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FreeState

(10,572 posts)
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:34 PM Jun 2013

The double standard of protest methods pisses me off

Get Equal did nothing that has not been done in the past over and over by democrats for civil rights. Now its not okay because? I'd love to know the answer why gay people get berated for implanting standard protest methods that other democrats have apparent free reign to do with no push back.

Hetronormative superiority complex gone mad.

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The double standard of protest methods pisses me off (Original Post) FreeState Jun 2013 OP
Is there a news story or some background here? dballance Jun 2013 #1
Heres in GD FreeState Jun 2013 #3
Take a back seat. ForgoTheConsequence Jun 2013 #2
+1 n/t FreeState Jun 2013 #4
What? MuseRider Jun 2013 #5
It shows a huge undercurrent of people on DU who are not pro gay rights FreeState Jun 2013 #6
They have always been there. MuseRider Jun 2013 #7
I just had my first ever FreeState Jun 2013 #10
You won't see me around here much anymore. MuseRider Jun 2013 #11
Don't you dare! Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #12
I stop in MuseRider Jun 2013 #22
what BTH said mitchtv Jun 2013 #106
I seldom post anymore either. Too many stalkers and bullies, QC Jun 2013 #20
I really do miss it. MuseRider Jun 2013 #21
Back in the early days of DU, people used to ask me, QC Jun 2013 #25
You ain't kiddin'. Iggo Jun 2013 #37
I learned just this morning that The Guardian is a right wing newspaper. QC Jun 2013 #104
I saw that. Stupid, offensive, hypocritical, and typical of DU these days. yardwork Jun 2013 #27
+1,000 nt clarice Jun 2013 #26
Your post carries double meaning now. I know you know. Do others? Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #8
Michelle Obama has no political power, per se Summer Hathaway Jun 2013 #85
Did you post to the wrong person or were you just looking for a place to put strawmen? Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #99
... Summer Hathaway Jun 2013 #100
You keep asking me if I stopped beating my husband. Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #101
If MNBrewer Jun 2013 #112
No, no. Summer Hathaway Jun 2013 #114
of COURSE it makes sense MNBrewer Jun 2013 #115
OK, I see what you're saying Summer Hathaway Jun 2013 #117
What message was the First Lady delivering to the public that night? FreeState Jun 2013 #116
Exactly my point. Summer Hathaway Jun 2013 #118
Where you aware that Obama had not followed through before this event? FreeState Jun 2013 #120
What President Obama did or didn't do, Summer Hathaway Jun 2013 #121
Excuse me? FreeState Jun 2013 #122
I do sincerely aplogize. Summer Hathaway Jun 2013 #123
Okay, back with you ... Summer Hathaway Jun 2013 #124
IT IS NOT A DIFFERENT DISCUSSION MNBrewer Jun 2013 #125
She was invited Summer Hathaway Jun 2013 #129
This is the night I first laid my own two eyes on Barack Obama MNBrewer Jun 2013 #126
Yep, that was the night Summer Hathaway Jun 2013 #130
Then leave her out of it. MNBrewer Jun 2013 #134
FFS! Wheres a damn Host when you need one! William769 Jun 2013 #127
I dunno, yelling about executive orders to someone who wasn't elected, Warpy Jun 2013 #9
But she does have an official role. It is likely why she was at a political fundraiser. Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #13
There is NOTHING OFFICIAL about anything she does Warpy Jun 2013 #14
Then she shouldn't have been there. Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #15
I am really disappointed in you. William769 Jun 2013 #18
I'm disappointed in your views on this Marrah_G Jun 2013 #24
I would guess that Mrs Obama wakemeupwhenitsover Jun 2013 #84
That's not what angers me about this. yardwork Jun 2013 #28
By the way here is the jury result message from the lock FreeState Jun 2013 #71
Did anyone alert on the post that you replied to? wakemeupwhenitsover Jun 2013 #86
It was alerted on and not hidden. William769 Jun 2013 #87
Unbelievable. wakemeupwhenitsover Jun 2013 #88
It's rigged. nt William769 Jun 2013 #89
I alerted again. wakemeupwhenitsover Jun 2013 #90
Unfortunately that will not do nothing. William769 Jun 2013 #91
Its one of the reasons Im thinking my time is spent better elsewhere FreeState Jun 2013 #92
Agreed. William769 Jun 2013 #94
The gist of that thread: "How dare a commoner (especially a gay one) question the divine Ms. Obama!" nomorenomore08 Jun 2013 #16
What did you expect? Seriously, what did you expect? William769 Jun 2013 #17
"You either support me and my family 100% for equality or Zorra Jun 2013 #19
You are up against a cult of personality on here Marrah_G Jun 2013 #23
+1000 Fearless Jun 2013 #30
While we're at it, let's bookmark this little post too yardwork Jun 2013 #29
Holy cow! MuseRider Jun 2013 #31
Crazy how the average person would think nothing of that statement Fearless Jun 2013 #32
So I get a post hidden dbackjon Jun 2013 #33
I was on that jury. QC Jun 2013 #34
Obama worship - untouchable dbackjon Jun 2013 #35
Is it Obama worship or homophobia? I think it's mostly the latter. yardwork Jun 2013 #36
I do understand the anger; Call Me Wesley Jun 2013 #50
My disappointment with Obama has very little to do with gay rights. yardwork Jun 2013 #56
Then these need to be blocked. Call Me Wesley Jun 2013 #62
I'll give you a hint. Posts #51 and #59. yardwork Jun 2013 #63
That would be me. Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #72
The two go hand in hand MNBrewer Jun 2013 #98
That surprised me. Alerter would like to have us all banned. Call Me Wesley Jun 2013 #46
Here's another one: yardwork Jun 2013 #38
Lots of people letting their inner freepers come out and play today. QC Jun 2013 #39
Lots of "flypaper" threads today, that is for sure. Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #40
Do people really think they can get away MuseRider Jun 2013 #43
At the risk of getting banned... Behind the Aegis Jun 2013 #44
Was that alerted? MuseRider Jun 2013 #42
Not by me. I rarely bother anymore. yardwork Jun 2013 #47
Me too, in fact once the jury system MuseRider Jun 2013 #49
Oops. I replied to my own post instead of yours. See directly below. yardwork Jun 2013 #54
Don't miss this one, too. We're all racists, doncha know? yardwork Jun 2013 #53
Yep. Gotta love safe have groups! William769 Jun 2013 #55
I wonder what would happen if you or I walzed into the BOG and called them all homophobes. yardwork Jun 2013 #57
We already know the answer to that. William769 Jun 2013 #58
I can't post there MNBrewer Jun 2013 #113
I replied to that MuseRider Jun 2013 #64
Thank you, but if logic and facts were effective in fighting homophobia it wouldn't exist. yardwork Jun 2013 #66
I respect the Obamas... Libertas1776 Jun 2013 #41
Yes, that's exactly what happened here, same as so many times before. yardwork Jun 2013 #48
The sad fact is many people still hate us. hrmjustin Jun 2013 #45
You sure it's not white entitlement complex? Scootaloo Jun 2013 #51
Do you have a link to the "mountains of DUers" who supposedly cheered the heckler? yardwork Jun 2013 #52
Yet, here's this thread Scootaloo Jun 2013 #59
Post removed Post removed Jun 2013 #61
... William769 Jun 2013 #65
This DURHAM D Jun 2013 #68
Not anymore he isn't. Puglover Jun 2013 #69
... William769 Jun 2013 #70
Beat me by a minute. Call Me Wesley Jun 2013 #73
+1 Libertas1776 Jun 2013 #75
I'm now receiving PMs from this poster and others demanding yardwork Jun 2013 #76
Damn. ZombieHorde Jun 2013 #77
By all means direct them to me if you'd like. Fearless Jun 2013 #79
Will do! yardwork Jun 2013 #83
This is a safe group. Anti-LGBT sentiments have no place here. Fearless Jun 2013 #78
Post removed Post removed Jun 2013 #110
Really? MNBrewer Jun 2013 #119
I will admit to proudly cheering Ellen Sturtz on this site and on others. She's a hero to me. LonePirate Jun 2013 #80
If one of those so called mountains of DUers MuseRider Jun 2013 #60
You'll be delighted to know that six DUers totally agree with you! yardwork Jun 2013 #67
I suppose at this late date I should not be surprised MuseRider Jun 2013 #74
This post. This thread..... Vanje Jun 2013 #109
don't you dare mitchtv Jun 2013 #111
You sure it's not homophobia? MNBrewer Jun 2013 #131
It's not her department. It would be like MLK marching against the people in Pueblo, Colorado... Ian David Jun 2013 #81
You know what the topic of her speech was right? FreeState Jun 2013 #93
Yes, and it was at the house of a lesbian couple. n/t Ian David Jun 2013 #102
Whatever happened to Skinner's outreach to improve things for DU's LGBT community? LonePirate Jun 2013 #82
There has always been promises since the beginning FreeState Jun 2013 #95
So the DU admins tacitly approve of homophobia through their lack of action? LonePirate Jun 2013 #96
LCR certainly will be MNBrewer Jun 2013 #128
Yeah, when I heard about this on the radio I thought to myself MNBrewer Jun 2013 #97
du rec. xchrom Jun 2013 #103
I support Ellen Sturtz right to do this particularly for the cause she was fighting. stevenleser Jun 2013 #105
remember the "Be st of DU" threads? mitchtv Jun 2013 #107
+1 n/t FreeState Jun 2013 #108
Why are people unwilling to accept Mrs. Obama's OWN assessment MNBrewer Jun 2013 #132
Video of Mrs. Obama's confrontation with the protestor MNBrewer Jun 2013 #133
 

