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proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 03:50 PM Feb 2012

I went to the doctor today

My doctor is a wonderful woman who is very progressive and provides care for the uninsured. I really admire her. We often talk politics.

So today I asked her to tell me about transvaginal sonograms. She went into a long detailed explanation about how most docs and moms really liked them better because they could see more of the baby. And her pregnant daughter had just had one and it was so awesome.

So I finally stopped her and said "well what do you think about the new law in Virginia that requires women to have a transvaginal sonogram before they can have an abortion?"

My doctor had her back turned to me and was writing on my chart when I asked her this. She stopped, turned around, looked at me and asked me to tell her that again.

Then she said that was positively one of the most disgusting things she had ever heard. And she said: "Those bastards!! This really is a war on women."

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yellerpup

(12,254 posts)
1. It really is a war on women.
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 03:51 PM
Feb 2012

When will they ever get used to the fact that we are not going back to being chattel.

proud2BlibKansan

(96,793 posts)
2. I was so blown away by this conversation
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 03:55 PM
Feb 2012

I had no idea my doctor didn't know about this law. But her reaction was so telling. She figured it out immediately.

Gave me chills.

yellerpup

(12,254 posts)
4. We have to assert our autonomy.
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 04:11 PM
Feb 2012

How they can go on fighting about us (like we aren't even in the room!) when our lives are none of their business? It's a rhetorical question, I know. As to why your doctor didn't know...she probably doesn't spend as much time on DU as we do.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
3. Well maybe women need to occupy our vagina's. Women whose husband's vote for these
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 04:10 PM
Feb 2012

things can cut them off in the bedroom. Stop cooking nice meals. Stop cleaning their homes. Maybe block by block. Women married to republicans can start it and other women can support them.

yellerpup

(12,254 posts)
5. Historically, I believe the ploy you suggest has worked.
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 04:19 PM
Feb 2012

How you're going to organize Republican women to start it...you have your work cut out for you. Most of the Republican women I know, and I know very few but they are all liberal for Republicans, are just as appalled at this turn of events as we are. I'm thinking that they are trying to lose this election. They can't win without women's votes.

 

southernyankeebelle

(11,304 posts)
10. It's up to those republican women who realize their husbands are assholes. They have the key to the
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 05:01 PM
Feb 2012

VJ J. LOL

 

glowing

(12,233 posts)
15. My husband has gone from Bush loving, redneck, Republican to a thoughtful, thinking
Tue Feb 21, 2012, 03:25 PM
Feb 2012

Democrat... I know I've had some influence on him and he tended to be thoughtful anyway.. just not to apt in politics. After listening to me forever, he's gotten the connection between bank account and political party... That was the key to turning his brain around... Now, he's more supportive of the President than my flamingly impatient liberal pinkie commie ass is... LOL.

 

DCKit

(18,541 posts)
11. Glad you were able to educate your Dr..
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 07:10 PM
Feb 2012

She'll be ready now when it comes around and will have the opportunity to explain it to her other patients - until she's no longer allowed to do so.

They hit so many states at once with this crap, it had to come from ALEC. We've got to find out what's in the rest of the playbook. I'd be shocked if their subjugation of women was the only plan for this year.

In those states that have passed voter ID laws, what would it take to get voter IDs for people? We've got almost nine months, and we can kick their asses all over the place.

demmiblue

(36,898 posts)
14. A blindfold would be good, but I would be sooo tempted to fudge the medical record!
Mon Feb 20, 2012, 08:34 PM
Feb 2012

But then again, who knows what lengths these 'people' would go to to ensure compliance.

Just sickening.

Edit: insure-- ensure.

gkhouston

(21,642 posts)
16. I suspect a lot of doctors would fudge medical records, and more power to them.
Thu Feb 23, 2012, 04:06 PM
Feb 2012

I was explaining all this to my fifth-grader the other day and she was outraged that so-called "leaders" think it's okay to treat someone like this.

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