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Prisoner_Number_Six

(15,676 posts)
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 05:56 PM Jun 2015

I'm going to say something here I never thought I'd say.

I am now 60 years old, and I'm still alive.

Not a particularly uncommon condition to find oneself in, from what I hear, but for me it's an amazing achievement. I've lived a somewhat unsettled life, coming close to the edge of the cliff on a few occasions. I've done a lot of stupid things over the years, and I honestly never thought I'd make it to this milestone.

But, crippled and wrecked, here I am! After failing to drink myself to death, after surviving eight major surgeries over 18 years in a failed attempt to repair a failing body, after having a complete mental and physical collapse five years ago that should have finished the job- after all this and much, much more, I still find myself waking up each morning and finding I have an excuse to get out of bed and just DO stuff.

My excuse?? I'm only 60 years old, and I'm still alive.

Here's hoping you are too.

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I'm going to say something here I never thought I'd say. (Original Post) Prisoner_Number_Six Jun 2015 OP
Happy Birthday Prisoner_Number_Six In_The_Wind Jun 2015 #1
Have 60 cakes! shenmue Jun 2015 #2
HAPPY BIRTHDAY, #6! elleng Jun 2015 #3
and this might be why NJCher Jun 2015 #48
Everyone differs, clearly; had GOOD stress in mid-thirties, elleng Jun 2015 #56
Have an awesome day! LiberalEsto Jun 2015 #4
I have friends in their 90's and they can still get on the floor and get up by themselves Thinkingabout Jun 2015 #5
Happy Birthday, Prisoner! femmocrat Jun 2015 #6
Happy Birthday! Kali Jun 2015 #7
Happy Birthday, my dear Prisoner_Number_Six! CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2015 #8
There's been too much sadness here lately. Prisoner_Number_Six Jun 2015 #27
To absent friends! CaliforniaPeggy Jun 2015 #35
Hear hear awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #38
Absent friends. malthaussen Jun 2015 #51
Happy Birthday! And I must say 62 is not so bad, either. calimary Jun 2015 #9
Happy birthday and welcome to the fraternity of old men Jack Rabbit Jun 2015 #10
I am so hot on your age heals! SoapBox Jun 2015 #11
Well Happy Birthday!!! TuxedoKat Jun 2015 #12
Getting Old Thespian2 Jun 2015 #13
My goal each day is to get vertical and everytime someone tells me its good to see me.... marble falls Jun 2015 #14
Happy birthday! Blue_In_AK Jun 2015 #15
My wife is 57 awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #39
Read that as "frisbees," first time. :) malthaussen Jun 2015 #52
Well, frisbees are pretty great, too, Blue_In_AK Jun 2015 #61
I have no depth perception. malthaussen Jun 2015 #68
. Omaha Steve Jun 2015 #16
happy bday heaven05 Jun 2015 #17
Here's to 60 more. nt valerief Jun 2015 #18
Fuck Me Too! Pharaoh Jun 2015 #19
Happy Happy Birthday Prisoner_Number_Six cal04 Jun 2015 #20
Glad you made it, PN6. brer cat Jun 2015 #21
For all you do.... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #22
That looks SOOOOOOOOO good. Prisoner_Number_Six Jun 2015 #26
A friend showed up with some rainbow cush once.... Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #28
I just did awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #40
AKA: "Fruity Pebbles" Spitfire of ATJ Jun 2015 #42
AND you have us, Prisoner_Number_Six Skittles Jun 2015 #23
Been longing for you to kick my ass for years. Prisoner_Number_Six Jun 2015 #25
YOU WANT I SHOULD KICK YOUR LONGING ASS, PRISONER_NUMBER_SIX? Skittles Jun 2015 #34
I've never wanted awoke_in_2003 Jun 2015 #41
YOU WANT I SHOULD KICK YOUR WANTING ASS, awoke_in_2003? Skittles Jun 2015 #43
Best wishes for more years and milestones for you. Moostache Jun 2015 #24
I can't possibly respond to all these great posts. Prisoner_Number_Six Jun 2015 #29
And you know what? It actually gets better from here. NBachers Jun 2015 #30
Well, if you escaped from The Village, Aristus Jun 2015 #31
Happy Birthday! And 60 seems young to me now that I am 76. n/t RebelOne Jun 2015 #32
Happy happy day!!! Enjoy it and eat lots of cake! nt riderinthestorm Jun 2015 #33
Luvya, am older than you (than *anybody*) and luvya n/t UTUSN Jun 2015 #36
Always good to celebrate. Paka Jun 2015 #37
Congratulations! The 60's are good years, enjoy them. No Vested Interest Jun 2015 #44
Welcome to the club DFW Jun 2015 #45
Jesus Christ, the best piece vlakitti Jun 2015 #46
Don't trust anyone over thirty... FailureToCommunicate Jun 2015 #47
Good on you! riqster Jun 2015 #49
Well, life's been good to you so far... malthaussen Jun 2015 #50
Happy Birthday Democat Jun 2015 #53
Happy birthday to you yesterday and to a good young friend of mine who's birthday was yesterday too! cascadiance Jun 2015 #54
Happy Birthday! bigwillq Jun 2015 #55
a very happy birthday to you, and many years filled with all the blessings and joy you deserve. niyad Jun 2015 #57
Have a fab day! CrispyQ Jun 2015 #58
That is awesome. Xyzse Jun 2015 #59
Know what? You just made my day much better. nolabear Jun 2015 #60
Congratuations on your coming out rocktivity Jun 2015 #62
Happy Birthday! Pooka Fey Jun 2015 #63
Happy Birthday. bvar22 Jun 2015 #64
Congratulations from the perspective of 67. GoneOffShore Jun 2015 #65
Hey, I'm 69 and having fun mikehiggins Jun 2015 #66
Happy Birthday PN6! And many more! :) nt steve2470 Jun 2015 #67

