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bluesbassman

(19,373 posts)
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 05:46 PM Mar 2015

My oldest and closest friend passed away today.

He suffered a traumatic brain injury a few years back and his quality of life was never the same. He is at rest now, but will never be forgotten and always missed. RIP my Brother.

Better days...

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My oldest and closest friend passed away today. (Original Post) bluesbassman Mar 2015 OP
I am very sorry for your loss, bluesbassman. femmocrat Mar 2015 #1
Thank you femmocrat. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #31
May he rest in peace. In_The_Wind Mar 2015 #2
Thank you In_The Wind. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #32
I'm so sorry. Jenny Red Eye Mar 2015 #3
Thank you Jenny. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #33
so sorry to hear this steve2470 Mar 2015 #4
Thank you Steve. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #35
Sad about the death. Sad about the injury. Algernon Moncrieff Mar 2015 #5
Thanks A M. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #36
So sorry for your loss, blues LiberalEsto Mar 2015 #6
Thank you LiberalEsto. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #37
so sorry bluesbassman Skittles Mar 2015 #7
Thanks Skittles. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #38
... flying rabbit Mar 2015 #8
Thanks flying rabbit. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #39
So sorry panader0 Mar 2015 #9
Thanks panader0. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #40
I'm so very sorry for your loss. catbyte Mar 2015 #10
Thank you catbyte. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #41
... handmade34 Mar 2015 #11
Thank you handmade34. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #42
I am sorry for your loss. redwitch Mar 2015 #12
Thank you redwitch. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #43
That's terrible ismnotwasm Mar 2015 #13
Thanks ismnotwasm. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #44
Great photo! KMOD Mar 2015 #14
Thank you KMOD. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #45
Deepest sympathy, bluesbassman. blue neen Mar 2015 #15
Thank you blue neen. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #46
I am so very sorry. Mnemosyne Mar 2015 #16
Thank you Mnemosyne. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #47
You holding up alright? Mnemosyne Mar 2015 #70
RIP. cherokeeprogressive Mar 2015 #17
Thanks cherokeeprogressive. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #48
I am so sorry, my dear bluesbassman... CaliforniaPeggy Mar 2015 #18
Thank you Peggy. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #49
sorry for your loss bluesbassman. condolences also to his family and friends. Tuesday Afternoon Mar 2015 #19
Thank you TA. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #50
Sorry to hear this, bluesbassman. calimary Mar 2015 #20
Thank you calimary. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #51
Me, too, my friend. calimary Mar 2015 #64
I am very sorry for your loss. Behind the Aegis Mar 2015 #21
Thank you BtA. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #52
I'm so sorry for your loss magical thyme Mar 2015 #22
Thank you magical thyme. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #53
I'm so sorry for your loss. greatauntoftriplets Mar 2015 #23
Thank you greatauntoftriplets. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #54
Peace to you, bluesbassman. countryjake Mar 2015 #24
Thanks countryjake. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #55
So sorry. You are both adorable. roody Mar 2015 #25
Thank you roody. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #56
i am so sorry for the loss of your friend fizzgig Mar 2015 #26
Thanks fizz. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #57
I am so so sorry. irisblue Mar 2015 #27
Thank you irisblue. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #58
<<<<<>>>>> antiquie Mar 2015 #28
Thank you antiquie. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #59
very sorry to hear of your loss discntnt_irny_srcsm Mar 2015 #29
Thank you d_i_s. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #60
My condolences, bluesbassman. SalmonChantedEvening Mar 2015 #30
Thank you SCE. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #61
I'm very sorry for your loss NewJeffCT Mar 2015 #34
Thank you NewJeffCT. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #62
very sorry for your loss, bluesbassman hopemountain Mar 2015 #63
Thank you hopemountain. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #66
Please accept my condolences. n/t malthaussen Mar 2015 #65
Thank you mal. bluesbassman Mar 2015 #67
Your best bud... Dont call me Shirley Mar 2015 #68
What a terrible blow, I'm so sorry for your loss. My condolences to you, all the friends and family. MerryBlooms Mar 2015 #69

Algernon Moncrieff

(5,790 posts)
5. Sad about the death. Sad about the injury.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 06:23 PM
Mar 2015

I was at a Bon Seger concert last week. Fourth time I've seen him. The audience looked like they belonged at an insurance seminar. The reaper is coming after all of us.

RIP friend of Bluesbassman

bluesbassman

(19,373 posts)
36. Thanks A M.
Sun Mar 22, 2015, 04:42 PM
Mar 2015

Yes, pretty much all the shows I see any more are like that. Going to see John Mayall this summer at the Whiskey A Go Go in LA. John's 80!

bluesbassman

(19,373 posts)
38. Thanks Skittles.
Sun Mar 22, 2015, 04:45 PM
Mar 2015

It was a great trip to Maui. One of the many experiences I'll treasure from our friendship.

bluesbassman

(19,373 posts)
39. Thanks flying rabbit.
Sun Mar 22, 2015, 04:48 PM
Mar 2015

We knew each other since 2nd grade. In grade school we looked so much alike that neighbors would mistake one of us for the other walking down the street! Not so much when we got older, but the bond never waned.

bluesbassman

(19,373 posts)
44. Thanks ismnotwasm.
Sun Mar 22, 2015, 04:53 PM
Mar 2015

He's not the first of my lifelong friends to pass, but he was as close to a brother as one could get, and it is tough.

blue neen

(12,321 posts)
15. Deepest sympathy, bluesbassman.
Fri Mar 20, 2015, 09:58 PM
Mar 2015

You've probably been feeling a sense of loss ever since his injury occurred.

bluesbassman

(19,373 posts)
46. Thank you blue neen.
Sun Mar 22, 2015, 04:59 PM
Mar 2015

Yes, he was in ICU for a month after the accident, and near the end of his time there another close friend of ours and I were leaving the hospital after a visit and he stopped me and asked if I thought we'd ever have our old friend back. I couldn't lie to him and told him that our old friend wasn't coming back, and he never did.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,620 posts)
18. I am so sorry, my dear bluesbassman...
Sat Mar 21, 2015, 12:25 AM
Mar 2015

What a great photo! How good you had those better days...

May he rest in peace, now.

And I hope that your great memories will, in time, bring you comfort.

calimary

(81,267 posts)
20. Sorry to hear this, bluesbassman.
Sat Mar 21, 2015, 12:34 AM
Mar 2015

May you cherish and be comforted by the love and good memories that are his bequest to you.
Thank you for sharing this pain of your with us. Lots of nice strong shoulders here for you to lean on.

calimary

(81,267 posts)
64. Me, too, my friend.
Mon Mar 23, 2015, 12:01 PM
Mar 2015

When my mom died, I posted about it that night. DU sat and kept the vigil with me all night long - and well into the next several days.

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