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Your nomination for best "sad" song of all time? (Original Post) red dog 1 Nov 2016 OP
Lament on Uilleann Pipes Xipe Totec Nov 2016 #1
So beautiful mackerel Nov 2016 #48
Tomorrow Wendy uriel1972 Nov 2016 #2
Happy Days Are Here Again on 11/09/16 trof Nov 2016 #3
Shake Sugaree Brother Buzz Nov 2016 #4
Debussy: Beau Soir Adsos Letter Nov 2016 #5
I had to learn that song. It is sad. The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2016 #14
It is one of my favorite pieces. Adsos Letter Nov 2016 #15
Song for Adam Zorro Nov 2016 #6
Ooooooooo that takes me back to high school mackerel Nov 2016 #49
Boots of Spanish Leather rug Nov 2016 #7
That's a beautiful cover. yardwork Nov 2016 #19
Wow! hermetic Nov 2016 #21
"It Makes No Difference" by The Band. CBHagman Nov 2016 #8
I've always liked this forlorn tune... True Dough Nov 2016 #9
Cat's in the Cradle The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2016 #10
"Senza mamma" by Puccini The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2016 #11
The Aria from Madame Butterfly hermetic Nov 2016 #23
That one, too. Puccini was very good at sad music. The Velveteen Ocelot Nov 2016 #25
"Everybody Hurts", by R.E.M. Aristus Nov 2016 #12
While driving back to Ottawa from Nova Scotia when I was 4 I made up a song applegrove Nov 2016 #13
Johnny Cash's cover of "Hurt" cagefreesoylentgreen Nov 2016 #16
For me, it's a tie between these two: Ken Burch Nov 2016 #17
One of these two "All by Myself" or "Alone Again, Naturally" pfitz59 Nov 2016 #18
Alone Again, Naturally red dog 1 Nov 2016 #39
Eric Clapton Tears in Heaven Fla Dem Nov 2016 #20
Possibly the best sad song of all time, imo red dog 1 Nov 2016 #40
YEAH. This one. lastlib Nov 2016 #46
Old Folks (Les Vieux) nuxvomica Nov 2016 #22
My saddest song hermetic Nov 2016 #24
"Why" by Annie Lennox LonePirate Nov 2016 #26
Yes Mad_Dem_X Nov 2016 #50
Luka. Baitball Blogger Nov 2016 #27
Suzanne Vega wrote that song based on a boy she saw playing in front of her.. red dog 1 Nov 2016 #41
Hail to the Chief - Beginning next year benld74 Nov 2016 #28
This message was self-deleted by its author wishstar Nov 2016 #29
"Don't Walk Away" Electric Light Orchestra "Xanadu" Soundtrack The Great Escape Nov 2016 #30
ELO did a great "upbeat" song, red dog 1 Nov 2016 #42
I'm So Lonesome I Could Cry. It's so simple. nolabear Nov 2016 #31
Good pick! red dog 1 Nov 2016 #43
R.E.M. Man On the Moon Kennah Nov 2016 #32
R.I.P. Mr Kaufman..... fNord Dec 2016 #88
Schubert's "Ave Maria." WinkyDink Nov 2016 #33
A lot of the standard Christmas songs are like that jmowreader Nov 2016 #34
Probably the saddest Christmas song of all time red dog 1 Nov 2016 #44
The saddest Christmas song of all time missingthebigdog Nov 2016 #59
Didn't know about that one red dog 1 Nov 2016 #63
Angie FrankfurtCat Nov 2016 #35
Willie Nelson's You Were Always On My Mind Skittles Nov 2016 #36
Ticking-Elton John FrankfurtCat Nov 2016 #37
my thought discntnt_irny_srcsm Nov 2016 #38
Learning The Game (Leo Kottke cover) DFW Nov 2016 #45
Nice one cemaphonic Nov 2016 #77
I've been a Kottke fanatic since 1971 DFW Nov 2016 #80
I always enjoy reading your posts about music and guitars. cemaphonic Nov 2016 #82
Shannon - Henry Gross Prisoner_Number_Six Nov 2016 #47
Elvis Smickey Nov 2016 #51
Good pick! red dog 1 Nov 2016 #64
These two have a certain sadness: Dr. Strange Nov 2016 #52
Don't know if it's of all time, but Pink Floyd's "Nobody Home" gets me every time. GreenEyedLefty Nov 2016 #53
Johnny Cash "Sunday Morning Coming Down" doc03 Nov 2016 #54
over the rainbow. mulsh Nov 2016 #55
Speaking of "Over the Rainbow" red dog 1 Nov 2016 #65
Johnny Payceck "Old Violin" doc03 Nov 2016 #56
A little Airplane, perhaps: malthaussen Nov 2016 #57
It tolls for thee pressbox69 Nov 2016 #58
Tie missingthebigdog Nov 2016 #60
Say Something mia Nov 2016 #61
Schindler's List mia Nov 2016 #62
'Death of an Angel" Donnie Woods and the Vel-Aires Tikki Nov 2016 #66
Henryk Grecki - Symphony of Sorrowful Songs - 2nd Movement progressoid Nov 2016 #67
The Pogues' cover of "And the Band Played Waltzing Matilda" Spider Jerusalem Nov 2016 #68
By this time next year, it might be this: DFW Nov 2016 #69
Etta James -I've Been Loving You Too Long MissV Nov 2016 #70
I love Etta James red dog 1 Nov 2016 #72
Thanks! MissV Nov 2016 #74
You won't regret it! red dog 1 Nov 2016 #75
Sense of Touch by Mark Isham GCP Nov 2016 #71
She don't use jelly Major Nikon Nov 2016 #73
I've got a couple, still hard to listen to. sylvanus Nov 2016 #76
This message was self-deleted by its author ailsagirl Dec 2016 #85
How has this thread gone for so long without Townes van Zandt? cemaphonic Nov 2016 #78
Fairytale of New York mrmpa Nov 2016 #79
For me , not a song but a piece - Spiegel im Spiegel - Arvo Part... JHan Nov 2016 #81
K & R mia Dec 2016 #83
Joni Mitchell singing "Circle Game" always gets me. jalan48 Dec 2016 #84
Here are some that come to mind-- no one song ailsagirl Dec 2016 #86
Warren Zevon, Desperados Under the Eves fNord Dec 2016 #87
Adagio for Strings by Samuel Barber Coventina Dec 2016 #89
Tracy Chapman's Fast Car LearnedHand Dec 2016 #90
Mike Rutherford- At The End Of The Day FrankfurtCat Dec 2016 #91
Who wants to live forever. Sung by Children PassingFair Dec 2016 #92
Hallelujah Lyric Dec 2016 #93
Allison Krauss and The Chieftains ....Molly Ban Lars39 Dec 2016 #94
"Hello in There" and Sinead's version of Elton's Sacrifice JudyM Dec 2016 #95
The Future - Fake News redarmyfaction Dec 2016 #96
Blue October-Hate Me FrankfurtCat Dec 2016 #97
Windows and Walls by Dan Fogelberg mantis49 Dec 2016 #98
To Be Invisible by Gladys Knight Sticky Dec 2016 #99
Eric Clapton-River of Tears FrankfurtCat Dec 2016 #100

