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Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 06:20 PM Aug 2015

I'm feeling weary.

It's been 9 months since I graduated from college. I can't find a job making more than 38k a year in anything aside from what I'm trying to get away from. I'm going to make 45k this year as a local trucker. I can actually do much better than that driving a truck. I think I can get a job making 60k a year and being home most nights.

At this point, I don't know what else to do. The job market is telling me to stay a trucker. I can't afford to take a job for less than what I am making now.

If I could get on at a larger company, I might be able to get on driving a truck for them with the possibility that my degree and a little time with the company might work into an inside position that pays well. I tried that with my current employer, but it's a small family-owned place with very low turnover in the office. They just don't need anyone else there.

I think that's my best strategy, anyway. If I pursue it, I'll also have to sell my wife on it. For some reason, she's terribly afraid on me switching jobs even though we aren't getting anywhere financially where I am now.

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I'm feeling weary. (Original Post) Tobin S. Aug 2015 OP
I think you are taking a realistic approach to this and looking to stay madinmaryland Aug 2015 #1
Good words for Tobin, mad. elleng Aug 2015 #3
Thanks! madinmaryland Aug 2015 #4
No offense, but that is not a smart career strategy Yavin4 Aug 2015 #10
Feels like we are rowing a boat with one oar. PassingFair Aug 2015 #2
something is gonna break soon Kali Aug 2015 #5
Nine months isn't really that long PasadenaTrudy Aug 2015 #6
Try a little tenderness! WinkyDink Aug 2015 #7
Don't stay in trucking if you don't want to Yavin4 Aug 2015 #8
That's not an option Tobin S. Aug 2015 #11
If you take the trucking job now, it will be even harder to change jobs later in life Yavin4 Aug 2015 #12
I have very little savings and I have no credit. Tobin S. Aug 2015 #13
I swear, Tobin... CanSocDem Aug 2015 #15
"Constant whining"? Tobin S. Aug 2015 #16
FWIW I don't see you as a whiner. redwitch Aug 2015 #18
Thank you, redwitch. Tobin S. Aug 2015 #19
I have crossed paths with CSD before... uriel1972 Aug 2015 #24
Just because one person is being rude doesn't mean we all see you that way lunatica Aug 2015 #25
Sorry, but that was a really jerky thing to say lunatica Aug 2015 #23
What kind of career would you really like given your degree, skills, and interests? aikoaiko Aug 2015 #9
I hear you laundry_queen Aug 2015 #14
The only problem with that is the time you've invested... MrMickeysMom Aug 2015 #17
Business administration Tobin S. Aug 2015 #20
Yes, that's right.. MrMickeysMom Aug 2015 #22
Have you made any applications to UPS? I know you've said you don't want to move mnhtnbb Aug 2015 #21

madinmaryland

(64,933 posts)
1. I think you are taking a realistic approach to this and looking to stay
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 07:40 PM
Aug 2015

with trucking jobs that will pay you a comfortable salary.

As an aside, I have stayed with my field through three layoffs, because I did not want to have to start at the bottom of the stack, competing with folks who have 20 years of experience in the field that you are trying to break into. It automatically puts you at the bottom of the list or a salary commiserate with an entry level position.

What you say in your third paragraph may be the best way to break out of driving and getting into management, since you now have a college degree. BTW, congrats on getting the degree.

madinmaryland

(64,933 posts)
4. Thanks!
Wed Aug 26, 2015, 08:10 PM
Aug 2015

Yes. He lived a few miles from where we are now. I ought to suggest to him to look at the new company that is moving into the old GM plant here. Unfortunately it is a Chinese company, but they do plan on hiring around 1500 people. They are in Moraine and are looking to bring in local people. I don't know what types of positions they are trying to fill.

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
10. No offense, but that is not a smart career strategy
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 04:52 PM
Aug 2015

In a rapidly changing economy, having years of experience does not count for all that much. Twenty years ago, having 20 years of experience as a travel agent meant something. Today? That entire profession is dead.

The right career strategy is to take a job, any job, with a company doing anything similar to what you want to do. Gain new skills, experience, and most importantly contacts.

Trucking is a dead end job with no up side.

