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I thought this was Democratic Underground. (Original Post) Sparkly Apr 2016 OP
Wow Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Apr 2016 #1
Too much BS. Cha Apr 2016 #39
Extra Points for Double Entendre' hrc guy Apr 2016 #41
Always.. Cha Apr 2016 #45
Well done Gothmog Apr 2016 #81
They're not and never have been Democrats. The one responding to you is one of the worst. I'm BlueCaliDem Apr 2016 #2
Thank you so much. Sparkly Apr 2016 #8
You're so welcome, Sparkly. BlueCaliDem Apr 2016 #67
I would not be surprised creon Apr 2016 #69
Wow...great info. I couldn't believe the rudeness of some of these people...make sense! KelleyD Apr 2016 #103
Excellent advice SharonClark Apr 2016 #94
That guy has 12 hides. Gomez163 Apr 2016 #100
Exactly Andy823 Apr 2016 #105
I am so sorry, Sparkly. I can't even pretend to know the hell you are going through. SunSeeker Apr 2016 #3
Thanks -- I never meant to spill all that, but Sparkly Apr 2016 #10
For so many--anyone or anything remotely assoicated with Hillary-or the riversedge Apr 2016 #4
Thanks -- I didn't expect it. Sparkly Apr 2016 #11
Terrible treatment of you creeksneakers2 Apr 2016 #5
I appreciate that. Sparkly Apr 2016 #12
After... JSup Apr 2016 #6
You guys are awesome. Sparkly Apr 2016 #13
The... JSup Apr 2016 #26
No, this is I Heart Bernie I H8 Gunz Underground. needledriver Apr 2016 #7
I guess I just didn't know. Sparkly Apr 2016 #15
They're people I don't want to be associated with in any way, shape, or form.. they Cha Apr 2016 #9
Thank you, Cha. Sparkly Apr 2016 #17
I'm just a jury for one of the BS fans who insulted you on that thread.. will let you know. Cha Apr 2016 #24
Sorry it was a Leave.. I was juror #6.. I'm going to report the jurors and the poster to Skinner Cha Apr 2016 #31
Thank you a whole bunch, Cha. That was my alert. Hekate Apr 2016 #50
WoW! Thank you, Hekate! I really appreciate your Alert Comment.. Cha Apr 2016 #53
My Abuse Alert to Skinner.. Cha Apr 2016 #38
I read your link, how sad, your right, It was obvious you just needed to feel less alone... AuntPatsy Apr 2016 #14
I know, I know... Sparkly Apr 2016 #19
MWO? The years have not been kind, cannot recall the abbreviation ? AuntPatsy Apr 2016 #29
MWO.= Media Whores Online Loki Apr 2016 #62
MWO? I remember them. Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin Apr 2016 #95
Go over to discussionist quickesst Apr 2016 #16
What is discussionist? Sparkly Apr 2016 #21
It's terrible.. don't go there.. there are rwingers, too.. it's ugly. Cha Apr 2016 #25
Here you go... quickesst Apr 2016 #27
I'm so sorry Sparkly Haveadream Apr 2016 #18
I didn't even mean to talk about that. Sparkly Apr 2016 #22
My gods I am so sorry Hekate Apr 2016 #20
Thank you!! Sparkly Apr 2016 #23
I just read your original post and the comments to it. I think had you been here, you would have Tess49 Apr 2016 #28
. Sparkly Apr 2016 #34
White Flag.... Docreed2003 Apr 2016 #30
Your post is quite acceptable, Docreed.. in fact, thank you for coming into our Group and Cha Apr 2016 #33
Thank you for allowing me the forum... Docreed2003 Apr 2016 #35
The post that was "left alone" was an egregious insult to Sparkly and I just reported it to Cha Apr 2016 #36
Sorry, I misread your post... Docreed2003 Apr 2016 #40
I figured you did.. Cha Apr 2016 #44
Thank you... JSup Apr 2016 #47
I remember being stationed in Germany... quickesst Apr 2016 #32
Really -- I had no intention of having to reveal or defend my personal experiences Sparkly Apr 2016 #37
Oh My GOD ---- !!!! Sparkly Apr 2016 #42
Happy to have just served on a jury that hid one of the troll's posts. betsuni Apr 2016 #43
Thankfully both revbones and TM99 have been flagged for review. Fla Dem Apr 2016 #91
One of those posters is a deeply unhappy, bitter human. redstateblues Apr 2016 #102
Also... JSup Apr 2016 #46
I was the alerter. Thanks, JSup. Hekate Apr 2016 #48
I'm now... JSup Apr 2016 #49
Thank you, JSup! Cha Apr 2016 #63
SNL isn't funny anymore. Initially I thought it was because I outgrew it, but that isn't the case. still_one Apr 2016 #51
I'm so sorry for your loss TexasTowelie Apr 2016 #52
The good news is revmclaren Apr 2016 #54
I am so sorry you experienced that. femmedem Apr 2016 #55
They are inhumane. brer cat Apr 2016 #56
We... JSup Apr 2016 #101
Sparkly, reading the diabolic replies over there, I cringed in pain for you and you daughter. Surya Gayatri Apr 2016 #57
For the past few months... MarianJack Apr 2016 #58
Yep Freddie Apr 2016 #71
I know this was last night's conversation... HillareeeHillaraah Apr 2016 #59
Not only was Sparkly treated horribly, she raised a legitimate spooky3 Apr 2016 #66
Agreed. The bar for what is and isn't civil discourse... HillareeeHillaraah Apr 2016 #68
I read that thread ---copied the link---and was going to start a thread here about it trumad Apr 2016 #60
I alerted because I found it so appalling... HillareeeHillaraah Apr 2016 #61
Sending you hugs and comfort Sparkly. I don't recognize DU anymore. livetohike Apr 2016 #64
Sparkly, I am so sorry you were treated that way. It's inexcusable and I Laurian Apr 2016 #65
I suspect creon Apr 2016 #70
He's flagged for review sharp_stick Apr 2016 #72
I just read that thread, and holy crap all american girl Apr 2016 #73
We used to have wall to wall compassion liberal N proud Apr 2016 #74
Question....I just went back to that thread in GD and all traces of Laurian Apr 2016 #75
some posts are now hidden......I read nearly the entire thread and was outraged..........but hell KewlKat Apr 2016 #76
But when a post is hidden it is so noted and you can choose to Laurian Apr 2016 #82
could the poster have deleted them? KewlKat Apr 2016 #86
I'm looking now and they are there.....hidden or not KewlKat Apr 2016 #87
Oops....that's it! My first use of ignore. Laurian Apr 2016 #88
no problem KewlKat Apr 2016 #90
I saw that disgusting attack, so sorry for you. For what it's worth, revbones.... George II Apr 2016 #77
They're like an angry mob radical noodle Apr 2016 #78
I'm so sorry you experienced that Sparkly mcar Apr 2016 #79
Some of the posts on that thread were really sad and I am glad that a couple were hidden Gothmog Apr 2016 #80
Wow Sparkly, WhiteTara Apr 2016 #83
Holy Fuck ismnotwasm Apr 2016 #84
To hijack a thread so personal just to attack Hillary is reprehensible MattP Apr 2016 #85
"Are they even human?" I have doubts. STRONG doubts. nt IamMab Apr 2016 #89
This used to be a democratic party supporting site workinclasszero Apr 2016 #92
I am so very sorry DemonGoddess Apr 2016 #93
That thread was vile. sister_rosa_refried Apr 2016 #96
I am really sorry that they turned your very personal pain rbrnmw Apr 2016 #97
Remember we love you here! ronnykmarshall Apr 2016 #98
The internets can be a cold, cruel place. Gomez163 Apr 2016 #99
I am sorry sparkly. Cruel simply for the sake of cruelty. That seems to be the play seabeyond Apr 2016 #104
I'm so sorry about your heartbreaking troubles. Just forget all of that BS and stay here. Walk away Apr 2016 #106

