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Related: Culture Forums, Support Forumsneeds guidance muddling thru VA benefits for my elderly parents.
SUDDENLY found myself being the primary caregiver for my parents 85-90. Dads a vet and I am getting him hooked up with VA benefits but WOW I'm overwhelmed! Hes going to get some therapies but what about help with other items such as lift up chairs? Ppl tell me to 'talk to the right person' at the VA..not even sure what they have to offer. TIA my fellow progressives!
elleng
(131,122 posts)Phoenix61
(17,019 posts)A lot of times they know what paperwork has to be filed for something to be paid for.
mrmpa
(4,033 posts)And the VFW. Both organizations have people and info that might help If your dad is a former marine check with a local detachment of the Marine Corps League. The MCL detachments do believe in helping former Marines
Lift up chairs are tough to come by with a doctor's prescriptions you have to have very specific conditions & medicare will only pay for the motor not the chair itself. I suggest Craig's list for this. Got my 86 year old mom a $700 chair for $250. Unfortunately the sons bought it for their mom in February and she died in April we bought it in June.
If repairs are needed for their home or a handicapped ramp is needed, there is an AmeriCorps program called Rebuilding Together, email me for more info on this
enough
(13,262 posts)hoops with Medicare, etc. The only thing I can tell you is be very patient. Don't expect everything to be figured out at once. Always assume that the problem you are working on does have a solution, and the specific individuals you are talking to probably want to help you, even though it may be complicated for them, or they may be stressed out and not really paying attention. Eventually you will find the help your folks are entitled to after their long years.
I wish you all the best in this new situation.
pinboy3niner
(53,339 posts)Talking to the primary would be a good place to start.
Wounded Bear
(58,713 posts)they will appoint an officer to help you figure this stuff out.