dballance

(5,756 posts)
1. Is there a news story or some background here?
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:39 PM
Jun 2013

I have no doubt that there is a double standard as you suggest. I'm just wondering about the specifics that got you to post.

ForgoTheConsequence

(4,868 posts)
2. Take a back seat.
Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:41 PM
Jun 2013

Gays and minorities take a backseat to the Obamas and the Democratic party. We're a big tent party as long as you don't upset the apple cart. Keep your little pet issues like equal rights and civil liberties to yourself.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
5. What?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:01 AM
Jun 2013

You expect her to stand there while the little people ask for their rights?

Sorry, I am sick of these two needing to be pushed and prodded on the most basic of ideas, the idea of equality. Of all people you would think those that benefited from civil rights fights before would understand.

Apparently you can scream and do all you want for your civil rights as long as it is not "our" president.

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
6. It shows a huge undercurrent of people on DU who are not pro gay rights
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:04 AM
Jun 2013

they are willing to sell us out in order to not look "rude" to themselves.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
7. They have always been there.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:23 AM
Jun 2013

Rude? There is nothing rude about interrupting a political speech. I don't care who it is, it is how we are structured. I am not, of course, speaking to you, you know this.

I am so sick of this constant protection of "our" or "my" president. I find the entire use of the possessive odd, creepy and disturbing. When "your" president does not support you are you suppose to just sit down and shut up and let it slide? "MY" president? Good lord that is just creepy.

I need to not say much more. I am angry and a little drunk having finished off my wine bottle rather than putting it away . I don't know this place anymore. I am so terribly sorry this is happening. I don't get it, this is not anything I am used to dealing with. My "side" has become as difficult as "their" side.

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
10. I just had my first ever
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:59 AM
Jun 2013

locked post over repeating verbatim what the poster above me said. Somehow I was being ""rude" but the poster I was replying to -- who posted the exact same words was not. Im taking a break, this place sometimes just is not worth it.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
11. You won't see me around here much anymore.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 01:07 AM
Jun 2013

I can't take it. I don't know where all the stupid came from ( I have my ideas) but it is not compatible with what I consider liberal thought. I post less and less as the years go by. It saddens me but it is what it is.

What you have just recounted to me is absolutely wrong. There are people here that do not belong here. Sadly these days I think more and more it is people like you and me.

Behind the Aegis

(53,957 posts)
12. Don't you dare!
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 01:29 AM
Jun 2013

We are losing too many good people, too fast! Don't leave me here all by lonesome! I got anti-Semites to battle too! C'mon!



(BTW, that is why in my post below I said Free State's post has taken on a double meaning, whether he intended it or not.)

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
22. I stop in
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:55 AM
Jun 2013

and check on things. Often I don't look for long. If I can keep myself to the Latest Page or read a story and no commentary I am OK. Nothing makes me angrier than to see nothing but time wasted and brains wasted without any point except to support someone even if you totally disagree and then to try to talk others into that same kind of support and call those who are the victims of it out for wanting too much. LGBT, women, so many others are thrown under the bus all so the undying love and support can continue. What a sad state we are in and little is being done to address the things that really matter or the things that are really killing this country and the planet.

