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bif

(22,708 posts)
Sun Apr 28, 2019, 11:29 AM Apr 2019

Had 35 people for Greek Easter yesterday, and didn't have a drop!

I kept myself busy/distracted grilling the lamb and spent a lot of the time in the kitchen prepping and doing dishes. I'm learning tricks to help get me through events like this. And the bar was in the living room, so I tried to stay as far away from it as possible. Out of sight, out of mind, right? In the past, I would sneak a few swigs of wine, but I totally abstained yesterday.

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Had 35 people for Greek Easter yesterday, and didn't have a drop! (Original Post) bif Apr 2019 OP
Good job. underpants Apr 2019 #1
Congrats! mr_lebowski Apr 2019 #2
Way to go! KPN Apr 2019 #3
Well done! Mersky Apr 2019 #4
Mmmmm - grilled lamb blm Apr 2019 #5
You should be vry proud of yourself! randr Apr 2019 #6
Thanks. It does seem to be getting better. bif Apr 2019 #7
It gets easier by far. onecaliberal Apr 2019 #10
Istopped my modest intake of wine when I was having horrible intestinal problems and thought CTyankee Apr 2019 #16
Wonderful!!! secondwind Apr 2019 #8
Good for you. irisblue Apr 2019 #9
Way to go. It not only gets easier, you feel better all the time. OregonBlue Apr 2019 #11
Been there myself. Mucho congratulations rurallib Apr 2019 #12
Yesterday I made Galaktoboureko, ChiTownDenny Apr 2019 #13
Um, at first glance I thought this OP was about Greek Easter. ChiTownDenny Apr 2019 #15
Stay strong and reach out for help when you feel the urge. Pepsidog Apr 2019 #14
Minute by minute, hour by hour, day by day is how you do it: bravo! fierywoman Apr 2019 #17
Good for you! wendyb-NC Apr 2019 #18
Congrats! Soon it will be as if the problem never existed nvme Apr 2019 #19
Keep up the good work! Karadeniz Apr 2019 #20
That took some determination! democrank Apr 2019 #21
Kalou Pascha shenmue Apr 2019 #22
Opa! To paraphrase the Fabulous Furry Freak Brothers: lamb will get you thru times of FailureToCommunicate Apr 2019 #23
True that! Thanks! bif Apr 2019 #24
Congratulations!!!! Stuart G Apr 2019 #25
Yeah! snowybirdie Apr 2019 #26
trial by fire and you passed! Great job! samnsara Apr 2019 #27
Great. Be proud. After a while it will feel easy to ignore. applegrove Apr 2019 #28

randr

(12,412 posts)
6. You should be vry proud of yourself!
Sun Apr 28, 2019, 11:39 AM
Apr 2019

Not everyone is aware of how hard that can be or how important for ones recovery.
Thanks for sharing.

bif

(22,708 posts)
7. Thanks. It does seem to be getting better.
Sun Apr 28, 2019, 11:46 AM
Apr 2019

I'm learning what situations to avoid. Eventually, I hope I'm comfortable all the time. But I'm still skipping events that I'm uncomfortable at. And my wife is very understanding.

CTyankee

(63,912 posts)
16. Istopped my modest intake of wine when I was having horrible intestinal problems and thought
Sun Apr 28, 2019, 12:57 PM
Apr 2019

it was a "bug" I caught on a cross country flight I had just taken. That was on Halloween. Saw my gastro doc the next week and he ordered up a blood test. The blood test said my liver enzymes would rise when I drank any alcohol and went down when I didn't. If I didn't stop, he warned, it could lead to cirhossis, which killed my beloved sister in law. That was enough for me!

I missed my 5 pm glass of white wine, a kind of ritual my hubby and I had every day, and he decided to stop, too, in order to support me.

It's been great! No intestinal upsets. I feel better. I am eating better. I have gained back the weight I lost (this "has to happen" doc said). My clothes fit better.

I hear you with your strategies. My strategy is to remember those awful intestinal issues. As my hubby said "Your liver worked fine until it didn't." That's about the size of it...

 

ChiTownDenny

(747 posts)
13. Yesterday I made Galaktoboureko,
Sun Apr 28, 2019, 12:45 PM
Apr 2019

marinated a leg of lamb (new recipe--loads of garlic, red wine, oregano, rosemary, lemon juice and evoo), and made Roasted Red Pepper Hummus (which is better the next day and not Greek but everyone likes it). This morning I made Spanakopita, and the lamb and potatoes are in the oven as I type.

 

ChiTownDenny

(747 posts)
15. Um, at first glance I thought this OP was about Greek Easter.
Sun Apr 28, 2019, 12:52 PM
Apr 2019

Upon re-reading, allow me to say congratulations for abstaining.

nvme

(860 posts)
19. Congrats! Soon it will be as if the problem never existed
Sun Apr 28, 2019, 01:35 PM
Apr 2019

So long as you keep in mind that you can show others how they can do similar. Makes sense?

FailureToCommunicate

(14,014 posts)
23. Opa! To paraphrase the Fabulous Furry Freak Brothers: lamb will get you thru times of
Sun Apr 28, 2019, 04:35 PM
Apr 2019

no wine better that wine will get you thru times of no lamb!

Congrats on making it thru that day bif.

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