trof

(54,256 posts)
3. Happy Days Are Here Again on 11/09/16
Tue Nov 22, 2016, 09:03 PM
Nov 2016

This used to be the Democratic victory song.

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Brother Buzz

(36,444 posts)
4. Shake Sugaree
Tue Nov 22, 2016, 09:06 PM
Nov 2016

Elizabeth Cotten's granddaughter, Brenda Evans, totally nails it.



Paul Newman rendition of Plastic Jesus in Cool Hand Luke merits a mention too

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,732 posts)
14. I had to learn that song. It is sad.
Wed Nov 23, 2016, 01:16 AM
Nov 2016

It ends: "For we pass away, as the wave passes: The wave to the sea, we to the grave." There is a recording of it by Barbra Streisand. She never should have touched it.

Adsos Letter

(19,459 posts)
15. It is one of my favorite pieces.
Wed Nov 23, 2016, 02:01 AM
Nov 2016

And the Souzay performance is my favorite. When I listen to it I think of the images of the Old World that was soon to pass away with World War One.

There is a version by Alison Nicholls and Philippe Honore that you may have heard; it uses harp and violin, strictly an instrumental. I tried to find it on you tube for you, but no luck. It is a lovely piece.

CBHagman

(16,986 posts)
8. "It Makes No Difference" by The Band.
Wed Nov 23, 2016, 12:55 AM
Nov 2016

If you are feeling vulnerable, stay away from it until you feel better. That's my recommendation.

The Velveteen Ocelot

(115,732 posts)
11. "Senza mamma" by Puccini
Wed Nov 23, 2016, 01:00 AM
Nov 2016


This aria is from the opera Suor Angelica. A young noblewoman has been sent to a convent because she had an illegitimate child. After a number of years her cruel aunt comes to visit her to get her to sign away her inheritance, and informs Sister Angelica that her baby has died. This is probably the saddest aria ever.

