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Contrary1

(12,629 posts)
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 04:48 AM Dec 2015

Said goodbye to my furbuddy Elvis yesterday...

I rescued him, along with his three littermates back in the early Spring of '99.

A neighbor called to tell me that the resident feral had given birth under her deck. They had been leaving food out, but would be gone for a couple weeks. Could I possibly do something?

Always up for a challenge, I spent about six hours one Saturday tricking them into the cage, one at a time. This yet-to-be-named one (since I wasn't gonna keep them under any circumstances), being the boldest of the bunch, was the first one trapped...and so he graciously "volunteered" to serve as bait for his siblings.

Did I mention that I wasn't going to keep them? I already had two cats. So, I arranged for the local feed store to take them once all the eye infections, and fleas were taken care of. The store took unwanted litters in the spring and summer, and then re-homed them. No problem, huh?

Much to my husband's dismay, I could never seem to pronounce these guys healthy enough for adoption. No one in the world could take better care of them than me. Had to get them in the best of health to insure someone would adopt them.

The feed store was unusually full of kittens that year, and this short story has already become a bit too long...

I named him Elvis Purrsley, mainly because his two brothers and one sister seemed to regard him as "The King". Really, for the first few months, it was like the other three looked to him for permission to pass by, to eat...it was hilarious. Elvis was the boss.

He quit eating Tuesday. He didn't seem sick, otherwise; but anytime a 16+ year old kitty's behavior changes, you can't waste any time. And so, within 10 minutes of arriving at the vet's office, she told me the bad news. His body temperature was much lower than normal, and he was jaundiced. His liver was failing. At best, he had another week or so. She said he wasn't suffering yet.

I have taken in so many strays since I was young. Doesn't seem to matter. It still breaks my heart to let one go...

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Said goodbye to my furbuddy Elvis yesterday... (Original Post) Contrary1 Dec 2015 OP
Vibes for now. One day the pure memory of Elvis will applegrove Dec 2015 #1
Been there, done that, would and will do it again. CajunBlazer Dec 2015 #18
been there. Some times you forget and look for them and they are not around and then hollysmom Dec 2015 #2
So sad, I feel for you. Paper Roses Dec 2015 #3
Elvis will always be in the house... mnhtnbb Dec 2015 #4
I see what you did there... :) Contrary1 Dec 2015 #6
Yes... mnhtnbb Dec 2015 #7
Sorry for your loss vt_native Dec 2015 #5
Cats can hide illness so well LiberalElite Dec 2015 #8
My condolences Sanity Claws Dec 2015 #9
There is just one left of the litter... Contrary1 Jan 2016 #26
No, it doesn't matter how many you take in - Bertha Venation Dec 2015 #10
oh I'm so sorry... CrawlingChaos Dec 2015 #11
so sorry restorefreedom Dec 2015 #12
I'm sorry for your loss, Contrary1. brer cat Dec 2015 #13
Just went through the same thing with our family dog.....It really hurts (sigh). nt clarice Dec 2015 #14
... YvonneCa Dec 2015 #15
... Skittles Dec 2015 #16
so so so sorry !!!!!! trueblue2007 Dec 2015 #17
Aw, so sorry! The Velveteen Ocelot Dec 2015 #19
So sorry... LiberalEsto Dec 2015 #20
... 2naSalit Dec 2015 #21
So sorry TuxedoKat Jan 2016 #22
You did good. Really good. Bless you. Demoiselle Jan 2016 #23
I feel your pain. It's the hardest part of caring for a pet. I just had to put down my 7 year old Electric Monk Jan 2016 #24
I share your love of animals... I'm so sorry, Contrary1... MrMickeysMom Jan 2016 #25
... shenmue Jan 2016 #27
I'm so very sorry. NCarolinawoman Jan 2016 #28

applegrove

(118,677 posts)
1. Vibes for now. One day the pure memory of Elvis will
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 05:00 AM
Dec 2015

make you feel all warm and happy inside for having been his human. Till then I wish you vibes.

CajunBlazer

(5,648 posts)
18. Been there, done that, would and will do it again.
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 09:00 PM
Dec 2015

We have taken nine strays and feral kittens over the last thirty or so years. At one time we had seven cats in the house at once. The were all over fifteen years old when they died and the oldest was 22. All of them succumbed to some illness or anther associated with old age. It's always sad so I feel you loss. It's it strange that they all have different personalities, but all still manage to find a place in your heart. We have one big guy left, Max, and we got him out of a shelter when he was about five. We will be looking for a companion for him after the new year.

Hopefully there will be more cats in your life in the new future. After all what good or people and unless they have cats that own them.

hollysmom

(5,946 posts)
2. been there. Some times you forget and look for them and they are not around and then
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 06:30 AM
Dec 2015

you remember.
the thing is you so loved this cat and you showed it in every way that mattered to Elvis. He knew. and that counts.

Paper Roses

(7,473 posts)
3. So sad, I feel for you.
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 07:03 AM
Dec 2015

To those of us with pets, the loss stays with us forever. You were so good to Elvis and I'm sure he thanked you with years of love and companionship.

mnhtnbb

(31,392 posts)
4. Elvis will always be in the house...
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 07:14 AM
Dec 2015

in your heart and memories. Thanks to you he had a wonderful life.

Hugs for you. It's so hard to lose these fur babies.

