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Why should women have to pay the price for 'safety' on a daily basis?
New research says 70% of British women have taken steps in their everyday lives to guard against harassment. From rape alarms to self-defence rings the idea that the onus is on us is writ large
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The idea that women need reminding to take extra precautions to try to protect themselves is laughable.
Scrolling through my social media feed this morning, I came across a picture of a jagged, dagger-like implement mounted on a plastic ring. It was being recommended as the perfect product for female runners. It is, of course, bright pink. The idea according to Fisher Defensive, the company behind the Go Guarded self-defence ring is that it is a convenient, comfortable, effective way for women to defend themselves if the unthinkable should happen when they are out running, hiking, or walking. Convenient? That a product intended as a weapon to fight off sexual assault can be described as convenient and comfortable crystallises just how blasé we have become about the idea that constant vigilance is a routine part of a womans reality. In 2016, it is quite normal to come across products like this. Rape alarms. Pepper spray substitutes. Anti-rape underwear. Anti-rohypnol nail polish. Anything to remind me to step up, open my wallet and pay the price for safety as a woman in a mans world.
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The reality of how heavily the threat of sexual violence hangs over womens daily lives was laid bare today in new data from ActionAid UK . A poll of 2,200 people revealed that 57% of British women have experienced some form of harassment and just under one in six (16%) have been groped in the past month alone. These are shocking statistics. But even more dispiriting is the finding that over 70% of all British women and 88% of those aged 18-24 have taken steps in their everyday lives to guard against harassment. Sexual violence doesnt only impact womens lives in the moment of an assault or an incident of harassment. It affects us every day, influencing our behaviour, our travel plans and our peace of mind.
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What is worse is that society encourages women to do these things. It regularly reinforces the message that it is womens responsibility to keep themselves safe, not mens responsibility not to harass or assault them. We see it in newspaper articles that emphasise a rape victims clothing or behaviour, implying the attack might never have happened if only she had taken more precautions. We see it in celebrity warnings to young women to avoid rape by not drinking, not wearing the wrong thing, not being in the wrong place at the wrong time. Because, the assumption goes, rape is a shadowy, inevitable force out there waiting for silly women who walk into its path, not the deliberate act of an individual criminal. We see it in police campaigns that tell women to avoid becoming a victim of rape by doing things that are legal, instead of telling men not to become rapists by breaking the law.
This International Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women, we must confront the idea that it is acceptable, normal even, to live in a world where women disrupt their lives to avoid sexual harassment and violence on a daily basis. We must recognise the absurdity and horror of a woman posting a review on the Amazon page for the self defence ring that reads: I still have a small knife in my runners pocket, but I like the extra time that Go Guarded buys me before pulling out my knife.
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https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/womens-blog/2016/nov/25/why-should-women-have-to-pay-the-price-for-safety-on-a-daily-basis