Without your mother, o my baby, you are dead!
Your lips, without my kisses, grow pale and cold!
And close, o baby, your pretty eyes.
I cannot caress you, your little hands composed in a cross!
And you are dead without knowing how loved you were by your mother!
Now you are an angel in heaven, now you can see your mother,
you can descend from heaven and let your essence linger around me.
Are you here, do you feel my kisses and caresses? Ah! tell me, when will I see you in heaven?
When will I be able to kiss you? Oh, sweet end to all my sorrows, when I greet you in heaven.
When will I greet death? Tell your mother, beautiful creature, with a sparkle of the stars.
Speak to me, my loved one!

hermetic

(8,310 posts)
23. The Aria from Madame Butterfly
Wed Nov 23, 2016, 10:45 AM
Nov 2016

I cannot listen to this without crying. Here is a lovely video from the movie.


applegrove

(118,677 posts)
13. While driving back to Ottawa from Nova Scotia when I was 4 I made up a song
Wed Nov 23, 2016, 01:06 AM
Nov 2016

about 'Lester the Lobster' who got eaten. I would make myself cry. Over and over again I sang it. Over and over again I cried. I was in the front seat between my mom and my dad and felt safe enough to let her rip on my feelings about the maritime provinces and their penchant for eating lobsters.

 

Ken Burch

(50,254 posts)
17. For me, it's a tie between these two:
Wed Nov 23, 2016, 02:33 AM
Nov 2016

(Disclaimer: Do NOT listen to both of these if you are in an emotionally vulnerable place.)




Fla Dem

(23,690 posts)
20. Eric Clapton Tears in Heaven
Wed Nov 23, 2016, 10:02 AM
Nov 2016

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red dog 1

(27,817 posts)
40. Possibly the best sad song of all time, imo
Thu Nov 24, 2016, 04:41 PM
Nov 2016

and the story behind the song is extremely sad as well.

hermetic

(8,310 posts)
24. My saddest song
Wed Nov 23, 2016, 10:48 AM
Nov 2016

Made sadder by the fact that the beautiful young man who wrote and sang this song took his own life in 1974.

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Baitball Blogger

(46,733 posts)
27. Luka.
Wed Nov 23, 2016, 01:03 PM
Nov 2016

It's a song that people sing along to a happy tune, and it's only later that they realize that the lyrics are written from the pov of an abused child.

My name is Luka
I live on the second floor
I live upstairs from you
Yes I think you've seen me before
If you hear something late at night
Some kind of trouble, some kind of fight
Just don't ask me what it was
Just don't ask me what it was
Just don't ask me what it was
I think it's because I'm clumsy
I try not to talk too loud
Maybe it's because I'm crazy
I try not to act too proud
They only hit until you cry
After that you don't ask why
You just don't argue anymore
You just don't argue anymore
You just don't argue anymore
Yes I think I'm okay
I walked into the door again
If you ask that's what I'll say
And it's not your business anyway
I guess I'd like to be alone
With nothing broken, nothing thrown
Just don't ask me how I am
Just don't ask me how I am
Just don't…

red dog 1

(27,817 posts)
41. Suzanne Vega wrote that song based on a boy she saw playing in front of her..
Thu Nov 24, 2016, 04:51 PM
Nov 2016

..apartment house....She said he seemed "different" from the other kids, like he "might have been' an abused child....but she went on to say that he probably was not.

I loved watching that music video on MTV back in the late '80s.

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red dog 1

(27,817 posts)
42. ELO did a great "upbeat" song,
Thu Nov 24, 2016, 04:55 PM
Nov 2016

as far from being "sad" as you can get, called "Hold On Tight"

One of my all-time favorite songs.

jmowreader

(50,559 posts)
34. A lot of the standard Christmas songs are like that
Thu Nov 24, 2016, 01:37 AM
Nov 2016

Of that perturbing canon, I vote for "I'll Be Home for Christmas"

missingthebigdog

(1,233 posts)
59. The saddest Christmas song of all time
Sun Nov 27, 2016, 02:39 PM
Nov 2016

is Another Lonely Christmas, by Prince.



'Cause baby, you promised me
Baby you promised me you'd never leave
Then you died on the twenty-fifth day of December


Slays me every time.

red dog 1

(27,817 posts)
63. Didn't know about that one
Sun Nov 27, 2016, 09:01 PM
Nov 2016

I was never a Prince fan.

