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theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 03:33 PM Aug 2014

My love and I did something wonderful yesterday

I normally don't post about personal stuff on DU but you'll have to pardon me this once. Yesterday my love & I drove to Maryland and got our marriage license. Yes, after 24 years we will soon be legally married! We celebrated by exploring the many arts & crafts businesses in downtown Frederick, shopped for wedding rings and then had a lovely, quiet lunch. It was such a wonderful, wonderful day and thanks to the many friendly people of Maryland who made this possible. I have to say I have a tear in my eye just thinking that after nearly a quarter century together we'll get to say "I do". I am so damn lucky to have such an incredible woman in my life that I just wanted to share.

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My love and I did something wonderful yesterday (Original Post) theHandpuppet Aug 2014 OP
Mazel tov! shenmue Aug 2014 #1
Thanks, shenmue! theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #2
Congratulations. I'm very happy for you. Arkansas Granny Aug 2014 #3
Thanks so much! theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #6
Congratulations! I wish you alsame Aug 2014 #4
The first 24 have been so grand... theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #7
My cousin and her wife got married after alsame Aug 2014 #11
All the best! nt littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #5
Ah, thankee, Miss SmartyP theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #8
Congratulations! oldandhappy Aug 2014 #9
I'm the one getting the better of this bargain theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #10
Congratulations! brer cat Aug 2014 #12
I thought it was definitely worth making an exception theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #13
Best wishes! CrispyQ Aug 2014 #14
I wish the same for all my LGBT brothers and sisters theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #15
Congrats! Sounds like a lovely day, hope your wedding is as well. Best to you both. pinto Aug 2014 #16
Thank you! theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #17
Your post gave me a very warm feeling in my heart BrotherIvan Aug 2014 #18
I've always been appreciative of all your support theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #19
Congrats ! DURHAM D Aug 2014 #20
Thank you! theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #22
awwwww, thank you for sharing this lovely time with us. I am sorry you had to niyad Aug 2014 #21
We decided we simply couldn't wait any longer. theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #23
Wow! That is just.... AWESOME! Kath1 Aug 2014 #24
Please pass along our appreciation to our LGBT allies up there theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #25
I'll pass it along gladly! Kath1 Aug 2014 #35
Brava to the two of you, theHandpuppet! sheshe2 Aug 2014 #26
That is gorgeous. n/t TDale313 Aug 2014 #28
Thank you! Boomer Aug 2014 #30
Hey Boomer... sheshe2 Aug 2014 #33
I want you to know I'm going to hear about this cake all night theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #32
ROFL~ sheshe2 Aug 2014 #34
Aww! Congrats. TDale313 Aug 2014 #27
Thanks! theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #29
Indeed we could not Boomer Aug 2014 #31
Its been a long time handpuppet riversedge Aug 2014 #36
Congratulations to you and your wife. LuvNewcastle Aug 2014 #37
wishing y'all the best Skittles Aug 2014 #38
Congratulations to you and your betrothed. cbayer Aug 2014 #39
Congratulations! unhappycamper Aug 2014 #40
Thanks, everyone, for all your well wishes theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #41
Congratulations, best wishes, and please make another exception to post a wedding photo. (n/t) Jim Lane Aug 2014 #42
You do realize we're a couple of old farts, don't you? theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #43
You do realize we'll all be celebrating with you anyway, don't you? Jim Lane Aug 2014 #44
Ha-ha! But how will you know? theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #45
Good point. We'll have to send a DU operative with a camera to crash your wedding. (n/t) Jim Lane Aug 2014 #47
Congratulations to both of you! nomorenomore08 Aug 2014 #46
Thanks very much theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #50
Congrats! Behind the Aegis Aug 2014 #48
Thanks! theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #49
It is an awesome feeling....Congratulations...these are posts we love here on DU... Tikki Aug 2014 #51
Thanks, Tikki! theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #54
Congratulations Not Me Aug 2014 #52
I know what you mean now theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #55
Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! RKP5637 Aug 2014 #53
Thankee kindly!! theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #56
still waiting for pics!! niyad Aug 2014 #57
Well, we're not hitched yet theHandpuppet Aug 2014 #58

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
7. The first 24 have been so grand...
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 04:03 PM
Aug 2014

... I can't imagine how it could get any better. When she held that marriage certificate with tears in her eyes, it just brought home how hard, in so many little ways, it has been to be denied marriage for so long.

alsame

(7,784 posts)
11. My cousin and her wife got married after
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 04:08 PM
Aug 2014

15 years together and 2 kids, so I know what you mean. And in their case, they were able to come home to NY and get married, which made it even more poignant for them

All the best!