BlueCaliDem

(15,438 posts)
2. They're not and never have been Democrats. The one responding to you is one of the worst. I'm
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 01:48 AM
Apr 2016

surprised he's still here. But these non-Dems spouting nasty attacks on Democrats and DUers who are real Democrats have translated "Democratic" in the name of this site to small "d" democratic, and that's enough for them.

And I guess the site owners are okay with that. There's nothing we can do other than not respond to them. It's what I do. Ignore them. Say your piece and when you get snark, move on. They're not worth your time or trouble. Can't talk to a brick wall, Sparkly. I'm sorry, though, that they've come after you.

Let us be clear. Hillary Clinton is a diehard Democrat. Sanders is a diehard DINO and cares about nothing else but self-aggrandizement. I'm a Democrat. I will vote Democratic and for Democrats. Because elections are bigger than my pet peeves and purity-scales. It's about the country and the people who aren't as fortunate as we are. Democrat John F. Kennedy once espoused, "a rising tide lifts ALL boats." I firmly believe that.

In a winner-take-all system like we have, you have to pick a side. Best to pick the side closest to your beliefs, and remind oneself, nobody and nothing is perfect.

Sparkly

(24,149 posts)
8. Thank you so much.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:08 AM
Apr 2016

I'm such an idiot, here crying my eyes out.

I was on boards such as they were in 2000, then came here in 2004 as a "Clarkie" only after he dropped out (hearing it was hostile here), then came on board for Kerry and fought the Kucinich puritans... And I stayed away for awhile when it seemed things were going the Democrats' way.

I agree with you 100% -- Never voted other than Democrat and doubt I ever will. (Pres. Clinton also referenced the rising tide lifting all boats -- and we've seen it.)

I guess I just thought DU was still a place where discussion boards were discussion boards. I posted in GD, not GDP -- about a specific issue -- and got hit with this crazy thing about Hillary Clinton and Gaddafi?!??

