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stopbush

(24,397 posts)
Mon May 9, 2016, 11:21 PM May 2016

My daughter - first-time voter, Sanders supporter til now - is voting for HRC

Interesting.

She brought up the subject. Wanted to know what Hillary's plans were for college kids. Wanted to know her stance on rape and bullying women. "I can go to Bernie's website and here it is on one page. What does Hillary say?"

"Could be that those issues take more than a page," said I.

So, we went into dueling iPads, checking out Hillary's YUGE Wiki entry, her campaign website etc. After 20 minutes of discussion - which I'm sure included my daughter's first honest examination of Hillary's record - she announced that she had found the answers she was looking for, and that her opinion of Hillary had changed.

"She's doing what I want to hear a candidate is doing."

The truth will out. One more vote for Hill on June 7.

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My daughter - first-time voter, Sanders supporter til now - is voting for HRC (Original Post) stopbush May 2016 OP
Ohhhhh, that is so beautiful! I wonder what made her ask about Hillary in the 1st Cha May 2016 #1
She saw the recent FB meme going around about stopbush May 2016 #5
Thank you for that.. it is depicable that burnies are trying to use this lie to bring down Cha May 2016 #6
Yes. A happy old dad! stopbush May 2016 #8
Ok.. time for full disclosure.. Cha May 2016 #10
interesting. i was always a dem even when i was too DesertFlower May 2016 #13
It was so sad back then in the '60 when they were killing our leaders who were doing so much good Cha May 2016 #14
i was 22 when JFK was killed. i was working as a temp in DesertFlower May 2016 #16
You had quite the memorable experiences after hearing the tragic news of Cha May 2016 #17
I was all of 8 when JFK was killed. I remember getting home from stopbush May 2016 #22
Wow! My son, too, but he admitted Bernie has no chance pandr32 May 2016 #26
Your son has foresight, pandr.. he's an excellent example Cha May 2016 #33
I agree pandr32 May 2016 #36
Both of my millennial daughters voted for Bernie griffi94 May 2016 #27
That has been my atttude mercuryblues May 2016 #30
That's great, griffi! I can't imagine parents who are for Hillary and Cha May 2016 #34
I really like your approach of going to sources she trusts spooky3 May 2016 #20
I wish more people would do that. LiberalFighter May 2016 #24
+1~spooky! Cha May 2016 #35
That's awesome! DemonGoddess May 2016 #2
Thanks for sharing. That warmed my heart. fleabiscuit May 2016 #3
K & R SunSeeker May 2016 #4
My daughter will also be voting for Hillary in the California primary on the 7th. still_one May 2016 #7
Our very vocal early Bernie supporter needed up voting for Hillary here in Maryland...guess why... Jitter65 May 2016 #9
And she's right NastyRiffraff May 2016 #12
What a wonderful post NastyRiffraff May 2016 #11
This is the BEST post I've read recently. An emblematic and encouraging Surya Gayatri May 2016 #15
Thanks for sharing, Hillary has a great agenda, and it is achievable. Thinkingabout May 2016 #18
wonderful. Thanks for the post riversedge May 2016 #19
"Could be that those issues take more than a page" SharonClark May 2016 #21
Wowza. kstewart33 May 2016 #23
Thank you for raising a wonderful young lady. hamsterjill May 2016 #25
Whenever I hear people complaining about today's kids stopbush May 2016 #32
K & R Iliyah May 2016 #28
Yay! puffy socks May 2016 #29
Yeah otohara May 2016 #31

Cha

(297,786 posts)
1. Ohhhhh, that is so beautiful! I wonder what made her ask about Hillary in the 1st
Mon May 9, 2016, 11:30 PM
May 2016

place? It had to have been something interesting!

Mahalo for this news, stop~

stopbush

(24,397 posts)
5. She saw the recent FB meme going around about
Tue May 10, 2016, 12:08 AM
May 2016

"Hillary laughed at a 12-year-old rape victim and defended her attacker."

Well, our first stop was Snopes, which debunked the idea that Hillary laughed at this child. It also pointed out that Hillary asked to be excused from defending the guy, said she believed he was guilty and ended up getting a plea bargain which is what a lawyer is supposed to do, ie: do the best for their client within the confines of the law.

