed...it's sometimes hard to be an extremely progressive - close to radical - Democrat that also believes that the Second Amendment really *does* mean something).

I'm not in a position to make any more donations, yet I really appreciate the folks here that spend the time and effort and a few extra $$ to keep the place running smoothly.

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