elleng

(130,974 posts)
3. HAPPY BIRTHDAY, #6!
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 06:21 PM
Jun 2015

I'm somewhat similarly situated, that is, over 60 and still alive. (70, with none of the trials and tribulations you describe.)

2 LITTLE grandsons, granddaughter on the way, so STILL moving along!

elleng

(130,974 posts)
56. Everyone differs, clearly; had GOOD stress in mid-thirties,
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 11:22 AM
Jun 2015

BAD stress during 60s, but 'ditched' (partly) the cause, so now things looking pretty good.

Thinkingabout

(30,058 posts)
5. I have friends in their 90's and they can still get on the floor and get up by themselves
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 06:36 PM
Jun 2015

Without help. They are my heroes. Yes, I know how it is to be 60, I am amaze I have lived this long but every day when I get up I thing this is going to be the best day of my life, I smile and get on the road. Congratulations.

CaliforniaPeggy

(149,636 posts)
8. Happy Birthday, my dear Prisoner_Number_Six!
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 07:02 PM
Jun 2015

And boy, let me tell you, I'M VERY GLAD YOU'RE STILL ALIVE!

I've had several very close DU friends die recently, and I don't think I could handle another one.



So, keep on getting out of bed and doing stuff! It's a wonderful place to be...



marble falls

(57,104 posts)
14. My goal each day is to get vertical and everytime someone tells me its good to see me....
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 07:45 PM
Jun 2015

I tell them, "its good to be seen."

Congratulations on being seen today!!!

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
15. Happy birthday!
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 07:50 PM
Jun 2015

Having been in my 60s for almost nine years now, I've been kind of surprised at how much fun I'm having. The freebies, in particular, are great. Free fishing license, senior property tax exemption...we'll never have to register our truck again. Cheap movies. Really, getting old is great.

Blue_In_AK

(46,436 posts)
61. Well, frisbees are pretty great, too,
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 01:36 PM
Jun 2015

although I was never very good with them. I have astigmatism, so baseballs, frisbees, etc., are never exactly where I think they are. I was always picked last for team sports in school.