I did get your double meaning. Hang in there, I don't know how you do it.

I hope you are not getting flooded. Up here my little area is getting enough rain to make for a great crop but not enough to fill the ponds back up. For some reason this little area is dryer than all the area around it Can't complain except I would love to look out my window and see my big pond full again Take care down there.

QC

(26,371 posts)
20. I seldom post anymore either. Too many stalkers and bullies,
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:35 AM
Jun 2013

and too little real information or discussion.

Remember what an education in politics and history and current events a person could once get here? Now we basically have a Yahoo message board for people who gush over politicians the way little girls go on about Justin Bieber.

It's sad to see what has happened to this place.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
21. I really do miss it.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 10:11 AM
Jun 2013

I got schooled early on when I first started posting. I knew what I was talking about but certainly did not understand the ins and outs of things. It took me a long time to actually get comfortable posting and I almost never start a thread. BUT I read and read and read and learned so much. I also fought and fought and fought for what I see, and can hardly accept that other "liberals" can't see, as the most important things this country needs to work on so that all people have an equal footing with which to seek that happiness we are all striving for. The stress of this shock doctrine type of governance and now a way of life is eating away at everyone. I am stunned to see so many responding to it with worship and "I will never stop loving you no matter what you do you are MINE" fealty to our government. Notice how often the use of MY president or OUR president is seen, many times in capital letters. We don't ever even disagree and fight about the issues anymore, it always seems to come down to support of the president. *sigh* Sorry, did not mean to go on like that.

I stop in every few days to read up on some things and occasionally will post a few times but then I am out of here.

QC

(26,371 posts)
25. Back in the early days of DU, people used to ask me,
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 11:39 AM
Jun 2013

"How do you know so much about politics?" I would tell them about DU.

Now, I stop by to read the headlines, but I would never recommend this place to anyone who is really looking for an education, much less a community.

Iggo

(47,552 posts)
37. You ain't kiddin'.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:51 PM
Jun 2013

The daily outrage wars are too embarrassing for me to recommend this site to anyone anymore.

QC

(26,371 posts)
104. I learned just this morning that The Guardian is a right wing newspaper.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 10:20 AM
Jun 2013

Fascinating piece of info there, so I guess it's not really fair to say that one can't learn anything interesting here anymore.

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
27. I saw that. Stupid, offensive, hypocritical, and typical of DU these days.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:10 PM
Jun 2013

I rarely post here anymore. I drop in to read the headlines and scan GD - and today I couldn't help noticing the number of threads about this incident. Reading the threads, I see all the usual suspects - the ones who over the years have always been the ones telling gay folks to sit down and shut up, while claiming that they love us, they really do - no surprises here at all.

It's pathetic.

Behind the Aegis

(53,957 posts)
8. Your post carries double meaning now. I know you know. Do others?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:32 AM
Jun 2013

I don't like hecklers or these type of actions. Outside an event, fine by me. However, I notice a GLARING difference when the topics differ. Sure, Obama is the President, and Mrs. Obama is the first lady, so not exactly the same thing. However, is it unreasonable to expect the first lady to have the ear of her husband. Sure, it doesn't always work out (ask the Jews about Roosevelt), but it can't hurt to try. People say..."oh she's the first lady, she doesn't have any power!" Well, then why was she at a political fundraiser?! If you are going to raise funds for politics or a politician, then you should be prepared to answer for those politics/politician.

It disgusts me that supposed liberals/progressives have no fucking problem pretending we (GLBT) have no right to speak up about our rights, but are damn sure expected to put out the money when needed, as well as vote.

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
85. Michelle Obama has no political power, per se
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 07:17 PM
Jun 2013

She was at a fundraiser because she's a big draw, and her 'power' in that forum is just that; she can help raise money.

Ms. Obama was invited to speak; Ms. Sturtz was not. And she was addressing an important issue, despite the fact that it was NOT the issue Ms. Strutz wanted her to address.

How would you react if Michelle was speaking about GLBT issues, and was interrupted by someone who wanted her to address the plight of inner-city children instead?

There are no liberals/progressives here who are "pretending the GLBT community have no right to speak up about their rights". None.

There are hundreds of incredibly important issues we face as a nation right now, and GLBT rights is certainly one of them. But it's not the only one.

Speaking to any one of those issues is NOT in any way dismissive of the others, nor is it appropriate for anyone to insist that when Michelle Obama speaks to one issue, she should be stopped mid-speech and address another topic entirely.

As I said, I'm sure if Michelle had been addressing GLBT rights and had been interrupted by a heckler, your opinion would be exactly the opposite of what you're saying now.

Behind the Aegis

(53,957 posts)
99. Did you post to the wrong person or were you just looking for a place to put strawmen?
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 12:05 AM
Jun 2013

The FLOTUS has no political power, but she does have power, which is why she was asked to speak. She was on a "soapbox" and it means she is delivering a message, and therefore, the potential for those speaking out against it or on something else exists.

Ms. Obama was invited to speak; Ms. Sturtz was not. And she was addressing an important issue, despite the fact that it was NOT the issue Ms. Strutz wanted her to address.

How would you react if Michelle was speaking about GLBT issues, and was interrupted by someone who wanted her to address the plight of inner-city children instead?


I don't like hecklers or these type of actions. I am not sure HOW you missed it given it is my FIRST sentence.

There are hundreds of incredibly important issues we face as a nation right now, and GLBT rights is certainly one of them. But it's not the only one.


Strawman bullshit. I dare you to find a single post, much less one I have written, that says anything of the sort.

Speaking to any one of those issues is NOT in any way dismissive of the others, nor is it appropriate for anyone to insist that when Michelle Obama speaks to one issue, she should be stopped mid-speech and address another topic entirely.


More straw! I will also remind you, I said; "I don't like hecklers or these type of actions."

As I said, I'm sure if Michelle had been addressing GLBT rights and had been interrupted by a heckler, your opinion would be exactly the opposite of what you're saying now.


That is not a strawman, it is just straight up stupid! Basically you are claiming I would support heckling the FLOTUS if she was speaking about GLBT issues.

And finally....

