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xchrom

(108,903 posts)
Wed Aug 29, 2012, 07:02 AM Aug 2012

Daddy In A Skirt

http://www.commondreams.org/further/2012/08/28-4



Coolest Father of the Year Award goes to Nils Pickert, the German dad of a five-year-old son who happens to like to wear skirts and dresses. To protect him from the mockery he knew his son would face after they moved to a small town - "very traditional, very religious. Plainly motherland." - Nils made himself a role model by donning a skirt himself, "to broaden my shoulders for my little buddy."

"You can’t expect a child at pre-school age to have the same ability to assert themselves as an adult. Completely without role model. And so I became that role model."


awesome!
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Daddy In A Skirt (Original Post) xchrom Aug 2012 OP
Wow! Just wow. That's family love. nt longship Aug 2012 #1
A few more details from another source... Lucy Goosey Aug 2012 #2
not sure how i feel about this story. loli phabay Sep 2012 #3
Does that mean you are ambivalent? closeupready Sep 2012 #8
oh i dig his support but im just not sure if im on board if that makes sense loli phabay Sep 2012 #9
I hear you. Counterintuitively, Germany is actually closeupready Sep 2012 #10
no pproblem love germany beer and bundesliga what more can i say. loli phabay Sep 2012 #11
Love. MadrasT Sep 2012 #4
How many of us wish we had parents like him... AZ Progressive Sep 2012 #5
agree, awesome father Victor_c3 Sep 2012 #6
I saw this story last week, and what can I say, closeupready Sep 2012 #7

Lucy Goosey

(2,940 posts)
2. A few more details from another source...
Fri Aug 31, 2012, 04:14 PM
Aug 2012

I love this story - I just want to give both of them a big hug.

http://gawker.com/5938676/father-of-the-year-helps-dress+wearing-son-feel-comfortable-by-putting-on-a-skirt-himself?post=52253057#13464438336642&

And what's the little guy doing by now? He's painting his fingernails. He thinks it looks pretty on my nails, too. He's simply smiling, when other boys ( and it's nearly always boys) want to make fun of him and says: "You only don't dare to wear skirts and dresses because your dads don't dare to either." That's how broad his own shoulders have become by now. And all thanks to daddy in a skirt.


And that, ladies and gentlemen, is parenting at its finest.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
8. Does that mean you are ambivalent?
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 02:02 PM
Sep 2012

It's okay if you are - just explain your feelings.

If you are GLBT, like I am, you know how painful growing up gay can be. That's why his support is like, 'wow'.

 

loli phabay

(5,580 posts)
9. oh i dig his support but im just not sure if im on board if that makes sense
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 02:27 PM
Sep 2012

Im kinda torn between good idea bad idea depending on my thought process at the time.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
10. I hear you. Counterintuitively, Germany is actually
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 02:48 PM
Sep 2012

really cool with regard to GLBT issues, which is not what one would maybe expect from the land formerly home to the Third Reich, but I guess if the US is able to get beyond that fact that we are a country where our president is a member of a class of people of which it was once true that members of that class were officially counted as 2/3's of a member of the larger society, then Germany or any other state can also progress.

Cheers.

AZ Progressive

(3,411 posts)
5. How many of us wish we had parents like him...
Tue Sep 4, 2012, 07:44 PM
Sep 2012

Parents that not only protect us but support us for who we are. I hope the newer generations will be more like this!

Victor_c3

(3,557 posts)
6. agree, awesome father
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 01:18 PM
Sep 2012

I have two daughters (they'll be 2 and 4 years old this fall). I don't know when alternative gender and sexual orientations really start to show up or when a person "knows", but my kids will always have my unconditional support and love.

Awesome dad. That sends a hell of a message of support to a kid who, unfortunately, will probably need all he can get.

I'm turning into an emotional softie, but this sort of thing brings tears to my eyes.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
7. I saw this story last week, and what can I say,
Fri Sep 7, 2012, 01:59 PM
Sep 2012

I fell in love with this Nils guy for his totally awesome role as father to his young boy. Really. K&R

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