This is nuts. This is no longer a place for Democrats. I have no idea what Skinner is doing anymore.

BlueCaliDem

(15,438 posts)
67. You're so welcome, Sparkly.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 08:26 AM
Apr 2016

You're not an idiot! Never allow yourself to think that way. THEY are. They're PAID internet trolls, selling out this country for a few bucks.

BS' campaign has spent well over $16 million dollars for attack dogs on social media who are being paid to post favorable things about BS. These armchair warriors are given scripts to go to Twitter, FB pages, progressive and liberal sites like this one, and their job is to convince people that BS is good for the country, good for us, and good for the cosmos. They do this via the Revolution Messaging service that helped President Obama with fundraising and getting his message out, and was positive and hugely successful. BS is using them to do the exact opposite of positive. They're as nasty as he is.

The gig: You will work directly with Revolution Messaging staff to assist clients in shaping, maintaining and evolving their online presence in a niche technology market during an election year. Interns will get direct, hands-on experience with cutting edge digital targeting tools that are vital in the campaigns of today and tomorrow in a fast-paced political environment. This is a paid internship.





Revolution Messaging boasts that they've made BS haul in record fundraising records, and he has. He's apparently their number one client at that moment. So please keep in mind when you find new members on DU, Twitter, FB - like the one who's been responding to you - these are all PAID trolls and give them as much credence as you would a RWer.

I hope this information will make you feel better.

SharonClark

(10,014 posts)
94. Excellent advice
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 12:39 PM
Apr 2016

Plus, DU is not real life. The Sanders supporters I know personally would never behave like some of the Sanders supporters on DU. In fact, they would be appalled. Civility is part of being a progressive.

Andy823

(11,495 posts)
105. Exactly
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 09:01 PM
Apr 2016

It's not hard to spot them, but the big problem is they have been "accepted" by our local anti Obama, anti Hillary, and anti Democrat gang. The same hater who have been here since Obama was elected, and who started in on their hate fest. Sadly it looks like they have taken over DU, and there doesn't seem to be anything we can do about it.

SunSeeker

(51,665 posts)
3. I am so sorry, Sparkly. I can't even pretend to know the hell you are going through.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 01:49 AM
Apr 2016

I fall apart when my 12 year old gets the flu. How you are dealing with your tragedy is beyond me. DU used to be a progressive community where you could find support for your pain, whatever it happened to be.

But not any more.

The callousness of the partisan idiocy on this site has reached levels I never thought it would.

I wish you strength. I don't know what else to say.


Sparkly

(24,149 posts)
10. Thanks -- I never meant to spill all that, but
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:10 AM
Apr 2016

the "you're for Clinton so you're all holier than thou and think you know who we are" was just too much.

Really upset me.

Thank you so much for your words.

I am not sure how to take back my post in GD so they can't forever haunt me with it.

riversedge

(70,294 posts)
4. For so many--anyone or anything remotely assoicated with Hillary-or the
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 01:52 AM
Apr 2016

Bill is immediately condemned. It is a sad fact her in DU--and so many other sites. I am saddened that so many have hard hearts --for a truly horrible problem of heroin addiction.

Sparkly

(24,149 posts)
11. Thanks -- I didn't expect it.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:12 AM
Apr 2016

I thought GD was for GD and didn't realize how hard those hearts are. Must be nice to feel you're perfect, right? And the rest of us are evil no matter what our lives are like.

JSup

(740 posts)
6. After...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:00 AM
Apr 2016

...reading that, I wanted to say something but I was so appalled I was at a loss for words.

I am so sorry.

JSup

(740 posts)
26. The...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:28 AM
Apr 2016

...bullies had the gall to call you a bully.

These people make me want to wish terrible things on them which is not something I normally do; so I'll just instead hope for karma.

I would never kick a sad Bernie supporter when s/he was down.

Grr....

Sparkly

(24,149 posts)
15. I guess I just didn't know.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:14 AM
Apr 2016

Now I do! This is the mind-think that exterminated people, but they're all worried about Gaddafi.

Cha

(297,574 posts)
9. They're people I don't want to be associated with in any way, shape, or form.. they
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:09 AM
Apr 2016

no longer exist for me.

Sorry about your treatment Sparkly.. I read that from the comments here. I don't read their bullshit.

Sparkly

(24,149 posts)
17. Thank you, Cha.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:17 AM
Apr 2016

I read some things on GDP, not having been visiting DU for awhile, and posted on this group that I am so glad you are here!

But I suppose I got overconfident in thinking the GD board was safe territory.

There should be a place just for sane people apart from whatever DU is now. Is there?

Cha

(297,574 posts)
24. I'm just a jury for one of the BS fans who insulted you on that thread.. will let you know.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:25 AM
Apr 2016

Funny I just don't even read GD anymore.. didn't even know it was this bad, though.

I will let you know about the sanity places, too.