There are no liberals/progressives here who are "pretending the GLBT community have no right to speak up about their rights". None.


I don't like that you presume I don't know what I know. I suggest you look at a few of the posts that have been highlighted in the other threads in this forum about this topic, and explore GD on this topic. We are told how and when we have the right to speak; that is a fucking problem.

Finally, I am going to remind you this is the LGBT group. It is a safe group. You are posting on the razor's edge. Telling me and/or other GBLT people what we do and don't know, what we would or wouldn't do, denigrate our quest for equality, and other such generalizations of GLBT posters/people will lead to you being blocked from this group. If however, you post disagreements based on YOUR opinion and NOT telling others how they feel, what they believe, and what they would do; then you will be fine.

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
100. ...
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 01:13 AM
Jun 2013
"The FLOTUS has no political power, but she does have power, which is why she was asked to speak."

I don't understand what your argument is here, as I said exactly the same thing. "She was at a fundraiser because she's a big draw, and her 'power' in that forum is just that; she can help raise money."

"I don't like hecklers or these type of actions. I am not sure HOW you missed it given it is my FIRST sentence." I didn't miss it, nor did I dispute it.

"There are hundreds of incredibly important issues we face as a nation right now, and GLBT rights is certainly one of them. But it's not the only one."

Your response: "Strawman bullshit. I dare you to find a single post, much less one I have written, that says anything of the sort."

I didn't imply that you said anything of the sort.

"Basically you are claiming I would support heckling the FLOTUS if she was speaking about GLBT issues."

Uh, no, I was suggesting the exact opposite, by asking whether you would have supported a heckler who attempted to derail a FLOTUS speech about GLBT rights by insisting she address a different topic.

"There are no liberals/progressives here who are "pretending the GLBT community have no right to speak up about their rights". None."

I stand by that statement. If there are posters here who are "pretending the GLBT community have no right to speak up", they are NOT liberals or progressives. This site is full of trolls - and "pretending" to be what they're not is their stock-in-trade.

No one is telling you how to feel, speak, or react. That being said, my initial query remains: If Ms. Obama had been speaking about GLBT rights and was interrupted by someone insisting she speak about a different subject entirely, would the GLBT community be championing the heckler for steering the discussion away from the topic of GLBT rights?

I think it's a fair question. Is the heckler being defended on the basis of having the right to interrupt, or is she being defended on the basis of attempting to change the subject from inner-city kids to GLBT issues?




Behind the Aegis

(53,957 posts)
101. You keep asking me if I stopped beating my husband.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 01:54 AM
Jun 2013
"I don't like hecklers or these type of actions. I am not sure HOW you missed it given it is my FIRST sentence." I didn't miss it, nor did I dispute it."

You did dispute it by making this false claim: I'm sure if Michelle had been addressing GLBT rights and had been interrupted by a heckler, your opinion would be exactly the opposite of what you're saying now.

Uh, no, I was suggesting the exact opposite, by asking whether you would have supported a heckler who attempted to derail a FLOTUS speech about GLBT rights by insisting she address a different topic.


Uh, no, you claimed, "I'm sure if Michelle had been addressing GLBT rights and had been interrupted by a heckler, your opinion would be exactly the opposite of what you're saying now. You didn't ask me, you told me what my opinion would be.

There are no liberals/progressives here who are "pretending the GLBT community have no right to speak up about their rights". None."

I stand by that statement.


Of course, you do; it is your strawman. Again, you are telling me what is and isn't happening, but you didn't even quote me correctly. Here is the actual statement I made:

It disgusts me that supposed liberals/progressives have no fucking problem pretending we (GLBT) have no right to speak up about our rights, but are damn sure expected to put out the money when needed, as well as vote.


No one is telling you how to feel, speak, or react.


Several people are doing this, including YOU!

That being said, my initial query remains: If Ms. Obama had been speaking about GLBT rights and was interrupted by someone insisting she speak about a different subject entirely, would the GLBT community be championing the heckler for steering the discussion away from the topic of GLBT rights?


This is a "no truthiness" zone! Your initial query was:

How would you react if Michelle was speaking about GLBT issues, and was interrupted by someone who wanted her to address the plight of inner-city children instead?


I answered it already, but see how you changed to "the GLBT community?" See how you keep implying "the GLBT community" is "championing the heckler"? Then you change your question and act as if it is the same one:

Is the heckler being defended on the basis of having the right to interrupt, or is she being defended on the basis of attempting to change the subject from inner-city kids to GLBT issues?


I will go out on a limb and speak for a number of GLBT people here; most of the posts I have seen HAVE NOT SUPPORTED HECKLING the FLOTUS. For those "defending" the heckler, most have done so because they believe she had the right to say what she did. So, why don't you ask someone who is actually defending the heckler why they are doing so?

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
112. If
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 06:14 PM
Jun 2013

"As I said, I'm sure if Michelle had been addressing GLBT rights and had been interrupted by a heckler, your opinion would be exactly the opposite of what you're saying now."

If the exact same thing had happened, I'd STILL be applauding the protestor for standing up for GLBT equality even DURING a GLBT Rights address. Is GLBT equality an inconvenient topic for you?

Sorry

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
114. No, no.
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 06:28 PM
Jun 2013

I was in no way talking about someone interrupting a speech on GLBT rights in order to say something about GLBT rights - which doesn't even make any sense.

I am asking whether a heckler interrupting a speech on one topic in order to demand the speaker address a different topic makes a difference as to how one views the heckler's behavior.

I raised the point because I wondered if people were judging Ms. Sturtz' behavior based on the behavior itself, or based on the issue she was attempting to have addressed.





MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
115. of COURSE it makes sense
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 06:58 PM
Jun 2013

If the person making the speech is moving TOO SLOW, for example.

How do you separate the "behavior" vs. the message?

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
117. OK, I see what you're saying
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 07:13 PM
Jun 2013

about a speaker going too slow, not getting to the point, etc.

But that wasn't the intent of my question. I was talking about someone interrupting one topic in order to get the speaker to address a different topic entirely.

I think one can separate the behavior from the message. Example: You might be really pissed-off if someone interrupted a topic you were keenly interested in, but feel completely differently if that same person interrupted a topic you were bored with in order to have the topic changed to something you were more interested in.

In those situations, people might see the same behavior of interruption as rude in one instance, or welcome in another, depending on the topic of discussion.



