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Related: About this forumThis is What Hate Looks Like: Father Cruelly Disowns Son for Coming Out
The shockingly cruel letter below, from a father to his newly-out gay son, has been spreading like wildfire through social media. When I first saw it posted on the Facebook profile of Hudson Taylor, an all-star wrestler and outspoken gay rights supporter, I knew I had to share it with you because it serves as a stark reminder of why the fight for LGBT equality and against religious extremism is so critical.
Incidentally, this letter also hits very close to home: my husbands father sent him a similar note in 2006 in response to an invitation to our wedding reception. Although he didnt disown Michael completely, he did spout all kinds of homophobic bile about how our love was an insult to God and to the faith of his parents, how being LGBT was a choice, and how I was not Michaels husband, but his friend. Oh, and he wouldnt be attending our reception.
Needless to say, Michael was stunned and deeply, deeply hurt. Their relationship has never recovered. Equally needless to say, I being the fiercely protective spouse that I am wrote Michaels father a stinging (private) reply that put him in his proper place and demanded the basic respect that any decent excuse for a father would give to their child and that childs spouse. In the handful of occasions weve crossed paths since, hes never dared to speak to Michael in such a hateful, hurtful way again, which is very wise of him.
So my heart breaks for this faceless James, wherever he is. I wish I knew how to contact him, because if I could, Id mail him a handwritten letter of my own:
http://www.truthwinsout.org/blog/2012/08/27810/
catbyte
(34,458 posts)Does this troglydyte also support putting anybody who works on Sunday to death? That's in the bible too. Ignorant, knuckle-dragging morons.
xchrom
(108,903 posts)WillParkinson
(16,862 posts)How dare this ignorant son of a bitch do this to his SON.
WillParkinson
(16,862 posts)The user said it was zealotry from Bryan Fisher, of the American Family Association, Maggie Gallagher, former president of the National Organization for Marriage, and Dan Cathy of Chick-fil-A which negatively affected everyday people.
He went on: Ive never done drugs, was an excellent student, an obedient child (far less trouble than many of my classmates), didnt drink until I was 22 because it terrified me, and have had just 1 speeding ticket in my life.
Yet I am still seemingly deserving of this terrible act of hate and cowardice that one person can place on another. 5 years on and I am still doing fine, though this letter saunters into my mind every once in a while. When it does, I say without hesitation: Fuck you, Dad.
http://www.pinknews.co.uk/2012/08/07/gay-man-publishes-fathers-letter-disowning-him/
closeupready
(29,503 posts)Or to speak on God's behalf prior to doing so?
Just disgusting how these people arrogantly suggest they know that God wants them to abandon their children. Irresponsible and cruel.
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Fearless
(18,421 posts)EvolveOrConvolve
(6,452 posts)Fearless
(18,421 posts)Just waiting for the jury to come back now for it to be a done deal.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)I am a member of that jury and it took me all of three seconds to figure this one out. It isn't rocket science. I always sign my comments so I voluntarily give up my anonymity.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)That took too long for my taste, but the thing is gone. Hopefully it's sock puppets will not come.
tavalon
(27,985 posts)His dad is, well, a waste of precious air. Creep.