Cha

(297,574 posts)
31. Sorry it was a Leave.. I was juror #6.. I'm going to report the jurors and the poster to Skinner
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:39 AM
Apr 2016

right fucking now.

Do you want to know why
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=7762616

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

The OP, Sparkly, was talking about an SNL skit that was offensive. The thread was immediately hijacked by revbones and TM99 who both extensively harassed the OP even when she disclosed that her own child is a heroin addict. TM99 is laying this behavior strictly on Sparkly's avatar that reveals she is a Hillary supporter. If I am able to I will alert on revbones as well for these attacks. This is unconscionable.

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Sun Apr 17, 2016, 12:28 AM, and the Jury voted 3-4 to LEAVE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Leave it as an example of the pot calling the kettle black.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: I cannot even believe the ugliness of BS fans who continue to Project everything that's egregious about themselves onto Hillary's supporters. Simply because they don't bow @ the altar of berniesanders.

Please Hide! This will be going to Skinner one way or the other. How the hell does this poster think he has the right to talk to someone like this on DU?

Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: uncessary rudeness.

This isn't FR, we have standards.

.................................................................................................................

Sorry, juror#1 is ignorant.. they can still see the post when you hide it! And, it lets the board know you don't approve of the ugly insults that does say everything about the poster and nothing about their target.
In fact it's paid more Attention when it's a Hidden post.

Cha

(297,574 posts)
53. WoW! Thank you, Hekate! I really appreciate your Alert Comment..
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 04:32 AM
Apr 2016
"This is unconscionable." It is totally unconscionable!

I know you alerted to Skinner, too.. maybe something will be done about this one in particular.

Cha

(297,574 posts)
38. My Abuse Alert to Skinner..
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:52 AM
Apr 2016
This was a Leave and I'd like for you to read what's happening on DU, Skinner. This egregious insulting ugliness from BS supporters. And, please don't think it's just "silly season". The insults made Sparkly write this OP in Hill's group. http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1107&pid=104339 Mahalo for your attention to this urgent matter. The majority are ugly tyrants.. abusing their power.

AuntPatsy

(9,904 posts)
14. I read your link, how sad, your right, It was obvious you just needed to feel less alone...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:13 AM
Apr 2016

DU was in the early days more nurturing, no blame, times have changed, the push for us to be at each other's throats has turned into a run away train of never ending reality show drama...

I hope you realize you are in no way responsible for what has happened to your daughter, all you as a parent can do is take it on a day by day basis...

My sister in law told me though that once an addict, always an addict, but one can learn tools to help control the addiction...

Sparkly

(24,149 posts)
19. I know, I know...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:21 AM
Apr 2016

I go to meetings and have support, and right now things are stable.

I just meant to raise consciousness about the issue and how it's treated in popular media. I had no IDEA what I was getting into in attempting to discuss anything on DU!

I remember DU after MWO folded (remember them?). It was contentious in the "politics" and "primary" forums, but it's become nuts. I can only think a lot of cave-dwellers have ratcheted up the fury on purpose.

Thanks so much for your reply.

AuntPatsy

(9,904 posts)
29. MWO? The years have not been kind, cannot recall the abbreviation ?
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:37 AM
Apr 2016

Support is key, support for you, the simple truth is if you don't focus on your life, you will just become another statistic, I sympathize I do, well aware of the pain and heartbreak that occurs especially when someone you love at present is not trustworthy enough to let them know you would move heaven and earth to assist them, such becomes thier crutch..

Hererion abuse is rising fast, the idiot politicians once again not caring about actually truths have encouraged people to find cheaper and easier drugs then pain meds....

I was told once, not sure if it's true, that if you try it once and like it, forget trying to stop, all you can do is try not to ever touch it or if you do, hope you hate the feeling...


Humanity's dirty little secret, for the majority of people world wide, unless it touches them, it matters as an after thought meant to be filed away under, I'll think about it later when I have time...

It's why our jails are over crowded and oh so profitable, taboo subjects became cash machines for a select few..

Loki

(3,825 posts)
62. MWO.= Media Whores Online
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 07:45 AM
Apr 2016

Many here lovingly called it the "Horse" because at that time we were just beginning to come to grips with the *selection" and the gut punch of that election.

Yo_Mama_Been_Loggin

(108,170 posts)
95. MWO? I remember them.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 12:41 PM
Apr 2016

Likewise that was the site which directed me to DU.

I've been a member since 2003 during the buildup to the Iraq invasion. It was a whole different place back then. Even the 2004 primary was not as divisive as this one is.

A lot of the vitriol started after Obama was elected. Either they were emoprogs who felt Obama wasn't doing enough or Republican sock puppets. It's reached a crescendo today as your linked to post shows.

quickesst

(6,281 posts)
16. Go over to discussionist
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:15 AM
Apr 2016

You can meet their doppelgangers over there. Or would clones be a better term?