Probably the best rock & roll Christmas song is:
"Season's Freakings" by Bunnygrunt
(I wish I could post the music video here)

cemaphonic

(4,138 posts)
77. Nice one
Tue Nov 29, 2016, 11:51 PM
Nov 2016

I'm just starting to get into Kottke. And I love Holly's original, but it's way too peppy and upbeat to be all that sad.

DFW

(54,403 posts)
80. I've been a Kottke fanatic since 1971
Wed Nov 30, 2016, 02:00 AM
Nov 2016

That's when my brother gave me his Armadillo album for Christmas. I totally freaked. Like Moses talking to his burning bush or Mohammed being tapped on the shoulder by Allah. The great revelation. I was 19.

I went to see a concert Mahavishnu Orchestra concert in Philadelphia in 1972 opened by Kottke. Everyone else there was there to see John McLaughlin and his pals--everyone except me, that is. I went to see Kottke, and he didn't disappoint. I was more hooked than ever. I couldn't believe those guitars he was playing. I also couldn't believe that one man was making one guitar produce all that sound.

Fast forward to 1977. I had joined the outfit I still work for in 1975, and they had me out in L.A. for something or other in February, 1977, and in the meantime, I had found out what those guitars were that Kottke was playing (had seen hm a few more times, too). At the time, the guy who built Kottke's guitars had his studio in Escondido, California. I begged some time off, and rented a car to drive down there. I had no idea where to look, but figured, correctly, that Escondido, which means "hidden" in Spanish, couldn't be too big. Sure enough, I found the studio of Božo Podunavac (BAW-zho Paw-doo-NAH-vats), who was a Serbian violin maker who had invented a special way to build 12 string guitars that sounded like no others. I bought one on the spot, ordered another as well as matching 6 string. By now, luckily, I was making a salary that let me afford them. Barely. $2600 for a guitar was a fortune back then. I had him build me few more over the years, the last being a matching pair (6 and 12) with my initials inlaid on the fretboard in 2000. In all those years, Božo's English never got any better (my Serbian did, but not much). Still a prince of a nice guy. Got to be closing in on 90 by now. Kottke himself is now over 70, but is still touring. His style has changed a little over time, but still unmistakably Leo Kottke. NOBODY has his touch, his cadence, his musical personality. He is still a one-of-a-kind.

I self-taught myself to play some of his material, composed some myself, toured German folk festivals a little in my spare time in the late seventies, which is about the last time I HAD any spare time. But as for trying to match Kottke's effortless virtuosity--well on a scale of 1 to 100, I think I'm still in fractions. My ONE best moment was not getting encores at the folk festivals, but when I was playing alone for a friend in Bennington, Vermont, of all places, in a tiny church after hours when we thought no one was there except the two of us. This was before an album came out with Kottke's picture on it. Some guy who had been listening in the shadows came out and asked if I wasn't Leo Kottke, by any chance. Now THAT was about the highest compliment anyone could EVER have paid me!

Another little side note on Kottke: I was at a little "meeting of the minds" conference that takes place over New Year's every year in Charleston, SC. I took out my twelve string after all the seminars were over and started playing some. A guy we all knew came up listened for a while, and then asked to see my guitar, and started to play a Kottke tune on it. He wasn't as good as I was, but he was clearly a guitar player, and had been playing for many years. It was Howard Dean.

cemaphonic

(4,138 posts)
82. I always enjoy reading your posts about music and guitars.
Wed Nov 30, 2016, 02:19 PM
Nov 2016

I played classical guitars for a few years when I was in high school (early 90s), but dropped it when college and working life got in the way. Over the last couple years, I've picked up the guitar (and banjo) again, this time focusing on the folk/bluegrass/country blues side of picking.

I've always liked music and guitars, but it's really only been over the last couple of years that I've really listened much to the non-pop acoustic wizards of the 50s-70s. Doc Watson, John Fahey, Bert Jansch, Davy Graham, Norman Blake, Kottke, etc. So much great music that is really underappreciated, even by people that are into guitar music.

