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Aerows

(39,961 posts)
Tue May 5, 2015, 03:55 PM May 2015

I've been nearly a month without a cigarette

I've got to say - if *I* can quit, anybody can.

I'm not trying to toot my own horn - it hasn't been completely pleasant. If you want to quit, though, there are so many options besides cold turkey (which I tried twice and only made it a week and failed) that the world is your oyster - pick a pearl.

I feel SO much better. Yeah, I'm chewing the gum, and puffing on the e-cigs right now, but what I am NOT doing is lighting up. I have a pack of cigarettes that had 6 left in them (Marlboro Reds), I taped it up and wrote 6 on it.

I will have those six in that pack for the rest of my life, fate willing.

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I've been nearly a month without a cigarette (Original Post) Aerows May 2015 OP
YES!!!! arcane1 May 2015 #1
It's been strange, but interesting Aerows May 2015 #2
There was a definite difference in skin, but fortunately no hives. arcane1 May 2015 #3
I need a few pounds Aerows May 2015 #4
congrats! nt steve2470 May 2015 #5
I envy you. rug May 2015 #6
There is NO ONE, not even you Aerows May 2015 #7
Thanks, Aerows. rug May 2015 #12
I swear to you Aerows May 2015 #14
My friend, please get this book if you haven't seen it already. cbayer May 2015 #22
Thanks, cbayer, I'll look it up. rug May 2015 #25
Good shenmue May 2015 #8
Good for you. bigwillq May 2015 #9
I am 100% serious Aerows May 2015 #10
I needed a cruch...e cigs angstlessk May 2015 #11
I'm chewing the nasty gum Aerows May 2015 #15
It feels so good to be FREE PennyK May 2015 #13
PennyK, I hope to get 500 days, too! Aerows May 2015 #16
20 (consecutive) yrs here. (Periods of 1 or 2 yrs in the previous 30 yrs) n/t UTUSN May 2015 #17
Don't hate me but... ailsagirl May 2015 #18
I tip my hat to you! Generic Brad May 2015 #19
Congratulations. Freedom is great! roody May 2015 #20
You're doing so well, Aerows! PennyK May 2015 #21
You are a hero, Aerows. cbayer May 2015 #23
Way to go nt Dealra May 2015 #24
It gets better. Congrats to you. applegrove May 2015 #26
congrats Aerows olddots May 2015 #27
You have inspired me. MadrasT May 2015 #28
That was me Aerows May 2015 #29
Kudos to you! nt raccoon May 2015 #30
I'd rather inspire Aerows May 2015 #31
Feels good doesn't it? :) Ahpook May 2015 #32
Eleven months for me--my one-year Quitaversary is June 9th. Lyric May 2015 #33
That is... Phentex May 2015 #34
Congratulations! now wean yourself gradually from the gum and e-cigs. kwassa May 2015 #35
 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
1. YES!!!!
Tue May 5, 2015, 03:58 PM
May 2015


I was at the dentist today for the first time since I quit, and she was telling me there are dental health benefits to quitting too, not just the internal-organ benefits
 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
2. It's been strange, but interesting
Tue May 5, 2015, 04:03 PM
May 2015

Did you know that you can break out when you quit smoking? I got hives on my back from all of the damn toxins coming out. I have never had skin issues before, and this was like having chicken pox on my back.

It has subsided, I feel much better, and my muscles are developing because I actually have a lot more breath.

I don't know why I started in the first place, but I am damn glad I am at the finish line.

 

arcane1

(38,613 posts)
3. There was a definite difference in skin, but fortunately no hives.
Tue May 5, 2015, 04:07 PM
May 2015

I have more breath, but I gained a few pounds, so for now that evens out and walking uphill is just as challenging. For now

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
4. I need a few pounds
Tue May 5, 2015, 04:08 PM
May 2015

Last edited Tue May 5, 2015, 06:34 PM - Edit history (2)

so it's a positive for me.

The hives did suck, though, LOL.

I mean they *REALLY* sucked.

Chicken Pox suck, and I had chicken pox post puberty.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
7. There is NO ONE, not even you
Tue May 5, 2015, 05:05 PM
May 2015

that cannot quit.

I never thought I would say that, but I have done a combination of the gum, the e-cigarettes and just plain being fed up with smoking.

All of the things combined - you stink of cigarettes, your lungs are congested, and you generally feel less able.

Doesn't matter, though. The only thing you have to do is get to the place where you are done with smoking.

I reached that place.

I'll help you in any way that I can - I recommend starting with the e-cigs. You can do the same things that you did smoking, without the lighting up. You get nicotine, and I've come to think that the nicotine isn't what kills smokers - it's the smoke that makes us diminished.

You can get e-cigs with a hit of nicotine higher than even a regular cigarette - you will be shocked how much better you feel. You can chew the nasty tasting gum (I know I'm not selling it, I'm being honest, it tastes like crap) and use that in tandem with the e-cigs and QUIT.

If I can quit, anybody can. I mean it, Rug. You can, too.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
14. I swear to you
Tue May 5, 2015, 08:54 PM
May 2015

If you are taking a look at your body and are tired of smoking, you CAN quit.

I don't give a shit what anybody else has to say about it, because I LOVED to smoke cigarettes. Until I didn't.