Sparkly

(24,149 posts)
21. What is discussionist?
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:22 AM
Apr 2016

Is it like that old elm tree thing that was supposed to be central ground, but all right-wingers?

quickesst

(6,281 posts)
27. Here you go...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:30 AM
Apr 2016

They won't be hard to recognize.
http://www.discussionist.com

Check out their latest poll results: http://www.discussionist.com/1015799717

Not exactly Bernie Sanders zealots, but the anti-clinton rhetoric is very close.

Haveadream

(1,630 posts)
18. I'm so sorry Sparkly
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:20 AM
Apr 2016

The pain of watching someone you love in the grip of addiction is unbearable. I know what you are going through (and I bet many others do as well) and I just want you to know you are not alone. If you ever need to talk or get help in any way, there are so many loving people here for you. The Hill peeps have your back. I'm sorry that something that was supposed to take your mind off your troubles made you feel bad and that sharing about it brought the lunatics out of the shadows.

You know what the good news is? You have a heart and courage and that comes through. Don't share your sincerity or goodness or pain with them. They are literally bad people with dark hearts. Stay in the light and where it is warm and people are kind. With us!

Sending healing prayers



Sparkly

(24,149 posts)
22. I didn't even mean to talk about that.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:23 AM
Apr 2016

I just wanted to raise the issue of the stigma, and how it's still okay to make jokes about it.

Thank you so much for your compassion.

Hekate

(90,780 posts)
20. My gods I am so sorry
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:22 AM
Apr 2016

I alerted on TM99, and wish I could alert on the lot of them. They're horrible, horrible human beings.

Tess49

(1,580 posts)
28. I just read your original post and the comments to it. I think had you been here, you would have
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:30 AM
Apr 2016

seen smoke coming out of my ears! My thoughts about the SNL skit mirrored yours. For God's sake, why would they think this is funny or okay? I wonder if my friend, whose son is a heroin addict, saw it. Bet she didn't see any humor in it. I'm sorry you were treated like that. Those people that posted that crap were pushing their own agenda, and intentionally missing your point.

Docreed2003

(16,871 posts)
30. White Flag....
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:37 AM
Apr 2016

Sparkly, I hope you saw my reply in the thread where I attempted to apologize for the disgusting treatment you received. Again, I apologize, and, again, my heart goes out to you. If there's anything I can do as a healthcare professional, I'm happy to help, and I'm happy to provide an Internet shoulder to cry on, regardless of our differences in candidate choices.

To this forum, thank you for allowing me to post this to Sparkly. I hope you don't see it as an invasion of your forum and appreciate my sentiment.

Cha

(297,574 posts)
33. Your post is quite acceptable, Docreed.. in fact, thank you for coming into our Group and
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:41 AM
Apr 2016

giving Sparkly support.

I was just a jury for one of those insults.. posted the results up thread.. it was a Leave.

Docreed2003

(16,871 posts)
35. Thank you for allowing me the forum...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:48 AM
Apr 2016

Just felt like someone needed to stand in support of Sparkly and offer some genuine empathy. To be attacked for her post, that's ridiculous. Reading the replies, given the knowledge that her daughter is struggling with this, I can't help but see why she would respond how she did, I know I would. Glad that the post was left alone.

Cha

(297,574 posts)
36. The post that was "left alone" was an egregious insult to Sparkly and I just reported it to
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:51 AM
Apr 2016

Skinner. So that wasn't a good thing.

Docreed2003

(16,871 posts)
40. Sorry, I misread your post...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:57 AM
Apr 2016

going back through the original thread now and I see what you meant. There are other posts that deserve a hide as well...we'll see what happens

quickesst

(6,281 posts)
32. I remember being stationed in Germany...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:40 AM
Apr 2016

.... and having a pretty extensive fling with heroin myself. Sitting around the old trash can after a hit because you didn't want to puke on the floor, or everywhere else for that matter. If not for a couple of really good friends I may have passed the point of no return myself. Definitely not something to be mocked. I was lucky enough to kick it before it got a stranglehold. Too many are not that lucky.

Sparkly

(24,149 posts)
37. Really -- I had no intention of having to reveal or defend my personal experiences
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 02:51 AM
Apr 2016

I am stunned and upset that it devolved into that.

Thank you, on this forum, for your understanding and support.

Is there a "Sane Democratic Underground" where we could all congregate? If not, I'll just hang out with you here.

Sparkly

(24,149 posts)
42. Oh My GOD ---- !!!!
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 03:04 AM
Apr 2016

Now they have locked me out of a thread I started, but won't let me close it?!???

I am done here.

This is CRAZY.

betsuni

(25,610 posts)
43. Happy to have just served on a jury that hid one of the troll's posts.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 03:10 AM
Apr 2016

Every single day I feel like shouting THIS IS A FORUM FOR DEMOCRATS YOU IDIOTS GO AWAY.