Dr. Strange

(25,921 posts)
52. These two have a certain sadness:
Sat Nov 26, 2016, 08:02 PM
Nov 2016

Apart, by the Cure

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Again, by Archive



Of course, there's the classic from Spinal Tap:

GreenEyedLefty

(2,073 posts)
53. Don't know if it's of all time, but Pink Floyd's "Nobody Home" gets me every time.
Sat Nov 26, 2016, 10:13 PM
Nov 2016

I've got a little black book with my poems in
I've got a bag with a toothbrush and a comb in
When I'm a good dog they sometimes throw me a bone in
I got elastic bands keeping my shoes on
Got those swollen hand blues.
Got thirteen channels of shit on the T.V. to choose from
I've got electric light
And I've got second sight
I've got amazing powers of observation
And that is how I know
When I try to get through
On the telephone to you
There'll be nobody home
I've got the obligatory Hendrix perm
And I've got the inevitable pinhole burns
All down the front of my favourite satin shirt
I've got nicotine stains on my fingers
I've got a silver spoon on a chain
I've got a grand piano to prop up my mortal remains
I've got wild staring eyes
I've got a strong urge to fly
But I've got nowhere to fly to
Ooooh Babe when I pick up the phone
There's still nobody home
I've got a pair of Gohills boots
And I've got fading roots.

mulsh

(2,959 posts)
55. over the rainbow.
Sun Nov 27, 2016, 01:30 AM
Nov 2016

in the movie she sings it when she's about at her worst, dog gone, everyone ignoring her.

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red dog 1

(27,817 posts)
65. Speaking of "Over the Rainbow"
Sun Nov 27, 2016, 09:24 PM
Nov 2016

"A TRIBUTE TO BLACKLISTED LYRICIST YIP HARBURG: THE MAN WHO PUT THE RAINBOW IN THE WIZARD OF OZ"

Democracy Now's Amy Goodman interviews Ernie Harburg, Yip Harburg's son and biographer.

Great Interview!

(Watch it here)
http://www.democracynow.org/2016/11/25/a_tribute_to_blacklisted_lyricist_yip

missingthebigdog

(1,233 posts)
60. Tie
Sun Nov 27, 2016, 02:46 PM
Nov 2016

Between "Another Lonely Christmas," by Prince- mentioned in my post upthread, and "He Stopped Loving Her Today," by George Jones.

Kept some letters by his bed
Dated nineteen sixty-two
He had underlined in red
Every single "I love you"
I went to see him just today
Oh, but I didn't see no tears
All dressed up to go away
First time I'd seen him smile in years

He stopped loving her today
They placed a wreath upon his door
And soon they'll carry him away
He stopped loving her today


red dog 1

(27,817 posts)
72. I love Etta James
Mon Nov 28, 2016, 03:43 PM
Nov 2016

Anyone who likes her should rent "Cadillac Records"..the story of Leonard Chess, founder of Chess Records, where Etta James made her early recordings.
The actress who played Etta James was outstanding, as was the entire film.
I highly recommend it!

 

sylvanus

(122 posts)
76. I've got a couple, still hard to listen to.
Tue Nov 29, 2016, 05:42 PM
Nov 2016

Smog, album: Doctor Came At Dawn, song: All Your Women Things, sad and weird.

Ryan Adams, album: Easy Tiger song: Rip Off

Tears for Fears, Album: Raoul and the Kings of Spain song: Sketches of Pain

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cemaphonic

(4,138 posts)
78. How has this thread gone for so long without Townes van Zandt?
Wed Nov 30, 2016, 12:10 AM
Nov 2016

That dude had an open conduit to the place that sad songs come from.

Watch as he makes a tough old blacksmith cry with "Waiting Around to Die."

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"Lungs," "Nothing," and "Tecumseh Valley" all make most of the rest of this thread look downright cheerful.

jalan48

(13,870 posts)
84. Joni Mitchell singing "Circle Game" always gets me.
Sat Dec 3, 2016, 01:31 AM
Dec 2016

I don't know how to post music videos unfortunately.

ailsagirl

(22,897 posts)
86. Here are some that come to mind-- no one song
Sat Dec 3, 2016, 03:11 AM
Dec 2016

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Linda Ronstadt "Long, Long Time"
Don McLean "Starry, Starry Night"
Simply Red "Holding Back the Years"
Lennon "Imagine"
"September Song"
Commodores "Night Shift"

Coventina

(27,121 posts)
89. Adagio for Strings by Samuel Barber
Sat Dec 3, 2016, 01:10 PM
Dec 2016

I know, I know, it's over-used to the point of being hackneyed.

But, I was experiencing a personal tragedy about 6 years ago, when I went to see a live performance of it, and it nearly destroyed me.

I still can't listen without crying.

JudyM

(29,251 posts)
95. "Hello in There" and Sinead's version of Elton's Sacrifice
Sat Dec 3, 2016, 11:31 PM
Dec 2016

I like Bette's version but there are others, John Prine...


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Sensitivity builds a prison in the final act...

Gets better as it goes on... so emotional... can make me cry...

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Sun Dec 4, 2016, 12:00 AM
Dec 2016









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