Further surfing took us to other articles from reputable sources that put a very suspect light on the source she had seen. To her credit, my daughter understood beforehand that lawyers are not supposed to let their personal feelings lead them to doing a poor job for their client. I don't think my daughter knew that Hillary asked to be excused from the case, or that she said the guy was guilty. She understood completely that once Hillary was on the case, she ethically had to do the best she could for her client, even a rapist.

That had a big effect on her view of Hillary.

Cha

(297,786 posts)
6. Thank you for that.. it is depicable that burnies are trying to use this lie to bring down
Tue May 10, 2016, 12:14 AM
May 2016

the winner of the Democratic Nomination.

I hope there are more and more personal stories like your daughter's.. I can imagine how happy that makes you.

stopbush

(24,397 posts)
8. Yes. A happy old dad!
Tue May 10, 2016, 12:21 AM
May 2016

My son is a lost cause. Voted for Gary Johnson in 2012 and is still registered as a NPP here in CA.

At least my daughter is a registered D.

Cha

(297,786 posts)
10. Ok.. time for full disclosure..
Tue May 10, 2016, 12:39 AM
May 2016

My son is a BS fan.. but thinks Hillary is going to win(that was back when it wasn't quite as determined as it is now) and has no problem voting for her in November. He actually cares about this Planet of ours.

I keep hoping he'll have a revelation like your daughter's or an epiphany like some who realize what kind of scam he's still running!

I remember when I was younger.. I proudly pronounced I was an Indie.. I was Independent! Until I found out what the parties really represented and then I joined up @ the Dem

DesertFlower

(11,649 posts)
13. interesting. i was always a dem even when i was too
Tue May 10, 2016, 03:06 AM
May 2016

young to vote. back then you had to be 21. i just turned 19 when JFK ran. i wanted so much to vote for him. of course then we had the viet nam war. i loved eugene mccarthy but he didn't not become the nominee. i was horrified when nixon won in '68 -- then again in '72. then came watergate -- revenge. i was unemployed at the time and was glued to the tv during the hearings.

back in the 60s we had assasinations -- JFK, MLK, RFK.

i learned more about politics in the last 10 years -- being on DU and watching MSNBC.

Cha

(297,786 posts)
14. It was so sad back then in the '60 when they were killing our leaders who were doing so much good
Tue May 10, 2016, 03:39 AM
May 2016

for the People.

I was 19 when JFK was assassinated.. I was driving in Phoenix on my way to Tempe when I heard it on the radio.. I had to pull over I was crying so hard, and in shock.

I didn't pay much attention to politics after that until the 2000 election.. I got my computer in 2002 so I could get on DU.. I had read about it in The Nation magazine I has picked up @ a newsstand in NYC.. on New Years Day 2001.

I learned about the history of all the political happenings I had missed.. with DU as a starting point, too. Not from the CTs but the reality based community.

The CTs are still going strong.. but here we are getting ready to nominate our first female candidate for the Democratic POTUS.. it's been a phenomenal ride!

DesertFlower~

DesertFlower

(11,649 posts)
16. i was 22 when JFK was killed. i was working as a temp in
Tue May 10, 2016, 05:13 AM
May 2016

a law firm in downtown manhattan. was just coming back from lunch with 2 co-workers when someone had it on the car radio. when we got upstairs they had it on the radio. one woman i was with had recently lost her husband (died in her arms). she fainted.

the subway was empty going home that night -- i think people went home early. stopped at my grandma's to see my son -- then went home. i was supposed to visit my husband in prison the next day. i called his mom and asked her to sleep at my house because i didn't want to be alone. i don't think i slept -- just cried the whole night.

i split with my first husband in early '67 -- one of my first boyfriends had been in viet nam. met my second husband in '70. everything was about viet nam back then. even my young son said they talked about it in school.

moved to phoenix in late '89 and came down with CFS/ME. i couldn't work so i took more of an interest in politics.

i started posting on DU in 10/05 under a different name.