Fla Dem

(23,739 posts)
91. Thankfully both revbones and TM99 have been flagged for review.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 12:06 PM
Apr 2016

They both have displayed the slimy, dark underbelly of the BS campaign. There are many good and decent BS supporters. Unfortunately they are drowned out by the ogres under the bridge just waiting to pounce with their mindless insults.

redstateblues

(10,565 posts)
102. One of those posters is a deeply unhappy, bitter human.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 07:02 PM
Apr 2016

in any other circumstance I would pity that person.

JSup

(740 posts)
46. Also...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 03:59 AM
Apr 2016

...happy to have just served on a jury that hid the 'laughing about her Iraq vote' too. I was juror #5.


Mail Message
On Sun Apr 17, 2016, 01:39 AM an alert was sent on the following post:

She probably laughed before casting her vote in favor of the Iraq war too.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=7762718

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

Part of the pile-on against the OP, who posted about a personal reaction to SNL, solely because the OP now uses a Hillary avatar -- as has been explicitly stated by some of the attackers. Even after letting it be known that the OP's own kid suffers from heroin addiction, the allegations of hypocrisy continue because (and this beggars logic) Hillary sanctioned the death of Gaddaffi and voted for the Iraq War.

JURY RESULTS

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Sun Apr 17, 2016, 01:56 AM, and the Jury voted 4-3 to HIDE IT.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Alert abuse. A post about Hillary is about Hillary, not about the OP.
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: The post adds unnecessary hurt and inflames the discussion without adding information or value.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: The whole thread needs to be trashed. The "stuff" storm here needs to stop.
No hide.
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: This post is part of a political dogpile on someone about a non-political joke that offended them in a non-political manner and posted in a non-political forum group (GD) just because Hillary is on her avatar. This is abuse and should be hidden.
Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: It is inappropriate and certainly rude, as well as insensitive and over-the-top, not to mention disruptive.
Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Hide. NOT relevant to the OP, and pretty nasty under the circumstances. This is General Discussion, not GDP.

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

Hekate

(90,780 posts)
48. I was the alerter. Thanks, JSup.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 04:04 AM
Apr 2016

I alerted on three poster-hijackers in that thread: TM99, revbones, and Bubzer. My first alert was rejected, but someone else got him, and the other two were successful.

I was afraid that Sparkly would get dinged for telling them to fuck off, which in my opinion was a justifiable response on her part under the circs. I'm sorry that indeed happened.

The people who piled on that way should be ashamed of themselves, but they are incapable of shame at this point. DU itself should be ashamed.


JURY: If someone complains this is Meta, please refer to the link in the post I am replying to. This is an extreme circumstance.

JSup

(740 posts)
49. I'm now...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 04:07 AM
Apr 2016

...glad I didn't post in that thread as (I think) that would have 'disqualified' me for jury.

still_one

(92,375 posts)
51. SNL isn't funny anymore. Initially I thought it was because I outgrew it, but that isn't the case.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 04:27 AM
Apr 2016

The Hillary/Sanders skit at the beginning is getting old real fast.

not funny at all

TexasTowelie

(112,392 posts)
52. I'm so sorry for your loss
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 04:31 AM
Apr 2016

and that your thread was hijacked with politics. What happened on that thread should never have happened on DU.

I posted a story on my site a few nights ago about an anti-heroin crusader in Iowa that lost two of her sons in one night due to apparent overdoses:

http://democratsforever.freeforums.net/thread/6657/anti-crusader-loses-sons-drug

revmclaren

(2,529 posts)
54. The good news is
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 04:35 AM
Apr 2016

One of the a%%wipes that responded to your post with such disgusting hate has been flagged for review. Maybe it will be a twofer..

femmedem

(8,206 posts)
55. I am so sorry you experienced that.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 06:20 AM
Apr 2016

No primary-related anything should have been posted in that thread. And once you explained that this was intensely personal, anyone who made that mistake should have self-deleted their post and apologized.

I don't understand how a jury let that stand.

A friend of mine just lost her second son to heroin. My heart breaks for her and for you.

brer cat

(24,597 posts)
56. They are inhumane.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 06:42 AM
Apr 2016

Sparkly, I am so sorry this was dumped on you! There is no excuse for this crude behavior or the diversion of your heartfelt thread into gutter politics. Once upon a time, you would have found empathy, and your thread would have generated a thoughtful discussion of the appropriateness of satire and humor in various situations. I don't know if that DU will ever return, but you do have many people here who care about you and your family.

 

Surya Gayatri

(15,445 posts)
57. Sparkly, reading the diabolic replies over there, I cringed in pain for you and you daughter.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 06:57 AM
Apr 2016

Here's the note I left for you in that thread:

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10027762586#post94

Dogmatic ideologues are NOT renowned for their compassion or empathy, Sparkly.

"Needy friends" are not their concern. They deal in broad movements and great "revolutions".

To hell with personal pain. Compassion will not advance the cause. On the contrary, it only demonstrates wavering weakness. Anarchists and insurgents understand this verity and live by it.

They show no mercy and take no prisoners. Only a scorched earth strategy will win their latter day revolution.