PasadenaTrudy

(3,998 posts)
6. Nine months isn't really that long
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 02:10 PM
Aug 2015

by today's standards, sadly. I have friends with master's degrees, in education no-less, who had to look for years for full time employment. Even here in CA, the land of opportunity.

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
8. Don't stay in trucking if you don't want to
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 04:48 PM
Aug 2015

Take something, anything, for less money now and gain the skills and contacts to move up. If you take the trucking job now, you will only become more and more dependent on the income, and it will be even harder to move into something that you like. Yes, it's a struggle, no doubt, but taking the pain now will pay off later in your life.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
11. That's not an option
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 06:02 PM
Aug 2015

I seriously can't take a job making less money than I do right now. We have nothing to fall back on now as it is.

Yavin4

(35,446 posts)
12. If you take the trucking job now, it will be even harder to change jobs later in life
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 09:21 PM
Aug 2015

You have to look at the big picture.

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
13. I have very little savings and I have no credit.
Fri Aug 28, 2015, 09:24 PM
Aug 2015
http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018793318

It's not a matter of will. It's a matter of just flat not being able to do it.
 

CanSocDem

(3,286 posts)
15. I swear, Tobin...
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 12:02 PM
Aug 2015


...that nice and capable as you are, your constant whining is giving "truck drivers" a bad name. and I say this because, the only difference between us is that I got into education BEFORE I discovered the joys of trucking. It made me a better driver, not a disgruntled academic.

Seriously, it's a big world out there and people would kill to have your access to it.


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Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
16. "Constant whining"?
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 12:24 PM
Aug 2015

Where do you get that from my post? The only thing I complain about is not being able to find a good job in my chosen field of study. It's right to complain about that because it shouldn't be that way. I generally don't complain about trucking. I've been doing it for over 18 years. If I was constantly whining about it I wouldn't have lasted nearly that long.

Did you see the part where I said I'm probably going to remain a trucker? Did you see where I said I'm thinking of picking up part time work elsewhere in trucking? What are you reading?

redwitch

(14,948 posts)
18. FWIW I don't see you as a whiner.
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 05:14 PM
Aug 2015

I enjoy your posts, always have. I celebrate your victories when they come, I appreciate your hard work to get the degree and I also understand your frustration. Hang in there Tobin!

uriel1972

(4,261 posts)
24. I have crossed paths with CSD before...
Sun Aug 30, 2015, 01:03 PM
Aug 2015

His disdain is not worth the worry. I think of it as a badge of pride

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
25. Just because one person is being rude doesn't mean we all see you that way
Sun Aug 30, 2015, 01:03 PM
Aug 2015

When I see your name as the OP I always click on it to see what you have to say. You've shared your life with us and made our lives richer for it. Don't heed the ones who are the real downers and who feel the need to put others down. That's one thing you've never done.

laundry_queen

(8,646 posts)
14. I hear you
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 12:58 AM
Aug 2015

I'm making even less than that now with a degree (a supposedly 'marketable' one too) and there's nothing else available in my area. i was thinking of moving to a more remote area where I know I could make double. But my kids have moved so much I promised them this would be our home until they all graduated. *sigh*

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
17. The only problem with that is the time you've invested...
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 04:47 PM
Aug 2015

… versus the likely affect of driving all the time versus the time it takes to reach gainful employment.

Mind if I asked what your degree is in?

Tobin S.

(10,418 posts)
20. Business administration
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 05:39 PM
Aug 2015

It's probably the most marketable undergraduate degree you can get. I have had several job opportunities, but I can't find any place that will pay me what I need. We're not talking a CEO salary here. For 45k I'd be willing to jump ship. It's just not happening.

MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
22. Yes, that's right..
Sat Aug 29, 2015, 08:26 PM
Aug 2015

I see lots of business degrees out there. Maybe the potential employers are now valuing this degree "a dime a dozen".

Is there any way to reduce your needed income, so you could eek by at a lower entry salary with, say, an early review that you negotiate?

On the other hand, if you're young, maybe you should have a 5 year plan and use your off time for something promising (my dream is sustainable utility industry, but to find these kind of opportunities, you have to live in an area that is "up and coming".

You can work it out… You owe it to yourself to find a way!

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