 

Pharaoh

(8,209 posts)
19. Fuck Me Too!
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 08:21 PM
Jun 2015

I'll be 60 next year, when I was younger I did'nt expect to make to thirty. But I did do a lot of damage to the old body along the way

Skittles

(153,169 posts)
43. YOU WANT I SHOULD KICK YOUR WANTING ASS, awoke_in_2003?
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 02:06 AM
Jun 2015

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I WILL MAKE YOU RE-AWAKENED_IN_2015; yes INDEED

NBachers

(17,120 posts)
30. And you know what? It actually gets better from here.
Sun Jun 7, 2015, 09:10 PM
Jun 2015

Sign up for each and every senior discount you're entitled to.

All those things that you were scared they might happen? Guess what? They already did happen. You're still here! Congratulations!

Women are nicer to you, because they no longer see you as a threat.

There's just something liberating about getting here. Make the best of it!

Paka

(2,760 posts)
37. Always good to celebrate.
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 01:17 AM
Jun 2015

Like you, I've put my body through a lot, not medical, but accidents and muggings. Numerous broken bones, punctured lung, smashed nose up in my head, you get the picture, and I'm still around to tell the tale with over a decade on you.

Keep up the good work. Stay alive and enjoy every second. It sure beats all the other options.

DFW

(54,405 posts)
45. Welcome to the club
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 03:20 AM
Jun 2015

I hit 63 earlier this year. Mother Nature had me slated to check out on or about April 29, 2004, and it's not nice to fool Mother Nature (or so the ads used to say). But I hit her Snooze button, and am still around to tell the tale.

I might be around for another 30 years or maybe another 30 minutes. NO idea. But it isn't worth 30 seconds of the time I have left to worry about it.

Like you said, get out of bed, and go enjoy what's out there while you can.

Like Warren Zevon once sang, "I'll sleep when I'm dead," which, come to think of it, he now is.

 

cascadiance

(19,537 posts)
54. Happy birthday to you yesterday and to a good young friend of mine who's birthday was yesterday too!
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 10:36 AM
Jun 2015

I've got four more years to achieve your goal of hitting 60, where I no longer have to pay 10% penalties on taking out money from my 401k and IRA funds like I did last year, and will have to do this coming year.

And hopefully, I can fight through sleep apnea that I had some preliminary diagnosis of having a week ago today, that a few days later took the life of one of our good DUers here this last week too. Hoping that my dropping a second job I did last night will help me through that, and hopefully I'll have enough energy to go to more election action group meetings and also additional work that I spent yesterday on for Bernie Sanders.

Your fight through your challenges is giving me a four year goal to fight through mine, and hopefully in that time we'll have a changed government that will help all of us do so too, and I can be a part of that change!

And a good happy birthday to my young friend as well, who probably doesn't frequent this board, but who I want to see have a good lifetime ahead of her to not find it tainted by what appears to be so much problems ahead of us that we need to get rid of now.

nolabear

(41,986 posts)
60. Know what? You just made my day much better.
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 12:26 PM
Jun 2015

I'm 60 too, and it's been one of the hardest years of my life. Three deaths of people I love, one cardiac bypass for Mr. Bear, and as soon as I decided to finally take the leap and close my therapy practice for a couple of years and devote myself to my writing career my body started going bonkers, arthritis and sciatica making sitting at the computer for lengths of time very hard.

But dammit, I'm still here too! And it's hard but not impossible. Here's to finding a way to live, and live well.

Here's to all us human beings, fragile and wonderful things that we are. 👏👏👏👏👏👏

bvar22

(39,909 posts)
64. Happy Birthday.
Mon Jun 8, 2015, 04:00 PM
Jun 2015

I never thought I would see 60.
None of my friends did either.


"Life's journey is not to arrive at the grave safely in a well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, totally worn out, shouting 'Holy shit…what a ride!".---Hunter S Thompson

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