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diabeticman

(3,121 posts)
Mon Feb 23, 2015, 12:52 PM Feb 2015

Well my wife knew it was coming she got laid off in a sense today

She is with a staffing agency and working for a company on a temp bases but it was suppose to be a 6 month deal. The company wasn't doing the volume it had expected and wife was basically reading books a HUGE chunks during her hours at work. So she knew it would happen but she still has this look in her face. This isn't going to help with her depression and anxiety.


Any suggestions? She is of course looking and has been but I just am worried about her sinking deeper if that makes sense.

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Well my wife knew it was coming she got laid off in a sense today (Original Post) diabeticman Feb 2015 OP
When I get really low PasadenaTrudy Feb 2015 #1
It is too cold right now. Thanks for the suggestions. diabeticman Feb 2015 #2
Lots of folks walk in the mall. riderinthestorm Feb 2015 #3
Doc placed her on meds diabeticman Feb 2015 #4
I love to lose myself in a book, but cwydro Feb 2015 #5
Thanks diabeticman Feb 2015 #6
I've been kind of down lately myself. cwydro Feb 2015 #7
My wife's latest like is RuPaul's drag race. She can't wait for the new season. diabeticman Feb 2015 #8
I'm clueless on this lol. cwydro Feb 2015 #10
it is a competition show for Drag Queens. diabeticman Feb 2015 #11
Oh, gotcha. cwydro Feb 2015 #13
She discovered it when she was recovering from the hernia/fungal pneumonia/nearly dying event. diabeticman Feb 2015 #14
I watched a lot of tv cwydro Feb 2015 #15
I don't know if this will help. IrishEyes Feb 2015 #9
I will make the suggestion. diabeticman Feb 2015 #12
Drink heavily taterguy Feb 2015 #16
HA! Not working for me as well cwydro Feb 2015 #17

PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
1. When I get really low
Mon Feb 23, 2015, 01:20 PM
Feb 2015

I make myself focus on some little thing that brings me joy and gratitude. Even just the tree by my deck. One can always find something to be grateful for. Reading or watching movies can help. Hopefully the medicine will kick in and help take the edge off, too. Is she healthy enough to take a little walk? It may be too cold where you are, I don't know.

 

riderinthestorm

(23,272 posts)
3. Lots of folks walk in the mall.
Mon Feb 23, 2015, 01:52 PM
Feb 2015

It might also help her feel more pro-active if she gets out today and applies at some other temp agencies.

She should also go down to the animal shelter and pet some kitty prospects. Did she ever ask her MD about getting a letter stating that she needs an emotional support animal?

Good luck!

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
7. I've been kind of down lately myself.
Mon Feb 23, 2015, 06:58 PM
Feb 2015

A friend suggested we watch Patton the other night.

One of my all time favorite movies, and I did forget about myself for awhile.

IrishEyes

(3,275 posts)
9. I don't know if this will help.
Tue Feb 24, 2015, 12:53 AM
Feb 2015

I was depressed when I was unemployed. I still have anxiety. When I was laid off, I started knitting a scarf. It helped me concentrate on something and feel like I was doing something productive. I also told myself that I was saving money on a future Christmas present. It helped take my mind off of things and relax a little.

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