FreeState

(10,572 posts)
116. What message was the First Lady delivering to the public that night?
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 07:09 PM
Jun 2013

It was a private fund raiser (that everyone in attendance paid via an invite to attend). She wasn't making a public statement on anything. People were there to see her speak on any topic, it was a fundraiser for the party not for the topic she was addressing at that moment.

That being said, the whole purpose of heckling is to be rude to the point that the press covers the topic. It looks like it worked too.

Contrary to some comments on DU that say it was rude to heckle her, I'd like too point out that there is not such thing as polite or kind heckling - it would defeat the point.

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
118. Exactly my point.
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 07:21 PM
Jun 2013
Private fundrasier that people paid to attend. Michelle was invited to speak, and to choose to speak on whatever topic she wanted to.

I doubt that any of the attendees paid to hear Ms. Sturtz speak, nor was she invited to by those hosting the event.

As to rude behavior at a private event, yes, that'll get you lots of publicity. And a lot of that publicity has garnered a negative reaction. I don't think the issue of GLBT rights was served well in this case.

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
120. Where you aware that Obama had not followed through before this event?
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 09:02 PM
Jun 2013

Just curious if you knew that he had promised to sign an executive order and had failed for 5 years to do so before this event?

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
121. What President Obama did or didn't do,
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 09:20 PM
Jun 2013

said or didn't say, promised or didn't promise, has nothing to do with the query I've posed in my OP. Absolutely nothing.

If you'd like to discuss what I've posted in my OP, I am more than happy to do so.

But I (not unlike Michelle, as it somewhat ironically turns out), am not obligated to change the topic I've posted about in order to discuss what you want to discuss instead.

If you think the topic you want to discuss has merit, I suggest you post it as an OP and invite discussion on that point.










FreeState

(10,572 posts)
122. Excuse me?
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 09:22 PM
Jun 2013

I was curious as to weather it enlightened anyone or it went over their head.

By the way - I started the OP not you! Look at the top. You replied to my OP not the other way around. THis is a safe heaven group for the lGBT community - stop attacking me for asking a question in my own thread.

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
123. I do sincerely aplogize.
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 09:35 PM
Jun 2013

I have been responding to posts on my own OP all day - and assumed that your reply was another one in that thread.

Color me Blush Pink -

And I really DO apologize for not being more cognizant of who I was responding to, and in what context.

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
124. Okay, back with you ...
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 10:29 PM
Jun 2013

Now that I have reoriented myself (as to which thread I was responding in), my statement still stands.

What President Obama did or didn't say, do, or promise has no bearing on the fact that the FLOTUS was an invited speaker at a private event. Ms. Sturtz was NOT an invited speaker, and had no right to demand to be heard.

Your OP asserts that "Get Equal did nothing that has not been done in the past over and over by democrats for civil rights."

If you have any links to Democrats heckling any previous Republican First Ladies at private fundraisers, I'd like to see them. Doing so has never been a "standard protest method".

As much as you might want to dispute it, context and circumstances DO count.

Had Ms. Sturtz heckled the President at a public gathering, this would be a different discussion. But she didn't.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
125. IT IS NOT A DIFFERENT DISCUSSION
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 10:33 PM
Jun 2013

Splitting hairs between POTUS and FLOTUS is disgusting in this context. They're either a political power couple (as the Barack Obama Group of hagiographers seem to want is to believe) or they're not. If not, then why was she invited?

You should be ashamed of yourself!

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
129. She was invited
Sun Jun 9, 2013, 02:01 AM
Jun 2013

because it was a fundraiser, and she's a big draw.

If you don't know the difference between an elected president and his non-elected, non-office holding wife - well, I really don't have the time to explain it to you.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
126. This is the night I first laid my own two eyes on Barack Obama
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 10:41 PM
Jun 2013

It was June 3, 2008 at the Excel Center in St. Paul MN. It was the night he clinched the nomination for the Democratic Party's Presidential candidate. Note who is with him. If we're to leave her out of it, she should perhaps leave herself out of it!

Summer Hathaway

(2,770 posts)
130. Yep, that was the night
Sun Jun 9, 2013, 02:05 AM
Jun 2013

HE clinched the nomination.

Michelle, on the other hand, was not nominated - for POTUS, or anything else. She was there as his wife.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
134. Then leave her out of it.
Sun Jun 9, 2013, 12:03 PM
Jun 2013

Either she's to be left out of it, or not. I guess she's not, based on her OWN behavior.

Warpy

(111,261 posts)
9. I dunno, yelling about executive orders to someone who wasn't elected,
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 12:49 AM
Jun 2013

is not getting a government paycheck, and has absolutely no official role in this administration probably isn't the best tactic.

Heckling Congress, on the other hand, would not be getting any of the "double standard" posts. Go right ahead, those intransigent old farts need it desperately and they do have the power to pass necessary legislation.

Behind the Aegis

(53,957 posts)
13. But she does have an official role. It is likely why she was at a political fundraiser.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 01:34 AM
Jun 2013

Also, if one is going to raise funds for politics/politicians, then they should be prepared to answer for those politics/politicians. That said, I don't care for heckling and find these displays non-productive. It is true she is not an elected official and may have no "official" role, as in setting policy, but she does serve as "First Lady" and she does, for all intents and purposes, have the ear of one of the most powerful men on the planet.

Warpy

(111,261 posts)
14. There is NOTHING OFFICIAL about anything she does
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:10 AM
Jun 2013

Look at her paycheck.

Pillow talk is hugely overrated.

William769

(55,147 posts)
18. I am really disappointed in you.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 08:31 AM
Jun 2013

I would have thought better. She was there to raise money. Whats not official about that?

wakemeupwhenitsover

(68,751 posts)
84. I would guess that Mrs Obama
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 07:13 PM
Jun 2013

has a lot more pull than 'pillow talk'. I find the term 'pillow talk' pretty offensive between a husband & wife who've been working together for years. Makes her sound like some weekend prostitute.

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
28. That's not what angers me about this.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:17 PM
Jun 2013

I'm not a big fan of heckling anybody. I tend to think that it does more harm than good. And I'm a strong supporter of Bradley Manning. I believe in whistleblowing and I believe that sometimes it's our moral duty to do things that are "illegal."

