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Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 10:56 PM Dec 2015

I must re-home six cats.

We have ten. All are healthy and very well-cared-for. Both of us loves each one of our kids as individuals. The funny groups and sounds they make in deciding who's going to groom whom, who's going to play or rip together, and who's going to growl over his or her breakfast, make us both laugh every day.

We're moving across the country (Maryland-California) next year. We need to re-home all of them, really, but four of them have problems and I wouldn't ask anyone else to take them on.

It will be hard enough to find them homes, but making it harder is that the youngest of them is eight years old. Two of them are tame only with me. They are all beautiful in heart and spirit.

First, thanks for listening.

Second, do you have any ideas for where I can go to get the word out, and/or how I can find potential fosters/homes? I'm in Maryland and will drive to any part of this state, and to DC, northern Virginia, Delaware, and part of Pennsylvania. Thank you.

(Tomorrow will cross-post to the lounge.)

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I must re-home six cats. (Original Post) Bertha Venation Dec 2015 OP
You could pst something in the various state groups! Hug ralps Dec 2015 #1
Thanks, ralps Bertha Venation Dec 2015 #7
awww. i'm so sorry. mopinko Dec 2015 #2
Mo Bertha Venation Dec 2015 #8
a no-kill shelter. ginnyinWI Dec 2015 #3
I want to take them to no-kill shelters - Bertha Venation Dec 2015 #4
I know of no-kill shelters that actually do kill. Just saying. I think you glinda Dec 2015 #5
Thanks very much, Glinda Bertha Venation Dec 2015 #6
Be brutally honest with them. Tell them you appear to be out of options. Ask them for help. And glinda Dec 2015 #13
Glinda is right. hamsterjill Jan 2016 #17
You might also try posting in Craigslist darkangel218 Dec 2015 #9
Hi, darkangel Bertha Venation Dec 2015 #10
No problem. darkangel218 Dec 2015 #11
I do not rec Craig's list. Bad bad things have happened. glinda Dec 2015 #12
+1000 hamsterjill Jan 2016 #16
I would love to take a cat off of your hands, GGJohn Jan 2016 #14
Thank you, GGJohn. Bertha Venation Jan 2016 #15

mopinko

(70,205 posts)
2. awww. i'm so sorry.
Tue Dec 8, 2015, 11:02 PM
Dec 2015

what a hard choice to have to make.
best of luck w that.

there must be a kitty rescue near you somewhere.

ginnyinWI

(17,276 posts)
3. a no-kill shelter.
Wed Dec 9, 2015, 12:25 AM
Dec 2015

One like the one I volunteer at. They will take any age, any condition. We have many cats who are 9 and up and they can stay until they find a home or die of old age! Sometimes they are put on long-term foster care.

The big advantage is that they will only let a qualified person adopt. Someone who has the consent of the other adult in the home, whose landlord allows pets, who hasn't got a record of animal abuse. Right now there is one such person who wants to adopt one of our cats, a nine year old. They hinted that their friend would come and adopt for them. The staff has managed to find a safe place for this cat in foster care until the situation is resolved.

If you just adopt out to a friend of a friend, it's going to be hard to know just what kind of home they will be getting.

If two of your cats are a bonded pair, they will be kept together if at all possible.

Find shelters like this and give them a call and ask all of your questions. Good luck!

Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
4. I want to take them to no-kill shelters -
Sun Dec 27, 2015, 10:45 PM
Dec 2015

but so far, the ones I've talked to are all full and cannot take any more. No-kill is the second best option for me, the first being individuals asking for one or two specific cats, or fosters.

Is there a chance you might know of one or more such shelters in Maryland, northern and central Virginia, Delaware, southern New Jersey, and southeastern Pennsylvania? (I looked at your shelter's FB page and, forgive me, uttered "shit!&quot

Thanks so much for your caring suggestion.

glinda

(14,807 posts)
5. I know of no-kill shelters that actually do kill. Just saying. I think you
Mon Dec 28, 2015, 01:40 AM
Dec 2015

should make a post on FB with the State you are in as a Title also. Something like "Maryland cats need home placement asap".I also think you should attempt to locate a cat specific organization that uses Fosters. those are pretty safe.
Personally I wish you could move them all with you. I mean with health problems your home will be smaller in time. I have 7 pets and half of them are seniors or have health issues.
I wish the kitties good luck and a safe landing.
https://animalrescueinc.org

Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
6. Thanks very much, Glinda
Mon Dec 28, 2015, 09:39 AM
Dec 2015

The rescue you linked to is within two hours of me. I'll contact them today. I'll tell them, of course, that I'll exhaust all other possibilities before asking to take any of my kids to them. I do have about four months.

Thanks again.

glinda

(14,807 posts)
13. Be brutally honest with them. Tell them you appear to be out of options. Ask them for help. And
Wed Dec 30, 2015, 02:01 AM
Dec 2015

offer a fair size donation for them taking them. Whatever you can pony up be it 100-300 dollars.This helps.

hamsterjill

(15,223 posts)
17. Glinda is right.
Mon Jan 4, 2016, 03:53 PM
Jan 2016

Another thing to ask when surrendering a pet to a "no kill" shelter is: What happens if this animal gets sick with something that can be treated?

I've known humane societies that routinely euthanized cats for upper respiratory infections - something we all know is treatable, but takes time and effort.

Ask to be notified before if any pet that you surrender reaches the euthanasia list.

The best of luck to you, and I'm sorry that you're having to make this difficult decision.

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
9. You might also try posting in Craigslist
Mon Dec 28, 2015, 10:50 AM
Dec 2015

You can explain your situation ans post the kittehs pics. My friend adopted her German Shepard from Craigslist.

Best of luck to you and to your babies!! Xx

Bertha Venation

(21,484 posts)
10. Hi, darkangel
Mon Dec 28, 2015, 11:23 AM
Dec 2015

I went there and began to post, and was led to this. Whatever one might think of PETA, I think their concerns about animal abuse in this context are valid, so I won't be using craigslist for that. But I really appreciate your input. Thanks!

https://www.craigslist.org/about/PETA

 

darkangel218

(13,985 posts)
11. No problem.
Mon Dec 28, 2015, 11:28 AM
Dec 2015

Good luck with finding a good, loving home for your babies x

(Shelters should indeed be a last resort).

Hugs!

GGJohn

(9,951 posts)
14. I would love to take a cat off of your hands,
Fri Jan 1, 2016, 12:54 AM
Jan 2016

Last edited Tue Jan 5, 2016, 06:37 PM - Edit history (1)

but we already have 3 kittehs who are a handful.
Good luck with rehoming them and may they go to good and loving homes.

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