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WilmywoodNCparalegal

(2,654 posts)
Thu Aug 20, 2015, 07:41 PM Aug 2015

Anyone familiar with Japanese customs...

I worked on visa issues for a Japanese theatrical production. The event was highly successful.

I just received an envelope with mostly Japanese writing with my name on it from the Japanese production company that contained a brand new $1 bill.

Anyone know the significance?

Thanks!

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Anyone familiar with Japanese customs... (Original Post) WilmywoodNCparalegal Aug 2015 OP
You might also ask in DU's Asian Group... PoliticAverse Aug 2015 #1
My wife suspects it is a tip Generic Brad Aug 2015 #2
However, the Japanese also know that a dollar is not worth all that much Art_from_Ark Aug 2015 #7
Ws it a red envelope? blogslut Aug 2015 #3
Japanese don't use "red envelopes". Art_from_Ark Aug 2015 #6
I am spending tomorrow (Friday) with my Japanese sister-in-law DFW Aug 2015 #4
PM yuiyoshida jmowreader Aug 2015 #5
That is really weird. betsuni Aug 2015 #8
thanks to all WilmywoodNCparalegal Aug 2015 #9
No way. betsuni Aug 2015 #10
Well, the part about giving a crisp bill as a gift is a Japanese custom Art_from_Ark Aug 2015 #11
Yeah, that's what I mean. New crisp bill yes, one dollar no. betsuni Aug 2015 #14
My Japanese students are very generous and they can count in american lindysalsagal Aug 2015 #12
Depends on what it says on the envelope Art_from_Ark Aug 2015 #13

Generic Brad

(14,275 posts)
2. My wife suspects it is a tip
Thu Aug 20, 2015, 08:24 PM
Aug 2015

(She spent half of her life in Japan). Before you take the gesture as an insult, remember that Japan is a culture that does not tip. This may be a case of "When in Rome, do as the Romans do". I consider it a very sweet act. The fact that you were given a gratuity is a sincere gesture of thanks for your services.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
7. However, the Japanese also know that a dollar is not worth all that much
Fri Aug 21, 2015, 03:29 AM
Aug 2015

Its exchange value here in Japan is just enough to buy a soda from a vending machine. So, the "tip" could be their idea of a joke.

DFW

(54,436 posts)
4. I am spending tomorrow (Friday) with my Japanese sister-in-law
Fri Aug 21, 2015, 12:47 AM
Aug 2015

scan the Japanese text and I'll show it to her and ask

betsuni

(25,609 posts)
8. That is really weird.
Fri Aug 21, 2015, 09:02 AM
Aug 2015

Last edited Fri Aug 21, 2015, 10:14 AM - Edit history (1)

There are only three scenarios I can come up with.
1. A mistake. A young new employee of the company was sent to the bank and mistook 1.00 for 100.00.
2. A joke. Perhaps you loaned one of the production crew a dollar and you don't remember.
3. An insult. You offended someone somehow and of course they didn't say anything at the time and now you're supposed to spend sleepless night obsessing about it.

There is no other explanation.

WilmywoodNCparalegal

(2,654 posts)
9. thanks to all
Fri Aug 21, 2015, 11:54 AM
Aug 2015

I spoke to a few coworkers familiar with Japanese customs and it appears to be an appreciative good luck and good fortune gesture.

I had attended the gala reception after the event's premiere on Friday and I was extensively thanked and bowed to I don't think they are telling me to GFY.

Art_from_Ark

(27,247 posts)
11. Well, the part about giving a crisp bill as a gift is a Japanese custom
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 08:33 PM
Aug 2015

But a measly dollar bill-- the equivalent of one canned drink from a Japanese vending machine-- seems way too cheap for an "o-rei" from a production company.

betsuni

(25,609 posts)
14. Yeah, that's what I mean. New crisp bill yes, one dollar no.
Tue Aug 25, 2015, 08:38 AM
Aug 2015

I'm starting to think like my Japanese mother-in-law and she'd be horrified by this. Why not just spit on them and throw a coin in the gutter for them to fish out. Really weird.

lindysalsagal

(20,726 posts)
12. My Japanese students are very generous and they can count in american
Mon Aug 24, 2015, 08:41 PM
Aug 2015

And they know the value of our money.

I'm going with the 'luck' idea: This is a token that they paid you for your service and somehow that recognition brings luck on both sides.

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