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
8. Ah, thankee, Miss SmartyP
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 04:05 PM
Aug 2014

Yesterday was one of the best days of my life... soon to be overshadowed by THE very best day.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
15. I wish the same for all my LGBT brothers and sisters
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 04:40 PM
Aug 2014

I know so many couples who still can't marry. To them I can only say, "Your day will come". I wish them all the happiness my honey & I are sharing right now.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
18. Your post gave me a very warm feeling in my heart
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 05:09 PM
Aug 2014

Thanks for sharing so much love with us. I hope your wedding is a wonderful day and hope you post about that as well. Best wishes to you both.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
19. I've always been appreciative of all your support
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 05:14 PM
Aug 2014

Thanks so much for your kind wishes -- I hope soon to share the news of our "official" day.

niyad

(113,552 posts)
21. awwwww, thank you for sharing this lovely time with us. I am sorry you had to
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 07:22 PM
Aug 2014

wait so long. may you have many, many more years together.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
23. We decided we simply couldn't wait any longer.
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 08:15 PM
Aug 2014

When that Virginia decision came down, it became obvious we really couldn't depend on marriage equality coming to West Virginia any time soon. Even after we marry in Maryland our marriage won't be recognized here but it's still important to us.

Kath1

(4,309 posts)
24. Wow! That is just.... AWESOME!
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 10:00 PM
Aug 2014

I am soooo proud to be one of those "many friendly people of Maryland who made this possible" by working for marriage equality here in Maryland! BTW, I think you saw me at the Hobby Lobby protest here in MD. Very cool.

Anyway, congratulations on your marriage! I'm glad you came here to celebrate it. Frederick is a nice town. (I work there.)

Peace and LOVE always!!!!

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
25. Please pass along our appreciation to our LGBT allies up there
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 10:17 PM
Aug 2014

Let them know their support DOES make a difference. Everyone in Frederick was very friendly, including the court clerk and the jeweler who helped us shop for our rings. Of course, I must thank YOU because it's folks like you who made that day possible for us.

Yes, I remember you from the Hobby Lobby protest! We've all got to stick together and fight injustice wherever it rears its head.

Kath1

(4,309 posts)
35. I'll pass it along gladly!
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 11:17 PM
Aug 2014

You and your love are who were fighting for and to hear your personal story brings tears of joy! Thank you for your courage and activism! LOVE = LOVE! Peace to you and your love!

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
30. Thank you!
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 10:38 PM
Aug 2014

What a delicious looking cake. I think theHandpuppet and I could eat our way through that all by ourselves, it looks so good.

sheshe2

(83,898 posts)
33. Hey Boomer...
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 10:47 PM
Aug 2014

You and theHandpuppet are the couple? I didn't know that! Congratulations and best wishes with many years of wedded bliss~





theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
32. I want you to know I'm going to hear about this cake all night
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 10:44 PM
Aug 2014

It looks as if it's a trip to the store for me to get some cake.

sheshe2

(83,898 posts)
34. ROFL~
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 10:54 PM
Aug 2014

Ooops...

The best to both of you, sounds like a dream come true. A long wait, but so worth it!

Now go buy some cake~

Boomer

(4,168 posts)
31. Indeed we could not
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 10:40 PM
Aug 2014

I'm usually not the sentimental type, but when the clerk handed us the license, I started to cry. We're not even married yet and I'm already getting weepy with happiness.

riversedge

(70,299 posts)
36. Its been a long time handpuppet
Sat Aug 23, 2014, 11:39 PM
Aug 2014

since last 'spoke' to us--and I do wish you and your love all the happiness in the world. In solidarity.

LuvNewcastle

(16,856 posts)
37. Congratulations to you and your wife.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 12:45 AM
Aug 2014

I agree; the day will come when we won't have to travel to get married. I think that day might be coming soon.

cbayer

(146,218 posts)
39. Congratulations to you and your betrothed.
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 03:19 AM
Aug 2014

I hope you have a wonderful wedding and spend many more happy years together.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
41. Thanks, everyone, for all your well wishes
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 08:24 AM
Aug 2014

We really appreciate them and are both touched and encouraged by all the support.

 

Jim Lane

(11,175 posts)
44. You do realize we'll all be celebrating with you anyway, don't you?
Sun Aug 24, 2014, 03:55 PM
Aug 2014

And, hey, no Photoshopping. Or at least no more than a little.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
50. Thanks very much
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 04:25 PM
Aug 2014

I guess not too many folks can say they'll be celebrating their anniversary and wedding at the same time!

Behind the Aegis

(53,987 posts)
48. Congrats!
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 12:33 AM
Aug 2014

I was going to ask, and didn't spend much time at DU this weekend ( ) and just realized I had "unsubscribed" this group. I am very happy for you both.





To 25 more (and more) years!!!

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
49. Thanks!
Tue Aug 26, 2014, 04:24 PM
Aug 2014

We're really looking forward to finally getting hitched. Maybe one day it will even be legal in the state where we live.

Not Me

(3,398 posts)
52. Congratulations
Wed Aug 27, 2014, 02:03 PM
Aug 2014

We were together about ten years before getting married in NY in 2011. For the longest time I thought "it's only a piece of paper."
But it is so much more. We have never been closer.

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
55. I know what you mean now
Thu Aug 28, 2014, 09:54 PM
Aug 2014

Just getting our marriage license after so many years... I can't really describe the feeling except to say we're elated and can't wait!

All my best to you both for many more years of happiness!

theHandpuppet

(19,964 posts)
58. Well, we're not hitched yet
Thu Aug 28, 2014, 10:45 PM
Aug 2014

We just got the license. Got to wait another week or so for the official ceremony.

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