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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWell my wife knew it was coming she got laid off in a sense today
She is with a staffing agency and working for a company on a temp bases but it was suppose to be a 6 month deal. The company wasn't doing the volume it had expected and wife was basically reading books a HUGE chunks during her hours at work. So she knew it would happen but she still has this look in her face. This isn't going to help with her depression and anxiety.
Any suggestions? She is of course looking and has been but I just am worried about her sinking deeper if that makes sense.
PasadenaTrudy
(3,998 posts)I make myself focus on some little thing that brings me joy and gratitude. Even just the tree by my deck. One can always find something to be grateful for. Reading or watching movies can help. Hopefully the medicine will kick in and help take the edge off, too. Is she healthy enough to take a little walk? It may be too cold where you are, I don't know.
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)riderinthestorm
(23,272 posts)It might also help her feel more pro-active if she gets out today and applies at some other temp agencies.
She should also go down to the animal shelter and pet some kitty prospects. Did she ever ask her MD about getting a letter stating that she needs an emotional support animal?
Good luck!
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)a movie is a great idea.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)A friend suggested we watch Patton the other night.
One of my all time favorite movies, and I did forget about myself for awhile.
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)I mean, I remember RuPaul...but not getting the rest of it.
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)I don't watch much tv so I missed all that I guess.
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)after my shoulder operation!
IrishEyes
(3,275 posts)I was depressed when I was unemployed. I still have anxiety. When I was laid off, I started knitting a scarf. It helped me concentrate on something and feel like I was doing something productive. I also told myself that I was saving money on a future Christmas present. It helped take my mind off of things and relax a little.
diabeticman
(3,121 posts)taterguy
(29,582 posts)Works for me.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)as it used to...
But hey...