What angers me is that the heckling incident was jumped on by a bunch of DUers who have a long history of attacking LGBT people and their allies, and the many threads of handwringing over the incident are filled with posts like the one mentioned in the OP. Did you read the post at the link? A DUer posted to a gay DUer that he "has plenty of rights." Another DUer told a gay DUer to "shut the fuck up" and the post was not hidden, but the retort from the gay DUer that cut and pasted the same words was hidden. In other words, gay people have enough rights, and straight DUers are allowed to tell gay DUers to shut the fuck up but if one of us queers responds in kind we'll get our post hidden.

The discussion on DU today is not about whether or not it's right to heckle a First Lady. This "discussion" is nothing but a free-for-all opportunity to kick gay DUers in the teeth over and over again, including the vast majority of us who didn't express an opinion about the heckling one way or the other.

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
71. By the way here is the jury result message from the lock
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:58 PM
Jun 2013

(good to see you BTW!)


AUTOMATED MESSAGE: One of your posts has been hidden by a DU Jury

At Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:13 PM, an alert was sent on the following post:

Stand up for minority rights
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2948022

REASON FOR ALERT:

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate. (See <a href="http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=aboutus#communitystandards" target="_blank">Community Standards</a>.)

ALERTER'S COMMENTS:

Personal attack in response to another personal attack which will also be alerted on.

JURY RESULTS

A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of this alert at Tue Jun 4, 2013, 11:17 PM, and voted 4-2 to HIDE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT and said: Personal attack is personal attack.
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given
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Juror #6 voted to HIDE IT and said: poster being a jerk all over the thread

CONSEQUENCES OF THIS DECISION

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FreeState

(10,572 posts)
92. Its one of the reasons Im thinking my time is spent better elsewhere
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 07:34 PM
Jun 2013

This "community standards" jury system does not work for minorities. We can be lashed out against and the moment we speak back we are silenced. Skinner has known about this for a while, years, I see no actual work on his part to correct it (and allowing threads were can vent is not addressing the homophobia on DU).

nomorenomore08

(13,324 posts)
16. The gist of that thread: "How dare a commoner (especially a gay one) question the divine Ms. Obama!"
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:40 AM
Jun 2013

I have nothing against the Obamas - whatever my differences with them RE: policy, I find them likable enough on a personal level. But the unquestioning hero worship, and more so the demand that others do likewise, leaves me downright incredulous. And check out the low-count poster putting folks on Ignore at the slightest provocation!

William769

(55,147 posts)
17. What did you expect? Seriously, what did you expect?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 08:29 AM
Jun 2013

I saw in that thread exactly what I expected to see in that thread nothing more, nothing less.

It's as simple as this you are either for equality all the time or your just rally don't give a shit and are only for it when you want a pat on the pat on the back to make yourself feel good. There is no middle ground and people who think there is are delusional.

And politicians (and their wives) are worse at it than regular folk. I wished she would have given up the mike and walked out (I for one don't need the lip service). And as to her having no power as so many people have stated in that thread then why was she even there and why would it matter if she walked out or not? Money thats why. With Money comes power. I saw a lot of stupidity going on in that thread, no not ignorance plain old stupidity from what we see on a daily basis from the right (I even saw a couple of their plays right out of their very own play book used.

Our civil rights is a fucking game to them and to those who support them blindly. Thats what it boils down to.

You either support me and my family 100% for equality or you can go fuck yourself. Yes I'm plain spoken and people will just have to deal with it.

Zorra

(27,670 posts)
19. "You either support me and my family 100% for equality or
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 09:23 AM
Jun 2013

you can go fuck yourself."


I feel the same way, Bill. I'm thinking about stealing that and making it my sig line.

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
29. While we're at it, let's bookmark this little post too
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:25 PM
Jun 2013
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2948042

I find the signature line to be particularly ironic in this case:

Star Member demosincebirth (8,940 posts)
156. They can do anything they want that is legal. Even marry in many states.

People with no empathy anything is permitted. Morality becomes very subjective and flexable

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
31. Holy cow!
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:38 PM
Jun 2013

Short and sweet huh?

"People with no empathy anything is permitted. Morality becomes very subjective and flexable" <--- exactly

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
32. Crazy how the average person would think nothing of that statement
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 02:39 PM
Jun 2013

And yet its very offensive. Very patronizing too.

QC

(26,371 posts)
34. I was on that jury.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:20 PM
Jun 2013

You're right. There is genuine personality cultism around here. But one must never say so.

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
36. Is it Obama worship or homophobia? I think it's mostly the latter.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:33 PM
Jun 2013

There's a cult of personality, sure. And those who participate in the cult tend to be more conservative, because, after all, it's hard for a very progressive person to be particularly enthusiastic about Obama. But would a person who is primarily interested in defending the president say that gay people have enough rights? Would a person who is solely motivated by a cult of personality state that gay people should stop asking for more rights because we can already do anything that's legal, even get married in some states? Those statements are not reflective of defending the president, they're reflective of the posters' contempt for gay people.

Call Me Wesley

(38,187 posts)
50. I do understand the anger;
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:58 PM
Jun 2013

I do not so much understand the personality cult. Of course, Obama being President is the best thing that ever happened. No, this is not the least sarcastic: It is the best thing and the most progressive thing that ever happened to the US. Whole Europe and other countries sighed in relief; and I even remember the rather conservative newspapers here describing the end of Bush as 'the end of a nightmare.'

Still, it's the political system you have there that is very stuck. Two parties; compromises almost impossible. They can block each other forever and ever. That's how it is.

While I do believe that Obama is in full favour of marriage equality, his strategy is still timid and withholding, seeking for bi-partisanship, which he just won't get. So I really hope that the State legislators will bring in one state after the other in favour of equality. That might send a message.

As for this poster, I just replied to them. I agree fully on the contempt shown. It's actually disgusting, but I've seen so many on here. That's like saying, 'what are you complaining about? There are drinking fountains for you. There's a sign above it that says 'Gays.'

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
56. My disappointment with Obama has very little to do with gay rights.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:23 PM
Jun 2013

He's not particularly progressive in any area, but that's neither here nor there on this issue. This thread is about the blatant homophobia being displayed by a bunch of our old friends, culminating in being called racists right here in this protected forum.

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
63. I'll give you a hint. Posts #51 and #59.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:33 PM
Jun 2013

Are you the one who's a host of a hate site? If so, got a link? I need a new place to hang out.

