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n2doc

(47,953 posts)
Mon Oct 22, 2012, 09:26 AM Oct 2012

Church cites Scripture in barring gay musician from performing

BY LEE HILL KAVANAUGH
The Kansas City Star

HUTCHINSON, KAN. -- Chad Graber loved everything connected to church.

Especially the Tuesday night classes at CrossPoint Church called Celebrate Recovery. The prayer groups and Bible studies were his anchor after his substance abuse treatment ended.

“My goal was to put more good things in my life, and church was it,” he remembers.

Sometime around 2007 he joined the six-piece worship team for Celebrate Recovery, playing keyboards, learning Christian songs and practicing chord changes.

He belonged.

Read more here: http://www.kansascity.com/2012/10/21/3876912/church-cites-scripture-in-barring.html

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Church cites Scripture in barring gay musician from performing (Original Post) n2doc Oct 2012 OP
... xchrom Oct 2012 #1
Well this is an old argument for me. lalalu Oct 2012 #2
huh? n/t sharkman25 Oct 2012 #3
Let me make it clearer lalalu Oct 2012 #5
Some churches preach hate against gay people. Not all. okasha Oct 2012 #6
Baloney. lalalu Oct 2012 #7
Prove it. okasha Oct 2012 #9
Prove they fully accept homosexuality. lalalu Oct 2012 #10
Well, just to start with, okasha Oct 2012 #13
You must have missed the objections made by lalalu Oct 2012 #15
Sorry to have interrupted your fantasy with facts. okasha Oct 2012 #18
You believe in a bearded guy in the sky. lalalu Oct 2012 #19
Wrong. okasha Oct 2012 #22
Okay. Are African Episcopal parishes ... Episcopalian? closeupready Oct 2012 #14
Not. okasha Oct 2012 #17
Fail. closeupready Oct 2012 #20
Read again. okasha Oct 2012 #23
Oh, uh-huh. closeupready Oct 2012 #24
Of what? okasha Nov 2012 #25
not worth it. Just gonna ignore you. closeupready Nov 2012 #26
Seems we weren't. okasha Nov 2012 #27
Does the church also dowry out their women for 2 goats & 3 shekels catbyte Oct 2012 #4
or wear suits made of 2 yarns AardvarkAsparagus Oct 2012 #8
I wish Jesus would enjoin them to quit using the term"Christian" mitchtv Oct 2012 #11
I don't understand why people join an intolerant organization and then beyurslf Oct 2012 #12
Hateful Religion HATEFUL Shuhered Oct 2012 #16
there are many welcoming congregations out there ibegurpard Oct 2012 #21
 

lalalu

(1,663 posts)
2. Well this is an old argument for me.
Mon Oct 22, 2012, 09:31 AM
Oct 2012

I know and I am related to gay people who go to church regularly. Ironic since I don't attend church because I dislike their hate speech against certain groups. The answer I always get is the same one this guy gives. They feel going to church is a good thing and has positive influences on the community. Personally I think it is a desperate attempt at acceptance by organizations with a lot of influence. To me it is like a black person attending klan rallies.

 

lalalu

(1,663 posts)
5. Let me make it clearer
Mon Oct 22, 2012, 12:52 PM
Oct 2012

Churches preach hate against gay people. I cannot understand why any gay person would want to belong to any organized religion. I have had this argument with gay people I know.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
6. Some churches preach hate against gay people. Not all.
Mon Oct 22, 2012, 01:46 PM
Oct 2012

Graber seems to have found a congregation where he feels at home. His other possible options include the Episcopal Church, the Metropolitan Community Church, the United Church of Christ, and several independent groups.

 

lalalu

(1,663 posts)
7. Baloney.
Mon Oct 22, 2012, 02:25 PM
Oct 2012

They all either preach it openly or condone the hate silently. Obviously it wasn't as welcoming as he thought.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
9. Prove it.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 02:58 PM
Oct 2012

Find a source where the United Church of Christ or the Episcopal Church preaches hate against gays. Or the MCC--which you obviously know nothing about.