I'm so sorry you've been subjected to this unwarranted onslaught. Some people need to go back to "humanity" school. First, be a human, and only then propound your political dogma.



Freddie

(9,273 posts)
71. Yep
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 09:16 AM
Apr 2016

I only go into my groups (Hillary, cooking and pets) anymore. The rest is Bernie Underground.
My son is also a heroin addict and I was absolutely sickened by that thread. I'll
stick around til after the primaries but if there's still people here who would rather have a Repug in the White House than Hillary, I'm outta here.

 

HillareeeHillaraah

(685 posts)
59. I know this was last night's conversation...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 07:17 AM
Apr 2016

...hope I'm not reopening a wound this a.m. But I felt compelled to add my voice in solidarity.

I've been a reader here for years and only recently got into the mix by posting some thoughts. It is startling to see how camp sanders goes from zero to outrage in a matter of a post or two. The other day I found myself tearing up over just how vitriolic Sanders' side has become. Seems it's gotten worse as he's getting closer to losing.

But I've been reminded while reading through some calming words of those whose posts are in the thousands that MANY are here to stir up the animosity between democrats. Professional posters who will just keep poking until civil discourse is shut down and we all hate each other and hopefully won't vote at all...

When I remember that's their goal, I do my best to take that power away from them. I disengage, I refrain from snarking back (hard to do!), I give them as little ammunition as possible. For me, that technique helps.

I also try to remember that no amount of logic or facts or appeal for basic human empathy will change minds around here any more.

It's gone past silly season into are-you-freaking-kidding-me season. Case in point, yesterday I alerted on a post that was saying in their cleverest way that Trumad was schtuping a Great Dane. Not even slurs of beastiality against a fellow DUer gets hidden if it's Camp Sanders doing the slurring.

On Sat Apr 16, 2016, 03:43 PM you sent an alert on the following post:

hey Trumad, did you catch that one guy?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=7761883

REASON FOR ALERT

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

YOUR COMMENTS

"Balls deep in his neighbors Great Dane?" Are you kidding me? Please tell me this site hasn't gotten that bad...are we really down to accusing folks of beastiality in the name of political discourse? And not even a protective sarcasm tag....please hide this!

JURY RESULTS

A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of this alert at Sat Apr 16, 2016, 03:54 PM, and voted 3-4 to LEAVE IT ALONE.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: Not hiding for "balls deep in a Great Dane," though that is pretty revolting. Hiding for the content of the entire post, which is piss-poor writing of a sophomoric attempt to insult. Not clever, not necessary.
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: As far as I can decipher, this appears to be a rude and insulting post, nested inside a generally insulting thread. So I am guessing it is appropriate to hide.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: Just mad random riffery comparing the worst of GD with FR People need to develop a thicker hide Unless it is directed at a DUer as an ad hominem attack it's just nutty prose poetry
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given
Juror #7 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
Explanation: No explanation given

Thank you.


I'm so sorry they put you through that experience last night. They didn't deserve to know your pain as they saw it as something to mock. Hang on til Tuesday. That's my mantra these days. And again, hope this hasn't caused yesterday's anger to resurface. Peace.

spooky3

(34,469 posts)
66. Not only was Sparkly treated horribly, she raised a legitimate
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 08:23 AM
Apr 2016

Question in an appropriate place, yet people who claim to have Dem or lefty values saw fit to attack her. And others aided and abetted by refusing to hide nasty, insulting posts. (I sent an alert abuse alert on one).

The pope was correct about certain people's needing a psychiatrist, and it is a great shame that the website owners have allowed this place to become so hostile to Democrats, contrary to its stated mission.

 

HillareeeHillaraah

(685 posts)
68. Agreed. The bar for what is and isn't civil discourse...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 08:53 AM
Apr 2016

...has been lowered dramatically. Will it mend once Sanders returns to being the Independent Senator from Vermont? Who knows?

I, for one, certainly hope not. There are some very creative thinkers around here...

 

trumad

(41,692 posts)
60. I read that thread ---copied the link---and was going to start a thread here about it
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 07:33 AM
Apr 2016

You beat me to it.

Fact of the matter is---DU has become infested with trolls hiding as BS supporters. Really simple for them to do.

I could post my opinion about peanut butter in GD and within a few posts Hillary will be blamed for Peanut allergies.

We only have a month left of this shit---and when Hillary wins the nomination---the trolls won't be able to hide anymore.

 

HillareeeHillaraah

(685 posts)
61. I alerted because I found it so appalling...
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 07:42 AM
Apr 2016

And could read through his cleverness that it was aimed at you. Couple of jurors weren't bright enough to see what he was doing.

Sorry that was slung at you ~

livetohike

(22,161 posts)
64. Sending you hugs and comfort Sparkly. I don't recognize DU anymore.
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 08:00 AM
Apr 2016

It is not the place I joined in March 2004. There are so many unkind posters here now that are Trump- like in their insults and ugly posts.