Behind the Aegis

(53,957 posts)
72. That would be me.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 06:01 PM
Jun 2013

I host at a site which is no longer really functioning, a post here and there (30 in 6 months). It is a "hate" site because we don't believe Israel is the bane of all evil and should be destroyed or that Jews are evil. It is one of the reasons these type of posters follow me around the site.

ETA: It is mainly about Israel, but "fag bashing" is not allowed.

Call Me Wesley

(38,187 posts)
46. That surprised me. Alerter would like to have us all banned.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:45 PM
Jun 2013

Here's the alert and jury (I was #6: )

At Wed Jun 5, 2013, 01:24 PM an alert was sent on the following post:

No doubt
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2950590

REASON FOR ALERT:

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate. (See <a href="http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=aboutus#communitystandards" target="_blank">Community Standards</a>.)

ALERTER'S COMMENTS:

I am sick as shit of the "worship" and Messiah meme. It is not only belittling, it originated as a Rightwing meme bashing Democrats for voting for personality because we're too stupid to vote on the issues. Frankly, I wish they would consider putting this on the list of things to PPR a poster's ass.

JURY RESULTS

You served on a randomly-selected Jury of DU members which reviewed this post. The review was completed at Wed Jun 5, 2013, 01:37 PM, and the Jury voted 4-2 to HIDE IT.

Juror #1 voted to HIDE IT and said: I concur with the alerting poster. There is much to criticize in Obama's policies, but dismissing support of the President as "worship" is simply an attempt to mock his supporters.
Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT and said: No explanation given
Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT and said: Hide it. Post fails on a basic current events basis.
Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT and said: No explanation given
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: This is a particularly frivolous alert. If the alerter's sensibilities are truly this delicate, then perhaps he or she should take up something more appropriate than internet discussion, like china painting or knitting.
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: Personal opinion. This is not a rightwing meme at all as the alerter wants us to make believe. This is an issue about equality, and yes, there's a long way to go. To try to silence advocates of equality speaks more about the alerter than the alerted post. But the alerter would sure be cool if we're all banned asses. Pitiful and disgusting.

Thank you very much for participating in our Jury system, and we hope you will be able to participate again in the future.

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
38. Here's another one:
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 03:52 PM
Jun 2013
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=2949793

In response to the post about all the rights that LGBT people enjoy, this post:

Star Member Floyd_Gondolli (1,130 posts)
373. It's never enough and it will never be enough

For those who covet the struggle.

QC

(26,371 posts)
39. Lots of people letting their inner freepers come out and play today.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:03 PM
Jun 2013

Most are exactly the very ones one would expect it of, too.

Few surprises today.

Behind the Aegis

(53,957 posts)
40. Lots of "flypaper" threads today, that is for sure.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:08 PM
Jun 2013

I see some of our old "friends" are ramping up the "GLBT group is racist" crap again. I guess the "viper pit" is open for business.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
43. Do people really think they can get away
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:26 PM
Jun 2013

with standing against your equality but being supportive of civil rights for others? Sure they do.

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
47. Not by me. I rarely bother anymore.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:48 PM
Jun 2013

I'm very surprised to find myself posting here today. I've rarely posted on DU for months. Waste of time.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
49. Me too, in fact once the jury system
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:55 PM
Jun 2013

was in place and I had participated I saw no need to alert. I don't post much here either. I miss it but yes, it is sadly a waste of time. It is really good to see you, I am glad we are at least posting on the same day

That was a stunning post. Wow.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
64. I replied to that
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:35 PM
Jun 2013

probably very ineffectively but mostly because I have been saying I thought the heckling was OK and I did not want the "mountains of DUers" to be those of us who are not LGBT and you having to deal with the fallout by association.

Fixed an error

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
66. Thank you, but if logic and facts were effective in fighting homophobia it wouldn't exist.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:37 PM
Jun 2013

When NOM is handing out paychecks for astroturfers to blanket DU and other sites with the accusation that all gay folks are racists, things like truth and facts are just brushed aside.

Libertas1776

(2,888 posts)
41. I respect the Obamas...
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:08 PM
Jun 2013

I do. I do not generally like heckling. I do think the heckler woman could have handled herself better. However, I also think Obama could have handled herself better. As one poster put it in a GD thread, it was as if she was saying "Do YOU know who I AM??" And then threatening to leave, sort of punishing everyone because of one person's actions. I would have been insulted by that if I was in this $500 a pop crowd, not applauding her.

What really really irked me in the GD thread going around now was that in order to really make the incident even more divisive, some posters have resorted to "pulling rank" and inject race into the matter, to somehow lessen the lesbian woman's civil rights plight and accuse her of racism. When you start pulling rank in matters of civil rights, claiming that yours are more important than theirs, instead of them all being of equal importance, you lose all grounds for making a cognizant argument. To deflect legitimate cries for gay equality by trumping the race of the Obamas is disgusting and DU should be ashamed of itself. But then again, I am one "teh gay" too so my opinion still takes a backseat around these parts it seems.

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
48. Yes, that's exactly what happened here, same as so many times before.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 04:50 PM
Jun 2013

Today's DU reminds me quite a bit of DU circa November 2008. I'll say no more.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
51. You sure it's not white entitlement complex?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:10 PM
Jun 2013

Because let's see here.

Michelle Obama is a black woman who has no legislative, judicial, or executive power at all. She gets heckled, and mountains of DU'ers cheer for it.

Innumerable white male lawmakers, judges, and executors actively promote an anti-gay agenda, and go unheckled, with nary a peep of disappointment from the same DU'ers.

You aren't pissed off by double standards. You're pissed that the absurdity of your own double standard is being called out.

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
52. Do you have a link to the "mountains of DUers" who supposedly cheered the heckler?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:15 PM
Jun 2013

Because I don't see it. I see the usual homophobic libel that we're all racists who are cheering for Ms. Obama to be heckled, but I don't see many posts actually supporting the heckling.

For instance, I am on record here in this forum as stating that I disagree with heckling on principle. You won't see a post from me supporting the heckling. You will see posts from me noting that a bunch of homophobic DUers are claiming that all gays are racists again. Yawn.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
59. Yet, here's this thread
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:28 PM
Jun 2013

Plenty of people in the thread the OP linked. Just got done rolling my eyes at Quinnox's silly poll. Read several others.