 

lalalu

(1,663 posts)
10. Prove they fully accept homosexuality.
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 03:06 PM
Oct 2012

They preach tolerance and that is not the same as full acceptance. This is why I can't stand religions. You all lie.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
13. Well, just to start with,
Wed Oct 24, 2012, 01:35 PM
Oct 2012

the Episcopal Church has two openly LGBT bishops, one of whom is now married (or "civil uniioned&quot to his life partner. I suspect the other will marry hers as soon as Prop h8 falls. The UCC has LGBT clergy and ran a series of television ads a few years ago specfifically welcoming LGBT persons. And the MCC was founded by and for LGBT Christians who lean toward the evangelical side of the spectrum.

But you're the one who made the statement that all churches preach hatred toward gays. It's still your obligation to prove your statement.

 

lalalu

(1,663 posts)
15. You must have missed the objections made by
Wed Oct 24, 2012, 03:24 PM
Oct 2012

leaders of both religions. There is still major opposition to their appointments and refusal to accept them. You point out some tokens and claim that is full acceptance? I bet you think the republicans are inclusive because they have Hermain Cain and put Uncle Thomas on the Supreme Court

Reality proves my statement and you have to be extremely deluded to pretend they don't preach hate towards gay people. All of them. Stating you can tolerate them but still consider their life a sin is just a more subtle form of hate. Like I said before religious people are good at lying and presenting their alteration of reality.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
17. Not.
Fri Oct 26, 2012, 11:50 AM
Oct 2012

And they don't call themselves Episcopalians. The Episcopal Church is part of the Anglican Communion, but the national churches--such as the Nigerian Anglican Church--are independent of each other, and to a large extent, from Canterbury.

 

closeupready

(29,503 posts)
20. Fail.
Tue Oct 30, 2012, 11:47 AM
Oct 2012

Nice scam that is - disown your bad family members and voila, they aren't my responsibility any longer. Get me in on that one.

okasha

(11,573 posts)
23. Read again.
Wed Oct 31, 2012, 12:50 PM
Oct 2012

The national churches are independent of each other. The American Episcopal Church has no way of influencing the African national churches except by expressing its profound disagreement with their anti-gay policies. There is no Pope in the Anglican Communion; the Archbishop of Canterbury is "first among equals" but has no dictatorial powers and cannot excommunicate Peter Akinola and his ilk.

And by the way, they're not "mine." I'm a pagan.

Happy Samhain to you.

catbyte

(34,476 posts)
4. Does the church also dowry out their women for 2 goats & 3 shekels
Mon Oct 22, 2012, 11:30 AM
Oct 2012

or put to death people who work on Sunday, eat shellfish or pork, or commit adultery? That's in the Bible too.

These cretins who cherry pick the Bible to suit their own prejudices piss me off like no other.

mitchtv

(17,718 posts)
11. I wish Jesus would enjoin them to quit using the term"Christian"
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 05:05 PM
Oct 2012

Beware of false prophets, as the saying goes. Surely some are not haters, but they bear the guilt of abdicating their rightousness to the wing nut variety of ersatz christians

beyurslf

(6,755 posts)
12. I don't understand why people join an intolerant organization and then
Tue Oct 23, 2012, 11:01 PM
Oct 2012

are surprised when that organization acts on its intolerance. Surely he knew the church didn't tolerate being gay. It's like coming out in the boy scouts and then being shocked when they kick you out. If a group openly expresses their dislike for you, don't be surprised when they don't welcome you with open arms.

Shuhered

(200 posts)
16. Hateful Religion HATEFUL
Thu Oct 25, 2012, 08:48 AM
Oct 2012

These type of sociopathic organizations deserve to be taxed at triple Mitt. Romney's rate for 100 years and then back down to, ahem, normal taxation. Their take on homosexuality is sooooo dated and anti- human. Anti- kindness. Anti- loving that it's hypocrisy for those types of masses to gather to worship. They need an economic kick in the teeth, nothing else will wake them up. Tis buy was at risk to start drinking again and needed a support group, not stupid, dated and wrong judgment.

ibegurpard

(16,685 posts)
21. there are many welcoming congregations out there
Tue Oct 30, 2012, 01:07 PM
Oct 2012

why would anyone choose to associate with one that's not?

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