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Stuckinthebush

(10,845 posts)
Mon Feb 22, 2016, 11:45 AM Feb 2016

Elisabeth Kübler-Ross

The seminal work "On Death and Dying" can be used to analyze GD-P today.

Five stages of grief:

Denial
Anger
Bargaining
Depression
Acceptance

I think they are jumping back and forth between Denial and Anger right now.

I like the 7-stages model of grief:

1. SHOCK & DENIAL-
You will probably react to learning of the loss with numbed disbelief. You may deny the reality of the loss at some level, in order to avoid the pain. Shock provides emotional protection from being overwhelmed all at once. This may last for weeks.

2. PAIN & GUILT-
As the shock wears off, it is replaced with the suffering of unbelievable pain. Although excruciating and almost unbearable, it is important that you experience the pain fully, and not hide it, avoid it or escape from it with alcohol or drugs. Life feels chaotic and scary during this phase.

3. ANGER & BARGAINING-
Frustration gives way to anger, and you may lash out and lay unwarranted blame for the loss on someone else. Please try to control this, as permanent damage to your relationships may result. This is a time for the release of bottled up emotion. You may rail against fate, questioning "Why me?" You may also try to bargain in vain with the powers that be for a way out of your despair

4. "DEPRESSION", REFLECTION, LONELINESS-
Just when your friends may think you should be getting on with your life, a long period of sad reflection will likely overtake you. During this time, you finally realize the true magnitude of your loss, and it depresses you. You may isolate yourself on purpose, reflect on the past, and focus on memories of the past. You may sense feelings of emptiness or despair.

5. THE UPWARD TURN-
As you start to adjust your life becomes a little calmer and more organized. Your physical symptoms lessen, and your "depression" begins to lift slightly.

6. RECONSTRUCTION & WORKING THROUGH-
As you become more functional, your mind starts working again, and you will find yourself seeking realistic solutions to problems posed by life.

7. ACCEPTANCE & HOPE-
During this, the last of the seven stages in this grief model, you learn to accept and deal with the reality of your situation. Acceptance does not necessarily mean instant happiness. You will find a way forward.


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Elisabeth Kübler-Ross (Original Post) Stuckinthebush Feb 2016 OP
What about all the blame pandr32 Feb 2016 #1
Yep. Stage 3 Stuckinthebush Feb 2016 #3
Yep! pandr32 Feb 2016 #7
I thought they were against coronations 72DejaVu Feb 2016 #8
Zing! nt Fla Dem Feb 2016 #9
K&R livetohike Feb 2016 #2
Yes shenmue Feb 2016 #4
This also perfectly describes the transition... yallerdawg Feb 2016 #5
LOL fleabiscuit Feb 2016 #6
Only on Stage 1. Man they have a lot of Stages to go through misterhighwasted Feb 2016 #10
Ha! Stuckinthebush Feb 2016 #11
lol ...I'd get a hide for every group & forum on DU!! misterhighwasted Feb 2016 #13
You are too kind ismnotwasm Feb 2016 #12

pandr32

(11,588 posts)
1. What about all the blame
Mon Feb 22, 2016, 12:12 PM
Feb 2016

Apparently Hillary Clinton and the establishment are hell-bent on destroying the Party. It seems Hillary Clinton is part of a conspiracy that pretends she is electable in the GE, cheats in too many ways to count (check out all the posts) to steal the nomination from Bernie and real progressives, is sabotaging Bernie's revolution, has the media in her pocket (huh????), is all about the money, is in cahoots with the neocons, lies about everything, and on and on. So much blame.

That is all part of stage 3.

Stuckinthebush

(10,845 posts)
3. Yep. Stage 3
Mon Feb 22, 2016, 12:44 PM
Feb 2016

Blame!

It is funny how she is the real evil and is keeping Bernie from his rightful place as the nominee.

misterhighwasted

(9,148 posts)
10. Only on Stage 1. Man they have a lot of Stages to go through
Mon Feb 22, 2016, 04:59 PM
Feb 2016

We should post this on every forum & group on DU.
For "everybody". Y' know just in case denial leads to escapism.

misterhighwasted

(9,148 posts)
13. lol ...I'd get a hide for every group & forum on DU!!
Mon Feb 22, 2016, 07:26 PM
Feb 2016

That's way too many..

I'm waiting it out right here with ya Stuckinthebush

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