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Uben

(7,719 posts)
Wed Jan 11, 2012, 10:36 PM Jan 2012

We didn't get her home today.....

.....since Carol will be doing another chemo next Thursday, they wanted to give her a unit of blood to help build her strength up before next week. She really wasn't that disappointed because she knows she is still weak. One more day isn't that bad if it will give her a leg up on the next treatment. She is able to go to the potty on her own now, so she is getting stronger.

How hard does the second treatment hit you? You know, she had her first just a couple of days after the radiation was completed, so I figured that was a double hit that she had, and it hit her hard. I'm hoping the second doesn't knock her down so hard.

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We didn't get her home today..... (Original Post) Uben Jan 2012 OP
Second treatments. Tracer Jan 2012 #1
That's good to know Uben Jan 2012 #2
The second treatment was different for me cmd Jan 2012 #3
I so hope you're right about her being thru the worst of it Uben Jan 2012 #4

Tracer

(2,769 posts)
1. Second treatments.
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 10:19 AM
Jan 2012

I know that you shouldn't extrapolate from one person's experience, but it's a pretty well-known fact that many people suffer some serious repercussions from chemo.

During my second series of chemo (Carboplatin & Taxol), I had an anaphylactic reaction to the Carbo. I went from feeling perfectly fine to being unconscious in a matter of minutes. Luckily, I had mentioned to the chemo nurses that I was feeling "funny", and they leaped into action like the Superwomen they are -- shutting off the drip, injecting Epinephrine (I think), and I came out of it in 15 minutes or so.

However, anaphylaxis causes an intense, whole body reaction as the body tries to get rid of the offending agent. And in my case, it blew off some coronary arterial plaque and I landed in the hospital a couple of days later with a heart attack.

Luckily again, I was treated so quickly that the docs said that there was no damage done to my heart.

This was four years ago, and today I'm feeling as fine as I ever have.

Uben

(7,719 posts)
2. That's good to know
Thu Jan 12, 2012, 10:31 PM
Jan 2012

I told her about that experience so she would be aware of what "could" happen. We're still novices at all this, but I figure we'll be experiencing a lot before it's done.

cmd

(5,673 posts)
3. The second treatment was different for me
Fri Jan 13, 2012, 09:54 AM
Jan 2012

The first treatment sent me to the hospital dehydrated, confused and ready to give up.
The second treatment used fewer chemicals, but I still ended up dehydrated and had to go to the chemo center every day for glucose infusions. By week three my body decided that I needed to have shingles. That was not fair play.

I continued my chemo on a three week on, one week off schedule for six months. I lost a lot of weight because I had no appetite, but muddled through it. I stayed on heceptin (hormonal therapy) and Arimidex (pill form) until tests showed my heart function was deteriorating. The dr. stopped the heceptin last summer. He stopped the Arimidex when I began chemo again.

It was worth the discomfort to have a good year after chemo. I hope this round works as well.

This was my experience. Everyone is different, but I imagine Carol is through the worst part now. Sending cyber hugs. cmd

Uben

(7,719 posts)
4. I so hope you're right about her being thru the worst of it
Fri Jan 13, 2012, 11:04 AM
Jan 2012

No one should have to live like this! I find myself having to touch her sometimes just to make sure she is still alive when she is sleeping. That takes a toll on your mental state, as if combatting the disease is not enough.

She is scheduled for chemo once every three weeks. Tomorrow marks two weeks since first chemo. Her liver functions were improving, but she seems to be accumulating more ascites now. They won't drain it because her platelet count is so low and she might bleed out. The edema in her legs and feet is pretty severe. And, for some reason, the chemo doc does not want to put her on diuretics. They gave her an IV before she left the hospital to help her pee more, but she hasn't passed more than a cup or so in the last 24 hrs. I have a home health service coming today to assess our needs. Maybe they can help.

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