Cha

(297,786 posts)
17. You had quite the memorable experiences after hearing the tragic news of
Tue May 10, 2016, 06:10 AM
May 2016

President John Fitzgerald Kennedy.. I happened to be in upper state New York when news of his son JFK Jr was killed along with his wife in the helicopter crash. Such unbearable sadness.

Thank you for telling me, DesertFlower~ Sorry, to hear about your CFS/ME. That's long time.

stopbush

(24,397 posts)
22. I was all of 8 when JFK was killed. I remember getting home from
Tue May 10, 2016, 10:01 AM
May 2016

school and my mom giving us the sad news.

I am in the minority of Americans who believe Oswald acted alone in killing JFK. I base that on decades of interest in the case that reached a final determination when I read Bugliosi's Reclaiming History (I recommend it if you have a month to spare...it's a mammoth tome).

Most Americans believe the conspiracy theories about the case, which is unfortunate on many levels. First, because to believe thus, one must ignore the mountains of scientific evidence that confirm Oswald's guilt as the lone gunman. And second, a simple murder case has spawned a huge distrust in our government and has given license to all sorts of crazy ideas to flourish in our tabloid-driven reality. Much of Sanders appeal - his "us v them, secret powers are afoot to destroy your life" mantra - couldn't exist were not the electorate pre-disposed to believing in wide-ranging conspiracies that find their genesis in the myths surrounding the JFK killing.

I firmly believe that until the JFK myths are put to bed, our citizens will continue to be susceptible to the wildest ideas imaginable. And that will continue to fuel the Trumps and Sanders of the world, while more-reasonable people and their reasonable ideas are attacked as being "establishment propaganda" designed solely to divert people's attention from the evil lurking behind their doors.

pandr32

(11,630 posts)
26. Wow! My son, too, but he admitted Bernie has no chance
Tue May 10, 2016, 10:52 AM
May 2016

...and he will support Hillary because getting Dems elected is important for our nation. He is aware that not all Bernie fans will be so rational about the failure of their candidate to win the nomination.

Anger causes people to act irrationally, unfortunately, and blaming the DNC and "the Clinton machine" is not healthy.

My son is a member of Young Democrats and the whole time he supported Bernie he refused to bash Hillary because he knew that, as a Democrat, he would have to support the nominee. It was obvious that it was a contest and that Bernie might not win, but he said, "Bernie has added so much to the discussion" and so I leave it at that and do not respond with how his lies and other negativity has drowned that out. I hope my son can influence others to look at the bigger picture--the one over Bernie's shoulder past him--Congress, the Supreme Court, state governments, the Democrat Party, etc. Bernie dropped the ball in all these places.

Bottom line is that it will be up to us Hillary supporters to help young people that haven't already gotten a clue to get one, and vote a Dem ticket in November. It looks like Bernie won't step up. He used young people and now he refuses to take responsibility.

You and I both know our sons won't regret supporting Hillary Clinton--ever!

Aloha Cha!

Cha

(297,786 posts)
33. Your son has foresight, pandr.. he's an excellent example
Wed May 11, 2016, 03:39 AM
May 2016

of what all voters should have. The ability to look @ the bigger picture.. much bigger than ourselves.

Yeah, Big Shocker.. it does look like burnie won't step up to undo the damage he's done. Far be it from him to help out the country.. it's all about his enormous ego.

No wonder too many fans act the way they do.

Excellent point.. we know our sons won't regret voting for Hillary! I feel like the truth about BS will come out when everything is sorted out.. he can't hide it forever.

Aloha, pandr!

pandr32

(11,630 posts)
36. I agree
Wed May 11, 2016, 11:28 AM
May 2016

I think much of the inside stories of the data-breach, lawsuits, and other shenanigans will be outed. We will see what stuff his campaign was up to, and who directed what. People will talk.

Aloha back!

griffi94

(3,733 posts)
27. Both of my millennial daughters voted for Bernie
Tue May 10, 2016, 10:59 AM
May 2016

But they're not BoB neither dislikes Hillary.

Bernie did very well with younger voters and my younger voters liked him.

They do realize he's not going to win and we even talked about that last year.

