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Beringia

(4,316 posts)
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 01:57 PM Dec 2019

Why would a woman wear big bulky rings on every finger



I just noticed my therapist's hands the other day, and she has a big bulky ring on almost every finger. She is very young. I like rings, but would never wear more than 2, unless it was some kind of a dress up party maybe. I see some entertainers do it, but they are going for an over-the-top look. I guess it boils down to wanting to enhance beauty or be ostentatious.
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Why would a woman wear big bulky rings on every finger (Original Post) Beringia Dec 2019 OP
Because she likes them,I suppose. Why else? virgogal Dec 2019 #1
It's human behavior Beringia Dec 2019 #9
It's a harmless quirk. No Vested Interest Dec 2019 #13
Why not ask her? I see nothing wrong with curiosity, and I bet she won't mind either. cwydro Dec 2019 #17
Different strokes for different folks, I guess... hlthe2b Dec 2019 #2
I don't think it improves someone's looks or looks bad either Beringia Dec 2019 #5
I can't stand wearing most jewelry Ohiogal Dec 2019 #3
Even one ring and I go nuts Beringia Dec 2019 #6
I see that in a lot of young folks these days, it's probably just the new style... FM123 Dec 2019 #4
Sounds very tacky. dewsgirl Dec 2019 #7
Ask Jimmy Fallon why rings aren't such a good idea. yonder Dec 2019 #8
Are they soldered together? Turbineguy Dec 2019 #10
Can be downright dangerous Bayard Dec 2019 #11
Perhaps genetically determined. In a study of 700 sets of twins separated as babies... Midnight Writer Dec 2019 #12
so much more of our behavior is genetically influenced than we know. mopinko Dec 2019 #19
None of our business? And "so what"? Seriously: this is what we need to worry about? marble falls Dec 2019 #14
So curiousity is verboten Beringia Dec 2019 #15
Not at all curiosity is good and healthy, asking questions like that is rude and inconciderate ... marble falls Dec 2019 #20
I'm not a fan of rings, but care not a whit if others do like them. cwydro Dec 2019 #16
wait. my rings are trendy? pansypoo53219 Dec 2019 #18

Beringia

(4,316 posts)
9. It's human behavior
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 02:52 PM
Dec 2019

I just find it curious. I would never wear so many rings, so I wonder why another person would wear so many rings. In the world of psychology, I think you can go further than just because someone likes something. Some cultures, people all follow a certain dress pattern. I can't think of a single instance of seeing someone with bulky rings on all their fingers, so I have never encountered it before. I saw one woman with her whole back tattooed and I wondered why she did that. We were in a taekwondo class together. But it kind of fit her personality, to be on the wild side. I think maybe some punk rock people get lots of tattoos.

No Vested Interest

(5,166 posts)
13. It's a harmless quirk.
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 03:46 PM
Dec 2019

A woman of my acquaintance also wears rings on each finger, and I make nothing of it.
She doesn't have a lot in life, compared to the American average, so more power to her.
It's their idea of beauty, and it gives them pleasure or makes them feel good about themselves.

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
17. Why not ask her? I see nothing wrong with curiosity, and I bet she won't mind either.
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 04:59 PM
Dec 2019

Therapy is a back and forth thing...just ask her. Might be a fun conversation!

hlthe2b

(102,276 posts)
2. Different strokes for different folks, I guess...
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 02:05 PM
Dec 2019

I too dislike that look--especially when combined with long long long fake nails.

But, then I'm not a fan of excessive tattoos either where no 'natural' skin remains on arms, chest, neck, etc. ( a few don't bother me, but, well, you know).

Maybe I was born in the wrong era.

Different strokes for different folks. Vive la différence!

Beringia

(4,316 posts)
5. I don't think it improves someone's looks or looks bad either
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 02:15 PM
Dec 2019


Just seems like a statement of some kind to me.

Long fingernails, I don't know how women do that, without breaking them.

Ohiogal

(31,999 posts)
3. I can't stand wearing most jewelry
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 02:05 PM
Dec 2019

If I wear a ring or earrings or a necklace to look nice when I go somewhere, I take it off immediately once I get home. It just bugs me. I would go nuts wearing a bulky ring on every finger.

Beringia

(4,316 posts)
6. Even one ring and I go nuts
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 02:17 PM
Dec 2019

and take it off after a few hours. Necklaces don't bother me. Earrings are kind of a bother.

yonder

(9,666 posts)
8. Ask Jimmy Fallon why rings aren't such a good idea.
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 02:38 PM
Dec 2019

Especially for a string musician. I'm not sure he can play guitar anymore because of that accident. Least ways, I've not seen him play. It doesn't take much to hook a ring-bearing finger on something, and often enough, by the time you realize it, it's too late.

This musician wears one ring, a smallish gold wedding band, right where the priest placed it more than 35 years ago - on my right ring finger, figuring I could still pick, strum or bow if something happened to it.

Then you have the Django Reinhardt's of the world. He played guitar with two fingers and a thumb, but he was an amazing exception.

Bayard

(22,073 posts)
11. Can be downright dangerous
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 03:08 PM
Dec 2019

Even for one ring, if you work in a factory. Many, many years ago, (when I was but a wee Dem), I worked in such a place as a quality inspector nights, while going to school days. There were all these overhead conveyors that workers would hang large trays on. One night, a guy was doing that, and got his wedding ring caught. Ripped his finger right off. You saw a lot of rings disappearing from hands after that!

In a normal everyday environment, anything more than a wedding ring is annoying. On a farm, it gets grimed with crap pretty quickly.

My .02

Midnight Writer

(21,765 posts)
12. Perhaps genetically determined. In a study of 700 sets of twins separated as babies...
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 03:32 PM
Dec 2019

one of the findings was that if one twin wore multiple rings, the other (often) did too.

Same with tattoos, elaborate hair styles, and facial hair (beards and mustaches).

Not definitive, of course, but interesting. Fashion choices are not what comes to mind when thinking about inherited traits.

mopinko

(70,103 posts)
19. so much more of our behavior is genetically influenced than we know.
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 07:38 PM
Dec 2019

free will and logical thinking are so much sketchier than we think.

i found the early twin studies fascinating, and they influenced my interest in evolutionary psychology.
many were found to drive the same cars, right down to the same color, marry very similar women, often w the same first name.

endlessly fascinating, imho.

Beringia

(4,316 posts)
15. So curiousity is verboten
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 04:42 PM
Dec 2019


Don't you ever why? It is a case of interest in psychology and this is a psychology forum.

I'm not worried. Not every post on DU is a serious worrying subject.

marble falls

(57,083 posts)
20. Not at all curiosity is good and healthy, asking questions like that is rude and inconciderate ...
Sun Dec 8, 2019, 03:01 AM
Dec 2019

bordering on "shaming".

Our mothers tried to teach us better than than that. Weren't you ever told not to stare at someones 'quirks'?

 

cwydro

(51,308 posts)
16. I'm not a fan of rings, but care not a whit if others do like them.
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 04:53 PM
Dec 2019

I like bracelets, and I have many.

pansypoo53219

(20,977 posts)
18. wait. my rings are trendy?
Sat Dec 7, 2019, 07:31 PM
Dec 2019

i have stack rings on 7 fingers. i would have another pinky ring if i could. but flat rings. i cocktail ring cause i bought the damn thing years ago.

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