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bluestateguy

(44,173 posts)
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 01:39 PM Feb 2016

How do you deal with the workplace chatterbox?

You know THAT person.

The one who babbles and prattles on and on and on about pointless crap.

Goes off on loooong tangents.

Answers a question with a five minute monologue, when everybody else can answer the same question in 20 seconds.

They rarely ask questions about you and your life. It's always about me, me, me, or irrelevant tripe.

And they soak up your time that you need to get work done.

How do you deal with these supremely annoying people?

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How do you deal with the workplace chatterbox? (Original Post) bluestateguy Feb 2016 OP
I've gotten pretty good at avoidance over the years. If the phone rings mackerel Feb 2016 #1
I send a lot of emails to one person. Seems to work. Lochloosa Feb 2016 #2
Plug yourself into your mp3 player and nod pleasantly. The Velveteen Ocelot Feb 2016 #3
There's one in my office who LiberalElite Feb 2016 #4
I used to excuse myself to the restroom. femmocrat Feb 2016 #5
Ear buds. chalky Feb 2016 #6
listening to my favorite music with bright colored earplugs lunatica Feb 2016 #7
You just have to be direct A Little Weird Feb 2016 #8
I guess I got lucky HeiressofBickworth Feb 2016 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author Skittles Feb 2016 #10
Look like I'm doing something that takes all my attention. hobbit709 Feb 2016 #11
The way to shut up a narcisist is to start talking about yourself. kentauros Feb 2016 #12
I also recommend headphones mythology Feb 2016 #13
Ear buds + smart phone + podcast of choice. Initech Feb 2016 #14
Buy an electric cattle prod. edbermac Feb 2016 #15
I've had a water cannon installed in my cube Orrex Feb 2016 #16

mackerel

(4,412 posts)
1. I've gotten pretty good at avoidance over the years. If the phone rings
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 01:42 PM
Feb 2016

I rush to answer it that always seems to help.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,735 posts)
3. Plug yourself into your mp3 player and nod pleasantly.
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 01:54 PM
Feb 2016

And then, "I hope you don't mind but you'll have to excuse me; I have to finish xxxxx by the end of the day." Then plug in the mp3 player again.

LiberalElite

(14,691 posts)
4. There's one in my office who
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 02:16 PM
Feb 2016

not only babbles on- after she's done with the story, she goes back to "start" and repeats it....

I got lucky - for some reason she stopped speaking to me two years ago. (She's also veeerry sensitive.) Since then, every time I observe her chewing someone's ear off, I remember what a lucky woman I am.

chalky

(3,297 posts)
6. Ear buds.
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 02:44 PM
Feb 2016

I've even gone so far as to put them in without playing music. Desperate times called for desperate measures.

lunatica

(53,410 posts)
7. listening to my favorite music with bright colored earplugs
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 03:32 PM
Feb 2016

The bright color is so they can see them, and know that I'm currently unavailable and unable to listen to them.

I work in a cubicle plantation so sometimes there's a lot of chatter. The music really helps me.

A Little Weird

(1,754 posts)
8. You just have to be direct
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 03:47 PM
Feb 2016

"I'm sorry, I don't have time to talk right now I have to get this done." If you want to be nice, throw on a "Maybe we can catch up later?" at the end.

HeiressofBickworth

(2,682 posts)
9. I guess I got lucky
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 10:33 PM
Feb 2016

After a few uncomfortable sessions (she was standing between me and my office door so I couldn't leave) my boss went to her boss and said that she was interrupting my work and wanted it to stop. She rarely came by my office after that. I wasn't at all sure how I was going to make it stop, but my boss (a woman) was sensitive to the issue and stepped in for me.

Response to bluestateguy (Original post)

hobbit709

(41,694 posts)
11. Look like I'm doing something that takes all my attention.
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 11:01 PM
Feb 2016

If they persist, tell them to go away and bother someone that cares.

kentauros

(29,414 posts)
12. The way to shut up a narcisist is to start talking about yourself.
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 11:19 PM
Feb 2016

I have a hard time interrupting people (unless they do it to me once too many times) because I like to let them make their point. But I think in the case of someone like that, I'd interrupt to talk about my life. They usually lose interest fast and find something else to do

 

mythology

(9,527 posts)
13. I also recommend headphones
Sun Feb 7, 2016, 11:33 PM
Feb 2016

but not little earbuds. I go with big over the ear headphones.

Also a solid bored glare often works.

If you want to get really sneaky, set your cell phone to have an autodial to your office phone and memorize how to dial it from your pocket.

Orrex

(63,216 posts)
16. I've had a water cannon installed in my cube
Mon Feb 8, 2016, 09:13 AM
Feb 2016

A quick blast of near-freezing water at 80 PSI is enough to curb most small talk.

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