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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsI saw Helen MIRREN on COLBERT grasp a tea cup by the bowl, NOT by the handle, scandalous!1
Well, I need to know when I'm being gauche. So, if La Helen may take such a familiarity with a tea cup, so might *I*?!1
Here's the deal, Stephen catered a tea tray for her (after she suggestively kissed him on the lips), and they chatted away, fine.
At some point, after their being engrossed in their chat, the camera came back to a full shot of her and she was holding the tea cup on the opposite side of the handle, by the BOWL of the cup.
It's fine with me, but isn't the purpose of the handle to deflect heat from the fingers? So. I guess deeply engrained customs allow for familiarities, fine.
Aristus
(66,388 posts)I'm still envisioning getting kissed on the lips by Helen Mirren...
lame54
(35,294 posts)by Sally Fields
In_The_Wind
(72,300 posts)Aristus
(66,388 posts)gave her the air of a young, teenage girl with her first crush.
The lady is a goddess...
sarge43
(28,941 posts)"I think I just died and went to heaven."
Aristus
(66,388 posts)I just said it out loud...
Dame Helen...
progressoid
(49,991 posts)NewJeffCT
(56,828 posts)that way is now the proper way to hold your tea.
UTUSN
(70,711 posts)underahedgerow
(1,232 posts)the 19th century when Meissen first endeavored to use handles on tea cups.
In Asia there is a specific practice of holding one's tea bowl, with one hand under and the other hand cupping the bowl to drink.
In France it is still custom for some to drink coffee from bowls, not proper cups as we know them. Authentic espresso cups have no handles, and we'll use glasses similar to 'shot' glasses more often than not.
It is correct form however, to raise one's pinky just a bit when drinking tea of course.
'Random Factoids'
kentauros
(29,414 posts)because none of them have handles
I prefer the Chinese reasoning behind that method:
If it's too hot to pick up, then it's too hot to drink!
And that's mighty true with me. Can't tell you how many times I've burned my tongue or lips when holding a teacup by the handle. Blowing on it does nothing, and I still can't tell how hot it is.
IcyPeas
(21,893 posts)Lyrics:
EVERYTHING STOPS FOR TEA
Featured in Buchanan's 1935 comedy film, "Come Out Of The Pantry"
(Goodhart / Hoffman / Sigler)
Jack Buchanan
Every nation in creation has its favourite drink
France is famous for its wine, it's beer in Germany
Turkey has its coffee and they serve it blacker than ink
Russians go for vodka and England loves its tea
Oh, the factories may be roaring
With a boom-a-lacka, zoom-a-lacka, wee
But there isn't any roar when the clock strikes four
Everything stops for tea
Oh, a lawyer in the courtroom
In the middle of an alimony plea
Has to stop and help 'em pour when the clock strikes four
Everything stops for tea
It's a very good English custom
Though the weather be cold or hot
When you need a little pick-up, you'll find a little tea cup
Will always hit the spot
You remember Cleopatra
Had a date to meet Mark Anthony at three
When he came an hour late she said "You'll have to wait"
For everything stops for tea
Oh, they may be playing football
And the crowd is yelling "Kill the referee!"
But no matter what the score, when the clock strikes four
Everything stops for tea
Oh, the golfer may be golfing
And is just about to make a hole-in-three
But it always gets them sore when the clock yells "four!"
Everything stops for tea
It's a very good English custom
And a stimulant for the brain
When you feel a little weary, a cup'll make you cheery
And it's cheaper than champagne
Now I know just why Franz Schubert
Didn't finish his unfinished symphony
He might have written more but the clock struck four
And everything stops for tea
Tikki
(14,557 posts)Thanks.
from a tea devotee.
Tikki
sarge43
(28,941 posts)PassingFair
(22,434 posts)So BRAVE!
My chest and stomach still constrict just thinking about it.
"But, listen, let's review the rules. Here's how it works. The President makes decisions. He's the decider. The press secretary announces those decisions, and you people of the press type those decisions down. Make, announce, type. Just put 'em through a spell check and go home. Get to know your family again. Make love to your wife. Write that novel you got kicking around in your head. You know, the one about the intrepid Washington reporter with the courage to stand up to the administration? You know, fiction!"
It is a well known fact that reality has liberal bias.
Love, love, love him!
UTUSN
(70,711 posts)Recently he was updating on his WHC dinner experience, said that during it and worse after it in the gatherings, he was totally shunned. Oh, now I remember the reason for the update, SCALIA's dying. He said SCALIA was the only one who came up to him, smiling greeting chatting.
Well, *this* put a wet rag on my fond memory of his performance.
PassingFair
(22,434 posts)and so is Colbert.
Orrex
(63,216 posts)But then I heard about this grievous faux pas.
Sorry, Helen. It's over.
UTUSN
(70,711 posts)have ruled that there is no "grievous faux pas". I bow.