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Mosby

(16,366 posts)
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 04:16 PM Apr 2012

Secret freedom at Tel Aviv’s ‘Palestinian Queer Party’

Chiseled, scantily clad men danced onstage. Strobe lights flashed as the bass echoed. The smell of cologne wafted through the air. There were kisses — one on the right cheek, one on the left — and friendly embraces everywhere.

It could have been any Tel Aviv club, really, except it wasn’t. It was a Friday night and I was at my first Palestinian gay dance party in south Tel Aviv.

People greeted each other in Arabic: Kif inta? Shu ’jdid? The stereo wailed, inti ‘omri! — you are my life! — as the DJ played hit after hit by Egyptian and Lebanese pop stars Amr Diab, Nancy Ajram and Sherine. No Eyal Golan or Justin Timberlake here.

And there were drag queens, dressed to the nines in high heels and short skirts, with bows in their very long, very straightened hair.

Others covered their faces, or wore burka-like head veils.

This did not, however, stop them all from carousing together. One of the drag queens yelled at me to stop photographing — it could be dangerous for them if someone sees the pictures, I was told, because many of those at the party are still in the closet.

In fact, a few people I met did not want to tell me their names or where they were from, or any detail that could link them to the fact that they were at the party. Hence, the names of people interviewed for this article have been changed to protect their identities, and the photos carefully selected.

The party is an anonymous safe haven. And that’s why it’s such a hit.

http://www.timesofisrael.com/secret-freedom-at-tel-avivs-palestinian-queer-party/

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Secret freedom at Tel Aviv’s ‘Palestinian Queer Party’ (Original Post) Mosby Apr 2012 OP
I try to understand how men who are as beautiful as they are can closeupready Apr 2012 #1
This was America before the late 60's... joeybee12 Apr 2012 #2
Are they afraid of having their identify revealed in Israel or in the Palestinian territories? totodeinhere Apr 2012 #3
It doesn't matter where. Behind the Aegis Apr 2012 #4
 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
1. I try to understand how men who are as beautiful as they are can
Fri Apr 20, 2012, 04:40 PM
Apr 2012

be so messed up in the head, reading about the games they play, and the lives they lead.

I mean, obviously, beauty is not an indicator of emotional maturity. Samantha Brick, for example.

Still, it's human nature to think of beautiful people, oh, they must just have it so together. But they don't. To the contrary. I could never live that way.

I have a Palestinian friend I think I'll pass this along to - thanks for posting.

totodeinhere

(13,059 posts)
3. Are they afraid of having their identify revealed in Israel or in the Palestinian territories?
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 03:19 PM
Apr 2012

It's my understanding that gays can be quite open in Israel. But it's another matter in the Palestinian Territories.

Behind the Aegis

(53,994 posts)
4. It doesn't matter where.
Sun Apr 22, 2012, 05:50 PM
Apr 2012

Were it to get back to the Palestinian Territories, it could lead to very bad circumstances. There are, however, openly gay Arabs and Palestinians in Israel.

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