I told them that it was very unlikely that Bernie had a real shot
at the nomination but that primaries were a great place to raise issues

They are now 4 square behind Hillary.
There wasn't even any real disappointment of their part
their attitude was they liked Bernie but he didn't win and HIllary is really good too
And Trump is nuts.

mercuryblues

(14,547 posts)
30. That has been my atttude
Tue May 10, 2016, 11:19 AM
May 2016

not once has the candidate I voted for won the primary. Maybe my 1st vote for HRC, will break my streak?


Not once have I ever considered stomping my feet because my candidate didn't win and say I wouldn't vote for the D candidate at all. Elections have consequences and I am not willing to live under evangelical republican rule.


Cha

(297,786 posts)
34. That's great, griffi! I can't imagine parents who are for Hillary and
Wed May 11, 2016, 04:17 AM
May 2016

have BoB kids. That would be hard knowing what we know about how important it is for our Planet not to have trump sleaze into our White House.

spooky3

(34,488 posts)
20. I really like your approach of going to sources she trusts
Tue May 10, 2016, 08:07 AM
May 2016

And both of you researching simultaneously. That is the way to convince an intelligent and fair minded child.

We are lucky to live in an age where doing this research takes far less time and gives us access to so much more info than in the past. Of course the other side of that is that FALSEHOODS and innuendo get spread so much more quickly. And many people will not do the work to determine whether they have been misinformed.

DemonGoddess

(4,640 posts)
2. That's awesome!
Mon May 9, 2016, 11:34 PM
May 2016

I've noticed that the young women are more open to asking and learning about all this. Just going by what my own adult children have done this election cycle.

 

Jitter65

(3,089 posts)
9. Our very vocal early Bernie supporter needed up voting for Hillary here in Maryland...guess why...
Tue May 10, 2016, 12:32 AM
May 2016

Sanders nasty attacks against Hillary changed her mind. Said he sounded like an angry old man who really doesn't like women.

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
12. And she's right
Tue May 10, 2016, 12:47 AM
May 2016

He DOES sound like an angry old man who really doesn't like women.

One by one, that's how we do it. Changing one mind at a time.

NastyRiffraff

(12,448 posts)
11. What a wonderful post
Tue May 10, 2016, 12:45 AM
May 2016

from a wonderful dad. You gave your daughter a precious gift...you taught her how to look for answers and evaluate them.

"Could be that those issues take more than a page," Oh, yes.

Congratulations to you and your daughter.

 

Surya Gayatri

(15,445 posts)
15. This is the BEST post I've read recently. An emblematic and encouraging
Tue May 10, 2016, 05:05 AM
May 2016

story of that all-important 18-35 demographic.

It sounds like you've raised a very intelligent, very responsible young American woman. Good work there!

hamsterjill

(15,224 posts)
25. Thank you for raising a wonderful young lady.
Tue May 10, 2016, 10:49 AM
May 2016

Obviously, you've taught her to question everything. That's awesome.

Obviously, you've taught her to seek the facts about issues for herself. That's awesome.

Obviously, you and she have a relationship that allows you to discuss these issues. That's awesome.

The fact that she chose Hillary is not only awesome, but it shows maturity and wisdom.

Thank you!

stopbush

(24,397 posts)
32. Whenever I hear people complaining about today's kids
Tue May 10, 2016, 05:39 PM
May 2016

I look at my daughter and wonder what the problem is, because I don't see it.

Iliyah

(25,111 posts)
28. K & R
Tue May 10, 2016, 11:01 AM
May 2016


One of my 13 year old's school teacher was gun ho BS supporter and recently she has changed to supporting and voting for HRC. Then, the other day my daughter told me another teacher has committed in voting for HRC. Southern California here!

 

puffy socks

(1,473 posts)
29. Yay!
Tue May 10, 2016, 11:10 AM
May 2016

It's really nice to see that someone can look and see what they might have missed and isn't afraid to really look into the details.
She obviously values your opinions as she can openly honestly talk to you about it. That says a lot of good things about both of you.

 

otohara

(24,135 posts)
31. Yeah
Tue May 10, 2016, 11:59 AM
May 2016

My son changed from BS to HRC also.

Good for her - hope more change their tune towards Hillary in the general.

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