The "ignore" and "trash" functions are so useful. I never used them until this year! Also having our Hillary Group and the wonderful people here have made DU bearable.

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
65. Sparkly, I am so sorry you were treated that way. It's inexcusable and I
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 08:01 AM
Apr 2016

was horrified as I read the thread. I too remember when DU was a sensitive and caring community. I have been here since DU began and have never used the ignore feature until now, but there are several people who showed their asses in that thread whose opinions on any matter are meaningless to me. I will not be subjected to their ignorant and hateful rants again and I hope you will not either.

Take care, Sparkly.

creon

(1,183 posts)
70. I suspect
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 09:08 AM
Apr 2016

I suspect that some of them hate Clinton - and they are unsure why - far more than they "love" Sanders.

Personally, I think that hatred of a politician is fatuous.

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
72. He's flagged for review
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 09:17 AM
Apr 2016

Hopefully a look at his absolutely atrocious posting history and 12 hides in the last 90 days brings a well deserved ppr.

all american girl

(1,788 posts)
73. I just read that thread, and holy crap
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 09:39 AM
Apr 2016

I changed my avatar in solidarity. No one should have to put up with that crap. There are some people on here who are nothing but bullies. I'm so sorry for you and your family, and so sorry that you were treated so bad.

liberal N proud

(60,340 posts)
74. We used to have wall to wall compassion
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 09:40 AM
Apr 2016

But the BS of late has driven some of that from here.

Our hearts go out to you regardless of what some have posted.

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
75. Question....I just went back to that thread in GD and all traces of
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 09:53 AM
Apr 2016

absolutely horrendous posts by TM99 are gone. Anyone reading the thread at this point will not get a true picture of how very abusive it was.

How does that happen?

KewlKat

(5,624 posts)
76. some posts are now hidden......I read nearly the entire thread and was outraged..........but hell
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 10:01 AM
Apr 2016

I don't recognize my old haunt since the "hired" BS crowd came. The abuse is horrid so I mostly read and only post in our small group here. I've been searching for a friendlier crowd but haven't found one on the net yet.

Laurian

(2,593 posts)
82. But when a post is hidden it is so noted and you can choose to
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 10:35 AM
Apr 2016

look at the hidden post. These are just gone, no explanation.

KewlKat

(5,624 posts)
87. I'm looking now and they are there.....hidden or not
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 11:02 AM
Apr 2016

do you have those posters perhaps on ignore?

George II

(67,782 posts)
77. I saw that disgusting attack, so sorry for you. For what it's worth, revbones....
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 10:05 AM
Apr 2016

....was on the verge of being banned back in February but it was blocked by a couple of people.

I've alerted one of his hidden posts (so that the administrators see it) and explained what went on in February. He's also now flagged for review. If there's any justice, we shouldn't have to deal with him any longer.

radical noodle

(8,013 posts)
78. They're like an angry mob
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 10:21 AM
Apr 2016

Many aren't Democrats. I'm so sorry about your daughter and hope she gets the help she needs.

mcar

(42,372 posts)
79. I'm so sorry you experienced that Sparkly
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 10:21 AM
Apr 2016

I don't know if I've ever seen a worse attack, and I've been here 14 years.

My best to you and your daughter.

WhiteTara

(29,722 posts)
83. Wow Sparkly,
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 10:39 AM
Apr 2016

I almost responded to that poster but what is the point. All it would do is create more hateful spew from him/her and you don't need that. I'm sorry about your daughter; my beloved niece became a meth addict. The good news is that there is a chance for real recovery. She has been clean and sober for almost 8 years and is doing very well. I hope that for your child.

ismnotwasm

(42,000 posts)
84. Holy Fuck
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 10:42 AM
Apr 2016

I'm sorry that happened to your thread. That was one of the weirdest derailments I've ever seen.

DemonGoddess

(4,640 posts)
93. I am so very sorry
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 12:33 PM
Apr 2016

you've been subjected to this abuse. I cannot fathom how any thinking and feeling person would take your pain and turn it into something else. That's disgusting behavior.

rbrnmw

(7,160 posts)
97. I am really sorry that they turned your very personal pain
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 04:41 PM
Apr 2016

Last edited Sun Apr 17, 2016, 05:22 PM - Edit history (1)

into a nasty attack. I hope both of the worst will be banned. There is no excuse for them to be out from under their GDP bridge attacking people in GD.

 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
104. I am sorry sparkly. Cruel simply for the sake of cruelty. That seems to be the play
Sun Apr 17, 2016, 08:16 PM
Apr 2016

for so many, especially our youth, on the net. They do not have the courage, guts or confection to do it to someones face, only hiding behind a screen. That surely tells us how immature and insecure they are in life.

Walk away

(9,494 posts)
106. I'm so sorry about your heartbreaking troubles. Just forget all of that BS and stay here.
Wed Apr 27, 2016, 10:17 AM
Apr 2016

DU is not a good place right now. Keep to the safe neighborhoods.

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