Contrary1

(12,629 posts)
6. I see what you did there... :)
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 07:24 AM
Dec 2015

I told the vet that "Elvis had left the building". She remarked that he was really beautiful...a long hair, kind of indescribable tabby, calico, tortie mix.

I will miss him.

mnhtnbb

(31,392 posts)
7. Yes...
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 07:41 AM
Dec 2015

We have a neighbor who also worked with my husband who has a kitty named Elvis--and his brother is Flash--and they both
used to come visit our Mouse and Simba when we were renting a house near theirs after our fire. Mousie and Simba have both
since crossed the Rainbow Bridge, but Snowy and I see Elvis and Flash occasionally when we're out walking.

LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
8. Cats can hide illness so well
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 08:16 AM
Dec 2015

and it's very good you brought him in right away after he stopped eating. Can't let that go on very long with a cat.
Elvis had an excellent life with you.

Sanity Claws

(21,849 posts)
9. My condolences
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 08:33 AM
Dec 2015

Elvis will always be King.

I imagine you will always look back on your times with hi with deep love.
Are his littermates still with you? If they are, do they show signs that they miss him?

Contrary1

(12,629 posts)
26. There is just one left of the litter...
Sun Jan 3, 2016, 04:10 AM
Jan 2016

Noogie, who of course would be the least social one of the bunch. I lost his brother BT right before Christmas of '14. Baby, the only female died back in 2010.

Scarlett, their mother died last February. I was never allowed to be within 5 feet of her. But, she showed up every day to be fed and talked to. I figure she was probably around 17 years old. My vet had not heard of a feral living that long.

She actually brought a second litter to my door, I would guess around 2003. Eventually trapped the little boogers and found good homes for them. Finally trapped her after that, and was able to have her spayed.
The vet said that Scarlett had been "around the block several times".

I don't see any signs of Elvis being missed, except maybe by my other feral rescue...Bunny. They seemed to cuddle a bit, even though not related. Well, who knows? Maybe they were.

So now, I am left with 4. Noogie, Gigi, Toody, and Bunny...the fewest number of kitties I have taken care of in 16+ years.

I think my kitty rescue days are over. I'm getting too old now, and any new ones would most likely outlive me.

Of course; if another one should show up on my doorstep...???

Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
10. No, it doesn't matter how many you take in -
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 09:16 AM
Dec 2015

they invariably get into your heart. I am so sorry, Contrary1.

CrawlingChaos

(1,893 posts)
11. oh I'm so sorry...
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 10:20 AM
Dec 2015

It's such a deep sadness - my heart goes out to you. But what a great kindness you have done for these precious little lives in your loving care.

Safe journey Elvis Purrsley... you were a lucky kitty to have such a great mom.

restorefreedom

(12,655 posts)
12. so sorry
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 10:36 AM
Dec 2015

sounds like you gave him a great life

i have worked in rescue, and no matter how many times you do it, every loss hurts. every precious life.

peace


brer cat

(24,573 posts)
13. I'm sorry for your loss, Contrary1.
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 11:13 AM
Dec 2015

16+ years for a feral is amazing. You gave him a long life he would never have had on the streets.

Skittles

(153,164 posts)
16. ...
Thu Dec 31, 2015, 08:35 PM
Dec 2015

Grieve not,
nor speak of me with tears,
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you...
I loved you so --
'twas Heaven here with you.

by Isla Paschal Richardson

Demoiselle

(6,787 posts)
23. You did good. Really good. Bless you.
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 08:05 PM
Jan 2016

I speak as someone who's had a family of ferals under her porch, too. I took them in, although I could never capture the grey Tomcat who fathered them all. Now, many years later, i still have three living inside with me. They snuggle and sleep with me and pretty much ignore the dogs.

 

Electric Monk

(13,869 posts)
24. I feel your pain. It's the hardest part of caring for a pet. I just had to put down my 7 year old
Sat Jan 2, 2016, 05:20 AM
Jan 2016

beagle. He was diagnosed with lymphoma in August, after we noticed some swelling and extra sensitivity in his neck, and the chemo (Madison protocol) didn't really do much to help him. Your thread here brought tears to my eyes yet again.



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MrMickeysMom

(20,453 posts)
25. I share your love of animals... I'm so sorry, Contrary1...
Sun Jan 3, 2016, 12:02 AM
Jan 2016

They stay with you forever in spirit.

Long live the King in your heart.

NCarolinawoman

(2,825 posts)
28. I'm so very sorry.
Sun Jan 3, 2016, 09:05 PM
Jan 2016

As a child I lost Sunny, Mitzi, and Tippy. Sunny was hit by a car, Tippy and Mitzi to distemper. They hadn't developed the vaccine yet. And everybody's cat was indoor/outdoor back then.

Later I had Buzzer-Bee, adopted from the Philadelphia subway system, Punky, Lee-Lee and finally Mathew-Pufftail. All beloved and converted into indoor cats. Although Buzzer could not quite make the conversion to total indoor. Buzz, was like Wiley Coyote and lived to to be 19, after many close calls.

Matthew- Pufftail is my last remaining kitty and spends most of his time in bed with me as I am now on Palliative care. He also is my official my official greeter to my caregivers. He's a large Maine Coon and the gentlest of beings.

My Vet once told me that animals have souls. She said she's believed that since her child hood. She is a professor at NC School of veterinarian medicine. I honestly believe that too.

Hugs and love to you, Contrary1.

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