I'm not saying "all gays are racists," but nice try. I'm saying that supporting heckling against a black woman with no power to change the situation, while ignoring the white men who are the cause of the problem is what's not only racist, but misogynist.

Oh, for the record? One of the posters in this thread is in fact a moderator on a racist hate-site. So just keep that in mind when you start thinking everyone defending Ellen Sturtz is pure as the driven snow.

Response to Scootaloo (Reply #59)

Libertas1776

(2,888 posts)
75. +1
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 06:49 PM
Jun 2013

wow they're really scraping the barrel now, aren't they? In a previous post to this OP, I had mentioned how people like that like to inject divisiveness by "pulling rank" and placing their civil rights above others, rather than keep all in an equal footing. The example I had mentioned was a question of race, with DUers accusing the heckler of being racist. But now, we're misogynist to boot!! Shame on that privileged white lesbian for voicing a cry for her civil rights (admittedly not the best medium (heckling)to accomplish it IMO but thats beside the point) she was clearly trying to inflict her white privilege on the totally apolitical first lady!!

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
76. I'm now receiving PMs from this poster and others demanding
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 06:52 PM
Jun 2013

that I prove that I'm not a bigoted white misogynistic racist queer by publicly repudiating "the gay community" for their vicious attack on the First Lady. I've been told to post in GD that I am opposed to the heckling....or else.

It's nauseating.

Fearless

(18,421 posts)
78. This is a safe group. Anti-LGBT sentiments have no place here.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 06:59 PM
Jun 2013

Calling LGBTers misogynistic and/or racist has no place here.

Response to Scootaloo (Reply #59)

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
119. Really?
Sat Jun 8, 2013, 07:22 PM
Jun 2013

I missed that. When did a white man replace Barack Obama as the person who issues Presidential executive orders?

LonePirate

(13,424 posts)
80. I will admit to proudly cheering Ellen Sturtz on this site and on others. She's a hero to me.
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 07:01 PM
Jun 2013

I applaud her courage for speaking out on this issue. Sometimes you have to be employ some civil disobedience to get your point across, just like the Monday sit-in protestors in North Carolina.

MuseRider

(34,109 posts)
60. If one of those so called mountains of DUers
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:30 PM
Jun 2013

would include me you should know, I am an ally not LGBT. Don't lay it on them.

Personally I am not a fan except when there is no other recourse, and this seems to be the case here. Only my opinion but then I enjoy a little stirring up of the complacency of the haves.

yardwork

(61,619 posts)
67. You'll be delighted to know that six DUers totally agree with you!
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:39 PM
Jun 2013

But then, we already knew that more than six DUers are out and out homophobes.

At Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:20 PM you sent an alert on the following post:

You sure it's not white entitlement complex?
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1137&pid=27421

REASON FOR ALERT:

This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate. (See <a href="http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=aboutus#communitystandards" target="_blank">Community Standards</a>.)

YOUR COMMENTS:

Oh boy. Same old boring accusation that all gay DUers are racists. Very few DUers, gay or otherwise, are supporting the heckling. This thread (in a protected forum) is discussing homophobia. Please hide this post from a visitor dropping in to call us all racists. Thanks.

JURY RESULTS

A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of this alert at Wed Jun 5, 2013, 05:36 PM, and voted 0-6 to LEAVE IT ALONE.

Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given
Juror #2 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: There are plenty of people discussing this who are, in fact, out and out racists. And yes, I'm referring to DUers. Nothing in the post merits hiding. The poster is indeed merely pointing out the racial dynamics that are very clearly driving these discussions, and that makes the alerter uncomfortable, apparently. Tough cookies. The poster is correct in his or her description of the obvious racism driving the celebration of the heckling and the "shock" at Ms. Obama's reaction.
Juror #3 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: To point out possible double standards is not a charge of racism.
Juror #4 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: I think the post is WRONG. DUers certainly make a 'peep' about anti-gender legislation. But this is still an opinion.
Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: The alert seems to be a stretch. The poster did not say that all gay DUers are racists, even if the alerter infers it.
Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE and said: No explanation given

Thank you.

Vanje

(9,766 posts)
109. This post. This thread.....
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 11:09 PM
Jun 2013

....is why I don't do DU anymore.

Jeezus. I poke in after months away, and find this shit.

Gay people, People who oppose never-ending war, never ending imprisonment without trial, People who dont like wire-tapping by the Federal Gov, or pipelines and fracking ruining our environment, for selling our energy resources overseas....People like some of us ......You know..LIBERALS!
DU is not for us.

Don't clutter your ignore list with me. I'm GONE.


Ian David

(69,059 posts)
81. It's not her department. It would be like MLK marching against the people in Pueblo, Colorado...
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 07:01 PM
Jun 2013

... who send you the free pamphlets you request from the government.

You want to bring-up gay rights, you bring it to President Obama or someone in the Justice Department.

If you want to heckle Michelle Obama, it should be something to do with her nutrition program.

LonePirate

(13,424 posts)
82. Whatever happened to Skinner's outreach to improve things for DU's LGBT community?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 07:04 PM
Jun 2013

Wasn't the treatment of LGBT DU members a huge issue a couple of years back? Weren't there promises to improve relations and reduce some of the virulent homophobia on this site?

FreeState

(10,572 posts)
95. There has always been promises since the beginning
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 07:36 PM
Jun 2013

all that has ever come of the promises is letting us vent with no real action taken IMO.

LonePirate

(13,424 posts)
96. So the DU admins tacitly approve of homophobia through their lack of action?
Wed Jun 5, 2013, 07:42 PM
Jun 2013

That might explain all of the LGBT hatred and bigotry that has infested this site. The way things are going, FR will be a friendlier place for LGBT Americans than DU will be.

 

stevenleser

(32,886 posts)
105. I support Ellen Sturtz right to do this particularly for the cause she was fighting.
Thu Jun 6, 2013, 01:21 PM
Jun 2013

I'm not sure I would have supported her doing it for any other reason. It does make me sad to see the First Lady Heckled, but LGBT equality is too important to attack her for what she did.

MNBrewer

(8,462 posts)
132. Why are people unwilling to accept Mrs. Obama's OWN assessment
Sun Jun 9, 2013, 08:08 AM
Jun 2013

of her skill at dealing with heckling/protestors? She said "One of the things I don't do well is this"

She DIDN'T deal with it well! We should all be agreeing with her on this.

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