Any time that you choose to not love them, you can quit.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
22. My friend, please get this book if you haven't seen it already.
Wed May 6, 2015, 12:16 PM
May 2015

The Easy Way to Stop Smoking by Alan Carr.

I resisted the suggestions to read it for years, but I finally did last June. After 45 years of a pack a day, I smoked my last cigarette as I read the last chapter.

I believe this book is written for people like you and me. Don't fear it. Just read it sometime. You can download it.

I know that what works for one person may not work for anyone else, but from what I know of you, I think you should take a look at this.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
10. I am 100% serious
Tue May 5, 2015, 06:16 PM
May 2015

If I can kick the habit, ANYBODY can. I kicked caffeine 2 years ago, and I was a pot a day drinker of coffee. I drink decaffeinated tea, now (never could stand sweetener in coffee or tea, so it wasn't that bad).

Here I arrive off of cigarettes. It has taken a monumental mindset, but I was disgusted by the lingering habit.

It was not exactly as easy as I portray it, but it isn't as hard as I thought it would be. I was around smokers all day today, and thankfully, it wasn't last week. I probably might have folded. Today, though, I'm in enough that I don't feel the white knuckle type urge anymore.

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
11. I needed a cruch...e cigs
Tue May 5, 2015, 07:00 PM
May 2015

and I never did the one month, one year, but was AMAZED to see my first post to the e cig forum was 10/2013
I must have quit quite a bit earlier..I have not noticed

I still do the e cig...I think if a pacifier could do a throat hit, I would be addicted to the pacifier

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
15. I'm chewing the nasty gum
Tue May 5, 2015, 08:58 PM
May 2015

and using the pacifier. You know what? I still feel better than I have in years, and nothing will "shame" me back to smoking.

There is no amount of mocking that is harsher than your lungs at 6 in the morning after you have been smoking all night.

PennyK

(2,302 posts)
13. It feels so good to be FREE
Tue May 5, 2015, 07:57 PM
May 2015

Yes, I always make sure I have my e-cig with me when I go out on errands. Don't know if I'll ever not need it, but wow! I'm grateful every day that I gave it a chance. I counted every day for the first year, because I was still so amazed that it was working. I'm close to 500 days now!

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
16. PennyK, I hope to get 500 days, too!
Tue May 5, 2015, 09:00 PM
May 2015

I feel better than I have in a long time, and I'm almost a Cialis commercial except I'm not a man and don't have those issues.

ailsagirl

(22,897 posts)
18. Don't hate me but...
Tue May 5, 2015, 10:01 PM
May 2015

I quit cold turkey in 1992. I was a social smoker, though, and really wasn't addicted.

That notwithstanding, CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!

PennyK

(2,302 posts)
21. You're doing so well, Aerows!
Wed May 6, 2015, 10:03 AM
May 2015

As the days go by you'll find so many things changing. Like smelling things...both good and bad. Flowers. perfume. A delicious meal (you needed to gain a few?). Then there's the trash and other people's cigarettes. You'll say "OMG I smelled like THAT?"
I used to do a lot of sneaky smoking and losing the sneaking has made another big change in my life.

 

olddots

(10,237 posts)
27. congrats Aerows
Wed May 6, 2015, 01:29 PM
May 2015

How I quit was realizing my addiction was aiding the people I despise ..plain and simple , even my cancer didn't stop me .Tobbaco is a mistake in time when we mortals have so little time .

MadrasT

(7,237 posts)
28. You have inspired me.
Wed May 6, 2015, 02:06 PM
May 2015

I am trying too.

Was it you who posted about the Flings disposables not long ago? That is what I started with.

The first week I was going back and forth, but "real" cigarettes seem more disgusting now. I am out of "real" cigs and I think I won't buy any more... and see how it goes.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
29. That was me
Wed May 6, 2015, 03:12 PM
May 2015

They really do help. I'm not going to say I haven't had some bad moments where I've been an absolute harridan, lost my shit and the people around me were praying I'd smoke a cigarette or at least just go somewhere else to rant, because I can't say that.

I can say I haven't lit a cigarette, and I do not intend to do so. I just reached the point where I REFUSE to do it anymore. When you have had enough, you have had enough. Yesterday was horrible - I went to get my hair done and all the ladies were smoking around me. I *STILL* didn't.

And yes, you will at some point lose your shit and realize - oh. That's the problem. I always went outside to smoke, and I realized that I can go right on outside without smoking and I need that mental break to gather my shit back together again LOL. But I can do it without smoking.

 

Aerows

(39,961 posts)
31. I'd rather inspire
Wed May 6, 2015, 04:40 PM
May 2015

other people to quit than anything. I'm serious, it is possible. I didn't think it was, but I proved myself wrong.

If I just inspire one other person to quit, I've done something worthy of kudos.

Ahpook

(2,750 posts)
32. Feels good doesn't it? :)
Wed May 6, 2015, 06:28 PM
May 2015

I've been without a ciggy for quite a few years . The health benefits are what keep me going.

The sense of smell and taste came back almost instantly. It was great because I smelled things I haven't noticed in years. Man, I love that. Keep going...

kwassa

(23,340 posts)
35. Congratulations! now wean yourself gradually from the gum and e-cigs.
Thu May 7, 2015, 02:01 PM
May 2015

Once you get as much nicotine out of your system as you can, finally quitting completely will be much easier. It won't be a shock to your body.

I've now made it to 31 years quit.

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